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Re: Single Father With 2 Little Kids by Nobody: 12:26am On Mar 19, 2021

Yes, they know. And the mother is in support of it she even told me to go and join Yahoo. But only the father has been consoling and sending me prayers that he is yet to see her cos he wants to talk to her. And her Dad is in the village and he is divorced with the mother due to her character. The brothers everyone knows but they said she said no one should ever disturb her that he has moved on with her life. Yes I have so many business idea but capital to start is my biggest problem. Now the highest nightmare is this my rent cry

I once cried for help of 50k so that I can start up an indomie cooking business just in my street here. Someone promised and asked me to make findings which I did after everything it happen say I go need to pay for space which the cheapest landlord I saw agreed to collect 1500 per month making 18k per year then doing of table, tent, bench and going to market to buy all the needed items so I told the person 70k will really push me for a start then he told me he was expecting something till now he no talkkk again since last year. And there is PAGA too pos even restaurant. With any of these, I swear down my kids will be eating fine

aroundtheearth:
You're welcome and amen. What about her family? Were they aware she left you with the kids since September? Is there any job or business you can do to make ends meet? It is well.

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Re: Single Father With 2 Little Kids by GboyegaD(m): 5:27am On Mar 19, 2021

Pavore9:
Apart from your mother, no sibling nor cousin?

Just curious, if you were the sibling or cousin, would you put your life on a hold to help him look after two kids?

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Re: Single Father With 2 Little Kids by Nobody: 6:30am On Mar 19, 2021

That is it. Or even have the mind to keep your little kids in Imo state and stay in Abuja or Lagos dey hustle.. When nobi say them dey with their mother. Well, I don't even have anyone to leave them with

GboyegaD:
Just curious, if you were the sibling or cousin, would you put your life on a hold to help him look after two kids?

Re: Single Father With 2 Little Kids by Pierocash(m): 7:33am On Mar 19, 2021

MondayUche:
Lafemwa sir I still do ferch water for restaurants people and wash compounds too especially when my kids are sleeping yesterday I went clearing a plot of land where they want to build house

you said Ayobo,now it is lafenwa again. I know all those places,from aiyetoro to onifade,lafenwa ,itele,ijoko down to ojuore to idiroko. No where do they pay 8kobo per block.

Re: Single Father With 2 Little Kids by Pierocash(m): 7:38am On Mar 19, 2021

signature2012:
That 8Kobo/block is the biggest lie have heard this year.
When I did this kind of job way back year 2000,I was not even paid such.

don't mind him. I did same when growing up in Ayobo in those days in 2000s, we were never paid such ridiculous amount ,not to talk of now 2021.

Re: Single Father With 2 Little Kids by namiji2598: 8:25am On Mar 19, 2021

Pierocash:
you said Ayobo,now it is lafenwa again. I know all those places,from aiyetoro to onifade,lafenwa ,itele,ijoko down to ojuore to idiroko. No where do they pay 8kobo per block.

his English is even too good for someone that drop out in secondary school self

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Re: Single Father With 2 Little Kids by AishaYesufu: 8:59am On Mar 19, 2021

Na wa oooo

OP claims hardship but;

Doesn't want rk relocate to village where he wouldn't pay rent and his 'kids' will be cared for in order for him to go out hustling.

Insisted on not exposing his 'kids' to village life yet keep exposing them to city hardship without any form of education.

He lies that he was paid 8 kobo per block... He fails to realise that @8 kobo, he will need to carry 10,000 blocks to get 800 naira daily; which is a IMPOSSIBLE...

He has painted a situation like it is him against the world with an imaginary wife that audio abandoned him, he doesn't need ideas at all but money lol...

To break the camel's back, he uses Android phone with data and has time to be replying comments. grin

Dear OP, look for another format... You don cast

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Re: Single Father With 2 Little Kids by jalodo2: 9:26am On Mar 19, 2021

MondayUche:
Hello my fellow NL brothers and sisters. I cried so much on this post when I posted it last year without any help rather than insults and some discouraging comments from people who never knew how much depressions they added to my life. If not my kids eeh hmm.

This was my previous post last year https://www.nairaland.com/6164608/still-believe Since my wife left me and the kids on the 5th of September 2020 things have been so tough for me like hel my kids hardly see food to eat.

My kids are just 2+ and 4+ years old. I have been doing all kinds of odd jobs to make sure they eat. Even school is not sure for them whenever I managed to see some money I take them to a compound lesson. At times I do back my son and take them to where I used to load block in a pickup at 8 kobo per block it's a block industry and at the end of the day I end up getting maybe 600/800 naira to buy one or two things for the kids to feed on.

No chance for me to go and hustle at all. I cried for help so that I can start a small business of indomie cooking around my street but no help comes. Now last week my caretaker brought this house rent renewal paper Oh my God... Since last week till now my life has been upside down. My kids are very very hungry no school now on house rent.

I just feel like ending it for us like this. What have I done wrong that God has decided to be punishing me and these innocent kids like this. There is no prayer I have not done, no hard work now by next month I don't know how and where to land with my family. Good people of NL please I am on my knees begging you all to help and save my life and my kid's life please I am tired. You can take your time to check my other posts and see even when I was helping car dealers to post their cars for sale so that if buyers should come from my side something will touch me.

I even helped someone to sell and this person sold a car of 3m+ and was giving me stories since last year then later blocked me without giving me 1 naira. Please my details are on my profile cos of the TC of NL please help save me and my kids from getting kicked out of the house Please

I know you will be back. You are a very lazy fat man. Gotten very fat due to laziness, sitting down and turning begging into carrier. WHY? U must mention ur kids online, turned ur innocent kids into money making machine. Must u come online for every problem of ur life? O Twitter too, u are always there beginning with ur usual line " a father of two". Na only u ? Funny anough, u always get money. Like a month or two ago, u got 150k to put ur kids in school, according to u, they hinder u from hustling, that when they go to school u will be able to hustle. Here u are again
U always av answers for everything, from no relatives on earth to ur wife no get any family. U even lie a lot, so mut disparity in ur stories. I can bet ur foolish wife is there with u while u sit ur fat ass and use d kids to eat free food. You av grown so fat on this, u dont even av neck anymore. Are u d first man with 2 little kids without formal education or job. ? Is this what u want to spend ur whole life doing? Always exaggerating his situations. Lazy man

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Re: Single Father With 2 Little Kids by jalodo2: 9:33am On Mar 19, 2021

rileyroberts:
Someone gave you N24k last year .

Strange you are back within 6 months

you are talking of last year, he got 150k recently to put d kids in school, so he can go and hustle. Here he is again for hand out. He is so use to free mouth. He doesn't beg only here, he is on Twitter shouting father of 2 about. Lazy man, comes here for any problem in his life. Always has answers for every question. U need to see him, grown fat on free money. I knew he will be back. When he gets money h goes solo for sometime or try to get from twitter too. Then come back with a bang and pix

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Re: Single Father With 2 Little Kids by jalodo2: 11:24am On Mar 19, 2021

MondayUche:
Yes, they know. And the mother is in support of it she even told me to go and join Yahoo. But only the father has been consoling and sending me prayers that he is yet to see her cos he wants to talk to her. And her Dad is in the village and he is divorced with the mother due to her character. The brothers everyone knows but they said she said no one should ever disturb her that he has moved on with her life. Yes I have so many business idea but capital to start is my biggest problem. Now the highest nightmare is this my rent I once cried for help of 50k so that I can start up an indomie cooking business just in my street here. Someone promised and asked me to make findings which I did after everything it happen say I go need to pay for space which the cheapest landlord I saw agreed to collect 1500 per month making 18k per year then doing of table, tent, bench and going to market to buy all the needed items so I told the person 70k will really push me for a start then he told me he was expecting something till now he no talkkk again since last year. And there is PAGA too pos even restaurant. With any of these, I swear down my kids will be eating fine

I could remember in one of your threads, someone offered to give u some utensils to start ur insomnia business, u ignored, na money u want. Sit ur fat ass down eating from peoples labour. U no want go village, but want to b giving every need by people u dont know. If they give u today, I bet it in few weeks time u will b back with new story

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Re: Single Father With 2 Little Kids by jalodo2: 11:52am On Mar 19, 2021

MondayUche:
Amen!!! Thank you so very much. I really appreciate your word of encouragement God bless you. I'm always praying for her also for Gods protection where ever she is because she is th mother to my kids and I am also asking God to just have mercy on me if not for anything but for the sake of my kids and what I have been facing, the insults, slavery hustles simply because I must do it so that my kids will eat. I received an alert of 2k I don't even know who sent it. You need to see how I rushed to buy my kids indomie and golden more. Now they are sleeping while I am just here thinking about my wasted and useless forsaken life. Those mummy thank you Ma really don't know what those carrying responsibilities are facing out there. Only you commented word of strengthen my post. Thank you and God bless you [asuote author=aroundtheearth post=100002111] Her friends must be very useless but you should know her decision to leave was solely hers. A mother and wife upping and leaving, abandoning two little kids for no tangible reason, without looking back since, is pure wickedness. I pray your situation changes, and when it does, make sure you do not take her back if she comes back.

it's not easy to lie, u have to keep to the story line. Uhmmmm kids are again sleeping at home? People should stop indulging this man, cant u see giving him money ain't working, he will keep coming and coming. This man got 150k a month ago for his kids, now kids are sleeping at home. He tried to sweetcoat his situation to get pity. Indulging him is not working, allow him go out and hustle
There are younger guys with more responsibilities who go out to hustle for their kids sakes, this one is contented sitting his big ass down asking for hand outs. He is on twitter too taking in money. I wont b surprised if his wife is in this too, and who knows he might b building a house right now. Stop feeling guilty cos he keeps mentioning kids. That is his selling points and he keeps using those innocent kids to beg. Stop indulging him, let him go out to work if he doesn't want to go back to d village.

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Re: Single Father With 2 Little Kids by jalodo2: 12:08pm On Mar 19, 2021

MondayUche:
Amen!!! Thank you so very much. I really appreciate your word of encouragement God bless you. I'm always praying for her also for Gods protection where ever she is because she is th mother to my kids and I am also asking God to just have mercy on me if not for anything but for the sake of my kids and what I have been facing, the insults, slavery hustles simply because I must do it so that my kids will eat. I received an alert of 2k I don't even know who sent it. You need to see how I rushed to buy my kids indomie and golden more. Now they are sleeping while I am just here thinking about my wasted and useless forsaken life. Those mummy thank you Ma really don't know what those carrying responsibilities are facing out there. Only you commented word of strengthen my post. Thank you and God bless you [asuote author=aroundtheearth post=100002111] Her friends must be very useless but you should know her decision to leave was solely hers. A mother and wife upping and leaving, abandoning two little kids for no tangible reason, without looking back since, is pure wickedness. I pray your situation changes, and when it does, make sure you do not take her back if she comes back.

stop thinking everyone that oppose ur non =ending begging tactics eats " mama thank u" if d age u mentioned is real, I am older than u, everyone has d battle they are fighting. I av seen an orphan struggled through life with no help. I help anonymously if I see u need help ( with little I have got). I just detest laziness. You are so comfortable feeding fat from pple. Stop running around opening new thread to get pity with ready made answer for each advice.

Re: Single Father With 2 Little Kids by signature2012(m): 12:25pm On Mar 19, 2021

Mr Monday don japa after being bursted.How long will you continue to live like this?
People like you block ways for those who truly need help..

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Re: Single Father With 2 Little Kids by Foodqueen(f): 12:39pm On Mar 19, 2021

signature2012:
Mr Monday don japa after being bursted.How long will you continue to live like this?
People like you block ways for those who truly need help..

He will be back. He even got money from one fund raising app, sometimes last year.

He knows his way all round social media but doesn't know how to work.

He is always ready to give answea to every one that advices him.

Re: Single Father With 2 Little Kids by justified007: 12:52pm On Mar 19, 2021

MondayUche:
Chaiiiii you just wont understand. My 2 younger brothers are struggling to survive, one is staying in Jabi market Abuja while doing Uber while our last born managed to follow one village uncle that visited home during Xmas to go and do house boy for them. Our village in the east is hmmmmm im just praying for grace sha[1quote author=Pavore9 post=99998435]

Apart from your mother, no sibling nor cousin?

Get a nanny for those kids while you go out to hustle bro. It's not compulsory you be the one attending to them every minutes of the day . Make arrangement with someone around you that you will be paying monthly looking after while you go out to hustle .

Stop wasting yourself

And btw, what are you doing in a 200,000/year apartment when you're jobless and helpless?

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Re: Single Father With 2 Little Kids by pozehnani(f): 1:00pm On Mar 19, 2021*

rileyroberts:
Someone gave you N24k last year .

Strange you are back within 6 months

And you are busy monitoring and following the 24k like it 24 million? For someone that has two children? Fear God when you talk. Because someone is in need Should not give you lots the rise to be talking trash as if you people can manage 24 with two children for months.

Just pass if you can't help. And stop using someones condition to catch cruise here.

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Re: Single Father With 2 Little Kids by signature2012(m): 1:06pm On Mar 19, 2021

Foodqueen:
He will be back. He even got money from one fund raising app, sometimes last year.

He knows his way all round social media but doesn't know how to work.

He is always ready to give answea to every one that advices him.

He's a lazy modafucker.I know their type.If he only knows what many of us went through.

As he is,many unskilled jobs he can do.
Okada riding.
Maruwa riding.
Bus conductor.
Labourers for bricklayers.
Etc

Re: Single Father With 2 Little Kids by Pavore9: 1:29pm On Mar 19, 2021*

GboyegaD:
Just curious, if you were the sibling or cousin, would you put your life on a hold to help him look after two kids?

His mother is in the village (sick or not) and I strongly believe there are relatives living in the same compound with his mother unless he wants to claim here that his.mother is staying alone in a fenced in.compound in the village where no relative (even from his own mother's side) is available to assist in looking after the children.

The OP has perfected his excuse- giving formats and an unrepentant scam artist! Someone on twitter sent him N162, 000 on the the 17th of January 2021, that is the 6 months salary of some graduates who earn.N27,000 monthly.

That is his footprints on twitter!

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Re: Single Father With 2 Little Kids by KnightsTemplar(m): 1:36pm On Mar 19, 2021

OP I read your story and felt touched, and Wanted to support, but reading Jalado2 post about you, it will be very unwise. Your story is not even adding up, the way you painted condition, you still get mind to stay in a house where rent is 200k, na wah for you. People like you makes it difficult to help others with real problems.

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Re: Single Father With 2 Little Kids by AishaYesufu: 1:37pm On Mar 19, 2021

In June 2020, OP came with a format that his daughter was sick and needs money. Over $1100 was raised via Gofundme

https://www.nairaland.com/5637925/save-life-please#85893333

Penultimate to that time, OP has been collecting money in the name of hardship, including over 150k on Twitter... Now he has come again.

My position is that it is not a bad thing to beg for assistance, but using different formats to take money from people is evil, devilish and fraudulent. I'm sure OP is living very fine and fat in his line of "business".

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Re: Single Father With 2 Little Kids by descarado: 1:45pm On Mar 19, 2021

He will run to Facebook and continue with his noble profession.
Ewu

Re: Single Father With 2 Little Kids by my3name(m): 6:09pm On Mar 19, 2021

People really wicked con get bad mouth on top am sha
see statement people jst dey make
if u don't want to help why don't u shut up and mind your business rather than making so much much noise discouraging those who have and one to assist
wicked people everywhere sad

Which kind country abi na world be this
God please I can never be like this abeg

Re: Single Father With 2 Little Kids by signature2012(m): 6:34pm On Mar 19, 2021

my3name:
People really wicked con get bad mouth on top am sha
see statement people jst dey make
if u don't want to help why don't u shut up and mind your business rather than making so much much noise discouraging those who have and one to assist
wicked people everywhere
Which kind country abi na world be this
God please I can never be like this abeg

Re: Single Father With 2 Little Kids by tabithababy(f): 6:37pm On Mar 19, 2021

my3name:
People really wicked con get bad mouth on top am sha
see statement people jst dey make
if u don't want to help why don't u shut up and mind your business rather than making so much much noise discouraging those who have and one to assist
wicked people everywhere
Which kind country abi na world be this
God please I can never be like this abeg

.

Alternate moniker cheesy

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Re: Single Father With 2 Little Kids by akinmobola2019: 6:39pm On Mar 19, 2021

Why can't we have people to verify whatever anybody is saying, and once is truth we see how we to go about it, no amount is small, not for anybody but because God said it, let have nairaland welfare some to verify , some to donate , for anybody that has not eaten we won't give cash instead we buy food and take it to the person.

President
Secretary
Member
Welfare
Donating member
And share responsibility
Panel are not ensure all items get to person

Please sir and ma suggestion please
Is not how much a man has
But how many has we impact in there life

God bless us all

Re: Single Father With 2 Little Kids by Nobody: 6:41pm On Mar 19, 2021*

pozehnani:
And you are busy monitoring and following the 24k like it 24 million? For someone that has two children? Fear God when you talk. Because someone is in need Should not give lots the rise to be talking trash as if you people can manage 24 with two children for months.

Just pass if you can't help. And stop using someones condition to catch cruise here.

Who da fuk is dis? undecided

Why dont you help the scammer fund his lifestyle. huh

93 threads opened by him on this forum, majority of which he was begging for money.

And yes 24k is 24 million. Anuofia

Re: Single Father With 2 Little Kids by Nobody: 6:42pm On Mar 19, 2021

tabithababy:
.

Alternate moniker

We know them

Nice format op grin

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Re: Single Father With 2 Little Kids by SanctifiedSista(f): 6:57pm On Mar 19, 2021

SweetCunt97:
women are not wired to be the bread winner when a man is around. Better to b single and be winning d bread than hsve a man who cant win bread and still would wanna fvck me.. Mtcheew

[center][/center] grin

oremi

Re: Single Father With 2 Little Kids by Nobody: 7:06pm On Mar 19, 2021

Earning 8 kobo per block and living in a house of 200k per year. grin

MondayUche:
Hello my fellow NL brothers and sisters. I cried so much on this post when I posted it last year without any help rather than insults and some discouraging comments from people who never knew how much depressions they added to my life. If not my kids eeh hmm.

This was my previous post last year https://www.nairaland.com/6164608/still-believe Since my wife left me and the kids on the 5th of September 2020 things have been so tough for me like hel my kids hardly see food to eat.

My kids are just 2+ and 4+ years old. I have been doing all kinds of odd jobs to make sure they eat. Even school is not sure for them whenever I managed to see some money I take them to a compound lesson. At times I do back my son and take them to where I used to load block in a pickup at 8 kobo per block it's a block industry and at the end of the day I end up getting maybe 600/800 naira to buy one or two things for the kids to feed on.

No chance for me to go and hustle at all. I cried for help so that I can start a small business of indomie cooking around my street but no help comes. Now last week my caretaker brought this house rent renewal paper Oh my God... Since last week till now my life has been upside down. My kids are very very hungry no school now on house rent.

I just feel like ending it for us like this. What have I done wrong that God has decided to be punishing me and these innocent kids like this. There is no prayer I have not done, no hard work now by next month I don't know how and where to land with my family. Good people of NL please I am on my knees begging you all to help and save my life and my kid's life please I am tired. You can take your time to check my other posts and see even when I was helping car dealers to post their cars for sale so that if buyers should come from my side something will touch me.

I even helped someone to sell and this person sold a car of 3m+ and was giving me stories since last year then later blocked me without giving me 1 naira. Please my details are on my profile cos of the TC of NL please help save me and my kids from getting kicked out of the house Please

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Re: Single Father With 2 Little Kids by AishaYesufu: 7:15pm On Mar 19, 2021

Uche don launch him alternate monikers grin

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Re: Single Father With 2 Little Kids by Nobody: 7:21pm On Mar 19, 2021

You guys wouldn't hear word. Anyone In a "HEALTHY MENTAL STATE" will know Shiiithole Isn't a place to procreate, Most especially these days when there Is no hope of things getting better. I only pity the Innocent Kids not you Vagbonddd......

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