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Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by igbowoman: 3:38am On Jun 08, 2021
kunkelhanspeter:
For me yes and yes 100 times yes my dad died when I was 7 years old now I am 30 now I have 3 siblings my mom refused to remarry even when men were coming for her at least i saw one man even her elder sister advised her to marry she refused said she don’t want any man to treat us bad my mom really suffer training us . That why my first millions i built her 4 bedroom flat. But I can manage her religion side of her too holy and a giver imagine giving out one room to a friend daughter for free .

May God bless you abundantly for honoring your mother and keep her strong and healthy to enjoy more goodies from you

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Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by yinkatosin: 3:52am On Jun 08, 2021
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brownemmanuel43:
I can't ohhhhhh, bcs my mother is too kind for my liking. A woman that can give a stranger her last kobo to feed.
I can't bcs my mum is too religious.
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brownemmanuel43:
I can't ohhhhhh, bcs my mother is too kind for my liking. A woman that can give a stranger her last kobo to feed.
I can't bcs my mum is too religious.
brownemmanuel43:
I can't ohhhhhh, bcs my mother is too kind for my liking. A woman that can give a stranger her last kobo to feed.
I can't bcs my mum is too religious.
don't forget that givers never lake, I love her type plenty
Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by soso22(m): 3:56am On Jun 08, 2021
100% yes
Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by AmuAwusa: 4:17am On Jun 08, 2021
Well, I no see someone like my mum to marry if not I would have.
My mom though stubborn is a smart woman.


The one reason alone I wished I'd marry her is because she is naturally a funny woman. That woman funny sotee she can make you laugh even without trying. She is a natural comedian. I ALWAYS have to video her whenever I visit without her knowing, because I need something to make me laugh when I'm down when I get back to my base.

When she starts talking, hold a kerchief as well cheesy grin grin cheesy

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Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by DanielChinazom(m): 4:21am On Jun 08, 2021
YES she is industrious, caring, beauty with brain
Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by UDUJ(m): 4:23am On Jun 08, 2021
medropoly:
This question is for the honest and sincere minded people.
Can you marry a woman like your mother?

Let me start with myself.
"My mother is really a nice and caring woman, (mostly to us her children) but to her husband (my dad) the relationship there is really not cool. To some extent, I can't because she dose allot of things that really annoys me as her child not to talk of her husband".

So what about you?
I love my mum to death but for the nagging, I can't marry a woman like her that nags.

My dad was a retired Colonel in the Army but he was just too cool headed for my liking and I think my mum saw this weakness in him. She can nag for Africa, whenever she starts nagging I always feel pity for my dad but I learnt a valuable lesson from him. Never throw words with nagging woman ( he always kept mute when she nags and this infuriated my mom cheesy). This is what he does when she starts nagging : the guy man will just take his car keys and drive out to cool his head and he always returns back when she has calmed down and she starts calling him on the phone saying darling when are you coming back home, just imagine cheesy

I am not married yet but I have learnt this valuable lesson from my dad ( God rest his loving soul) and ai will court long enough to observe these nagging traits in any woman I am dating. My God, there is nothing I hate like a nagging woman.

But my mom is still the love of my life sha ( nagging or not) cheesy

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Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by yemmie(m): 4:34am On Jun 08, 2021
I can't Ooo!!!
Marry fire kwa??

She get easily provoked and so hot tempered.......

She's very stubborn and hardly listen to OR follow our opinions

Just too religious.........infact she fought everyone close-by/neighbour/family/friends/youths/strangers who wouldnt readily absorb her preaching(BIGGEST TURN OFF).......

She's hyperactive too........hardly sit her ass down on a spot to rest.......if she's isn't doing this then definitely she's up doing that...... even the unnecessary things and wud lament if u failed to join her........

Mind:Those r her weakness anyways

GOOD SIDE:

SHE SINGLE HANDEDLY SPONSORED OUR EDUCATION FROM PRE NURSERY TO BEEN A GRADUATE........

SUCH A YOUNG PRETTY HER GOT HERSELF MARRIED TO ONE IDIOT DURING HER PRIME...........INFACT SHE STRUGGLED SPONSORING HIS EDUCATION TO UNIVERSITY LEVEL EVEN WHEN HER FAMILY WERE VEHEMENTLY AGAINST..........

.........BUT THE IDIOT BECAME DOCTOR AND NEVER CAME BACK TO HER/US........JUX THE ONLY PERSON I WILL NEVER FORGIVE EVN ON MY DYING BED.........

SHE SPONSORED HER HALF BROTHERS AND SISTERS TOO.......SOME GRATEFUL WHILE SOME R INGRATES.......

Good day Gentleman,
I feel your pain and how deeply hurt you may be.
I don’t know you from Adam but for the sake of your
prosperity and joy for your kids / unborn kids generation, you need to man up and forgive that man God ordained shall be your biological father.

Life is deeper than we know it

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Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by knowhowk: 4:39am On Jun 08, 2021
Carchoice:
Most people will tell you yes, but ask their father, he’ll say No.

The relationship between a mother and her children is different from the relationship between a mother and her husband.


. Gbam !
Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by adadike(f): 4:47am On Jun 08, 2021
Yes o, if am a man . Natural love for all and sundry.t caring to a fault , tall, nice skin, flat tummy, well shaped hips, beautiful legs and sweet face, kind to a fault . Peace loving woman and does not discriminate. Very humble and ttreats her maids the same way she treats her children. God bless you mom. You have only one fault, you are too soft and hardly flogs.

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Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by harfiiz(m): 4:48am On Jun 08, 2021
You want to question my mum as a child; you wan die? Person wey be like major general for the house

Don't worry. I am a young mum and I know that. So it's funny when guys take everything their mums say without questioning it. Even my little girl will ask me "why"[/quote]

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Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by alomeda600(m): 4:52am On Jun 08, 2021
This is a very good thread... Hopefully, someone would do a statistical analysis of people's responses at the end of this thread.

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Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by alomeda600(m): 4:53am On Jun 08, 2021
Carchoice:
Most people will tell you yes, but ask their father, he’ll say No.

The relationship between a mother and her children is different from the relationship between a mother and her husband.


Sadly, most people are saying NO

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Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by AchalugoNwa(f): 4:54am On Jun 08, 2021
adadike:
Yes o, if am a man . Natural love for all and sundry.t caring to a fault , tall, nice skin, flat tummy, well shaped hips, beautiful legs and sweet face, kind to a fault . Peace loving woman and does not discriminate. Very humble and ttreats her maids the same way she treats her children. God bless you mom. You have only one fault, you are too soft and hardly flogs.
my baby kiss
Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by harfiiz(m): 4:57am On Jun 08, 2021
No, I can't and didn't marry a woman like her for some reasons.

Pros: she's very caring, loving, assists when mostly needed and industrious.

Cons: Her love for money is to the extreme even though she has hers. Also, you must do everything to her favour whether it favours you or not, she gets angry too easily and rants alot etc. Abeg all these attitude I can't cope with them. How Dad managed her is still a misery but me God forbid. My wife isn't perfect though.

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Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by Pakinola20: 4:59am On Jun 08, 2021
My mum once jokingly said the prayer for me, she was curious when I was so reluctant to say amen....
I told her, you are the best to your children, then I had to shut up for peace to reign.

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Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by flexyrule(m): 5:02am On Jun 08, 2021
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Bola146:
angry kiss 100% YES!!! She trained 2 PhD, Msc and 1 BEd by herself. She loving, caring, she forgives easily, she loves her privacy, she taught me giving is good no matter how rich or poor you are, she can greet from her house to only when she is tired. I hate her first but when I was growing up, I will continue to appreciate her whenever I remember all the lessons she taught us. She is just a good role model to me!
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Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by SenecaTheYonger: 5:03am On Jun 08, 2021
ImaIma1:


If the knowledge of their imperfection is known, why do the sons take everything they say hook line and sinker especially as regards their choices of life partners, especially when it is apparent that are not perfect and are not beyond making mistakes.

And who else are they supposed to listen to than the person who has been there for them their whole life? You? Or maybe point to a perfect individual you’re supposed to take instructions from then undecided
Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by Stephenomozzy(m): 5:04am On Jun 08, 2021
brownemmanuel43:
I can't ohhhhhh, bcs my mother is too kind for my liking. A woman that can give a stranger her last kobo to feed.
I can't bcs my mum is too religious.

The world would have been a better place if we had more women like your mum!

Trust me women like these are rare. My Mum is an example of such a great woman! Selfless, forgiving, understanding and just the amazing definition of an "African Woman"; nor be all these new set of women wey we get now.
Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by Vello(m): 5:07am On Jun 08, 2021
grandlexuz:


Are you my brother? Are you sure you not talking about my mum..
Not a funny thing to say bro.
Sorry for our loss bro.
God save our lineage from daughters of karishska we now mother.
She's one choice I didn't make and one I'd give anything to God to change for me

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Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by SenecaTheYonger: 5:08am On Jun 08, 2021
bizhop01:
Very simple question but 99.9% of people here are busy cooking essay cool

Yes let them post their reasons it makes the thread enjoyable. Who the hell wants a binary yes or no answer.

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Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by Nobody: 5:10am On Jun 08, 2021
I pray to marry one like my mom.
Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by SenecaTheYonger: 5:11am On Jun 08, 2021
Akintundexxy:

You mean she's not s*xy enough?
No insult intended.

Why would anyone think of their mom as sexy? She’s obviously sexy to other men not her children. Weirdo

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Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by vis2change(m): 5:13am On Jun 08, 2021
Not at all

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Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by NightHawke: 5:23am On Jun 08, 2021
medropoly:
This question is for the honest and sincere minded people.
Can you marry a woman like your mother?

Let me start with myself.
"My mother is really a nice and caring woman, (mostly to us her children) but to her husband (my dad) the relationship there is really not cool. To some extent, I can't because she dose allot of things that really annoys me as her child not to talk of her husband".

So what about you?

NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by DisLifeSha: 5:43am On Jun 08, 2021
A Big No. I pray not to marry a woman like my mother. She doesn't know how to keep secrets and other things I detest about her
medropoly:
This question is for the honest and sincere minded people.
Can you marry a woman like your mother?

Let me start with myself.
"My mother is really a nice and caring woman, (mostly to us her children) but to her husband (my dad) the relationship there is really not cool. To some extent, I can't because she dose allot of things that really annoys me as her child not to talk of her husband".

So what about you?

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Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by Pharaoh4rin(m): 5:45am On Jun 08, 2021
OscarJaden:
I don't want to marry a wyf like my mother

Never

My mother left my siblings and i at a tender age to get married to my fathers best friend just one week after the death of my father....

I feel so much pain and hatred for her anytime she try connecting to us

Wow!
Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by Connected1: 5:50am On Jun 08, 2021
freemandela4:

My brother if i be you the kind sound sleep i go sleep ehh, hmm make i no talk.
It's not easy bro.
She's a good girl.
I am just pained that she couldn't defend me, what if something bigger comes tomorrow then she would just runaway.

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Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by Connected1: 5:54am On Jun 08, 2021
Kirkman:

My brother it's for your own good o! Glad you Japa and I hope she comes back to her senses soon though. AbI her parents Don do match making with someone else from their tribe for her already?
there's no match making I am sure.
She doesn't want me to go but she's scared that we won't marry.
I will speak to my elders, I feel like meeting her parents and seek for explanations.

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Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by Pharaoh4rin(m): 5:56am On Jun 08, 2021
blazepascal:
The purpose if this thread was to paint women and mothers black..rubbish. and you guys are falling for it . some of you guys said you won't marry a girl like your mother .those set of guys are not serious in life.

Gerrout! We're not hypocrite like you. This is one of those threads where you get to learn about things that's happening on d outside.
Come out of ur shackle and obsolete mentality.

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Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by Pharaoh4rin(m): 5:57am On Jun 08, 2021
MrCork:



fukkk Noooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo........... i like un educated freeaks like EbonyQueen001 who cant read or spek english (thats my kinda babes)! cheesy

Are you seriously serious? Don't tell me you mean that

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Re: Let's Be Sincere. "Can You Marry A Woman Like Your Mother?" by Kirkman: 6:00am On Jun 08, 2021
Connected1:
there's no match making I am sure.
She doesn't want me to go but she's scared that we won't marry.
I will speak to my elders, I feel like meeting her parents and seek for explanations.
Sorry to say; this your girl is really confused o! I agree with you; It would be better you meet her parents and seek for explanations, at least you will sleep peacefully at night with full rest of mind knowing that you tried your best and gave it your very all. Whatever will be, will be.

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