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Miss ?

Sometimes I wonder if I’m unlucky with ladies or maybe cursed when it comes to women, please allow me to rant,I know my solution for this predicament but I got no one to talk to and anyone I try to converse with tries to take advantage of my situation.

I have tried dating ladies but seems all I get is either the same type of woman or something close both offline and online, can’t one have a meaningful relationship without unnecessary demands and just plan or be happy even the so called big ladies I still meet would still ask for favors,no one asks what I want or how to make me happy and every lady I get to meet I put first but I don’t get the same treatment.

This the last straw, I met a lady online got talking and we sorta synced, I didn’t want more body counts so I just went straight to the point and told her if she wanted something serious, I don’t have the time for chasing a lady who is playing hard to get. I invited her over after a couple of dates and I must confess the s*x was awesome I thought this would be my last stop. Though I noticed some things I didn’t like but I said to myself “no one is perfect maybe she might change or adjust moreover I’m tired of being single” didn’t know I was in for a shock

I did everything I could to make this lady happy and spent a lot on her second visit, discovered the libido was almost none existent ,I had to make the move every single time, communication was zero, dished piled up like no one lived there (I usually leave for work and return late), I have to tell her everything to do as a woman even to washing her own clothes and cooking all she thinks is about the now and movies. Had to download movies worth 400gb (not to exaggerating) to keep her occupied,it was more or less like I spoiled her,this lady isn’t a child,I have tried communication and telling her how I do things and how a woman who wants to start a family should behave but all has come nothing.

I am done complaining