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baby124:
Ah ah. Only your sister? She must be very fine o. Just investigate reliable places for injectable birth control. Take here there, pay for it and let them give her the shot. Some can last for 3yrs.

She thinks she us not fine enough,she is the least in beauty in our family.

Richy4:
It's nice that you were worried about their welfare. but it's not going to be easy in Nigeria to just storm in and take the kids.. Especially in a country where social workers are not practicable.

The alternative will be that you make those kids know that they can come to you for anything.. just anything.. Sometimes a sleepover at your place can help the kids.
That will strengthen their bond with you.. Maybe instead of giving her money, you can buy all those things that the kids might required...

And I must add that please don't act as if u were better than her in any way. EVERY one got one demon/challenges he/she is facing on this planet...And people tend to deal with it the best way that they choose.. some ways are right some wrong... Maybe going after men was how she thinks she can suppress or deal with her issues

I will try xmas holiday....

baby124:
Ah ah. Only your sister? She must be very fine o. Just investigate reliable places for injectable birth control. Take here there, pay for it and let them give her the shot. Some can last for 3yrs.

I will do that. Thanks

baby124:
Go with police and claim she threatened their lives. If they give the same testimony, all the kids will be given to grandma for their safety. Act quickly. Please find a way to ensure she gets injections birth control.

Did you know i paid a doctor to convince her about womb tying,the beast end up dating her.

sassysure:
She don't want to help her. Read what she wrote again.

She want the children away from her and in her words,she don't care what happens to her sister.

If eventually they succeed in taking the children away, she may kill herself and everybody will be happy.

The only thing she is seeing is a woman squandering money and sleeping with different men always instead of seeing beyond that. Her sister is very sick and needs their love and help, not money and condemnation.

She seems like the church type that will rather condemn her sister than make her open up to her.

If she parties, she is definitely into drugs and booze so any money given to her will be used to maintain such addictive lifestyle.
Her family should see her as a sick person and help her.
Until they know the root of the matter, they can as well help dig her grave.

You are quick to accuse,i have try heart to heart tried everythhing i can,ironic enough i am a semi atheist while she is the chronic church goer(why i used the pastor)

So instead of accusing tell me other ways to try

I cant drag a 37years old to see psychologist.

baby124:
This is crazy. With this threat you people can storm her house with police and take the children away. If the children are able to testify to what you have said here then the police will give you the kids to cater for. I don’t think your sister is mentally balanced.

Am suspecting it,talking to her is like talking to stone,pastor and imam she listen to no one.am tired .she sees the kid as a bother but still keeping them hust to spite us, the last two kids she had after her husband death will still be with her we just need the older ones.

I have talked and talked she told the kids she will poison them for exposing her latest .they are not close by they are six hours journey.

baby124:
She’s probably doing all that because she finds it hard to move on after the death of the husband. Except this was her behavior before she died. You need to call her attention to her attitude and how it is affecting her children. Including what they see and hear.

You need to suggest psychological counseling for her and ask her to stop bringing men who could sexually harass her children around them. Just talk to her seriously or have an elder talk to her. Your mum if she’s alive is in the best position to talk to her and take the kids from her if necessary.

Its not a love marraige she was like that already before she married.

Fountainofyouth:
Op follow this advice, also if you havent, tell your mother to go stay with her for a while, at least that will tame her a little or make her keep her promiscuity outside the house.

She drove my mother away because of an idiot she was dating didnt like her meddling

Matured advice pls

No front page ....


I want to know if there is an agency that will back me in taking my sister kids away from her.she is my sis and i love her but i have to be realistic,she is the opposite of everything that makes up mother.

I know i dont have much but with my husband surport i can make it work for my nieces.staying with her is making them to be dyfuntional my sister can bring anything with a stick into the home.

She is a widow but is hardly pitied because she was left with alot of resources but as usual she squandered them all with partying and men now left with nothing. I dont really care what she does with her life but i cant sleep knowing my belove niece are in that kind of enviroment.

Everybody have stop giving her money for the kids because it never goes to them instead men and party.story is too long....

Her eldest kid called and was telling me how mummy brought someone in and was making noise.i cried.their father was the best in law so iwant to be the best too.

Advice pls?