olumide4christ:


I CAN'T HELP BUT SOUND THIS NOTE OF WARNING TO THOSE WHO HAVE SUBCONSCIOUSLY SET THEIR MINDS TO HAVE A COLOSSAL SUM OF MONEY IN THEIR BANK ACCT BEFORE THEY MARRY!

I am saying this based on the 4 years of blessed marriage I have had and also based on other people's experiences I have learnt about.

1. Having a colossal sum of money in ur bank account, car(s), your own house, a well-paid job, a business empire, etc is not a guarantee whatsoever that you will get a good wife. Good wives are not easy to find these days and I can assure you that the above-mentioned items will not lead you to them or attract them to you.
REASON - Good wives are also looking for good husbands (both in the present and the future) and they surely know that a man that has all the above-mentioned items does not necessarily mean a good husband.
- If you have the above-mentioned items and you have a troublesome, extravagant, abusive wife, be rest assured that you can't enjoy the above-mentioned items in your marriage. Haven't you ever asked yourself why a man would just disappear from his home for a while or intentionally keep late nights at the office continuously? Go figure - they are probably having unsettled homes! Afterall, ANT can't run away from sugar! I have heard of people working in top firms like Schlumberger & co. who lamented that they had all that was needed to get married and many ladies were flocking around them for those things, but their heartache was that THEY WERE LOOKING FOR LADIES WHO ACTUALLY LOVED THEM FOR WHOM THEY WERE, AND NOT FOR WHAT THEY OWNED! WHAT AN IRONY OF LIFE! BEWARE - YOU CAN'T EASILY DETERMINE WHO TRULY LOVES YOU WHEN YOU HAVE ALL THE GOODIES AROUND YOU! ITS BETTER TO START SMALL WITH YOUR SPOUSE & GROW TOGETHER!

2. Some women are wise in spending (prudent) while others are foolish in spending (extravagant). Now I assure you that - if for example you have saved N10 - N15 million for wedding/marriage, and your fiancee is extravagant enough to allow you spend N5 million or N10 million on a wedding simply because you have the money, not thinking that there are other things to be done with money after the wedding day, I can assure you that whatever funds you have left from your savings will not be able to sustain that woman through the early period of your marriage. WHY?? Because she has high tastes.
On the other hand, a prudent/wise woman like the woman in Proverbs chapter 31 in the bible will not agree with you to spend 70-80% of your savings on a one-day wedding, but would rather encourage you to save for a rainy day.

TO THE UNMARRIED GUYS - IGNORE THIS ADVICE AT YOUR PERIL! YOU HAVE BEEN WARNED!

TRUST IN JESUS CHRIST FOR WISDOM IN MARRIAGE & ALL OTHER ENDEAVOURS!

u spoke my mind absolutely

ibedun:


Dangerous advise, just because your co-workers are happy scratching a living does not mean the OP's friend should settle for that kind of doing fine.

Oga leave the woman jare, when your money comes and you marry in opulence you will too enjoy your marriage o!

how is it dangerous? so he shld wait till he starts collecting 300k per month when he's 40 and his mates are thru with giving birth?it's when u re 70 and u re still paying children school fees,u'll start having afterthought. I know many people receiving abt 70k and are married and not doing badly.

otimothy:
chai i tap into this blessing abeg God bless my hustle and purnish those vanity upon vanity monkeys cos jesus rode into nazareth he didnt trek.

does dt legislate for u having dat no of cars? it's really addiction and madness to say the least. Jesus will never approve of such craziness

until he goes deaf...that's if he's not lying

I think you are too soft on her

2a40f624. a responsible and beautiful lady who's ready for a serious relationship shld contact me. shld be btw 25-30

2a40f624. a responsible and beautiful lady who's ready for a serious relationship shld contact me.

in the fullness of time if you say that something will happen in the fullness of time, you mean that it will happen if you wait long enough. so what's d fuss all about

OLADD:


Yes, we will never succumb to any form of intimidation. I have said it many times that Nigeria's foundation is shaky if APC ever wins the presidency but it has happened. The era of political oppressions as entrenched in OBJ's regime may be here again.

it is very welcome

bamidele029:
DSS never invade your office like you did to APC you are crying, hiss

abi,don't mind dem. they are crying foul when it's their turn to be victimised. when they were doing all sorts to d APC b4 the election, it was all fair. or was there any opposition member a senior official in the national Assembly during their 16 yr rule? PDP shld cry more pls

OREMUSSANCTUS:
Apc is involve

olodo...is dat why u could not construct a correct grammatical expression? APC is involved, simple.

Sicozone:
Not even considering the proposer

u mean proposal?

I don't really believe that story of fu**ing for 5 hrs straight. d guy wan faint? maybe there were intervals and rests between 12 and 5pm. when I was having sex regularly, I used to go for like 40 mins but my gurl used to complain then. she said I was having late ejaculation problem. I never knew there were girls that could take it for 5 hrs non stop**smiles**. now that I don't ve sex regularly like bf cos am quite busy, my stamina has decreased. I hope to get back to that level again soon when I get married. am still looking for the right woman though. any interested beautiful one out there?

icedbeatz:
very wrong bro it's because most of those divas, sweet chicks, very beautiful chicks that looks like angels turn out to be trash after you must have fukd them for sometime you discover that they are nothing to write home about (just good for fun) , its after few fukin that most niggas really know if they really love a girl or whether it was just lust. marriage is no child's play.

I think u re correct

Bifwoli:
You mean to tell me that back in 1947 the very proud Yellowbars had not discovered tar for roads?

Haha,yet here daily we're bombarded with boasts of how advanced the South West is.

why re u so tribalistic in ur assessment? where re u from exactly? or did u fall from heaven?

Chrisjane:

Congratulations!!!

Jane, do u like screaming ohhh my god?

interesting

Nneka123:
I think she's hot, but we know it's some good boob job and silicon that made it happen.

u can't be so sure

there was a country. I wonder sometimes when all these show of shame will come to an end in Nigeria.