Kobojunkiee:

You, in transmitting this to others as if right, also commit sin against God in your ignorance

felixzo1:
they will remain in your house hold if the choose and you will provide for them, but you will not have sexual relationship with the 2.you will only choose one and marry officially in the church, only the one married in the church is recognized as your wife. before officially being wedded in the church what your were doing with the 3 was fornication .only the wedding in church is legal by church tradition

felixzo1:
you are allowed to wed only one woman in Church, and only church wedding is recognized as legal. this is a case of fornication not Mardi

livingchrist:
If your wives have children for you, you don't need to send them away empty handed.
I believe your first wife is your legal wife, keep her but you can also take care of your other wives and children.

gaddafe:

The three wives are yours keep them. If you chase them away who do expect to get married to them. King David was a man after Gods heart and he had many wives and many girlfriends (concubines). Initially the Christian faith does not bother about wedding ceremony and how many wives you marry as long as the bride was not stolen or kidnapped. All these stuff started in the 17th or 18th century. Please enjoy your life you have not committed any sin. As long as they were duly married

Dtruthspeaker:


I am not Fighting at all, I am just going about it in a Matter of Fact way.

"Consent is The Law"! You willfully took them up and made promises to them (Contract), they have altered their Status and become liable because of the marriage eg Death from Adultery! Therefore, you bound them and they are bound to you, thus, you can not put any of them away without a reasonable good cause.

Case in point Jacob, David and the Silence, not Absence of The Law Forbidding more than one wife!

You have already broken the first Law (He made them male and female) but you need not continue breaking more Laws eg Promise/Covenant/Contract Breakers,of which the Mercy and Grace of God is that we should STOP BREAKING LAWS, For We Have Broken Them In Our Times Past, but it must not continue.

SO I CLEARLY SAY, DO NOT PUT THEM AWAY!

Kobojunkiee:
Where do you get these your beliefs from cause it is obviously not according to God's own Word to you.

Married in the church is recognized by whom, God? Where do you have God telling you this?

You will not have sexual relationships with your own wife because of doctrines and traditions that have nothing to do with God and this somehow ends up being for God?

felixzo1:
there are 3 forms of marriage, custom, court and church. but the church only recognises marriage held in the church as bidding for a born again Christian,any Union held outside this is not called marriage by the Church.

Princewell2012:


Hmm this is deep. God bless you.


so the right answer is to keep the three of them?.

I will meditate on these. Thanks.

Righteousness2:
From the Scriptures which is our Guide, what is Permitted by GOD Almighty the institutor of Marriage is one man one wife.
See Matthew 19:4-9.
Your rightful wife is the first woman you Legally got married to. Every other woman is a Husband snatcher , Home breaker, Home Shatterer and Adulterer.

As long as the First woman you got married to is alive, she is your wife.
Now that you are Saved, you have to call them together, Probably with their parents or family representatives. You let them know that based on your Repentance and belief in God's word, you want to make things right.

You settle 2nd , 3rd, 4th and so on. You send them to their home of their Parents. The kids are your kids so they remain under your care.

The first woman you married is your wife.

Pleasing GOD is the most important thing to do in all our decisions if Making Heaven means anything to you

Princewell2012:


I sighted you when you just peeped and disappear, I was trying to call you back, thank God you are back. So you mean I should sent the remaining two away, is it not wickedness, since they did not offend me and they were legally married. Will God be happy with that decision? if you are in my shoes can you send them away? what happened to their children? If anyone marry them did he not commit adultery according to the word of God?

Thank you.

felixzo1:
legally married in Church or where. only church wedding is legal for a born again, if you are only married by customary law , you are not married, you can not marry more than 1 woman by court wedding. which form of legal wedding are you talking about

Righteousness2:
From the Scriptures which is our Guide, what is Permitted by GOD Almighty the institutor of Marriage is one man one wife.
See Matthew 19:4-9.
Your rightful wife is the first woman you Legally got married to. Every other woman is a Husband snatcher , Home breaker, Home Shatterer and Adulterer.

As long as the First woman you got married to is alive, she is your wife.
Now that you are Saved, you have to call them together, Probably with their parents or family representatives. You let them know that based on your Repentance and belief in God's word, you want to make things right.

You settle 2nd , 3rd, 4th and so on. You send them to their home of their Parents. The kids are your kids so they remain under your care.

The first woman you married is your wife.

Pleasing GOD is the most important thing to do in all our decisions if Making Heaven means anything to you

Kobojunkiee:
I believe God draws the line at concubines though

felixzo1:
legally married in Church or where. only church wedding is legal for a born again, if you are only married by customary law , you are not married, you can not marry more than 1 woman by court wedding. which form of legal wedding are you talking about

gaddafe:



All the wives that David and Solomon married, were the wedding ceremony in the church? And I want you to answer this last one . Do you think David is going to hell fire considering he married many wives?

felixzo1:
legally married in Church or where. only church wedding is legal for a born again, if you are only married by customary law , you are not married, you can not marry more than 1 woman by court wedding. which form of legal wedding are you talking about

felixzo1:
I am not God to judge. his ways are different from the ways of men. he fed the Israelites in the desert with man, but does not do same now. that does not mean he is not the same God

Princewell2012:


I sighted you when you just peeped and disappear, I was trying to call you back, thank God you are back. So you mean I should sent the remaining two away, is it not wickedness, since they did not offend me and they were legally married. Will God be happy with that decision? if you are in my shoes can you send them away? what happened to their children? If anyone marry them did he not commit adultery according to the word of God?

Thank you.

gaddafe:

and yet the man that was after his heart had many of them. Did you read any part where it states that God was angry with any of those Kings because they had many concubines? The reason why concubines is wrong today is because it's against the African culture

felixzo1:
legally married in Church or where. only church wedding is legal for a born again, if you are only married by customary law , you are not married, you can not marry more than 1 woman by court wedding. which form of legal wedding are you talking about

Princewell2012:


So you mean a woman I paid her bride prize is not legally married unless I married or get wedded in the church?

Righteousness2:

You cannot be in sin and you Please GOD.
you are Displeasing GOD in sin.
You need to do the right thing to please GOD

Eternal Life is a Personal Race. Run your race. Take every Hinderances away.

They are not your wives . They were only your son Partners. so they are free to marry their own husbands..

felixzo1:
you are not married, was there any legal documents to this effect? court marriage certificate or church wedding certificate for the 3 women. if not you are not legally married.

Princewell2012:


hmm don't you think it is a very hard decision to take? sending away two women you rightfully and properly married? Righteousness is Holy Ghost comfortable with this your suggestion, or you are just speaking from your mind. This is a very serious issue. I want you to pray about it and be very sure of what you re saying, because this is a public forum. So that we wouldn't be misleading others.

Princewell2012:
Happy Sunday brethren.
Let me go straight to the point.

If I have three wives when am still in the world and the 3 of them are legally and fully married.
All of them have children 6,4, and 2 children respectfully.

And today am now a born again.
And the word of God only permit only wife.
.so in this case what do I do.

1 should I sent two of them away and stick with only one.
2 should I sent the three of them away.

3. or should I keep the three of them?
what should one do in this condition?
Somebody asked me this question and I don't know what to reply him.

Please who can give us a reasonable answer biblically?

I will be very happy if it can be pushed to the front page. God bless you all.

Princewell2012:
Hmm I think am more hooked in between. Righteousness2 said I should send the three of them away, that they are not my wife, and onother person suggested that I should keep the three of them since they are properly married. I think I need the Holy Spirit to help me out to get things right. mind you am not the person in particular someone brought it up to me to address.

felixzo1:
they will remain in your house hold if the choose and you will provide for them, but you will not have sexual relationship with the 2.you will only choose one and marry officially in the church, only the one married in the church is recognized as your wife. before officially being wedded in the church what your were doing with the 3 was fornication .only the wedding in church is legal by church tradition

Kobojunkiee:
God declared that David was a man after His heart even before David was anointed King as a youth. That does not then imply that all that David did throughout the rest of his life was pleasing in the sight of God, nor does it mean that God changed his mind about sexual sins as defined in the old Covenant.

God never made special laws for Kings so be sure that David will be judged by the Old Covenant, just as everyone of His people before and after Him. That God did not complain or send a prophet to him for every sin he committed even as king does not imply that God changed His mind about sin.

As for concubines being against African culture, this is the first I have heard of that.

Praxis758:

I'm a bible teacher so I understand what I'm saying. The only embargo on you is that you can't go ahead and marry the 4th wife under andy guise.

And bible does not encourage people who are in your category (multiple wives) to hold any office in the church. This is neither punishment, stereotyping nor victimizing, but a scriptural injuction to set standard and discipline for others in the church.