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My Friend's 11-Year-Old Daughter Steals by gabazin080(op): 6:47pm On Mar 21, 2021
firstly I am a carpenter and furniture maker. a friend on the the next street called me to come fix his door net. on getting there I stripped the clothes I wore from home to my working cover-all. I put my clothes with my pulse inside on the chair in their sitting room.

few minutes later I wanted a cold Pepsi, on getting to where I dropped my clothes, I realized #500 was missing from my pulse but I thought maybe I left it at home. I went outside to get the soft drink and I met my friend's 11 year old daughter drinking yogurt with snacks.

I asked where she got the money from and she said her dad gave her the money. I asked his dad if he gave her money to get something and he said no. that's when I told him #500 was missing from my clothes I dropped in their sitting room and I went outside now and saw her daughter drinking yogurt with snacks.

he then begged me to forgive the girl and returned my money, he told me about how the girl has been disgracing him in the compound by entering people's room to steal. she steals from the parents too and in school and will later say its one spirit that used to tell her where people keep their money and to go and steal it.

he claimed the problem is spiritual and has gone to some pastors and alfas but no changes.
the thought of the little girl's problem never left my mind till I finish my work there that day that's why I brought it here, ask u guys if such thing could be spiritual and what can be done because he is tired of beating her everyday with no changes
Re: My Friend's 11-Year-Old Daughter Steals by pocohantas(f): 6:51pm On Mar 21, 2021
I realized #500 was missing from my pulse but I thought maybe I left it at home. I went outside to get the soft drink and I met my friend's 11 year old daughter drinking yogurt with snacks.
The future is indeed female. May nothing miss from your pulse in Jesus name.

Nothing spiritual about it, but I must commend her guts. She didn’t wait for you to leave before squandering the money on her premium cravings.

Yoghurt and snacks? She has good taste. Maybe they should stop beating her and take her to a counsellor.
Re: My Friend's 11-Year-Old Daughter Steals by Bornsinner7: 6:51pm On Mar 21, 2021
Damn i know one kid like that.. I want to believe such kids are possessed or something..

No matter what they do to this girl she won't change.. funny thing she has everything thing she wants but it's just her habit for her.. she steals things she don't even need at her age like jewelry..
Re: My Friend's 11-Year-Old Daughter Steals by Asey(f): 6:54pm On Mar 21, 2021
It could be spiritual. It might not be.
In all, prayer and counseling will help her.
Beating will worsen the case.

gabazin080:
firstly I am a carpenter and furniture maker. a friend on the the next store....
I changes
Re: My Friend's 11-Year-Old Daughter Steals by Asey(f): 6:57pm On Mar 21, 2021
Lol. Abeg, do you have a pulse too? This one that you have boldened pulse, hahahahahaha


pocohantas:
The future is indeed female. May nothing miss from your pulse, in Jesus name.

Nothing spiritual about it, but I must commend her guts. She didn’t wait for you to leave before squandering the money on her premium cravings.

Yoghurt and snacks? She has good taste.
Re: My Friend's 11-Year-Old Daughter Steals by VeeVeeMyLuv(f): 6:57pm On Mar 21, 2021
Female Alladin
Re: My Friend's 11-Year-Old Daughter Steals by gabazin080(op): 7:00pm On Mar 21, 2021
pocohantas:
The future is indeed female. May nothing miss from your pulse in Jesus name.

Nothing spiritual about it, but I must commend her guts. She didn’t wait for you to leave before squandering the money on her premium cravings.

Yoghurt and snacks? She has good taste. Maybe they should stop beating her and take her to a counsellor.
this is not about one gender. it could be a girl or boy in such situation
Re: My Friend's 11-Year-Old Daughter Steals by Righteousness2(m): 7:02pm On Mar 21, 2021
he claimed the problem is spiritual and has gone to some pastors and alfas but no changes
Spirtual Matters are not solved by touring here and there. He might end up adding more problems to the little girl.

The Father as the Head of the Home needs Godly counsel on how to be Genuinely Saved and how to Handle things as these
Re: My Friend's 11-Year-Old Daughter Steals by Nobody:
It may be a curse on the parents operating in her life. Another thing is, for any child to be a thief, one of the parents too must have been a thief and have passed it down to the daughter..

Whether its a curse, Spiritual or hereditary, prayer is the only thing that can solve it. So I'll advise you take her to a Bible believing Church, let them conduct a deliverance for her but the parents have to confess if they too were once into such habits.

She can be delivered.
Re: My Friend's 11-Year-Old Daughter Steals by mariahAngel(f):
Your friend's child is not only a kleptomaniac, she's also an audacious liar too.

It could be that it started from when she was little, taking things that weren't hers, and they failed to correct her.
Re: My Friend's 11-Year-Old Daughter Steals by Ishilove: 7:09pm On Mar 21, 2021
A 11-year old kleptomaniac. Wonders shall never cease
Re: My Friend's 11-Year-Old Daughter Steals by Deborah98(f): 7:24pm On Mar 21, 2021
That's how it starts,Op advice your friend to look into the child's case seriously before the worst happens. Some parents instead of taking action they'll be giving flimsy excuses,he's a child,he will outgrow it bla bla bla.... God help us.
Re: My Friend's 11-Year-Old Daughter Steals by illicit(m): 7:31pm On Mar 21, 2021
That is who she is....

She may never stop, taking her around will only add to her CV
Re: My Friend's 11-Year-Old Daughter Steals by anthonyuncle(m): 9:05pm On Mar 21, 2021
them never give her correct beating
Re: My Friend's 11-Year-Old Daughter Steals by gabazin080(op): 9:50pm On Mar 21, 2021
anthonyuncle:
them never give her correct beating
you need to see the mark on her hand made with hot knife but still won't stop stealing
Re: My Friend's 11-Year-Old Daughter Steals by AwesomeStormy00(m): 10:09pm On Mar 21, 2021
Knowing where money is in a purse and nicking the money..... it is well o. This is parents worst nightmare.
The little kid need counselling because beating her or shouting and yelling is not working. Let's hope she is going to grow out of it.
Re: My Friend's 11-Year-Old Daughter Steals by AwesomeStormy00(m): 10:09pm On Mar 21, 2021
gabazin080:
you need to see the mark on her hand made with hot knife but still won't stop stealing
Child abuse niyen
Re: My Friend's 11-Year-Old Daughter Steals by Mindlog: 10:11pm On Mar 21, 2021
gabazin080:
you need to see the mark on her hand made with hot knife but still won't stop stealing
She is already desensitized to pain, so beatings and other forms of physical punishment will achieve nothing. For her to boldly buy those things with your money while you were still around and also boldly lie that the dad gave her the money despite knowing you could go verify from him means she fears no punishment.

The parents should seek the professional help of a Child therapist as she can be helped with behavioural therapy.
Re: My Friend's 11-Year-Old Daughter Steals by AwesomeStormy00(m): 10:11pm On Mar 21, 2021
AsherAmari:
It may be a curse on the parents operating in her life. Another thing is, for any child to be a thief, one of the parents too must have been a thief and have passed it down to the daughter..

Whether its a curse, Spiritual or hereditary, prayer is the only thing that can solve it. So I'll advise you take her to a Bible believing Church, let them conduct a deliverance for her but the parents have to confess if they too were once into such habits.

She can be delivered.
Yes what can not do does not exist.
Re: My Friend's 11-Year-Old Daughter Steals by gabazin080(op): 10:55pm On Mar 21, 2021
Mindlog:
She is already desensitized to pain, so beatings and other forms of physical punishment will achieve nothing. For her to boldly buy those things with your money while you were still around and also boldly lie that the dad gave her the money despite knowing you could go verify from him means she fears no punishment.

The parents should seek the professional help of a Child therapist as she can be helped with behavioural therapy.
where can one find the therapist
Re: My Friend's 11-Year-Old Daughter Steals by Mindlog: 11:01pm On Mar 21, 2021
gabazin080:
where can one find the therapist
Which state are you in?
Re: My Friend's 11-Year-Old Daughter Steals by Liposure:
A young for that matter. That is how it starts.
Re: My Friend's 11-Year-Old Daughter Steals by gabazin080(op): 6:26am On Mar 22, 2021
Mindlog:
Which state are you in?
between Ogun and Lagos
Re: My Friend's 11-Year-Old Daughter Steals by sisisioge:
Scary stuff... that was how my landlord little girl too started. Now she opens people's doors behind their back to steal

My advice, better take her to boarding school where they wont take nonsense and she wont have things to buy with her stolen money. Her Class mates too will protect their few properties and disgrace her should she try her nonsense. Better do something now before she graduates into a bigger thief. All these thieves/greedy/ irrational/unfair people walking around started from somewhere.


Also, Tell neighbours to stop allowing her into their homes and vendors to stop selling to her. Also keep stuffs away from her reach and ground her. No going out for her.
Re: My Friend's 11-Year-Old Daughter Steals by Cooldiipo(m):
shocked show her how make money and let her spend it her own way, get her a small safe too to keep her money with the promise to add more at Easter or Dec. When she breaks the safe. Do you need external battery and powerbank for laptops, phones etc. Ten hours plus guaranteed and twenty four hours of usage very possible! Recommend to your friends.
Re: My Friend's 11-Year-Old Daughter Steals by tunwumi: 6:49am On Mar 22, 2021
Let her bee
Re: My Friend's 11-Year-Old Daughter Steals by aryzgreat: 6:50am On Mar 22, 2021
Your PULSE can never be kept in the parlour or your dress. E dey your body always.

Check your wrist now, u go feel am
Re: My Friend's 11-Year-Old Daughter Steals by inoki247: 6:50am On Mar 22, 2021
Allow her chop life small na.

She go dey drink Youghurt with 5h the girl sabi chop life with person money....
Re: My Friend's 11-Year-Old Daughter Steals by JayTripz(m): 6:51am On Mar 22, 2021
The country hard now.. Buhari cause am
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