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Hi house,

I have dis very beautiful 4yrs old daughter..Each time I look at her,I get scared of her being sexually abused..I mean d girl is just too beautiful...
I just want to know how to protect her from bin sexually abused not just from adults but exposed kids as well.. I don't want her to start doing " mummy and daddy" play..

Help a concerned mum.


P.S : she is just a 4yr old kid

I hope you are not one of those are a narcissistic mothers who want to kill their kids with overprotection

I'm worried about you! She is 4 years old!

Did something bad happen to you at 4?

alitee:
Hi house,

I have dis very beautiful 4yrs old daughter..Each time I look at her,I get scared of her being sexually abused..I mean d girl is just too beautiful...
I just want to know how to protect her from bin sexually abused not just from adults but exposed kids as well.. I don't want her to start doing " mummy and daddy" play..

Help a concerned mum.


P.S : she is just a 4yr old kid

Let her know that she should not allow anyone to touch her private part and her entire chest region

She should not seat in any man's lap for whatever reasons

She should not collect any gift from any boy

Encourage her to tell you everything and teach her how to open up to you

Lastly never leave her alone at home with out you or another female watching over her

frozen70:
Let her know that she should not allow anyone to touch her private part and her entire chest region

She should not seat in any man's lap for whatever reasons

She should not collect any gift from any boy

Encourage her to tell you everything and teach her how to open up to you

Lastly never leave her alone at home with out you or another female watching over her

frozen70:
Let her know that she should not allow anyone to touch her private part and her entire chest region

She should not seat in any man's lap for whatever reasons

She should not collect any gift from any boy

Encourage her to tell you everything and teach her how to open up to you

Lastly never leave her alone at home with out you or another female watching over her

Thanks sist, will follow dis duely

Wahala!!!

My worry for you is when she clocks 15 to 18.

Whatever you do, don’t enroll her in all girls boarding school.

Carchoice:
Wahala!!!

My worry for you is when she clocks 15 to 18.

Whatever you do, don’t enroll her in all girls boarding school.

You are right, all boys and all girls boarding schools are not healthy for the psychosocial and psychosexual development of adolescents.

alitee:
Hi house,

I have dis very beautiful 4yrs old daughter..Each time I look at her,I get scared of her being sexually abused..I mean d girl is just too beautiful...
I just want to know how to protect her from bin sexually abused not just from adults but exposed kids as well.. I don't want her to start doing " mummy and daddy" play..

Help a concerned mum.


P.S : she is just a 4yr old kid

Good morning,I understand the fear of a parent I am one too. So when this whole rape issue was so serious in the country I was so scared and everything, infact I don't trust my male friends coming to pick my one year old daughter out.

But the honest truth we can bring this things to ourselves when it shouldn't come, I discovered it is only God that can protect this children and nobody else. There is nothing a parent can do more than prayer and total surrender of that child to God without holding back. I stopped worrying about this rape of thing because I remembered job I'm the bible who said the things he feared the most came upon him' I discovered the power of the mind,how magnetic it is,whatever you put in the mind that dominates and stores in the sub-conscious mind then it will come to pass.

I pray often than worry, I strongly believe there is a law of exemption and me and my family will obey this law and we will remain under the covering of God. Dough that doesn't stop me from monitoring my child dressing and the kind of people that come around.

frozen70:
Let her know that she should not allow anyone to touch her private part and her entire chest region

She should not seat in any man's lap for whatever reasons

She should not collect any gift from any boy

Encourage her to tell you everything and teach her how to open up to you

Lastly never leave her alone at home with out you or another female watching over her

Do you have kids? Is this wat you tell them? Do you think they practice this when you are not around.

Stop worrying and pray about it. follow some if the advises given already and try to bond very well with the child while you monitor and advice her. make comfortable around you that she can tell you anything and everything.

#Parenting no easy ooo