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| Late Dad Customer Disturbing My Peace by kassidi73(op): 11:41am On May 14, 2021 |
My Late Dad was a Civil Engineer. There was a particular project he was supposed to work on. He charged the client a sum of 8 million which was agreed upon. He was paid #800k and expecting the rest to complete their work, but when he was to start the work he fell sick. His sickness started around March last year and due to the COVID-19 lockdown, he couldn't commence work on the project although he did start the foundation aspects. By June, we discovered his sickness was due to kidney failure. Both family and friends gathered money and when there was no money, the client's money was used to foot his hospital bills in a bit to save his life. Unfortunately, he did by August, and when the client came to his residence they saw his graveyard and all that. Now, after 10 months, they have started calling my number and disturbing me regarding the #800k that they paid to my Late Dad. They even threatened to bring a lawyer and all that. I am not the one they paid to but my late Dad and he is dead now. To make matters worse, the family is yet to gather concerning sharing/selling properties for the upkeep of his wives and children (because he practiced polygamy). At the moment, I am still hustling here and there to make ends meet. Not to mention, my mom and siblings are there for me to take care of. NLanders, what should I do? |
| Re: Late Dad Customer Disturbing My Peace by HungryLion231: 11:45am On May 14, 2021 |
In Fela's voice : double wahala for dedi bodi. And the owner Well, dialogue can soften things to some extent. Schedule a meeting , talk n discuss settlement. Here, it will be more wickedness to be requesting for the whole figure. So on ur part negotiate it with the customer on amount that can be returned. Upon agreement liaise with ur family. Give a time frame to repayment and work on how to raise the funds. |
| Re: Late Dad Customer Disturbing My Peace by yanabasee1(m): 11:45am On May 14, 2021 |
Have you spoken to the man heart-to-heart to explain things to him? If not, fix a time to see him... If yes, speak to a lawyer to gain legal knowledge on how to go about it... I wish you good luck... |
| Re: Late Dad Customer Disturbing My Peace by Freestainworld(m): 11:48am On May 14, 2021 |
Allow them bring their lawyer, ask the man in court to examine the remaining living members of the family in court if he could figure out one person he paid his money to, if he couldn't do that, case closed, after all , you weren't their when the said money was paid, you are not even sure it was paid. |
| Re: Late Dad Customer Disturbing My Peace by xpressionx(m): 11:51am On May 14, 2021 |
Did your dad use you as the next of kin when collecting the contract/payment? If no,you have nothing to worry about. You have no legal binding to pay back the debt. Me,Myself and I have spoken. |
| Re: Late Dad Customer Disturbing My Peace by illicit(m): 11:55am On May 14, 2021 |
Are u a director in your dad's company After his death, does the company still exist? Was he working on other projects too? |
| Re: Late Dad Customer Disturbing My Peace by Bankowner: 11:57am On May 14, 2021 |
Between you and me, you were not a party to the contract your late father signed with the people after you. However, did your dad get the contract through his company? Is it a limited liability company or a one-man business? If it is the former, then your father’s company is obligated to continue with the contract or return the mobilization fund less whatever has been utilized to commence execution. If it is the latter, nothing for them. However, seek the counsel of a lawyer to get a proper legal perspective. |
| Re: Late Dad Customer Disturbing My Peace by DWJOBScom(m): 11:57am On May 14, 2021 |
They need their money back and will sue the estate of your father for it. Speak to some elders in your family to reach out to man and appeal to him on the existing situation and negotiate. This happens to alot of weathly folks and that's majorly the reason they don't announce their death immediately |
| Re: Late Dad Customer Disturbing My Peace by donbachi(m): 11:57am On May 14, 2021 |
If someone had owed ur dad dis same amount.and it came to ur know.guy,u would have done same..just plead with the client,but dont make any promise for now.while waiting for the property(ies) to be sold.my prayer for u.is GOD's open doors,favour and more breakthroughs.sorry for ur loss. |
| Re: Late Dad Customer Disturbing My Peace by HONESTFACT101(m): 12:07pm On May 14, 2021 |
what if you know find out someone is owing your father 2 million won't you go and request payment not minding that your father is dead youve been given 10 months if you need more time reason with the man shikena......signing out |
| Re: Late Dad Customer Disturbing My Peace by RightToReject(m): 12:12pm On May 14, 2021 |
You/your family/your father's establishment owes the client. Whether an official receipt was issued or not by your father, after the client paid him the mobilization fee, make an effort to repay him or make him see a reason to forfeit the money, some part or the full amount, to you voluntarily. Provided that you're certain that his claim is genuine, then don't say that because their transaction has no formal evidence backing it, assuming that there's none, to call off his bluff unless you're ready for direct or indirect battle. Informally, an issue like this never ends well in favor of someone in your position; when someone in your position tries to be too clever by half. |
| Re: Late Dad Customer Disturbing My Peace by lilvicky68(m): 12:14pm On May 14, 2021 |
The customer should count his losses and move on..your dad is gone so is his money.. |
| Re: Late Dad Customer Disturbing My Peace by ChiefSosa(m): 12:17pm On May 14, 2021*. Modified: 12:38pm On May 14, 2021 |
RIP to your dad. Have a deep conversation with him, even if it means him giving your family some time. He's got the right to request for the money but, since he did the deal with your dad, tell him "Ko kon aye" or "street ti take over". If he refuses, then you guys should invite your lawyers, tell am make he jam your own lawyer for junction, the two lawyers should fight Gidigbo; winner takes all. Instead of Eba and soup; feed him with slaps and punches. Tell ur lawyer make e rush am with better decking, no give am breathing space o, make him pin am for corner con dey give am serious uppercut, blow his face very well, let him pass out in that junction so other lawyers will learn. |
| Re: Late Dad Customer Disturbing My Peace by xolocious(m): 12:19pm On May 14, 2021 |
In Economics, there's what we call BAD DEBT. He can't do anything about it and at such,he should count his loss unless your late dad made an agreement with him (using a collateral if he fails to keep to the contract). Aside that, he should count his loss. Get a lawyer is he keeps disturbing the peace of your family. |
| Re: Late Dad Customer Disturbing My Peace by heniford2: 12:27pm On May 14, 2021 |
Freestainworld:smart talk was there an agreement writing down of payment if not relax if he threaten you ask him to go to court that your said father did not disclosed the whole family about his work,simple as ABC if he insist invite him for undertaken for safety purpose. |
| Re: Late Dad Customer Disturbing My Peace by dandig(m): 4:09pm On May 14, 2021 |
Let's talk Law!. Is it a limited liability company? We're you a party to the Agreement? Are u a shortee? Did u put ur biro or name on either of the documents ...if NO,, then see it as 'Big man wan use ur head' Oga want use u catch trips. Get a lawyer for better advises... Get connect.. keep Lagos Boys with you (you might need them) ![]() |
| Re: Late Dad Customer Disturbing My Peace by Richy4(m): 4:37pm On May 14, 2021 |
I don't know how to ask this so that it will sound nice to the ears... But I will try.. ![]() If you and your family were aware of what the money was meant for, why did you and your family use it for something that was not project related? Just search your conscience, Do you and your family in clear conscience feel/think that the client is not entitled to have his money back? Just asking because your write up seems as if the client has no right to demand for his money since what it was meant for was not carried out |
| Re: Late Dad Customer Disturbing My Peace by UDbester(m): 5:57pm On May 14, 2021 |
A debtor may die but the Debt never dies |
| Re: Late Dad Customer Disturbing My Peace by kassidi73(op): 6:58pm On May 14, 2021 |
Not at all, I am not the next of kin xpressionx: |
| Re: Late Dad Customer Disturbing My Peace by kassidi73(op): 6:59pm On May 14, 2021 |
The company no longer exists because it is a sole proprietorship business. Also, he was working on other projects which have been handled by his friends. illicit: |
| Re: Late Dad Customer Disturbing My Peace by kassidi73(op): 7:00pm On May 14, 2021 |
Thanks, I will ensure to source for a lawyer asap. He didn't sign any contract with them, more or less verbal agreement. even he had done business with the person a couple of years back Bankowner: |
| Re: Late Dad Customer Disturbing My Peace by kassidi73(op): 7:01pm On May 14, 2021 |
donbachi:amen, thank you. |
| Re: Late Dad Customer Disturbing My Peace by kassidi73(op): 7:08pm On May 14, 2021 |
well, my late Dad didnt want to touch the money meant for the project at all. when he was sick, we the kids, his relatives and friends all contributed towards his health in a bid to help him survive. when there was nothing that was when the project money was spent. if not for his family members that declared that his properties would be shared/sold after his 1 year death anniversary (august), then I would have maybe sold 1 of his cars to pay part of the money. Richy4: |
| Re: Late Dad Customer Disturbing My Peace by sisisioge: 7:45pm On May 14, 2021 |
Ok let's examine the matter: 1. Did your dad have a registered business? Is it a one man business, a joint venture or a limited liability company? If its OMB, his money is gone o. If it's a JV, the other living partners are liable to pay back. If it's a LTD, then the other directors/owners should contribute according to their share holdings to repay it. 2. So if it's a OMB and you have conscience, biko find a way to return the money. As per the lawyer they are threatening you with, find out the type of business your dad had and tell them to bring it on! Debtor's liability is not transferable to families upon death just like that biko....nothing dey happen. He should be negotiating and cajoling not threatening. If na muslim families wey believe that the deceased will not rest well until his debt is paid, na different story biko. |
| Re: Late Dad Customer Disturbing My Peace by Richy4(m): 8:13pm On May 14, 2021 |
kassidi73:OK Man...But If u were to share your late dad's properties, please make sure that all debt were paid before anything... U don't need creditors hanging on your neck ... It can drain one's energy thinking about it... |
| Re: Late Dad Customer Disturbing My Peace by Misterone: 8:18pm On May 14, 2021 |
The man has no right what so ever to request that you pay the money, but know this. he has every right to sieze your dad's property. So you decide. your dad's property or you pay the money |
| Re: Late Dad Customer Disturbing My Peace by frozen70(f): 12:51pm On May 15, 2021 |
kassidi73:Am glad the money was not paid to your account but you are aware of such money Your father is a polygamous man, do why you of all the seniors in the family You have already lost your dad, what do they want you to do I will advise you direct them to his wives or the most senior in the family and after that, Hence Forth, don't pick their calls and don't respond to them Let them do their worst it's a sinking ship that will sink every one |
| Re: Late Dad Customer Disturbing My Peace by danielblessing(m): 4:37pm On May 18, 2021 |
Ignore them. |
| Re: Late Dad Customer Disturbing My Peace by nautybride: 4:48pm On May 18, 2021 |
800,000 deducted from 8,000,000. Na wa o. |
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...if NO,, then see it as 'Big man wan use ur head' Oga want use u catch trips. Get a lawyer for better advises... Get connect.. keep Lagos Boys with you (you might need them) 
