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been askin myself this question,between a drunk and a madman who is preferable or better in control of what they do interms of their environment,cos a drunkard is equivalent to a madman interms of behavioural qualities

Hazardd:
your ex is the past.....
dont even try it unless you know she feel the same ...so that she wouldnt take you for granted

UR RIGHT BRO

Hazardd:
your ex is the past.....
dont even try it unless you know she feel the same ...so that she wouldnt take you for granted

UR RIGHT

Just dont know what to do,for a while been missing my ex,is it wrong if i tell her how i feel so we could just hang out for a while?

fhranciz:
Bros the op himself is confused, it might be d girl sef who might end up loving him out of pity.

bros u might be rite nd dats d more reason I nid ur help

There is a correct time for everything, and before
that, you must not overwhelm her by saying ‘I Love
You’. Here are 8 reasons why you must never say
those three words too soon.
1. It Kills The Excitement
Believe us, the best parts of a relationship are the
early beginnings where this is a certain amount of
uncertainty in the minds of both partners. Going
weak in the knees just looking at her, getting goose
bumps every time she touches you, spending nights
talking to each other over the phone – all this, once
lost may never come back. By saying ‘I Love You’,
you put a full stop to this excitement.
2. Your Obsession Is On Display
It makes you look like a possessive, obsessive,
desperate fool who wants nothing but a girlfriend in
life. If you plan to spend your future with her, she
better be impressed by your personality. Don’t
come across as an insecure guy greedy for love.
3. You Fail To See The Reality
There’s a difference between infatuation and love –
a difference only time can make clear. By
confessing your so-called love for her, you force
your mind to believe that you actually love her. Your
feelings may die down with a few more dates, but
you’d be forcing yourself too hard to believe that
she really is the one. Not just that, it puts immense
pressure on the girl too. You’re better off without it,
man.
4. It Could Lead To A Heartbreak
Like men, a lot of women too are commitment
phobic. While you may be all set to take the plunge
without even thinking about it thoroughly, it might
put the girl in question in a dilemma. And you know
how it ends when a woman isn’t sure of her own
feelings. You may end up losing what could have
been yours, had you given it some more time.
5. You’ll Be Judged
Even if you mean it, wait for the perfect time to say
it. It’s not hard for men to fall in love in just a few
days. But most women, my friend, are judging every
move of yours. You may come across as vain and
immature to a woman if you say ‘I Love You’ too
soon. This ruins your chances totally. Do you want
that?
6. What You See May Not Be Real
To love people, you have know them very closely, if
not inside out. Chances are, you were trying really
hard at being ‘courteous’ and so was she. That
might not be the real her. You must spend enough
time with your date in order to know them
personally, beyond their job descriptions and
favourite drinks.
7. It May Result In A Disastrous Relationship
Saying ‘I Love You’ could also make the girl believe
that she loves you too. And once the words are
exchanged, there’s no damage control possible. A
half baked relationship where the partners are
clueless about how they really feel and yet, commit
to each other for life is the worst set up ever. It will
only end in bitterness.
8. It May Draw You Two Apart
Once awkward around each other, there is only
little you can do to make up for it with your girl.
Even though she may go on to love you in the near
future, rushing in to commitment may just ruin your
chances. She might get creeped out by your ‘love’
and decide to move away.

senorova:
Sorry to derail a bit...
Baby, this your dp fit kee person ooo.
Your boo is one hell of a lucky fellow

wetin do my pic

senorova:
I agree.
Love needs nurture to blossom.
You might not have the crazy sparks right now, but if you let her water your love seed, na love forest you go get for her ooo.

tanks man

Brugo:


Think of her like an investment. A land with future potential. If you let a good girl pass you by just like that, another guy will make you jealous o. Secure that investment now.

I love ur analyses

if I don't make my move soon she will been gone for good, I cant make d rite cos av never been so confused, there is a saying data goes: a bread at hand is beter a thousand in d forest

I met dis gal recently cos she Just gained admission,she stays with two of her aunty who are bout to graduate dis yr, so it seems she's gona keep d room wen they graduate nd my room is just opposite theirs ,actually me nd her become frnds cos her aunty and I are very close so we got on quite well, I noticed dis new gal who gained admission is avin a crush on
me and even currently is expecting me to
be her bf but I dont tink my feelings for her can power a relationship, and there's a saying dat goes thus, love those who love u and do away with those who dont, I don't wana love her out of pity cos at d end it might boomerang, but I av a feeling dat if i keep her she might be loyal cos shes a good gal, most of my lodge mate here in skul tinks I love her nd which I dont cos of d Way we run tins, I dont wana regret losing her then seeing her anoda time looking more matured nd more beautiful, chai!!!!!!!!! e go too pain me ,should I just go on and date her maybe with time my love for her will grow? or i shud just let her go,but guys wait oo, she's a fine innocent chick oo. with time shes gona turn to a more super woman with different kind off guys chasing after her,I just don't wana regret losing her wishin i shud av made a move, even her aunty av told me to make a move nd dat they are rite behind me but d truth is I don't feel anytin for her, pls advice

me I av a lot of different female experience but lemme Say Dis one, There was dis gal in my class during my sec school days called Judith she was gud lookin, atleast presentable, I knw She had a crush on me But I didn't really like Her let's say I was not into women,during break she would give My frnd money to but me snacks nd kunu or zobo, as a sharp guy wey No DEY carry last wen its comes to food I never rejected it ooo,ehn!!! make I hear, my feeding allowance den was just ten naira so b4 break I wud pray she sends my frnd to give me money ,it kept on going like dat till it was valentine, I never knew she bought me boxers nd singlet wit someother stuff, wen We closed For d day she sent d gift thru my frnd,I saw d gift nd I plainly rejected dem, I knw it must Av broken Her heart but who cares maybe den I was inexperienced nd young to undastand wat love means

Pdizzle:
lord have mercy

Na church we dey?

my voice. wen I sing for a lady she goes phycho, Can make her fall just by singing

dis guy is a talented criminal

I love d Nigerian army but am scared, really scared,life no get duplicate ooo,one bullet one die. I respect nd appreciate d men out there tackling boko haram cos its not easy to leave ur wife and children to confront death. shout out to d angels watching over me

apart from d army, does d police, navy airforce confront bokoharam on land just like d army does?

There is a correct time for everything, and before
that, you must not overwhelm her by saying ‘I Love
You’. Here are 8 reasons why you must never say
those three words too soon.
1. It Kills The Excitement
Believe us, the best parts of a relationship are the
early beginnings where this is a certain amount of
uncertainty in the minds of both partners. Going
weak in the knees just looking at her, getting goose
bumps every time she touches you, spending nights
talking to each other over the phone – all this, once
lost may never come back. By saying ‘I Love You’,
you put a full stop to this excitement.
2. Your Obsession Is On Display
It makes you look like a possessive, obsessive,
desperate fool who wants nothing but a girlfriend in
life. If you plan to spend your future with her, she
better be impressed by your personality. Don’t
come across as an insecure guy greedy for love.
3. You Fail To See The Reality
There’s a difference between infatuation and love –
a difference only time can make clear. By
confessing your so-called love for her, you force
your mind to believe that you actually love her. Your
feelings may die down with a few more dates, but
you’d be forcing yourself too hard to believe that
she really is the one. Not just that, it puts immense
pressure on the girl too. You’re better off without it,
man.
4. It Could Lead To A Heartbreak
Like men, a lot of women too are commitment
phobic. While you may be all set to take the plunge
without even thinking about it thoroughly, it might
put the girl in question in a dilemma. And you know
how it ends when a woman isn’t sure of her own
feelings. You may end up losing what could have
been yours, had you given it some more time.
5. You’ll Be Judged
Even if you mean it, wait for the perfect time to say
it. It’s not hard for men to fall in love in just a few
days. But most women, my friend, are judging every
move of yours. You may come across as vain and
immature to a woman if you say ‘I Love You’ too
soon. This ruins your chances totally. Do you want
that?
6. What You See May Not Be Real
To love people, you have know them very closely, if
not inside out. Chances are, you were trying really
hard at being ‘courteous’ and so was she. That
might not be the real her. You must spend enough
time with your date in order to know them
personally, beyond their job descriptions and
favourite drinks.
7. It May Result In A Disastrous Relationship
Saying ‘I Love You’ could also make the girl believe
that she loves you too. And once the words are
exchanged, there’s no damage control possible. A
half baked relationship where the partners are
clueless about how they really feel and yet, commit
to each other for life is the worst set up ever. It will
only end in bitterness.
8. It May Draw You Two Apart
Once awkward around each other, there is only
little you can do to make up for it with your girl.
Even though she may go on to love you in the near
future, rushing in to commitment may just ruin your
chances. She might get creeped out by your ‘love’
and decide to move away.

pls o,wats up with niaja army and ak47, are there no other rifle abi na our official gun be dat, and apart from d army does d navy and airforce stand in front line with d army in d north?

but me I cant ooo, I will jejely tell her to corporate cos my life is also at stake

it happened to my frnd, graduated but came bak to spend some wks wit his babe, at nite robbers came and he submitted all including money, phone nd laptop, d robbers insisted d gal must get laid but his submissive boi frnd refused And said over his dead body, there was a struggle btween d guy and d robbers but unfortunately d cutlass d robbers had mistakely cut d poor gal

av so many guys who co habit with their galfrnd in skul,but d ques is wat will u do wen robbers knock ur door at nite with ur galfrnd wit u, after collecting jeweleries, money e.t.c then they ask ur galfrnd for sex, as a guy will u fight for her or just let dem av their way with her ?

av known her for three yrs, but one thing I noticed is dat wen I talk to her she just looks down or sideways, she cant really look at me in d eyes directly, pls is it dat we are not close enof cos wen she is wit other guys I see dat she is free wit dem and they flow very well and she is d bold type

interesting, I think its a seduction nd she cant tell u in words, But if u make d first move trust me It's gona be bingooooo!!!!

alberto2k:
And who told u guys woo every girl that comes their way?

yes most guys do, u can only speak for urself alone

mrkay101:
all I got from this is the op telling us he is gay..

why wud I have too many female friends. in contrast to what he said female folks can become a burden most times.. I can have like 2 or 3 casual female friends. but anything more than dat.

my Oga am not gay, I said selected few among ur female frnds are to be kept as trusted female frnds

I just don't knw why guys woo every gal Dat comes their way, to be serious Not all gals are suppose to wooed, some are to be kept as frnds and It's perfect dat way, one tin I realised bout female frnds is dat there are trustworthy, dependable, loving and even more caring than my male frnds,trust me u may loose a lot from a gal u wooed rather than just being frnds, dis misconception bout sleeping wit every gal has made some guys loose alot from a lady who might have been their helper or best frnd.The funniest part is dat wen u av a close female frnd she tells u things that even ur gf will never tell u,things like previous boi frnds,secret and ugly past bout her life,she calls u wen shes alone to come over to her place or she comes to ur place, wen visiting her frnds she takes u along, wen u are hungry or broke she feeds u e.t.c I know It does Not affect d price of garri but isn't it awesome having someone who can trust and confide in u?but all these guys of nowadays wey sex don scatter their head only think of puci cos I can sleep wit my female frnd on d same bed without any feeling NOTE - not all gals are to be kept as frnds o, some can be wooed but as a guy u just av to make sure u dont take ur trusted female frnds as galfrnd but there are female frnds who can be wooed,
trusted female frnd are selected few among ur female frnds
#I forgot to add d last point which is She tells u things even Her bf does not knw and when there is problem in her relationship she runs to u for help

(igala ) ufedo

typing.......

Abeg biko bia,where is my bottle of orijin, and dont forget to add roasted fish and I want it spiced