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good question. but he that is without sin should first cast a stone.
if it favours me, tell me why i should turn him/her in? why! why!!

ATTENTION: MissO,[s][/s]
let me give you an advice you will like so much. one thing i appreciate is that you love the guy and that divorce is out of your mind. good! (to tell you the truth thats what satan is targeting) but by God's grace you will overcome them all.

MissO, there's no smoke without a fire, for your husband to be DRINKING now that means there's something wrong and you have to find that out.(maybe his friends, circumstances, etc).
I HAVENT HEARD something like this before, if he insults your parents, what about his -can't they do what he wants your parents to do? letme tell you you are the MOST IMPORTANTperson here on earth and no one, nobody should take your happiness from you. its good that you have three kids -please concentrate on them and leave your husband alone. Now here are my advice.

1] men, especially nigerian men are proud and arrogant people that like to be recognised even if they have nothing, the more you show him that you feel bad any time he insults your parents the more he will do it. Solution: try to him that you are happy always and dont give tots to the insults, if you go out with him spend more time with his buddies and laugh loudly at anything they say even if its not funny. and don't always be in a hurry to please him, if he excuses you tell him to give you a minute and take your time to round up.

2] dont always laugh with him. if he asks you a question just answer and keep quite. (try treating him like a social leper -like he doesn't exist but perform all your marital duties to him and the children) believe me it works.

3] try to be close to his best friend or someone that he listens to. mention the issue technically to that person to tell him as regards change. the person must be careful so your husband doesnt think you reported him, okay?

4] don't always go into sex when he wants it. deny him (but not for too long) if you must give in make it boring and distasteful. if he results to other women -dont borther or fight him, lethim know that you know and that you are not careful about it, that you are more concern about the marriage and that you dearly love him.

5]remenber, you dont have to feel bad anytime he insults your parents. tell him that they are people better than your parents and that your parents are better than other people also.

dear, just try this, i wont tell you my pedigree. but be sure it wont fail. if you have questions reach me on +2348033104402. above all, PUT EVERYTHING IN PRAYERS, nothing pass God![color=#990000][/color]

i ahve heard about the anambra/abia thing,
i also hear that anambras' dont like wedding
imos' oe any other tribe, well dude for this
to happen means you have not done your
homework, there are many ways you can
get her parents consent (your parents dont
have much issue), ITS UP TO YOU. BRO

a lot has been said about the deleting.
can someone mention a viable business
idea anyone here can start on a shoe-
string budget? cheers.

vanilla143:
[s]but i dont want to go into online business[/s], i want something that i can venture into physically, please i want to start it soonest. ur candid opinion will be of great help to me. the court is opened for your opinion.

Vanilla143, if you are really serious about the topic you raise and what you mentioned in the above inserted quote then i am here to help you. Although you may not be able to pay my charges sequel to my multinational clients but for the sake of this forum i will give you the ideas for 'almost' FREE. [b]

[s]i am not going to give you an email or number to reach me for payment or to hear your voice as most others do. I am good,[/s] and i am a success at what i teach! just do a search on alabiforum.com with the name peter lawson and you will see the over 20 business ideas that i mentioned there which are not perculiar to online. But also, i have within my resources over 150 business you can do part-time/full-time and still make tremendous 'profits' from them, there ain't online.

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Why don't we (the consultants) just
go ahead and state it on this thread,
the challenges that SME operators face
and how to overcome them INSTEAD of
asking for one to contact you or so,

this is a forum we can all tap into eachother.
If you have business ideas also, state it here.
i'd love to learn and add to my knowledge. Tx

simply, takecare a trip to any
licensed national id center
close to you. you dont have to
go to your LGA, but where were
you when others were doing thiers?

dear, what you need to know is that majority of our nigerian moms are protective of thier sons -especially those close to thier heart. they feel they want the best for thier son(s) so they go on suspecting and checking before they come to full acceptance, you are a woman you know what i mean.

on the other side, women are very intelligent especially mothers. and for you to deal freely with them it means thier spirit has to accept you. i.e i mean there must be a bond-connection. and how do you do this, you must spend more time with her on phone or otherwise, tell her things freely and honestly ask for her opinion, discuss wityh her as you'll do with your mom. -discuss your period, discuss anything feminine, but don't talk much of her son just give an honest but positive criticism. okay?

secondly, you just have to work on your guy. for he has the keys. but i bet you it's better to get closer and be accepted by your boyfriend's mother than the guy himself for even if somthing happens the mom will exert pressure to bring you back. and to be close to a mom, you just have to do those simple thinbgs MOTHERS like, okay.