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Advise! Advise!! Advise!!! by Akanaz(op): 12:09pm On May 03, 2021
Good afternoon fellow Nairalnders! Please guys I need your advice as regards somewhat private matter. As a result, I'll keep everything concise but without withholding necessary information.

I'm an orphan from a polygamous family who lives with his step mom, step siblings and siblings. We live together in our father's house after he passed away.

Growing up, people always praise me for whatever I do probably because I do it so well and received unconditional love from them. And sometimes even pray for me for my attitude.

Fast forward to the event that prompted this topic. My step mom's attitude seems choking and annoying. She has positioned every of her children strategically to watch whatever I do and start doing the same.

They attend similar school I graduated from, offer the same course, watch my favourite programs and even currently learning my handiwork.

Here's the most annoying part, when I was struggling, I felt OK this is probably happening to me because I'm not close to God and because of my sin ( I'm keeping that private ) so I became more devout. I'm a Muslim, so I started observing solat, reciting the Quran and sometimes memorises it. When she found about this, she also instructed her children to start going to Arabic class even though they had already graduated from one.

So my question is, what could have been her real reason for doing that? And what do I do concerning the situation?
Re: Advise! Advise!! Advise!!! by Raymond0008(m): 12:13pm On May 03, 2021
If you are buoyant enough, leave their house and go in ghost mood, that little sin is Glevel, when next you cash out, commot der.
Re: Advise! Advise!! Advise!!! by Akanaz(op): 12:22pm On May 03, 2021
Raymond0008:
If you are buoyant enough, leave their house and go in ghost mood, that little sin is Glevel, when next you cash out, commot der.
Thank you!
Re: Advise! Advise!! Advise!!! by Bigdik70inch2(m):
Akanaz:
Thank you!
Well..........ain't u happy u ahead them already..........u jux continue being the pace setter while they follow blindly.........
Re: Advise! Advise!! Advise!!! by Wujio: 5:28pm On Oct 15, 2023
Akanaz:
Good afternoon fellow Nairalnders! Please guys I need your advice as regards somewhat private matter. As a result, I'll keep everything concise but without withholding necessary information.

I'm an orphan from a polygamous family who lives with his step mom, step siblings and siblings. We live together in our father's house after he passed away.

Growing up, people always praise me for whatever I do probably because I do it so well and received unconditional love from them. And sometimes even pray for me for my attitude.

Fast forward to the event that prompted this topic. My step mom's attitude seems choking and annoying. She has positioned every of her children strategically to watch whatever I do and start doing the same.

They attend similar school I graduated from, offer the same course, watch my favourite programs and even currently learning my handiwork.

Here's the most annoying part, when I was struggling, I felt OK this is probably happening to me because I'm not close to God and because of my sin ( I'm keeping that private ) so I became more devout. I'm a Muslim, so I started observing solat, reciting the Quran and sometimes memorises it. When she found about this, she also instructed her children to start going to Arabic class even though they had already graduated from one.

So my question is, what could have been her real reason for doing that? And what do I do concerning the situation?
Are you still alive !?
Re: Advise! Advise!! Advise!!! by Akanaz(op): 3:17pm On Oct 17, 2023
Yes obviously lol
Wujio:
Are you still alive !?
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