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IamPlato:
Your Words Not Mine...


I Only Understand That You will Only React Emotionally According To Your Age

Anfieldboss:
The harsh truth is that you will not marry that girl because I don't see her waiting for you for the next 5 to 6 years to marry her. You are just 21, your priority should be graduating with a good grade. When you graduate, and you are comfortable girls will flock around you. Stop stressing yourself. Take this as an advice from an elder brother.

seyigiggle:
hey! do not mind those advising you to forget that gurl.

especially the ladies, they are just jealous or myopic about life. i am not disappointed anyways.
those who celebrated 40, 50,60 or even more years of wedding got married when?

yes, you have to concentrate on your studies, get good grades and all time, but you know what, try within your power to convince her, you both could build your future together. howbeit with the right counselling.
by the way, always remember this, what will be would be and the beautiful one are not yet born!!!

realest2:
i don't normally do this, but your level is stupidity is just outstanding. The dude isn't the cause of your being single and depressed. perhaps, it was this your shitty attitude that drove all your suitors away, and now you're looking for any man to vent your anger and frustration on. Well, I hope you die single b*tch

Peter4luv:
Op i had similar issues with my gal funny thing she is an hairdresser....the thing is if she loves she wont think of getting married and you dont need to rush or do anything stupid..also what tribe is your gal friend..

CosmicJames:
I understand your situation wella.
From your explanation, your problem is not that you are 21. Is not the girl in question. Is not money. Yeah, money is not your problem.

Your problem is "FEAR"

Yes, fear. And trust me, it is fear that will make you loose her if you don't stop being afraid of losing her.

This is just a comment, and as such, I can't say much.

The only thing I will advise you is that you should stop being afraid.
Learn to be yourself. Don't allow situation or circumstances to pressure you into doing something you are not ready for including marriage. Don't try to force situations because if the time is not right, there is nothing you can do.

Let me just stop here.

LegendaryLover:
u've been intoxicated by smelling pussy...just a phase in life i guess...when reality hits u hard, u'll wake up

IamPlato:
Your Words Not Mine...


I Only Understand That You will Only React Emotionally According To Your Age

gloria34:
I'll be waiting to read Ur heart break thread. Now run along

IamPlato:
I Am Considering Your Age... That Shouldnt Be Your Problem... In Few Years That Thing You Feel Could Fade Away

gloria34:
Were u expecting everyone to tell u that she will wait? If different opinions weren't needed, y open a thread in d first place?

IamPlato:
This Is Evidence That University Is Not a Guarantee Of Intelligence... Despite Your 400 Level, your Age Has Proved Itself to Be Superior

gloria34:
I just love u.

highqueen:
You would have told me something I will.regret?

Really? Have you written your first semester exams and what was your gp?

The earlier you learn how to face your books and leave innocent girls alone, the better for you.
I'm done replying you.

highqueen:
Insult from a 21 year old student?
I will let it pass cos you are just like a kid brother, just extend my advise to her.

pocohantas:
Lol, the irony. They shame girls for being evening newspapers, whereas they are the same guys being padlock boyfriends to these girls.

Imagine one saying, if she loves him she will wait. Then after waiting for 5yrs, they will still say...all relationships mustn't lead to marriage. It is well...

highqueen:
21 year old talking marriage and still in school, being fed with the little his parents can afford??
Please, extend my candid advise to that foolish girl that's dating you without future, tell her that the sooner she starts giving her suitors attention, the better for her cos she will soon be tagged an evening newspaper.

highqueen:
21 year old talking marriage and still in school, being fed with the little his parents can afford??
Please, extend my candid advise to that foolish girl that's dating you without future, tell her that the sooner she starts giving her suitors attention, the better for her cos she will soon be tagged an evening newspaper.

If not for courtesy,I would have told you something you will regret for the rest of your life. Loser

vidicious:
I would advise you focus on your final exams,your project wahala and leave this matter to faith. If she truly loves you she would wait, afterall she also knows you in school and in your finals it won't be long before you dey alright.
My advise is don't work yourself up over this matter.

Mercielove:
Abeg, free her make she marry. That's how u will waste her time and later start saying she's not ur class.
Mttccchheew

pocohantas:
How can a 21y/o guy have a serious relationship? The only serious thing you have, is an erectíon.

Truth is, you will most likely get heart-broken like 4 times before you marry. In fact, you will be a transitional boyfriend for like 7yrs or more. A 21yo guy is nowhere close in mental/emotional maturity to a 21yo girl. That is why a girl of that age can marry and adapt, but a guy can't try it.

Your wife is in SS2, one guy in Diamond bank will marry your babe. When you are ready to marry, another 400l guy will create this thread. Don't stress yourself over it, it is what it is...

Rosay15:
Make money first and be okay. If the babe is meant for you then she will yours cus you are still younger to be stressing yourself marriage.
BTW, marriage i s not for kids and its takes a lot of sacrifice. The lord is your strength.

Saffi:
Pray

SUCKABLE88:
Bros double your hustle because If you no get money hide your face

Shibaraba:
Whatever youre studying boy face it

At the end it all boils down to your pockets