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How Long Is Too Long For An Inlaw To Stay? by DaMirage: 3:03pm On Jan 27, 2012 |
help answer this question |
Re: How Long Is Too Long For An Inlaw To Stay? by QMark: 3:07pm On Jan 27, 2012 |
Anything more than a stranded night is too long 4 Likes |
Re: How Long Is Too Long For An Inlaw To Stay? by Fhemmmy: 3:55pm On Jan 27, 2012 |
I think it all depends on your relationship with the in-law . . . 5 Likes |
Re: How Long Is Too Long For An Inlaw To Stay? by DaMirage: 11:59am On Jan 31, 2012 |
Ok, lets expantiate and rephrase the topic: How long is too long for troublesome inlaws to stay over in your house? Inlaws that leave dirty dishes in your sink, put on the generator after you have put it off, leave full thrash in your kitchen etc. This kind of inlaws |
Re: How Long Is Too Long For An Inlaw To Stay? by Fhemmmy: 2:49pm On Jan 31, 2012 |
"Troublesome" in-law should only visit and not even spend a night . . . . |
Re: How Long Is Too Long For An Inlaw To Stay? by fred2265: 5:17pm On Feb 07, 2012 |
Coming over for dinner and leaving straight after is plenty long for troublesome in-laws. [img]http://s01.flagcounter.com/count/7uR/bg=FFFFFF/txt=FFFFFF/border=FFFFFF/columns=1/maxflags=1/viewers=3/labels=0/pageviews=0[/img][img]http://s10.flagcounter.com/count/oH/bg=FFFFFF/txt=FFFFFF/border=FFFFFF/columns=1/maxflags=1/viewers=3/labels=0/pageviews=0[/img][img]http://2.s01.flagcounter.com/count/7uR/bg=FFFFFF/txt=FFFFFF/border=FFFFFF/columns=1/maxflags=1/viewers=3/labels=0/pageviews=0[/img] 1 Like |
Re: How Long Is Too Long For An Inlaw To Stay? by GboyegaD(m): 5:18pm On Feb 07, 2012 |
The best is to call the in-law to order making him/her know this is your house and not his or hers. If such an in-law choose not to be responsible then, the spouse whose relative s/he is would have to tell the person they have had enough of him or her. |
Re: How Long Is Too Long For An Inlaw To Stay? by untainted: 5:27pm On Feb 07, 2012 |
In-laws: Father-in-law, Mother-in-law or the rest of the in-laws? |
Re: How Long Is Too Long For An Inlaw To Stay? by Ibangap(m): 5:33pm On Feb 07, 2012 |
Troublesome or no troublesome, why u wan visit me, stay in ur house and tell me what u want, nd i will come and take care of it dere. 1 Like |
Re: How Long Is Too Long For An Inlaw To Stay? by stagger: 5:37pm On Feb 07, 2012 |
A week maximum. That is the rule in my house. |
Re: How Long Is Too Long For An Inlaw To Stay? by eghost247(m): 5:46pm On Feb 07, 2012 |
this is thread is gonna be interesting wait ti NAIRALAND LADIES TEAR IT UP |
Re: How Long Is Too Long For An Inlaw To Stay? by southwark: 5:46pm On Feb 07, 2012 |
Troublesome or no troublesome, why u wan visit me, stay in ur house and tell me what u want, nd i will come and take care of it dere. ^ ^ ^ ^ ^ ^ ^ Lmao |
Re: How Long Is Too Long For An Inlaw To Stay? by bidex(m): 5:54pm On Feb 07, 2012 |
hummm, the inlaw can stay in your house as long as or as far as your endurance can take you |
Re: How Long Is Too Long For An Inlaw To Stay? by aginamuk: 5:56pm On Feb 07, 2012 |
How do you even tell your mother or father in-law to leave your house? |
Re: How Long Is Too Long For An Inlaw To Stay? by coolkaboom(m): 5:59pm On Feb 07, 2012 |
ol-boi, I goofed. My wife had a baby-girl (our 2nd) 6 months ago, since then, her mum and sister hav set-up camp at my home. Initially, it was a relief but I have recently com to d conclusion that I was siiting on a keg of gun-powder. D more I covr my ears and eyes, the more brazen they become. Anytime i enquire from my madam abt when they will be leaving, she claims to still need them because d baby is still to young for day-care. i had to put my foot down and tactfully kick em out when d whining and snide remarks were gettin too 'amplified'. For sake of respect, some distance has to be maintained between in-laws and a young growing marriage. It's helpful in the short-run but too damaging when the stay is extended. Having said that, it also depends on the characters involved. I had no real issues with the sister, na dem mama get gutter-mouth, and i couldnt stand her influence on my wife. Havin every decision or discussion ratified by that woman was like living in 'HELL'. 9 Likes |
Re: How Long Is Too Long For An Inlaw To Stay? by Nobody: 6:01pm On Feb 07, 2012 |
2days for visits, 1 week for other issues. |
Re: How Long Is Too Long For An Inlaw To Stay? by coolkaboom(m): 6:04pm On Feb 07, 2012 |
aginamuk: TACTFULLY remove the reason for the extended stay; in my case, register the baby for creche and on the next weekend, give them a tidy settlement (50-500k) as u hold reach. |
Re: How Long Is Too Long For An Inlaw To Stay? by coolkaboom(m): 6:04pm On Feb 07, 2012 |
how com its only guys talkin so far? |
Re: How Long Is Too Long For An Inlaw To Stay? by Lexusgs430: 6:05pm On Feb 07, 2012 |
Depending on the relationship you have with your in- laws !!! My in-laws are the best, and can stay in house for as long as they want to !!!! 2 Likes |
Re: How Long Is Too Long For An Inlaw To Stay? by megawax8: 6:09pm On Feb 07, 2012 |
Nothing more dan a stranded nyt,be it a troublesome one or not |
Re: How Long Is Too Long For An Inlaw To Stay? by malele(m): 6:14pm On Feb 07, 2012 |
una go kill me with laugh here ooo |
Re: How Long Is Too Long For An Inlaw To Stay? by sirp2007: 6:33pm On Feb 07, 2012 |
TOO LONG IS WHEN U FEEL IS TOO LONG, as to hw to ask an inlaw to leave,very simple. ''in-law abeg time don reach wen u go waka,abeg ready make l go drop u for park.greet evry bodi for me when u reach house.call me whn u reach. 1 Like |
Re: How Long Is Too Long For An Inlaw To Stay? by thehunted(m): 6:38pm On Feb 07, 2012 |
Q.Mark: correct. |
Re: How Long Is Too Long For An Inlaw To Stay? by metche: 6:39pm On Feb 07, 2012 |
Whaooo!!!!!!, interesting, hmmnnnnn, coolkaboom:. Cool: You must be a consultant on this issue oooooo |
Re: How Long Is Too Long For An Inlaw To Stay? by 1Dray(m): 6:55pm On Feb 07, 2012 |
Hmmm. . . Some questions! LWFMF. . . 1 Like |
Re: How Long Is Too Long For An Inlaw To Stay? by sugar001(f): 6:56pm On Feb 07, 2012 |
My parents in-law have never visited. Thank God hubby is the only child. *dancing etighi |
Re: How Long Is Too Long For An Inlaw To Stay? by claremont(m): 7:09pm On Feb 07, 2012 |
The inlaw can stay as long as he/she is ready to abide by the house rules. |
Re: How Long Is Too Long For An Inlaw To Stay? by iykak47: 7:10pm On Feb 07, 2012 |
It seems we are looking at this issue from the man's angle, the other side is can a woman tell here inlaw to go? can my wife tell my mother or father (when i get married} to leave? NO Can i tell my inlaw to go? |
Re: How Long Is Too Long For An Inlaw To Stay? by ronkebp(f): 7:25pm On Feb 07, 2012 |
iykak47: NO!!! |
Re: How Long Is Too Long For An Inlaw To Stay? by loveheaven(f): 7:37pm On Feb 07, 2012 |
@ronkebp you are right on point, lol, what's good for the gander is good for the goose. If an-inlaw does not respect your rules then they are better off in their own home where no one is likely to notice them. |
Re: How Long Is Too Long For An Inlaw To Stay? by Sprumbaba: 7:44pm On Feb 07, 2012 |
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Re: How Long Is Too Long For An Inlaw To Stay? by MeGaStReEt: 7:58pm On Feb 07, 2012 |
If its "He" no probs, we roll together. But, "she" No! No!! No!!! |
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