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So I have this male friend....he's engaged to be married soon,buh then he lost his job..severally he's been given opportunities by family,friends and church buh he would always turn it down with silly excuses. It has gotten to the point where he doesn't have food to eat most of the time and the clothes he had are beginning to wear off buh he still won't budge . and he won't let his fiancee know how rough things really are..he would go borrow stuffs from a superstore he use to patronize before things got sour when she's around...even though it still beats my imagination how she hasn't come to notice this..long story short,I and close friends are thinking of a way to help him out,cos he's our friend,but we're at lose here� we plan to surprise him with stuffs,buh that can't keep happening... What can one do at his point?

He's a redpiller, mind your space.

What's that ?

@Title,do you have to generalize about men?It is your friend that is proud.There are women who are too.

If you are close to the fiancée,let her know what's going on or give her hints.Let her make him dust himself up and do something.

Well...about generalising, it's true with men and I also agree women are too
Buh am not close to the fiancée.. Thanks

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Missyendowed:
So I have this male friend....he's engaged to be married soon,buh then he lost his job..severally he's been given opportunities by family,friends and church buh he would always turn it down with silly excuses. It has gotten to the point where he doesn't have food to eat most of the time and the clothes he had are beginning to wear off buh he still won't budge . and he won't let his fiancee know how rough things really are..he would go borrow stuffs from a superstore he use to patronize before things got sour when she's around...even though it still beats my imagination how she hasn't come to notice this..long story short,I and close friends are thinking of a way to help him out,cos he's our friend,but we're at lose here� we plan to surprise him with stuffs,buh that can't keep happening... What can one do at his point?

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