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MadamVanessa:




Marry who you're attracted to in all ways, desperation shouldn't push you to marry who's available and ready to do the needful. In a long run, you'll feel irritated and disgusted in whatever he does and nothing he does to please you will please you.

7 years now I have been out of marriage, and to be perfectly honest I have no regrets or whatsoever being a divorcee. This years of being alone has been the best years of my life. I am not going to say I inclined to celibacy these years, I do it, mainly to kill the urge but not emotionally attached to whoever is shagging.


To me, Marriage isn't worth it at all. It's simply overrated. I regret ever getting myself involved in this nonsense. I was probably naive then , I can't blame myself much.

Your story touched me, wishing you the best

TrustNone:
There's this my guy, we're so close and we share everything in common like eating together, going out to hustle together, gist and relate.
He's rich as he sells lands (real estate) and makes huge profits from it but he's uneducated and can neither read nor write, I usually help him and compose text messages for him and also chats for him on his Facebook account as he can't speak English correctly.

So there's this school I'm currently working, in the evenings when I go to workplace to drop my laptop (as home isn't safe due to recent robbery attacks in our neighborhood) he'll usually accompany me.

Recently he followed me and we strolled together, there's this corper working in our school, she came out and met me, we exchange pleasantries and gisted.

My friend said he likes her that I should help him talk to her, I obliged then smartly did the job but the lady seemed uninterested as he was not properly dressed and blowing wrong grammars with a very local accent.
But after the girl realized how rich he is and the assets he has she finally gave in.

So recently the Operating System in my laptop got expired, didn't have present money to fix and update it, gigs were coming in but no money to repair the laptop. I asked my guy to lend me 5k when I receive salary I'll pay back but he told me he doesn't have but he'll try and help, he requested for my account and gave him, he lied to me he sent it to the POS girl in my area that she'll give me, but till date I couldn't see any alert.
I approached the girl and she told me he's lying he didn't give her any money. He later told me he was lying but there's no money as he's broke. I moved on. Mind you the girl accepted him and they're both dating.

Yesterday I saw the girl with a new Redmi Note 12, I complimented her phone and congratulated her, she then told me it's my friend that got it for her yesterday and also told the her to move out of the school's premises (she was living in the school compound as accomodation was provided for corpers). The guy then rented a new self contain apartment (250k yearly) for her and she moved out and is staying in the new apartment.
The girl told me how he has stocked her house with foodstuffs and giving her upkeep weekly.
Funny enough the girl has a smartphone she was using and never requested for phone from him, he just willingly bought the phone for the girl. Price of the phone was around 140k.

I was sad and grieved how this guy could be so heartless to his fellow guy and close friend but extravagantly kind and so simpishly foolish to girls.
The girl sef couldn't even show gratitude for connecting her to a foolish maga.

On my way back from Church in the evening yesterday, I saw them together at an eatery with sumptuous meals on their table, the girl called me and I just waved at them and passed.
The guy doesn't call me again nor come around my place again as he used to.

I just learnt that if you're educated avoid walking or keeping company with uneducated people and those that aren't exposed, their mentality is annoying.

So sorry for ur experience Bro.
I have been in ur shoes but I don't regret it bcox I always do things that I can afford to lose, I help people for the sake of mankind not for their immediate reward. You might get ur reward in another form from another person.
Besides don't generalize okay, some uneducated people are still good while some educated people are bad.
No b education dey make person good or bad
It is inborn.
Life na teacher

Nice result for Chelsea

I love what Barca did yesterday, I never expect such scoreline tho.
Forca Barca

I save mine monthly b4 end of the year the rent is complete

UHLmoving:
To whom much is given, Belle should also be given

Dix comment got me

Chaaii
May Her soul rest in peace

Seeing the children I carried in my arms growing taller Dan me

They are too crowded

I was there
Always active

Jeweltz:
But why did he asked me if I was in any relationship ? Which I clearly told him I’m not. I knew he liked what he saw he was just being a coward and shying away from responsibility. Men don’t even need to be rich these days as women are just looking for a responsible man and not necessarily rich

I love this comment

achosondc:
It is called mkpurumkpu ishi abuo

Okay ok. Thank you
But do you know if there is any traditional believe attached to the animal?

Augustine2244:
This is a species of blindsnake. Blind snakes belong to five different families and 39 genera with overall 38 species.
They are so called because of their reduced eyes hidden under scales which do not form and pick up images, but are not photo sensitive i.e sensitive to light.
Blind snakes are among the most harmless groups of snakes, being non venomous and are fossorial (living a burrowing lifestyle).
They feed exclusively on ants and termites and superficially resemble earthworms as can be noticed from the picture.
Their heads and tails are so much alike they can easily confuse a potential enemy..

Thanks for your contribution Bro
I really appreciate

5mins max

pneumatikos:
This appears to be a Brahminy blind snake (Atractaspis bibronii). This species is native to Africa and is often found in Nigeria. They are small, legless reptiles that can be easily mistaken for worms.

Source: google gemini

Thanks for your contribution.
Because I was scared when I saw it initially

Am curious to know the name of this animal

Our midfield was not good at all.

Straight win

Only the church's in Imo state can make Nigeria top 3.
Almost every street has 3 church's

Tinubu:
Your mother is childless, if na only you she born

This is harsh bro

Sounds funny tho

Zonefree:
So, what's the big deal? Abi Nigerians don't study in American universities?

Sometimes your comment make me to imagine ur age.
Maybe you are still a teenager or your parents are still feeding you.
You act so immature.
I don't know if you intentionally do it or is your real attitude.

dawnomike:
The lecturer must have been a nice man to them over time... Back in my University days, one of my lecturers' house got burnt down and students where somewhat happy such calamity happened.

This comment gat me
Right now one our Lecturer is suffering from stroke and we are all happy to hear the news
Very wicked and heartless man

Only a smart and brave person can do this

This is Nigeria, those guys have rich men sponsoring then. They are not going to prison
Nigeria is very corrupt
EFCC and NDLEA are very corrupt

lekonso:
Take it or leave Baba Obasanjo is still the very best former president of this nation. One of the reasons he wanted to go for third term was because he wanted to remove the hand of the govt from running any business totally, as he discovered that Nigeria is a peculiar case where anything govt has a hand in here, does not work unlike other nations of the world. That was the reason why he sold two refineries to Dangote and Otedola before he left

Anyways you might be correct.
I don't like arguing shaa.

Ashawoman82:
of they had hand in it, it wouldn't have been noticeable.

Why did you say so?

OBJ is not qualified to criticize the current leaders because during his tenure, He was also self centered.
He was the only president seeking for third term tenure.

emkz:
Well, dear Nairaland Moderators, certain people are allergic to the sight of snakes. The sight can make people's skin crawl.

We need to pay attention please.

I am still at a loss why snake threads are relevant here.

Abeg go sit down, I love snakes to much

Nomerci:
The biggest snake u can find in nigeria is that. Followed by black snake and green snake.i saw a snake, a green one,it fell from top of a tree to a fence and I was passing through.na goose bumps full my body,I run like who see jesus

Why you dey fear snake, animal wey dey always go on it's own, doesn't look for trouble.
A snake can never see you and come and bite you unless you attempted to kill it, den it try to defend itself

The HOD and Class adviser must have hands in this

If you no wise up in Lagos, you no go wise again