Do you agree?

LordReed:
Do you agree?

I think when she becomes the wife she becomes too comfortable and feels she has got you

hakeem4:
I think when she becomes the wife she becomes too comfortable and feels she has got you

Ayam tayad of these female hating NL boys. Has your bias for the female folks also affected your comprehension? Topic says "the way YOU treat GF VS the way You treat wife". Why blame the woman for looking how YOU treat her

Na real WA!!!

LordReed:
Do you agree?

LOL. I agree with Xavier

Well this is a two way thing:

So when she was the girlfriend she had to be competent to attract suitors, she spends money on herself. Her parents try to help one way or the other. She definitely won't get alot of attention if she is not looking good.

Now for the second picture
men are naturally jealous,so they believe what they see in you other men will also see. Some men will literally stop the wife from wearing some nice looking dress, and put culture into her head, add religion join self. So the lady will be less attractive to others, but in so doing she becomes less attractive to her man who came for her because she was dressing and looking good.


Now on another aspect,some ladies no dey try. My major turn off in a woman is dirtiness, some where pretending at first and when they get married they have this mentality that they don't need to keep up. Regardless of the money you give them to clean up they still look somehow. Once they start giving birth they become lazy,the house becomes unkept and all that.


I truly appreciate and respect women who take good care of themselves, either married or single and maintain that culture till they pass away. I have met some elite women with grown up kids and honestly you won't believe they are in that age.