Hello nairalanders, please I need your advise.
There is this guy I like, but we have not been in touch now for about three months. I lost his contact so I have not been able to reach him. I have been hoping to get a call or text from him so that way we could get back in touch but nothing. The only way now to get back to him is via social media. Should I go ahead and send him a request and message him afterwards? Wouldn't it make me seem desperate and like I was stalking him?
Please candid advise especially from guys would be appreciated.
Thanks

if there is a way you could get his contact from social media, dat would be fine.
You just place a call tru to him and let him know you lost his contact but just somehow got it back

People who want what they want won’t even think nor ask this..

The dude is either in Jupiter or you’re up to something..

Thanks, but his contact is not available on SM. I will have to send a message to get back in touch with him. And I don't know how he might interprete this.

atlaz:
if there is a way you could get his contact from social media, dat would be fine.
You just place a call tru to him and let him know you lost his contact but just somehow got it back

If he's a Nairalander, then don't waste your time on those senseless men. Run from them.

lol, what could I be up to?

GeneralPula:
People who want what they want won’t even think nor ask this..

The dude is either in Jupiter or you’re up to something..

Were you guys dating before?

No, but I think it could lead to something if we kept communicating.

Zorr:
Were you guys dating before?

Zorr:
If he's a Nairalander, then don't waste your time on those senseless men. Run from them.

The people you interact with on daily basis are nairalanders, nairalanders didn't come from another planet, not every act you see people display on the internet is real

Tajbol4splend:



The people you interact with on daily basis are nairalanders, nairalanders didn't come from another planet, not every act you see people display on the internet is real

They irritates me a lot.

In the real life, you will be playing games but you will be serious on nairaland as if you would take a bold step after reading the advice in the comment section

Lol, he is not a nairalander, not really a social media person. Deep down, I believe he is a great guy, I just don't want to come off as desperate. Actually, right now, what I want is just to be in touch with him and know what's going on in his life and vice versa, jus friendship first.

Zorr:
If he's a Nairalander, then don't waste your time on those senseless men. Run from them.

AnonH:
Lol, he is not a nairalander, not really a social media person. Deep down, I believe he is a great guy, I just don't want to come off as desperate. Actually, right now, what I want is just to be in touch with him and know what's going on in his life and vice versa, jus friendship first.

Okay, I hope he has money ooo, lol. Don't go and take unnecessary risks for nothing.

You don't even know anything about me and you already assume I play games with peoples emotion.

Tajbol4splend:
In the real life, you will be playing games but you will be serious on nairaland as if you would take a bold step after reading the advice in the comment section

Zorr:
They irritates me a lot.

Those things you take seriously are just mere cruise, lots of people don't mean how they behave on SM

Lol, so you think it's a risk then?

Zorr:
Okay, I hope he has money ooo, lol. Don't go and take unnecessary risks for nothing.

Tajbol4splend:


Those things you take seriously are just mere cruise, lots of people don't mean how they behave on SM

They caused me to deactivate my first account, but I have nothing against them.

nothing wey person no go hear in this corntree,the decision is yours,so why disturbing is here..

AnonH:
You don't even know anything about me and you already assume I play games with peoples emotion.

Because most girls are like that for real, especially the young ones

Same way most guys aren't so nice. It doesn't justify categorizing all as same, especially when you know nothing about them.

Tajbol4splend:



Because most girls are like that for real, especially the young ones

Zorr:
They caused me to deactivate my first account, but I have nothing against them.

It was your choice to deactivate your account IMO

AnonH:
Lol, so you think it's a risk then?

As a girl, you do not chase men, you attract them instead. When you chase them, you may appear cheap. But since it's on social media, you can text him though, if he is interested in starting anything with you, then it's his job to lead the way.

AnonH:
Same way most guys aren't so nice. It doesn't justify categorizing all as same, especially when you know nothing about them.

Toor, if you want to make a first move, have your mind prepared for disappointment so you won't be disappointed

Zorr:
They irritates me a lot.

What a beautiful English to behold!

Zorr:
Okay, I hope he has money ooo, lol. Don't go and take unnecessary risks for nothing.

..Imagine someone calling people senseless.....Your brain is watery and it has dripped down your nose which you don't know....Go for check up...

Zorr:
If he's a Nairalander, then don't waste your time on those senseless men. Run from them.

Now just compare your reply with the OP's post, do they corrolate? This is one of your major problem, you don't pay attention to the actual matter, you just open your mouth and spill nonsense like you do with your pucccy because of hate! :/

MeekySmudger:
..Imagine someone calling people senseless.....Your brain is watery and it has dripped down your nose which you don't know....Go for check up...

guy na man be that...the real zzor is rozc.ol aka ro.zz thats a hairy balled nigga behind that account

It's a trap guys. Run away for your lives. This one na another marketing strategy so.

Hmm the question is how did you lose contact with him? Does he not have your contact again? Did you lose your number?

If you lost contact by drifting away from each other then it’s a lost cause sha.

As a guy I value when a lady reaches out to me sha, if we lost contact. So you know the type of guy he is, if he won’t value it, don’t go o.

AnonH:
Hello nairalanders, please I need your advise.
There is this guy I like, but we have not been in touch now for about three months. I lost his contact so I have not been able to reach him. I have been hoping to get a call or text from him so that way we could get back in touch but nothing. The only way now to get back to him is via social media. Should I go ahead and send him a request and message him afterwards? Wouldn't it make me seem desperate and like I was stalking him?
Please candid advise especially from guys would be appreciated.
Thanks

Reex12:
guy no dey quote that man nah ...the real zzor is rozc.ol aka ro.zz thats a hairy balled nigga behind that account

,..Thank you jhare....I never knew,..The guy no get sense at all....

Zorr:
If he's a Nairalander, then don't waste your time on those senseless men. Run from them.

Your brother is our head of table, no reason am.