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MadamVanessa:




That's for those that sees marriage as an achievement or winning laurel. However, those of us who have experienced it firsthand, we've realize it's overrated. Having tasted marriage and discovered its limitations, i no longer swayed by societal pressures. I value my independence and freedom above all else.

Limitations from what exactly?

Episode22:
Hello Nairalanders, I'm not here to brag, I just need advice before I get lost.

I have two relatives living abroad (UK), both are from my mothers side, same father and same mother...

Just few days ago, I was called and told that they are making plans to send me to the UK early next year to go and stay with my uncle and find something doing there... they already communicated with my uncle abroad, and they just wanted to surprise me.

I'm 29 years old now, I graduated from school last two years as a petroleum engineering. Though, I'm not doing any work for now. My girlfriend is pregnant for me, and I have not disclosed it to anybody yet.

But the truth is that my mind doesn't want to go, I'm not ready and I have told them. They have already started telling me this is a one time opportunity, and that if I miss it, I won't see it again, but I have made up my mind that I don't want to go.

I just can't leave my friends here, I just don't know but I can't..

I need advice,

Why should I go, when my self and my mind is not ready...

Can we trade places please? 🙏
Tell your family that you have someone to represent you.

Kurubu or Ebola is my own preference.

OfeAchi:
Oga even if they began to support city from last year, so what?

Tell me your club and I'll also tell you the reason you began supporting them was for the same Glory.

89.99% of Arsenal supporters were because of their glory days under Wenger. The remaining percent was due to Kanu Nwankwo.

99.98% of Chelsea fans were cause of their glory days.

Allow anybody support any team they like.
I built support for City simply because of my love for Aguero. He was my joy giver with Athletico Madrid then.

As a matter of fact all EPL club supporters Africa are glory hunters. Why do I say so? I say so because if they were TRUE fans, how come no one supports clubs like West ham or Everton or Bournemouth? Yet if you go to England, you would see die-hard fans of bottom clubs like Colchester, Luton, Ipswich. These are TRUE club fans/supporters.

Though a football player but I was never supporting any club not until 2006 UCL final between Arsenal and Barcelona, I never knew anything about arsenal past glory but I only supported them and still supporting them till date despite their lost against Barcelona. Will you still call me a glory hunter?🤷‍♂️

We should just blame igbos and Obi for this whole bill brouhaha, Obi is the one sponsoring those Abokis not to accept the beautiful Kurubu bill.

Salewa97:
The meeting of two failed candidates.

Birds of same feather

Hmmmmmm...
If these two are failed candidates then what will you call your papa?🤷‍♂️ We have been reading news about those twos but your father is relatively unknown and instead of you to focus on building a name for your family so that you don't become a failure like your father you are here calling people who have made names for their generation a failure.

shizzleStar:
and how old is your frog-eyed, kleptomaniac, bullion van, cocaine sniffing, agbado munching vagabond and retårded presidiot called tinupoo?

Nkita ara

All these name for just one person? You should have just call him by his name nah. Next time just call him Ebola or Kurubu.

owobokiri:
Ofcourse, you know those supplying them with all the GPS mappings and logistical supplies for this renewed bloodbath! It is the same people that call themselves the "Gods own country". Creating Islamic terrorist groups and using them as launch pads to infiltrate different societies, have become the hallmarks of western foreign policy pursuits. When those groups later start to "misbehave" and attack Western targets, it becomes another opportunity for more bombings. We need a new world order.

Islam should cover their faces in shame for allowing "infidels" to be using them to cause confusion and violence all over the world.

MadamVanessa:





Inasmuch as what the sister did is so so wrong, but also what the brother did is also wrong . It's okay to be all mad at your sister and threaten her for such an unethical and shameful behavior, but going as far as reporting it yourself to her husband is the greatest undoing. It's okay for others to report her ,but not a sibling or family member, except you people are enemies. Today you've reported her and you're the best, very righteous brother, but remember tomorrow the consequences may come. Same people hailing you today will used that to taunt and ridiculed you tomorrow.

I know a lot of self righteous people will attack this comment. But whether you like it or not family covers a lot . If family starts exposing each other, believe me a lot of people will not be safe including you that is going to attack this comment.

What consequences are you talking about please?
The dude did just right, I will do the same thing certainly.

You talk about artisans but how exactly has the white collar employees faired? You walk into an office and the next thing is that every table needs some kind of inducement or bribe before you can be attended to.
The truth is that almost everyone is corrupt without exemptions, artisans are also acting out the same script other people in other sectors would act. If you don't want to be cheated then learn to do minor things by yourself, you can always give out major contracts to artisans.

McKay12:
I have noticed lack of awareness, or should i say no effort at addressing or condemning this ugly trend of fraudulent activities of "most" artisans in Nigeria, my apologies to the few honest ones.

If i begin to narrate my ordeals here, this post will be so lengthy, i have had a bitter experience with them on different occasions and sectors, from mechanics, carpenters, roofing sheets installers, caterers, you name it, the list is endless.

From the very moment you gave them work, they will start scheming on how to fleece you, no matter how well you pay them, so the issue of underpayment is out of it, but rather pure greed.

So my brief questions are, what is the way forward, how best can we as a people stop this ugly trend or discourage this fraudulent behavior?

You talk about artisans but how exactly has the white collar employees faired? You walk into an office and the next thing is that every table needs some kind of inducement or bribe before you can be attended to.
The truth is that almost everyone is corrupt without exemptions, artisans are also acting out the same script other people in other sectors would act. If you don't want to be cheated then learn to do minor things by yourself, you can always give out major contracts to artisans.

So try and make money so Mr Hundeyin will listen to you next time...thank you.

TouchNfollow:
If you know about it before the post, pls share yours ......Professor Aguba.

I've known about it over 10years back so it's nothing new actually. I'm not against you posting about your new found knowledge but I will only advise you at least give appropriate information about it. Like I stated earlier, AYAM CEMANI is the appropriate name for the dark skinned bird.

sweetjohn:
Is the egg white and egg York black also? Is the bone black also?

Everything about the chicken is black, even the blood is reddish black.

Ayam Cemani is the bird's original nomenclature, I wonder where the OP got the Lamborghini name from.

Islamabad.

AllenSpencer:
He also called on the incoming administration of Donald Trump to stop its support for Israel and prevent what he called the tarnishing of the US image in the region.


The image is already tarnished.

The last UN voting on ceasefire tells it all. The US has been isolated.

Imagine a US senator threatening Canada and Europe cos of Israel. The US image has been bastardized.

As it stands today, you are more welcomed as a Nigerian than a American in the any part of the world. Majority of the world is becoming Anti-America.

Oya carry your battered Nigeria passport and.enter Europe and let's see how they'll welcome you.

zinaunreal:
Says who? Besides that job is skillness and insecure thats my point.

Still viable than remaining a charge and bail lawyer.

zinaunreal:
A cleaner that an be easily replaced asap 😆

Abroad isn't like Nigeria where anyone can hire and fire anyhow.

I am a chosen.

Ukraine serving as NATO'S proxy has actually stressed out Russia, Russia has now become so vulnerable that any attack on them will be so difficult to repel. Putin is so aware of this but his only consolation hope is his access to Nuclear weapons, he would rather go down with everyone else.

Botragelad:
The state of Israel is a heroic state for turning Gaza into a car park! 😂

Cars won't even park there, the place has been reduced to Nagasaki level of destruction.

Ondo state election was a case of willing buyers meeting up with willing sellers, the transaction was so smooth that even the blind would see it.

guysbewise:
No way he did not take his bodyguard wearing slipper

No be by wearing boot my brother, Nigerian army with their boot still dey collect wotowoto from ordinary herdsmen wey wear slippers.

The soldier is the real mvp, he just did what I'll do should I be in his shoes. No woman is worth sweating for,I wouldn't hurt my fellow man just because of some woman.

anonimi:
Obiano already taught the politically naive, wannabe godfather a lesson that he failed to learn from.

Tilumbu is teaching him the part two of the same lesson.

OkpaNsukkaisBae:
Na egg own dey surprise me.

Nyansh dey pain the fowls wey dey lay the egg nah.

TemplarLandry:
Music lovers are happy people.
Only sadists and moralists would comdem this youngin.

I dedicate "Young Metro" by Metro Boomin and Future feat. The Weeknd to him.
Great jam!

Moralist have every right to condemn such behavior, your happiness shouldn't be detrimental to other people's peace of mind and decorum. Moralists tend to uphold what is right in every environment, if the young man has blasted his music in a pub or club I'm sure no one would have cared, blasting music in a banking hall is too absurd. I AM A MORALIST.

NoIgboSoundTueh:
the children of hate started it from calling our land "no man land " to saying igbos are the one that developed lagos
these are just response directly specifically to those who hate Yorubaland and yet live in yorubaland

Let the hate continue then, no one should complain.

SultanOfAbia:
Okay you are 89% correct

I brought one slim beauty from Akwa ibom to his house to knack and that my friend was doing everything to gain the girl attention but e be like say the girl no send am.

Hmmmm this is making a lot of sense now
The girl was all over me, kissing me every chance she get.

So you are saying the guy feels jealous seeing me having fun in his hous??

Should I cut the friendship?
Because it looks like a case of see finish

You no get your own house?

uunwanaobong3:
Hm, RUSSIA IS WARNING UKRAINE AND THE WEST BUT EVERYONE THINK THAT PUTIN IS BLUFFING.......

ONE THING THE WEST DOES NOT UNDERSTAND IS THAT THEY ARE THREATENING RUSSIA SECURITY....... IF AMERICA THINK THAT THEY ARE IMMUNE FROM NUCLEAR HOLOCAUST, THEY SHOULD KEEP PLAYING WITH FIRE AND THEY WILL SOON FIND OUT.

THROUGHOUT THIS WAR, PUTIN CLEARLY STATES ONLY 2 RUSSIA RED LINES, THEY ARE;

1. IN JANUARY 2O22, PUTIN SAYS THAT UKRAINE MUST NO JOIN NATO ELSE THERE WILL BE WAR.... UKRAINE WAS DRAFTED TO JOIN NATO AND RUSSIA INVADE UKRAINE.

2. IN 2024, PUTIN SAYS THAT IF UKRAINE ATTACK RUSSIA WITH WESTERN SUPPLIED LONG RANG MISSILES, RUSSIA WILL VIEW IT AS NATO ATTACKING RUSSIA IN COLLABORATION WITH UKRAINE AND ALL OPTIONS ARE ON THE TABLE INCLUDING NUCLEAR WEAPONS....... WELL THROUGHOUT YESTERDAY AMERICA/BRITISH AND UKRAINE HAVE ATTACK RUSSIA WITH WESTERN LONG RANGE MISSILE AND TODAY RUSSIA HAS STARTED USING ICBM WITH CONVENTIONAL WAR HEAD AS WARN, BUT TOMORROW IT MIGHT BE NUCLEAR WAR HEAD.

THIS IS NOT A JOKE.

THE WEST DOESN'T UNDERSTAND WHAT THEY ARE DEALING WITH. THEY ALL THINK THAT THEY CAN SURVIVE NUCLEAR WAR, THIS IS WRONG.


RUSSIA OWES THE WORLD A DEMONSTRATION OF WHAT NUCLEAR WEAPONS CAN DO BY CARRYING OUT A SURFACE TESTING OF THE BIGGEST NUKES ON THEIR TEST SITE FOR THE WORLD TO SEE, MAYBE IT WILL INSTILL FEAR IN HUMANITY ONCE AGAIN.

Will RUSSIA survive a Nuclear war?
Your write ups sounds more like a threat, all the parties involved in the war has access to Nuclear weapons and I wonder why you made it look like Russia has the monopoly.

JAMO84:
Normally, Nigerian Christians should hate Jews for killing Jesus. But anyone that massacre Muslims is their friend.

The enemy of my enemy could be my friend.