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Re: When Is The Best Period To Introduce A Child To Sex Education And How? by CNiro: 7:19pm On Apr 22, 2021
Catfishing:
5

better still, let ur wife do the bathing......
@ 3yrs preferably.
Re: When Is The Best Period To Introduce A Child To Sex Education And How? by Akasammyoka: 7:19pm On Apr 22, 2021
Had mine at the age of 12 but not from my parents. They made it look like taboo to me. But dont know if it was really needed though.
Re: When Is The Best Period To Introduce A Child To Sex Education And How? by GeneralPula: 7:20pm On Apr 22, 2021
The way I’ll raise my boys would be diff from girls..

To my unborn kid.. From your age till you reach 30 years, the only thing you’ll ever need a woman for is to cure your sexual urges. You do not need them for anything else. Don’t ever fvck raw cuz the puccy is filled with diseases..

If you try to engage them in anything else(Love) more than just to fvck, you’ll fail as it will always end in tears!
95% of men who try to love in our generation fell into premium tears!

Son..And after 30years?
Me...You’ll already have experience and you’ll surely know what’s best for yourself!

I won’t really feel bothered much about a female kid cuz no matter what you tell her, one boy for one corner will surely get her brainwashed - they’ll start from pressing breast and before you know it, they’ll remove pant!

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Re: When Is The Best Period To Introduce A Child To Sex Education And How? by meobizy(f): 7:20pm On Apr 22, 2021
I remember having mine in school at age 12. The teacher was very robotic in teaching it, but it was better than nothing. I’m almost 40 and still waiting for my parents to give theirs. Apparently it’s only “go and get married” or “where is your significant other?” I hear from them constantly. Humans are different so the required ages vary. I like the recommendation of 9 years old for both sexes. I know boys start having sexual inclinations at 12 so one can wait a little longer in their case.
Re: When Is The Best Period To Introduce A Child To Sex Education And How? by adekS1(m): 7:20pm On Apr 22, 2021
Don't be deceive,its not 8yrs o..
Some 8yrs self don dey do the do..

As soon the child understand done things preferably 5yrs.

For this sex education even 6months lateness may be too late
Re: When Is The Best Period To Introduce A Child To Sex Education And How? by Capeverde: 7:21pm On Apr 22, 2021
10years is my ideal time

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Re: When Is The Best Period To Introduce A Child To Sex Education And How? by mach7(m): 7:21pm On Apr 22, 2021
Jestin:
Please I also need your opinion on this guys...at what age should you stop bathing your female kids as a father ?
From age 3 upwards, let the mother or a matured female take charge.
Re: When Is The Best Period To Introduce A Child To Sex Education And How? by YelloweWest: 7:22pm On Apr 22, 2021
Start from 2 years. Let the child know their private parts means nobody expect giving them a bath touches them there.
Re: When Is The Best Period To Introduce A Child To Sex Education And How? by EvilNeedle(m): 7:23pm On Apr 22, 2021
fati2001:
as early as possible.



between the age of 8.


.reasons why I said 8 is because of the Main factors.
1. SOCIAL MEDIA
2. TELEVISION
3. FILMS .INCLUDING CARTOONS
4. BOOKS, MAGAZINES E. T. C
5. FRIENDS AND REST .

An 8 year old child has no business on social media or owning a phone capable of logging into social media. The parents are supposed to control that access. Just saying.

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Re: When Is The Best Period To Introduce A Child To Sex Education And How? by Goldbw122(m): 7:24pm On Apr 22, 2021
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Re: When Is The Best Period To Introduce A Child To Sex Education And How? by myrrtle(m): 7:25pm On Apr 22, 2021
TheUndercover:
When is the best period to introduce a male or female child to sex education and how without making it seem too early or too late?

The world is rapidly changing mostly in a negative way. If you don't teach your child(ren), the society will teach them and in most cases in a destructive way.

Any advice?
Age 7. But gradual education and then progress as they older
Re: When Is The Best Period To Introduce A Child To Sex Education And How? by Auraby(f): 7:26pm On Apr 22, 2021
As soon as they can recognize you as the mother or father. Children of nowadays are so smart. Teach them the correct name of each sensitive part. Teach them never to play with it or allow anybody to play or touch it. Some parent like using slang for each part, no no tell them the correct names. Teach them to respond sharply like 'stop that' or i will tell my mum or dad, to anyone that touches them inappropriately. As they are growing up continue to teach them and be blunt. Don't ever shy away from any topic.
It was my dad that taught me sex Education. He never shy away from it and it helped me a lot while growing up. Although my mum taught me too but I was more closer to my dad. When I saw my menses for the first time, it was my dad I ran to, and he took me to my mum, and I was lectured on how to take care of myself. Parents should learn to be free with their children. The world out there is not normal. So crazy!

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Re: When Is The Best Period To Introduce A Child To Sex Education And How? by Akasammyoka: 7:27pm On Apr 22, 2021
Jestin:
Please I also need your opinion on this guys...at what age should you stop bathing your female kids as a father ?
Where is the mother? it is not advisable for a man to bath his daughter. At least scary things are happening this days
Re: When Is The Best Period To Introduce A Child To Sex Education And How? by ayenale1(m): 7:28pm On Apr 22, 2021
What is sex education in the first place?you will be surprised before you even say jack ur teenager will sit u down and educate u...my best sec education is the method our grandma used i.e. threaten the boy or girl that if anyone touch u na belle be that o they will leave with that fear but a case where u sit a child down then start telling him or her sexual stories...children of nowadays will practicslize everything u say and that can be a doom...only God can help raise a child. Mommy and daddy play among infants start from sex education they heard from their parents but when you threaten them they live with that fear till they mature but like i said only Jah helps...

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Re: When Is The Best Period To Introduce A Child To Sex Education And How? by barikay: 7:29pm On Apr 22, 2021
Hmmmm, parent pls teach your children.This is part of Jss3 UBE scheme. 13-15yrs that's when we start teaching them in sch, but I think it late at that age

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Re: When Is The Best Period To Introduce A Child To Sex Education And How? by Offpoint1: 7:29pm On Apr 22, 2021
See reasons why you should not tell them.

There's a site name "darkmic---(I ommited the last 3 letters because reading only the name alone is chanting a spell" this is a very dangerous site no human should ever visit. There are dangerous, evill and worse dark FORCES within this universe and outside this universe and how to invoke them on that site. This site is so dangerous it has it's own server.



Picture this: if I should drop the site name right now with all the warnings I wrote up there, there will be over thousands of people searching for it on Google.....

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Re: When Is The Best Period To Introduce A Child To Sex Education And How? by Auraby(f): 7:31pm On Apr 22, 2021
Slawomiir2:
Damn niggar!
i can sight Snr Slawormiir down here.

8yrs is d perfect age cos at dat age dey already have an idea of wat sex education means, if u re hiding it from dem or pretending as if u don't know... U RE SERIOUSLY ON UR OWN.


our 8yrs girl was watching d TRAIN by Mike Bamiloye.... D proposal scene and she was just smiling sheepishly grin grin
na my sister ask her say shey she know wetin dem dey do, and she said YES very loud and i was wowed shocked


See wat dis person dat won't mind his biz told me sometimes ago... i just laughed cos
1. dis weed niggar and i have never met!
2. We ave different views, i just like dat “Damn Niggar grin grin” just like i love “our darling daddy” and every other regular user here smiley Ogbeni I disagree with you. eight years is too late. Do you know that some six years are already sexually active?

@ Slawormiir
Re: When Is The Best Period To Introduce A Child To Sex Education And How? by cococandy(f): 7:31pm On Apr 22, 2021
Ikechi5:
It should be a gradual process which should become more detailed as they get older.
this post
Re: When Is The Best Period To Introduce A Child To Sex Education And How? by Jestin: 7:32pm On Apr 22, 2021
Catfishing:
5

better still, let ur wife do the bathing......

I'll rather let my wife bath my lil gals than me bathing them......

I'll bath my boy till he is 10....but my gal; NO!
I have no issue with the boy child but I am concerned abt the female kids. U kn sometimes ur wife is exhausted after some house chores and u just wanna assist her to bath them after sch runs
Re: When Is The Best Period To Introduce A Child To Sex Education And How? by Nobody: 7:33pm On Apr 22, 2021
fati2001:
as early as possible.


between the age of 8.

.reasons why I said 8 is because of the Main factors. 1. SOCIAL MEDIA 2. TELEVISION 3. FILMS .INCLUDING CARTOONS 4. BOOKS, MAGAZINES E. T. C 5. FRIENDS AND REST .
you are right fati2001
Re: When Is The Best Period To Introduce A Child To Sex Education And How? by cococandy(f): 7:33pm On Apr 22, 2021
And this.
Apt



Plus no euphemisms for sexual reproductive parts of the body.
Romanoff:
As early as they can talk.

Teach them about Private and Public part.

Private parts are parts no one must touch. They are lips, thighs, vagina/penis, anus etc.

They shouldn't touch them or try to out anything inside


If any one touches it or tries to put anything inside, scream.

No uncle or aunty or cousin or friend should touch you there. If they touch you there, tell mummy or daddy, mummy and daddy will not die, mummy and daddy will not beat you, mummy and daddy will not stop loving you, mummy and daddy will believe you.

These are the lies pedophiles use to threaten kids to stay quiet.
Re: When Is The Best Period To Introduce A Child To Sex Education And How? by tunary(m): 7:34pm On Apr 22, 2021
Age doesn't matter, it depends on how matured they are as kids, it depends on their understanding, their ability to communicate and comprehend things.

You as a mother should know when they are due for sex education. age doesn't matter at all
Re: When Is The Best Period To Introduce A Child To Sex Education And How? by Auraby(f): 7:34pm On Apr 22, 2021
Jestin:
Please I also need your opinion on this guys...at what age should you stop bathing your female kids as a father ?
Why you go even bath your daughter in the first place? What about the mum? Stop that my friend. If you wanna help your wife, bath only the boys!
Re: When Is The Best Period To Introduce A Child To Sex Education And How? by ayenale1(m): 7:38pm On Apr 22, 2021
You taught ur daughter at age 7 sexual education without any iota of FEAR in it and she got deflowered at age 10 or u caught her being carressed by a boy, what is the essence of the sexual eduaction. The truth is these children have been touching themselves from the closet but when start the sermon they looked at you like wetin this man/woman dey talk...
Re: When Is The Best Period To Introduce A Child To Sex Education And How? by Akasammyoka: 7:38pm On Apr 22, 2021
ayenale1:
What is sex education in the first place?you will be surprised before you even say jack ur teenager will sit u down and educate u...my best sec education is the method our grandma used i.e. threaten the boy or girl that if anyone touch u na belle be that o they will leave with that fear but a case where u sit a child down then start telling him or her sexual stories...children of nowadays will practicslize everything u say and that can be a doom...only God can help raise a child. Mommy and daddy play among infants start from sex education they heard from their parents but when you threaten them they live with that fear till they mature but like i said only Jah helps...


This reminds of the one of the funniest joke i ever read about a teacher, 5 years esther and 6 years john in nursery three class
Re: When Is The Best Period To Introduce A Child To Sex Education And How? by Cutehector(m): 7:41pm On Apr 22, 2021
I knew about toto and dick when i was in primary school.
Re: When Is The Best Period To Introduce A Child To Sex Education And How? by SweetDipBenny(m): 7:41pm On Apr 22, 2021
Start teaching dem immediately der born
Re: When Is The Best Period To Introduce A Child To Sex Education And How? by Fanuchi007: 7:45pm On Apr 22, 2021
Na moment u observe ur child trying to coordinate or package in d present of d opposite sex; know sai food don done oh. Na to teach d pikin to wash hand b4 im chop oh

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