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Re: Women Are Bad Marriage Advisers. by DEMZEE(m): 12:34am On Apr 22, 2021
AmazonTopaz:

Lol if only you know social issues are created by humans and can be changed by humans what do you mean that you cannot change how the world works?How does the world work boy or don't you know that how the world works changes as time progresses don't be a fool seek knowledge if you have none.Feminism has been working in Nigeria that is why women are educated,vote,have Jobs are bread winners have rights equal to men are equal before the law as men are etc.When I say you are an illiterate you will think I am lying feminsm is in Nigeria and has been working fine and will continue to.It is just like saying people who fought against slavery did not know how the world worked back then but here we are today slavery is a crime.Do you know that the fight for justice racial/equality and black lives matter is a movement like feminism which is working around the world bringing world awareness and is being implemented slowly but steadily I don't expect you to know this because you are a small minded person who cannot understand the things going on around him.

You are the one living in denial if you think feminism is not in Nigeria where women have rights in all spheres as I earlier mentioned before.It goes to show that you don't know what feminism is in the first place if in denial you mean women voting,working,driving considered equal under the law have upper hand in marriage acts etc in this country then you are truly living in denial in an alternate universe.


Nigeria is fucking patriarchal and will never b gynocentric where men will be second class citizens. Don't get it twisted.

Women serve men in Nigeria and men will always have dominance over their wives here. We are not as weak as the westernized men that allowed women to be above them.

Women are not built for leadership and cannot lead men

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Re: Women Are Bad Marriage Advisers. by DEMZEE(m): 12:35am On Apr 22, 2021
GeneralPula:
Women are bad advisers generally, not just only marriage section..

Their brain size is so small compare to men. Women hardly gives good advice. Majority of them don’t know how to think viably!

Nah wetin dem see for movie dem dey use think. Their own self mind is always twisted!

But if you’re able to meet an extra ordinary woman, it’s a blessing for the man!

Women are sexual objects

Women are emotional beings and not logical beings

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Re: Women Are Bad Marriage Advisers. by AmazonTopaz(f): 12:36am On Apr 22, 2021
Caleycashh:
WEIRDO... Own the world in your stupid mentality, I pity your husband to be, hahaha haha, marry kolo keep for house!

Yep women own the world that is why even on this forum men cannot make a conversation without talking about women it is that serious.
You have not been able to contradict my comments because I speak facts.

That said you have every right to be jealous of my hubby he always prays for me and thanks the heavens everyday that I am a light and joy to his life which sane lovely man will not appreciate a Queen like me and treat me right he is a real man not a boy who is a sexist dragging superiority with women and deceiving himself that he is better than women.I am with a man who loves me so much I wonder if I deserve it sometimes but I am lucky and grateful to the heavens and we are enjoying our home owned by the both of us. cool

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Re: Women Are Bad Marriage Advisers. by DEMZEE(m): 12:36am On Apr 22, 2021
Hintona:


Lies Chimamanda has worn clothes that show generous amounts of her breasts and Beyonce taking back Jay Z has nothing to do with Feminism.

Because Offset gives her the world and more too.


Feminism is trash and a failure

Men rule over women
Men and women are fundamentally not equal

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Re: Women Are Bad Marriage Advisers. by AmazonTopaz(f): 12:38am On Apr 22, 2021
DEMZEE:


Nigeria is fucking patriarchal and will never b gynocentric where men will be second class citizens. Don't get it twisted.

Women serve men in Nigeria and men will always have dominance over their wives here. We are not as weak as the westernized men that allowed women to be above them.

Women are not built for leadership and cannot lead men

Clown I remember you,don't mention me again.

You are not the clown I was mentioning, I did not bother to read your comments because you can only exercise your stupidity on nairaland and will log off to face reality where you cannot spill out your vile trash unless you are a mad person

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Re: Women Are Bad Marriage Advisers. by DEMZEE(m): 12:39am On Apr 22, 2021
dominique:
So men are the better advisers abi? All those ones know is submission, that one na advice?

Any woman who cannot submit to her husband can never love and respect him. U can't have two kings in a palace

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Re: Women Are Bad Marriage Advisers. by DEMZEE(m): 12:42am On Apr 22, 2021
AmazonTopaz:


Clown I remember you,don't mention me again.

You are not the clown I was mentioning, I did not bother to read your comments because you can only exercise your stupidity on nairaland and will log off to face reality where you cannot spill out your vile trash unless you are a mad person

The guy u are mentioning is giving you facts.

Feminism is a total failure, we all can see the evidence from the western societies especially how relationships and the marriage institution is declining. But because u are stupid and idiotic u still believe in egalitarian equalism. It shows women are fundamentally illogical beings and will prioritize emotions over facts.

Men and women are fundamentally not equal

50 years of feminism can't erase centuries of biology evolution bitch!

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Re: Women Are Bad Marriage Advisers. by DEMZEE(m): 12:45am On Apr 22, 2021
cococandy:
Yet when men give marriage advice to other men, they never preach the kumbaya you expect women to preach.

Their one stop sentence is to “send her back to father’s house”. Almost without fail, they never advice other men to stan bull shyt. That’s not breaking the home?

Very very funny


Promiscuous women repulse men

If she's a hoe definitely we kick her to the streets and her father's house

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Re: Women Are Bad Marriage Advisers. by AmazonTopaz(f): 12:46am On Apr 22, 2021
DEMZEE:


[s]The guy u are mentioning is giving you facts.

Feminism is a total failure, we all can see the evidence from the western societies especially how relationships and the marriage institution is declining. But because u are stupid and idiotic u still believe in egalitarian equalism. It shows women are fundamentally illogical beings and will prioritize emotions over facts.

Men and women are fundamentally not equal

50 years of feminism can't erase centuries of biology evolution bitch[/s]!


I don't engage fools and I don't waste my time reading your post I always ignore it and surf through.Stop mentioning me I don't care about your stupid opinion which you cannot give outside nairaland I was not talking to you get lost and I won't reply you again.I don't exchange or mention foolish clowns like you.Get lost you are of no importance go and finish passing Jamb

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Re: Women Are Bad Marriage Advisers. by DEMZEE(m): 12:48am On Apr 22, 2021
AmazonTopaz:



I don't engage fools and I don't waste my time reading your post I always ignore it and surf through.Stop mentioning me I don't care about your stupid opinion which you cannot give outside nairaland I was not talking to you get lost and I won't reply you again.I don't exchange or mention foolish clowns like you

Sure u will rather exchange with someone who doesn't have a hard stance against that demon called feminism. Lolzzz

I understand you are kuku a waste of estrogens to debate with. U can't think so I get u vagina person!

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Re: Women Are Bad Marriage Advisers. by DEMZEE(m): 12:53am On Apr 22, 2021
AmazonTopaz:


Yep women own the world that is why even on this forum men cannot make a conversation without talking about women it is that serious.
You have not been able to contradict my comments because I speak facts.

That said you have every right to be jealous of my hubby he always prays for me and thanks the heavens everyday that I am a light and joy to his life which sane lovely man will not appreciate a Queen like me and treat me right he is a real man not a boy who is a sexist dragging superiority with women and deceiving himself that he is better than women.I am with a man who loves me so much I wonder if I deserve it sometimes but I am lucky and grateful to the heavens and we are enjoying our home owned by the both of us. cool

Wow Wat a weak husband u have, I m very sure u people are into swinging. Wat m I saying sef, u people are even doing open marriage yuuuccckkk! . I'm fucking sure u are not attracted to and aroused by ur husband. From ur comment, it shows he lacks masculine essence and u are the husband of the house while he's ur wife. I wonder how long ur marriage will last. I'm also sure u are cheating on him and he knows and can't do anything about it.

A queen can never make a king!

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Re: Women Are Bad Marriage Advisers. by DEMZEE(m): 12:59am On Apr 22, 2021
Rushna27:
Dis is a very wrong claim cos as it is in women so it is with men... I bet u ave not met with men dat gives advice just to later be with d woman...... life is not a one way traffic....... u met wit few advisers doesn't give d right to generalize all women.........

Women are not built to handle masculine problems.

Women are the worst set of people to receive dating or relationship advice from.

Women are sexual objects and will always find ways to use their sexuality to leverage a man's compliance. Women are professional resources extractors.

Women don't even know what they are aroused to because Wat that are aroused to are things that are not "politically correct".

Wat attracts women is different from what makes them wet fellas!

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Re: Women Are Bad Marriage Advisers. by CHoccolaTE: 1:03am On Apr 22, 2021
Lol, someone wrote that " Its a man's world that is why the world is a terrible place to be in"
That's my best statement in this thread grin


Useless violent and rapist criminal gender, all they know is how to run women down. Especially men of the black race, they are just useless thrash.

When you tell them they are useless they will started talking about inventions of white men.

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Re: Women Are Bad Marriage Advisers. by Kingcalls: 1:46am On Apr 22, 2021
DEMZEE:


Wow Wat a weak husband u have, I m very sure u people are into swinging. Wat m I saying sef, u people are even doing open marriage yuuuccckkk! . I'm fucking sure u are not attracted to and aroused by ur husband. From ur comment, it shows he lacks masculine essence and u are the husband of the house while he's ur wife. I wonder how long ur marriage will last. I'm also sure u are cheating on him and he knows and can't do anything about it.

A queen can never make a king!


Leave the b1tch alone...u know say them no fit get sense... they act like over grown toddlers
Re: Women Are Bad Marriage Advisers. by Nobody: 1:48am On Apr 22, 2021
Women are naturally stupid except for very few of them.

They can never rationalize a situation to understand why things happen the way they do. The next thing, they go emotional and start crying and seeking sympathy, the fanatics among them will start talking about one spirit or demon.

Even your mother can destroy your marital life if you take relationship advice from her. Lesson learnt.
Re: Women Are Bad Marriage Advisers. by DEMZEE(m): 1:49am On Apr 22, 2021
Kingcalls:


Leave the b1tch alone...u know say them no fit get sense... they act like over grown toddlers

I have left that useless estrogeneous bitch, she's void of logic and her ovulation cycle makes her illogical

Such an overgrown worthless toddler
Re: Women Are Bad Marriage Advisers. by DEMZEE(m): 1:53am On Apr 22, 2021
CHoccolaTE:
Lol, someone wrote that " Its a man's world that is why the world is a terrible place to be in"
That's my best statement in this thread grin


Useless violent and rapist criminal gender, all they know is how to run women down. Especially men of the black race, they are just useless thrash.

When you tell them they are useless they will started talking about inventions of white men.

And yet women will still come and suck our violent and rapist dicks.

U have such a low IQ to the extent that u are not even proud of ur race and ur skin color. No wonder the democrats are using u people as victims tuehhhhhhh. U always amaze me with ur rationalizations and stupidity sha.

U are part of the people that proves that blacks have the lowest IQ amongst all the races in the world.

Pathetic!

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Re: Women Are Bad Marriage Advisers. by treasurenat(m): 2:19am On Apr 22, 2021
Women and ladies want opposite sex to be saying positive things to them even they are killing person ,when salt is too much in soup.you can keep a woman in your house for life by always saying good things about her every time whenever she did bad things.
Immediately you start saying the truth to her.that woman will not like you and she won't last in your house
Deceit is their food just like devil is the father of liers
Remember Samson killed Lions and snake but woman killed Samson

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Re: Women Are Bad Marriage Advisers. by nick50(m): 4:10am On Apr 22, 2021
U can't go against the word of God n succeed. That's why people like me doesn't fancy all these new generation churches that have women as thier pastor/GO

Re: Women Are Bad Marriage Advisers. by femi4: 4:11am On Apr 22, 2021
Pochettino:
We women are heartless
Not all women.

Most marriage committees and counselors are dominated by women and some of these institutions have been existing for years with results. They must be doing something right

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Re: Women Are Bad Marriage Advisers. by Shokoloko(f): 4:50am On Apr 22, 2021
DEMZEE:


Women are sexual objects

Women are emotional beings and not logical beings

The bible does not agree that women are sexual objects, you cannot even lust after a female that isn't your wife. undecided

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Re: Women Are Bad Marriage Advisers. by CHoccolaTE: 4:54am On Apr 22, 2021
DEMZEE:


And yet women will still come and suck our violent and rapist dicks.

U have such a low IQ to the extent that u are not even proud of ur race and ur skin color. No wonder the democrats are using u people as victims tuehhhhhhh. U always amaze me with ur rationalizations and stupidity sha.

U are part of the people that proves that blacks have the lowest IQ amongst all the races in the world.

Pathetic!

I am very glad my comment pained you into writing profanities.

Good

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Re: Women Are Bad Marriage Advisers. by dominique(f): 4:54am On Apr 22, 2021
DEMZEE:


Any woman who cannot submit to her husband can never love and respect him. U can't have two kings in a palace

You people and your obsession with submission. How many of you give the love that comes with this submission? A woman is being opressed, abused, exploited etc in marriage. The only advice you can give her is to continue being submissive. What other advice does an average Nigerian man give a troubled wife that makes them think they're the better advisers?

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Re: Women Are Bad Marriage Advisers. by Shokoloko(f): 4:56am On Apr 22, 2021
Pochettino:
We women are heartless

Change the circle of females you know.
I only befriend wise, powerful, and insightful women. The job I have today, female friend. The business I run today, female friend. My real estate purchases, female friend. My child's recovery, female friend. Sorting out my marriage issues, female friend. 90% of my certifications, female study groups. Delving into stock market, female friend.

Shun those heartless women and look for sensible acquaintances.

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Re: Women Are Bad Marriage Advisers. by dominique(f): 5:14am On Apr 22, 2021
DEMZEE:


Women are sexual objects

Women are emotional beings and not logical beings

With all your logical thinking, what positive contribution has the average black man made to humanity? It can't possibly be up to 0.0001%. Your biggest achievement in life is how well you control women. Thank God more women are waking up to reality that they're better off without the dogs they married and they're taking control of their lives and happiness. They are starting to realize how well they will live without their oppressive husbands, they move on and live fine and that bothers you like hell. All your outbursts and bitterness against women is because you are losing control of your major bragging rights.

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Re: Women Are Bad Marriage Advisers. by Ladycewhy(f): 5:48am On Apr 22, 2021
lol


Another comic BS.Its another one!.



So let me guess, men are better at giving marital advice? or let me strike close to home and be very specific, Nigerian men are better at giving marital advice?



The same ones known to be greatly influenced by misogyny or another breed that we don't know of?


The same ones known to be stuck with the traditions of their brown teethed snuff sniffing ancestors or another breed?


The same "headship" men who feel the need to tame and control in their house? or another breed?


I have been to marriage seminars and I could see the mixture of misogyny and religious brainwashing oozing through the male speakers ,it was so irking.

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Re: Women Are Bad Marriage Advisers. by Ladycewhy(f): 5:55am On Apr 22, 2021
Matheusmartin:

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99% of the problems in this country are created by men..
Somehow, we still pinch it on the women..
Don't you know that if it were possible these boys here will blame women for coronavirus ,lol

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Re: Women Are Bad Marriage Advisers. by Burgerlomo: 6:14am On Apr 22, 2021
Arsenate:
This crack me up real good; some of us have always known this. Don't listen to women when it comes to relationship and marriage issues. I don't care if she has a PhD in sociology or psychology or speaks fancy English like Chimamanda.

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Re: Women Are Bad Marriage Advisers. by Rushna27(f): 7:06am On Apr 22, 2021
DEMZEE:


Women are not built to handle masculine problems.

Women are the worst set of people to receive dating or relationship advice from.

Women are sexual objects and will always find ways to use their sexuality to leverage a man's compliance. Women are professional resources extractors.

Women don't even know what they are aroused to because Wat that are aroused to are things that are not "politically correct".

Wat attracts women is different from what makes them wet fellas!
no tym to waste for pple like u.... bless God say na dat same woman born u and na she u go still marry...... ur personal assumption is ur personal problem....
Re: Women Are Bad Marriage Advisers. by Oyiboman69: 7:22am On Apr 22, 2021
JovialJune:
Look at this Op, you brought your youtube link for us to watch just to add to your pocket, used an enticing topic that can tigger emotional reactions, biasness, gender insults, and so on, are you okay?

So because few notable women and others missed it in their advices, means women generally is not to be listened to for advice? Who should we then take advice from? Men? Air? Animals? Who says or authorised a gender as not fit to advice anyone or their fellows? You? Or those who will gloat/already gloating on your topic/thread? Who authorised a paricular gender/species fit to advice? You? Is anyone/human perfect? Are there not wrong/right advices that comes from both genders?

I do not understand the need for some people to paint the female gender bad, in the world of old and now, 99% of men who are world leaders, have/are destroying the world as it is right now, case in point the senile being in this country, silently destroying what is left of naija, but no, y'all have to concern yourselves of anything women, men that have been giving advices from the time of old when we were not allowed to voice out, we have seen the outcome in the society, family, and kids, look how nice and glorious naija is o.....nonsense.

All of you will as usual, vent, then log out and face your daily lives, las las.
Just for you to listen and understand... It has been a very difficult thing for you....

Re: Women Are Bad Marriage Advisers. by Nobody: 7:42am On Apr 22, 2021
@OP you are right in some instances, but it goes for both genders but the scenarios you pointed out are more common with Women.

I have an experience before I got married, then I was a struggling guy working as a contract staff in MTN. There was a girl I wanted to ask out on a relationship hoping then that it would lead to marriage. This girl was treating me badly and making mockery of me then and her friends were urging her on. Do you know the surprising thing one of her friends then a pregnant married woman in her front would be urging her to not look at me that I no reach am and that I am a borderline stalker that my love for her is somehow, but would come to me in private to borrow her money and she would be bad mouthing her friend that she doesn't have sense that here is a guy who really cares for her and she is doing the guy anyhow.

Fast forward when things improved for me and I moved on to a far better job and got married, this babe started avoiding me out of shame. The thing is that mostly among women especially women of the same age bracket, they are the worst people to turn to for advice.

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Re: Women Are Bad Marriage Advisers. by DEMZEE(m): 7:55am On Apr 22, 2021
dominique:


With all your logical thinking, what positive contribution has the average black man made to humanity? It can't possibly be up to 0.0001%. Your biggest achievement in life is how well you control women. Thank God more women are waking up to reality that they're better off without the dogs they married and they're taking control of their lives and happiness. They are starting to realize how well they will live without their oppressive husbands, they move on and live fine and that bothers you like hell. All your outbursts and bitterness against women is because you are losing control of your major bragging rights.

LMAO!!!

As long as we have the north and Islam, Nigeria will never b gynocentric

Nigerian men will rule and exert dominance over their wife or wives

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