Dpsychologist:
Looks money and status(LMS)

There is a conundrum in dating advice where men suggest that your looks money or status does not matter only your personality. I won't lie to you, it matters and not only does it matter but it makes things easier.
Looks — especially your grooming and how you dress— are an important factor on the mating market, and so is your access to financial resources or popularity.
If you have no idea how to dress but think you can still get “more girls than you can handle”, you will get disappointed.

Which would you rather drive a Ferrari or a volkswagen? Most of you would pick the Ferrari. Why? Because the Ferrari looks amazing and the volkswagen not that great.

duality:
Problem is, after going through all these stress,

You discover the lady adds no value to your Life.

Nothing whatsoever. Only debit alerts, for the Randy ones, it's sex.

It's just that you now claim to have a woman in your life, just to align with stupid social construct.

Anyway, we are reading, keep posting.

NACE13:


At first, yes, but she is not pretending; she just doesn't want to be seen as a 'slut'. If you are the type she is free around, she might even be doing it without thinking about it because she's developed that confidence with you. Most guys are too frigid with their partner, so they(females) can't express themselves freely.

If your girlfriend can walk around butt naked and wanna play with you in her naked state, then it means she's developed it completely and isn't ashamed to show you her banging body.

samtoolz:
I'm 20, I've never been in a relationship, its always book book book. My friends actually pushed me to go into a relationship with a very beautiful girl.
I pursued this girl for almost 5 weeks,then the day she said yes, i told her i was no longer interested.
Am i weird??
The thought of relationship just creeps me out. Mind you, I'm good looking, and ladies even ask me out but... �

pich4real:
Hello everyone, my name is paul and am a serving corp member in bayelsa (N. Y. S. C) since childhood i have been battling with a speech disorder (stuttering), and for as long as i can remember it has made me an introvert.
Let me rewind to my school days, i can't vividly remember how i stuttered all through my primary school days, but I can during secondary school. It has made me build a wall around my self therefore making me less social and hard to access because It hurts, i mean it hurts so deep like a knife through the heart, you will only understand this if are in my shoes because you're becoming something or somebody your not. You have a lot to say or an issue to shed light on in the midst of your colleagues and the moment you open your mouth words fail you. In the midst of all you look stupid and your frozen. And that's because you don't know whether the next word coming straight out your mouth is going to sound like ma! ma!! ma! Na! Na! Name is paul, and by the time you open your eyes and your catching your breath to recover you are realising that there's a crowd in front of you and you just messed up big time.
When your done stuttering through every word and your taking your seat everyone is gonna be like "so this young man is a stammer" and that's the painful part and not all of us can deal with it.
Fast-forward to today, there was a meeting with my fellow corp members and my lg inspector was around, every coordinator spoke and it came to my turn to address the crowd, even before i stood up i was scared for myself, i was not scared of what to say but I was scared that my mouth would fail me leaving me stupid and empty in the faces my colleagues and just as I predicted, i stood up and i stammered my way all through. But as i looked at the faces of everyone while expressing my self and gesticulating with my hands I tried not to stutter but the more I tried not to the more I did, i was representing my group but it looked as If i failed them. I love to express my self, i love to be heard but i just cant deal with this, its tearing me apart, it making me feel empty, I don't want to be pitied on.
After the whole discussion and we closed, I couldn't look at the faces of everyone, I just bowed my head like a man drunk with regret and walked out.

EVarn:
I thought revalidation is only by batch, not by stream?

Lexmane:


Excuse me guys, I plan to defer going to camp this month, simply coz i am posted to Akwa Ibom. Is there any chance that they are gonna change the state to which am gonna get deployed to, for camping? Ion fancy the long trip aswear!

skarlett:


You'll still go to the same state, except you leave your revalidation to Batch A 2019

Tmonex:

were you deployed with Batch C stream 1 already? If yes....you can only re-validate in the next registration window. Batch A 2019

Tmonex:
RIVERS


After re-validating 3 times - About time
No more Jigawa

Cinderella5:
I believe the above is a fallacy. A guy who loves you loves you, it doesn't matter whether you were with him when he was broke or when he is made. Ladies don't be blackmailed by that fake lame story guys say to keep you glued to their side when they have nothing meaningful to offer in the relationship. Don't pity a man and remain with him, remain only cos of love not poverty related pity. I have seen men dump girls who were with them during hard times for sexier girls, so there are no rules.
Let's not be blackmailed by struggling aka broke guys, follow your heart.

Orla234:
My dear, trust me, it's very possible.

Mind your company.
Train your mind to focus on your goal.
If you a Christian, get busy for God.
Empower yourself.
Try not to ask 'them' for your salient needs.
It pays to be chaste my dear.

Originalsly:


Emotional trauma..... as you described ...is about being played...not abused. Moving on.... when a woman begins to abuse a guy.... he either puts his foot down from jump...or dumps the woman...and moves on....no time to jump on social media with lamentations...thus...less reports.Doesn't mean he doesn't get upset...and disappointed. Guys do get played...they suck it up..and move on. Women are different.... they report to anyone who would listen...thus more reports.... and remain in the abusive relationship.

lawlhee:
The female gender has been hurt, molested, and witnessed all sort of inhumane behaviours from the male. Most of the actions that follow from the female is as a result of retaliation or being proactive. I am not in support of any form of violence but the males need to understand that when they treat a lady right, care, submission, tolerance and love follows naturally. They should stop the intentional hurt they cause to females.

Airforce1:
She for kuku put her dirty leg inside the plate of soup na

dairykidd:
I no even understand wetin the op dey talk about...saying i love u to a girl u feel or saying i love u to a girl u are pimping cos u a broke a$$ nia

AjFive:
Mumu. When do are say you're hungry or feeling sleepy?

Brown253:
Well my ex left me..

The painment is not even that she left, but because i had so many chances to bang her, and i didnt..

First was wen we spent the early hours of new year 2013 in one small korro like that, fing**ing and sucking ourselves only..
..no banging.

Second it was near one psp truck that....lol like that, i used her oranges for dinner that night, she sucked me..
...no banging..

Lastly it was in her bestfriend's house - a guy, while the guy was outside, i was inside with her struggling to get my thing into her virgin cunt. My thing cudnt get in cuz her thing was so tight that i spent one hour trying to solve the equation.
Finally i gave up out frustration.
The edge of my thing was already hurting me, i told her that next time, with lubrication and condom it will be smooth and quick, only to find out that there will be no next time.

She left me, i cried and begged her, not because i wanted her back but because i wanted to be the first to make her moan.

She was my first gf, and i still think about the opportunity i missed with her, tho i've moved on to a more matured lady.