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My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Disturbing My Relationship by Uyi213: 8:17pm On Dec 02, 2020
Good evening Nairaland Family. I want to go straight to the point as I am dying inside. For purpose of clarity I will address my ex as Lady A and my current girl as Lady B

Lady A

I have been paying her school fees since 2018 which amounted to more than 200K. I sent her mom 100k when she was stranded in Abuja. Amongst phones, laptops, bags, clothes I have bought for my ex. My ex I know has been sleeping with numerous men around Lagos. In fact this year alone, she slept with 18 guys of which I have 7 of the guys contacts. She does party in hotels around mushin and it’s environs. Her mother is married to the 3rd husband with different children.

My ex gf whom I did her introduction in November left me after I discovered she slept with my cousin two days after the introduction. They exchanged contacts at the introduction and were hooking up behind my back. He sent her money to meet him in a hotel and the rest was history. The mother fought me at the introduction because she thought I shoved her brother in law and really fought me like a thug. Please note that they all grow in Mushin. My ex has a past of which she went with a school friend Of hers to a guy place, left the friend there and the poor girl was raped by 3 of them. And it was learnt she arranged it. Please note I didn’t know all of this she hid it from me but her infidelity is what I know and I thought I could cope till she slept with my cousin and took my 600k at home and some of my valuables

Lady B.

Now I have moved on and am dating her friend whom I find so so cool and she is a independent lady and she also schools. I am totally in love with Lady B. My ex found out and started spreading lies on the poor girl Through their school group chat that she snatched her financee And a whole lot of trash. Lady B is strong but I don’t know for how long.

This is where I need you all advice. I was told to involve the police as my ex is a cultist and smokes. This are things I don’t even know throughout the two years we dated. I don’t want anything to happen to my new girl. I really love her and it hurts me to see that a good girl is slipping from Me. Lady B is everything I want. My family approves of her. My mum who didn’t speak to me in couple of years reached out since I started dating Lady B. I have been so so happy anytime I think of her.


I will be in the comment section

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Re: My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Disturbing My Relationship by Kriss216: 8:22pm On Dec 02, 2020
School fees since 2018 = N200,000

Sent her mom =N100,0000

Phones, laptops, bags, clothes =N250,000

Outings/Drinks/Food/. =N60,000

And she took my... =N600,000



Total = N1,210,000 in just two years on a fish brain!

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Re: My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Disturbing My Relationship by Uzomacharles: 8:24pm On Dec 02, 2020
You started what you can't finish

When your ex dey think about how much you spend on her...

Why she no go disturb your peace?

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Re: My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Disturbing My Relationship by longetivity(m): 8:27pm On Dec 02, 2020
to those that read this, please summarise this SIMP story for me

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Re: My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Disturbing My Relationship by Kriss216: 8:33pm On Dec 02, 2020
longetivity:
to those that read this, please summarise SIMP story for me
Mr Simpson of Werey street spent over N1.2M on a fish brain and he’s still asking for a romantic and pacify way to handle the fish brain cos she’s at the verge of destroying his current foolishness.

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Re: My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Disturbing My Relationship by IamD18: 8:39pm On Dec 02, 2020
The way you described your ex and her mum in a disgusting way says a lot about you

This is someone I'm sure you once professed your love for and had some nice moment with, all of a sudden, you are describing her and her mum in such manner. cheesy

I'm more concerned about the one you are dating now, because if things should go sour someday, you'll describe her in a terrible way too.

And just so you know, you don't date your ex's friend and expect her not to react. You can't even convince me that you had nothing with your Ex's friend then when you both were seriously dating. smiley

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Re: My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Disturbing My Relationship by yomi007k(m): 8:49pm On Dec 02, 2020
cool

In Jay Z's voice " if you having girls problems I feel bad for you son, I got 99 problems and a b**ch aint one"..

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Re: My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Disturbing My Relationship by Ikillbrokehoes(m): 8:51pm On Dec 02, 2020
Continue what u started

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Re: My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Disturbing My Relationship by duduade: 8:51pm On Dec 02, 2020
OP you need help o. Off all places mushin olosha.. You have embedded yourself with thugs.. And opportunists

So your new girlfriend schools in the same place with the Ex.. Cultist ke..


At least she should have respected the code till she graduated


The best solution is to relocate o since you can die for B.. Or you both pretend you ain't in a relationship anymore for the main time

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Re: My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Disturbing My Relationship by Uyi213: 9:02pm On Dec 02, 2020
duduade:
OP you need help o. Off all places mushin olosha.. You have embedded yourself with thugs.. And opportunists

So your new girlfriend schools in the same place with the Ex.. Cultist ke..


At least she should have respected the code till she graduated


The best solution is to relocate o since you can die for B.. Or you both pretend you ain't in a relationship anymore for the main time

Thanks for this. You are real

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Re: My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Disturbing My Relationship by David1017(m): 9:25pm On Dec 02, 2020
Which work u dae do bros.?? I'm interested in doing the same. I don't really have any advice shaa. But u dae spend shaa

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Re: My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Disturbing My Relationship by Biglittlelois(f): 9:30pm On Dec 02, 2020
"Show me your friend and I'll tell you who you are"

You have a flare for bad girls, why will you date your ex's friend? It's wrong na, some things/people are totally off limit.

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Re: My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Disturbing My Relationship by stacyadams: 9:40pm On Dec 02, 2020
longetivity:
to those that read this, please summarise this SIMP story for me

The guy simping no get summary.....walai...some guys sef

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Re: My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Disturbing My Relationship by stacyadams: 9:41pm On Dec 02, 2020
Kriss216:

Mr Simpson of Werey street spent over N1.2M on a fish brain and he’s still asking for a romantic and pacify way to handle the fish brain cos she’s at the verge of destroying his current foolishness.
angry grin grin grin grin

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Re: My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Disturbing My Relationship by tosomaju(m): 9:52pm On Dec 02, 2020
For two years you didn't know all these about lady A and in few months you are already certain lady B is all you want?
My brother they go use your destiny play ludo.
Kantinew its like they are doing you.

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Re: My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Disturbing My Relationship by goryorhal(m): 10:01pm On Dec 02, 2020
Uyi213:
Good evening Nairaland Family. I want to go straight to the point as I am dying inside. For purpose of clarity I will address my ex as Lady A and my current girl as Lady B

Lady A

I have been paying her school fees since 2018 which amounted to more than 200K. I sent her mom 100k when she was stranded in Abuja. Amongst phones, laptops, bags, clothes I have bought for my ex. My ex I know has been sleeping with numerous men around Lagos. In fact this year alone, she slept with 18 guys of which I have 7 of the guys contacts. She does party in hotels around mushin and it’s environs. Her mother is married to the 3rd husband with different children.
My ex gf whom I did her introduction in November left me after I discovered she slept with my cousin two days after the introduction. They exchanged contacts at the introduction and were hooking up behind my back. He sent her money to meet him in a hotel and the rest was history. The mother fought me at the introduction because she thought I shoved her brother in law and really fought me like a thug. Please note that they all grow in Mushin. My ex has a past of which she went with a school friend Of hers to a guy place, left the friend there and the poor girl was raped by 3 of them. And it was learnt she arranged it. Please note I didn’t know all of this she hid it from me but her infidelity is what I know and I thought I could cope till she slept with my cousin and took my 600k at home and some of my valuables

Lady B.

Now I have moved on and am dating her friend whom I find so so cool and she is a independent lady and she also schools. I am totally in love with Lady B. My ex found out and started spreading lies on the poor girl Through their school group chat that she snatched her financee And a whole lot of trash. Lady B is strong but I don’t know for how long.

This is where I need you all advice. I was told to involve the police as my ex is a cultist and smokes. This are things I don’t even know throughout the two years we dated. I don’t want anything to happen to my new girl. I really love her and it hurts me to see that a good girl is slipping from Me. Lady B is everything I want. My family approves of her. My mum who didn’t speak to me in couple of years reached out since I started dating Lady B. I have been so so happy anytime I think of her.


I will be in the comment section

Where did you met your ex ?
Where in mushin do you stay ??

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Re: My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Disturbing My Relationship by NoToPile: 10:02pm On Dec 02, 2020
You are dating your ex's friend?
She too agreed to date you?

Off course she will be called husband snatcher , what were you expecting.

All the story about her mum was unnecessary .


You better leave lady B before they hurt her real bad.

Mushin peeps are harsh oo

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Re: My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Disturbing My Relationship by crackhaus: 10:05pm On Dec 02, 2020
Lady A

I have been paying her school fees since 2018 which amounted to more than 200K. I sent her mom 100k when she was stranded in Abuja. Amongst phones, laptops, bags, clothes I have bought for my ex. My ex I know has been sleeping with numerous men around Lagos. In fact this year alone, she slept with 18 guys of which I have 7 of the guys contacts. She does party in hotels around mushin and it’s environs. Her mother is married to the 3rd husband with different children.
My ex gf whom I did her introduction in November left me after I discovered she slept with my cousin two days after the introduction. They exchanged contacts at the introduction and were hooking up behind my back. He sent her money to meet him in a hotel and the rest was history. The mother fought me at the introduction because she thought I shoved her brother in law and really fought me like a thug. Please note that they all grow in Mushin. My ex has a past of which she went with a school friend Of hers to a guy place, left the friend there and the poor girl was raped by 3 of them. And it was learnt she arranged it. Please note I didn’t know all of this she hid it from me but her infidelity is what I know and I thought I could cope till she slept with my cousin and took my 600k at home and some of my valuables.

My only issue here is, how come your ex was/is all of these things, yet you continued having a serious relationship with her and even got to introduction stage? Na wah oo...

Girls like her are simply for fücks and nothing else, and that's if you ABSOLUTELY need to associate with them at all.

You have made your mistake anyway, and you've learnt your lesson. Personally, I don't believe she can do anything to Lady B.
Ignore all that talk of how she's a cultist and how she smokes... nor be she start cultism and nor be she start smoking.

However If you're really so bothered about her, then yes you can involve the police so they'll make her sign a statement saying she will be held responsible should anything 'suspicious' happen to your current girlfriend.
Be ready to spend some money though.

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Re: My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Disturbing My Relationship by Uyi213: 10:20pm On Dec 02, 2020
goryorhal:


Where did you met your ex ?
Where in mushin do you stay ??

Smiles. Tell me something you know. I believe you know me already ola
Re: My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Disturbing My Relationship by Uyi213: 10:33pm On Dec 02, 2020
IamD18:
The way you described your ex and her mum in a disgusting way says a lot about you

This is someone I'm sure you once professed your love for and had some nice moment with, all of a sudden, you are describing her and her mum in such manner. cheesy

I'm more concerned about the one you are dating now, because if things should go sour someday, you'll describe her in a terrible way too.

And just so you know, you don't date your ex's friend and expect her not to react. You can't even convince me that you had nothing with your Ex's friend then when you both were seriously dating. smiley

Bro everything I described about them is what they are. Someone I professed love to took my money and had been sleeping around for the past 2 years. I can’t count last year alone but I still stuck with her. No lies actually. Lady B and I have never met before and she can’t recognize me if she met me on the road. We happened to meet coincidentally and liked ourselves and later got to know she is a friend to my ex.

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Re: My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Disturbing My Relationship by Uyi213: 10:34pm On Dec 02, 2020
crackhaus:


My only issue here is, how come your ex was/is all of these things, yet you continued having a serious relationship with her and even got to introduction stage? Na wah oo...

Girls like her are simply for fücks and nothing else, and that's if you ABSOLUTELY need to associate with them at all.

You have made your mistake anyway, and you've learnt your lesson. Personally, I don't believe she can do anything to Lady B.
Ignore all that talk of how she's a cultist and how she smokes... nor be she start cultism and nor be she start smoking.

However If you're really so bothered about her, then yes you can involve the police so they'll make her sign a statement saying she will be held responsible should anything 'suspicious' happen to your current girlfriend.
Be ready to spend some money though.

Yes I have already reported to the police and my uncle also reported to his boss and I was told to wait for even a ant bite before she is picked up alongside her mum and step dad

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Re: My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Disturbing My Relationship by goryorhal(m): 10:46pm On Dec 02, 2020
Uyi213:


Smiles. Tell me something you know. I believe you know me already ola


Nothing bro

Just asking u

Mind we talk via WhatsApp

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Re: My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Disturbing My Relationship by Uyi213: 10:47pm On Dec 02, 2020
goryorhal:



Nothing bro

Just asking u

Mind we talk via WhatsApp

Will WhatsApp you now. Already have your number. By the way the house you are fucking are in was paid by me

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Re: My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Disturbing My Relationship by Ganjafama(m): 10:57pm On Dec 02, 2020
Uyi213:


Yes I have already reported to the police and my uncle also reported to his boss and I was told to wait for even a ant bite before she is picked up alongside her mum and step dad
You can't wait for your enemy to strike. You strike first by getting her to sign an undertaking.

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Re: My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Disturbing My Relationship by goryorhal(m): 10:58pm On Dec 02, 2020
Uyi213:


Will WhatsApp you now. Already have your number. By the way the house you are fucking are in was paid by me

?? What do you mean ?? Seems you missing it up bro
Re: My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Disturbing My Relationship by Liposure: 10:59pm On Dec 02, 2020
This is bad. I pity men dating girls like lady A.

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Re: My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Disturbing My Relationship by prince2pac(m): 12:05am On Dec 03, 2020
Uyi213:


Yes I have already reported to the police and my uncle also reported to his boss and I was told to wait for even a ant bite before she is picked up alongside her mum and step dad
Get her to sign an undertaking oo, you need to make do that, so her body, soul and spirit will calm.. talking from experience

but bros you fit show me small love, I did appreciategrin grin

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Re: My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Disturbing My Relationship by culf: 12:13am On Dec 03, 2020
get her to sign an undertaken and also relocate if you can.

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Re: My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Disturbing My Relationship by ednut1(m): 1:23am On Dec 03, 2020
Stopped reading when i saw the amount you spent. Who ddy raise all these mumu guys

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Re: My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Disturbing My Relationship by Nobody: 3:16am On Dec 03, 2020
This story reeks of lies.

She stole your 600k kor. Lies!

Please you guys should be adding graphics to this your lies whenever you're typing it.

I'm out!

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Re: My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Disturbing My Relationship by stephanie79548: 5:09am On Dec 03, 2020
get her to sign an undertaken and also relocate if you can.

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Re: My Ex-Girlfriend Keeps Disturbing My Relationship by SweetCunt97(f): 5:27am On Dec 03, 2020
Uyi213:


Will WhatsApp you now. Already have your number. By the way the house you are fucking are in was paid by me
Shots fired! So the gorhoyal is sleeping with ur ex huh?

I never knew men tolerated Cheats o, abi your dick ain't nothing to write home about? Or you not attractive? Never tolerate such disloyalty abeg.

See brother wey mumu, so if they left you would have married such hot pants? Abi na so d cunt sweet ni

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