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Re: Why Do Some Women Get Pregnant After Family Planning? by obembet(f): 7:17pm On Mar 30, 2021
SuperBold:
Depend on the planning method.

Some are 100 % effective. Eg vasectomy

Side effects

Bleeding or a blood clot (hematoma) inside the scrotum.
Blood in your semen.
Bruising of your scrotum.
Infection of the surgery site.
Mild pain or discomfort.
Swelling.

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Re: Why Do Some Women Get Pregnant After Family Planning? by danngnews: 7:19pm On Mar 30, 2021
Munzy14:

That's evil...

Thats how two of my friends go give their wives belle after 4kids each, only to be complaining of harsh economy.

When I talked with them, they all blamed their wives.

The question is why do women go off the family planning secretly.

I don't blame any woman, a man should know when he is about to cu,,,,,, you know na smiley remove your thing n pour outside, simple.

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Re: Why Do Some Women Get Pregnant After Family Planning? by Yankee101: 7:28pm On Mar 30, 2021
1. There is no 100% contraceptive
2. Only Abstinence is 100% sure
3. If you don't follow the prescription
4. Fake, expired or reactions
Re: Why Do Some Women Get Pregnant After Family Planning? by femi4: 7:31pm On Mar 30, 2021
obembet:
Most family do family planning to prevent unwanted pregnancies, some family even go to the standard hospital for proper care to avoid errors or mistake, but despite that, some women are still getting pregnant.

Dear Medical Practitioners in the house, kindly educate us and tell us the way out.
No family planning method is 100% safe
Re: Why Do Some Women Get Pregnant After Family Planning? by Harrynight(m): 7:32pm On Mar 30, 2021
Jeromejnr:


Many of them will deliberately do stuffs like that then don't contribute a dime for the Child's education e.t.c.

When the husband has financial problems then they will start complaining.

The selfish way some women think is very appalling.

Some women have driven their husbands to financial stress and ruin.


This is FACT!
Re: Why Do Some Women Get Pregnant After Family Planning? by BePrepared: 7:32pm On Mar 30, 2021
Simple answer

If God say someone will come into this world, nothing can hinder him.








May Grace fall upon you all
This I pray.
Re: Why Do Some Women Get Pregnant After Family Planning? by pek(m): 7:33pm On Mar 30, 2021
Because no family planning method 100% safe. It is written on each. Even condom is not.
Re: Why Do Some Women Get Pregnant After Family Planning? by safarigirl(f): 7:33pm On Mar 30, 2021
Klass99:
A friend of mine has 3 boys, the first two boys are 22 and 20. The last boy is 10 years old cheesy

He thought he was done having kids and was very happy with his family/two boys............until madam decided on her own to go off the family planning method she was on, without informing him.

Some women deliberately do stuff like this, it's not like the family planning method failed.
this is why men should perform vasectomies when they are done with having kids

Women are not the only ones whose bodies can be poked and prodded for these things, and the best part is, vasectomies can be reversible.

Stop leaving the power of procreation solely in the hands of a woman, and take control of your own future as a man.

Get a vasectomy, and women's shenanigans will not bother you anymore

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Re: Why Do Some Women Get Pregnant After Family Planning? by Nobody: 7:33pm On Mar 30, 2021
The only method that is 100% is abstinence. No contraceptif is rated 100% aside human errors, apart from abstinence.
Re: Why Do Some Women Get Pregnant After Family Planning? by razzydoo(m): 7:37pm On Mar 30, 2021
Lmao! Na so 1 gal dey shalaye the oza day, "i fell pregnant".
Re: Why Do Some Women Get Pregnant After Family Planning? by Harrynight(m): 7:37pm On Mar 30, 2021
Femi8586:
It depends on the type of family planning used.
Most of them are not 100% safe..

Some of the sure way of preventing pregnancies are vasectomy(cutting the tubes that carries sperm cells from the testes to the penis) in males, cutting of the falopian tubes in females, IUD(intrauterine device implantation in females) etc though some have side effects on the long run.

Others like use of condoms(male&female), contraceptive pills and creams either before or after sexual acts, avoidance of sex during ovulation periods and so on are still prone to errors and mistakes.

The surest way of preventing pregnancies with no worries is complete abstinence.


Your last paragraph thou undecided
Re: Why Do Some Women Get Pregnant After Family Planning? by Jman06(m): 7:42pm On Mar 30, 2021
1. Many hospitals in Nigeria are owned by quacks who know next to nothing about what they claim to be experts in,
especially about drugs-based contraception, and they'll not employ pharmacists who are experts on drugs. Such hospitals are simply scam centers.

2. Some of the contraceptive agents use in these implants (or whatever method used) have maximum duration of action, and most times the women are not properly counseled on the duration of contraception. Hence, the drug's effects decline as the duration of action elapses without the woman knowing.

3. Failure may also be due to fake products. Our brothers at head bridge can do and undo.

4. The drugs may also fail due to interaction with other drugs the woman might be taking. Nigerians like taking drug s without consulting pharmacists who have superior knowledge of these drugs. Funny enough, pharmacists don't charge consultation fees.

These are some of the reason I think your contraceptives are failing. I am assuming you meant pharmacological contraception
Re: Why Do Some Women Get Pregnant After Family Planning? by Adeniji080: 7:42pm On Mar 30, 2021
Well its a good question . may be the plan has expired and unknowingly to the person or before going for the family planning do the person consult a medical expert to know the package that goes with her body system because we have different body system and reaction all tjisthis need to need to put in first
Re: Why Do Some Women Get Pregnant After Family Planning? by Nobody: 7:45pm On Mar 30, 2021
I got married in 2015 and withdrawal method has not fail me. I hate those family planning pills. The side effects of most of them scare me.

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Re: Why Do Some Women Get Pregnant After Family Planning? by Cocao(f): 7:46pm On Mar 30, 2021
Men should also be involved in the birth control journey, from helping her choose what method is convenient to reminding her when it is time for renewal. That said, there are different levels of birth control with each varying in efficiency. Choose the best (probably a long acting reversible option), alongside your gynecologist.
Re: Why Do Some Women Get Pregnant After Family Planning? by McSquishi(f): 7:51pm On Mar 30, 2021
Kinematics:




Yes human errors can be a factor, however are family planning methods that are 100% effective eg hysterectomy and Vasectomy. Though both surgical, they are permanent methods and 100% effective.

Fear of surgery no dey allow people take that route. Its a radical route though.

I don’t think hysterectomy is usually considered a method of family planning... do you mean tubal ligation? Because with that it is 1 in about every 100 where pregnancy can occur.

Even vasectomies are not 100%, it’s very rare but I think pregnancies occur at about 1 in 1000.
Re: Why Do Some Women Get Pregnant After Family Planning? by Eriokanmi: 7:59pm On Mar 30, 2021
Withdrawal method is the best amd safest option but my question is...how many guys could he sensitive enough to know when to withdraw? Some guys are naturally careless
Re: Why Do Some Women Get Pregnant After Family Planning? by Kinematics: 7:59pm On Mar 30, 2021
McSquishi:


I don’t think hysterectomy is usually considered a method of family planning... do you mean tubal ligation? Because with that it is 1 in about every 100 where pregnancy can occur.

Even vasectomies are not 100%, it’s very rare but I think pregnancies occur at about 1 in 1000.


Yes hysterectomy, Tubal ligation(though not entirely), Vasectomy and orchiectomy are considered permanent methods of family planning.


If a man is still able to impregnant a woman after vasectomy then the surgery was either not properly done or miracle happened.
Re: Why Do Some Women Get Pregnant After Family Planning? by Kinematics: 8:02pm On Mar 30, 2021
Eriokanmi:
Withdrawal method is the best amd safest option but my question is...how many guys could he sensitive enough to know when to withdraw? Some guys are naturally careless


Don't know where you get coitus interruptus as the best and safest.
The best and safest still remains ABSTINENCE.
Re: Why Do Some Women Get Pregnant After Family Planning? by Eriokanmi: 8:04pm On Mar 30, 2021
Kinematics:



Don't know where you get coitus interruptus as the best and safest.
The best and safest still remains ABSTINENCE.
how can you abstain from sex when you're married ? It's impossible except you're vegetative in nature. My coitus interruptus advice not for singles guys
Re: Why Do Some Women Get Pregnant After Family Planning? by Bukkiminat(f): 8:09pm On Mar 30, 2021
obembet:
Most family do family planning to prevent unwanted pregnancies, some family even go to the standard hospital for proper care to avoid errors or mistake, but despite that, some women are still getting pregnant.

Dear Medical Practitioners in the house, kindly educate us and tell us the way out.


Not all family planning methods are 100% safe, even when done correctly. Some confer between 90-95% safety. The surest and safest method is abstinence. Oh, there are some extraordinary exceptions as in the case of Mary, mother of Jesus.
Re: Why Do Some Women Get Pregnant After Family Planning? by Kinematics: 8:10pm On Mar 30, 2021
Eriokanmi:
how can you abstain from sex when you're married ? It's impossible except you're vegetative in nature. My coitus interruptus advice not for singles guys


Coitus interruptus may be safe if you look at the side effects that comes with other none natural methods, however coitus interruptus has one of the highest failure rates. Yes it may be safe, but definitely not the best.
Re: Why Do Some Women Get Pregnant After Family Planning? by aysnoopy(m): 8:13pm On Mar 30, 2021
Sunkyphil:
condom no dey sweet jare

Na sweet tins dey kill pass o.
I understand condom no make sense but get maximum prevention
Re: Why Do Some Women Get Pregnant After Family Planning? by aysnoopy(m): 8:14pm On Mar 30, 2021
chelseamann:
Husband and Wife use condom? Chai...this one off me grin grin

grin
No wahala
Re: Why Do Some Women Get Pregnant After Family Planning? by Klass99(f): 8:16pm On Mar 30, 2021
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Re: Why Do Some Women Get Pregnant After Family Planning? by Gerrard59(m): 8:21pm On Mar 30, 2021
Klass99:
A friend of mine has 3 boys, the first two boys are 22 and 20. The last boy is 10 years old cheesy

He thought he was done having kids and was very happy with his family/two boys............until madam decided on her own to go off the family planning method she was on, without informing him.

Some women deliberately do stuff like this, it's not like the family planning method failed.

#VasectomyLivesMatter grin

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Re: Why Do Some Women Get Pregnant After Family Planning? by McSquishi(f): 8:22pm On Mar 30, 2021
Kinematics:



Yes hysterectomy, Tubal ligation(though not entirely), Vasectomy and orchiectomy are considered permanent methods of family planning.


If a man is still able to impregnant a woman after vasectomy then the surgery was either not properly done or miracle happened.

hysterectomy would be an extreme form of sterilization. I’m sure the contraceptive benefit of the procedure would be considered but that isn’t recommended as a procedure to undergo if contraception is one’s primary concern. But yes, that would definitely be 100% if undergone. I just don’t see that as family planning.


From my understanding the more common reasons for vasectomy failures are natural reconnecting of the clipped tubes and not waiting long enough to have unprotected sex.
Re: Why Do Some Women Get Pregnant After Family Planning? by Nobody: 8:33pm On Mar 30, 2021
Klass99:
A friend of mine has 3 boys, the first two boys are 22 and 20. The last boy is 10 years old cheesy

He thought he was done having kids and was very happy with his family/two boys............until madam decided on her own to go off the family planning method she was on, without informing him.

Some women deliberately do stuff like this, it's not like the family planning method failed.

100% correct!!!
Re: Why Do Some Women Get Pregnant After Family Planning? by Duplexxx: 8:33pm On Mar 30, 2021
Over dose of vaccine
Re: Why Do Some Women Get Pregnant After Family Planning? by blank(f): 8:34pm On Mar 30, 2021
Tigolom:
If the man had vasectomy, then the wife is playing away games.

My opinion grin

Male vasectomies are not 100% effective and is reversible. You need to keep checking with a doctor to ensure that it hasn't reversed itself.
Re: Why Do Some Women Get Pregnant After Family Planning? by Kinematics: 8:34pm On Mar 30, 2021
Let me drop a small lecture of family planning for those who don't really know what it is.

In common man's term family planning is knowing when you want to have a baby, how you want to have that baby and where. Its meant for couples that want to plan their family size. It has several benefits for both mother and child. Daddy as well grin

Now, there are 2 main methods of family planning. We have the Permanent and Temporary method.

Example of Permanent method include: Vasectomy, Orchiectomy, Hysterectomy and bilateral tubal ligation(not entirely so).
Most Africans especially do not use this method because its surgical and you know the risks involved in surgery

Temporary method. This is the commonest method and it includes;
1. Natural method eg Abstinence, Knowing your ovulation period( counting your menstrual cycle, knowing the "free periods", use of beads to count the cycle like in the olden days, use of ovulation signs like increase in body temperature and mid-menstrual cycle abdominal pain aka Mittelschmerz) )
2. Withdrawal method
3. Barrier method eg use of condoms, cervical caps, spermicides
4. Use of contraceptive. Either single or combined oral contraceptive, Injectable or contraceptive patch.
5. Use of implants eg Jadelle etc
6. Use of Intrauterine devices eg copper T
7. Use of emergency contraceptives eg postinor


Note that every method of family planning has its merits and demerits. Failure rates are high for some and most comes with their own side effects. Before you choose a method you want to use make sure that you and your partner agree on it.
In all ABSTINENCE is the best.



Choose your poison/medicine wisely!

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