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HELP! I Have Erectile Dysfunction And Need Help by Hoodforever: 3:30pm On Jun 30, 2021
I have been having ED for a while now(maybe years) and I think it is caused by an infection from a time I used public toilet.

I'm not really sure when it started because there was a period (months) I absteined from sex, and during that period was when I used a public toilet. I got a girlfriend sometime last year and every time we try to have sex, I notice that I can't get an erection. Even if I get, it would not be as firm as it is supposed to be and when I start thrusting, I lose the erection in a matter of seconds or a few minutes. Sometimes she uses a hands on me so that I can get my erection back but it just keeps going down.

It's very embarrassing and disappointing, I can always see the disappointment on her face.
I've taken some herbal medications recently but me and girlfriend don't stay in the same area, so there is no way to know if the medication worked and I can't bear such disappointment again when we eventually meet up and the medication doesn't work.

Please, if there is anyone who knows a medication I can take that is sure to work or a way to find out if the one I have taken already worked, because I can't cheat on her to find that out.

Re: HELP! I Have Erectile Dysfunction And Need Help by udede(m): 3:34pm On Jun 30, 2021
Is this your picture with your girlfriend. Na waaoo so white pipo dey sufa election diffusion ?


On a serious note are you a company about to advertise some drugs by starting a tread,or are you real ?

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Re: HELP! I Have Erectile Dysfunction And Need Help by Hoodforever: 3:37pm On Jun 30, 2021
udede:
Is this your picture with your girlfriend. Na waaoo so white pipo dey sufa election diffusion ?


On a serious note are you a company about to advertise some drugs by starting a tread,or are you real ?
did you see me advertise any drug?

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Re: HELP! I Have Erectile Dysfunction And Need Help by udede(m): 3:45pm On Jun 30, 2021
Hoodforever:
did you see me advertise any drug?
you went off line by using that picture. Its not necessary when it's not yours.
Re: HELP! I Have Erectile Dysfunction And Need Help by johhbekeboh09: 7:50pm On Jun 30, 2021
Looks you masturbate ?!
Re: HELP! I Have Erectile Dysfunction And Need Help by Hoodforever: 9:39pm On Jun 30, 2021
johhbekeboh09:
Looks you masturbate ?!
no I don't, I have never even attempted it before
Re: HELP! I Have Erectile Dysfunction And Need Help by johhbekeboh09: 7:44am On Jul 01, 2021
Hoodforever:
no I don't, I have never even attempted it before

PM me on facebook (CJ Bekebho or email bekebohjohn@gmail.com) for confidential discussions of your case
Re: HELP! I Have Erectile Dysfunction And Need Help by 2livescrew: 12:31pm On Jul 02, 2021
Hoodforever:
I have been having ED for a while now(maybe years) and I think it is caused by an infection from a time I used public toilet.

I'm not really sure when it started because there was a period (months) I absteined from sex, and during that period was when I used a public toilet. I got a girlfriend sometime last year and every time we try to have sex, I notice that I can't get an erection. Even if I get, it would not be as firm as it is supposed to be and when I start thrusting, I lose the erection in a matter of seconds or a few minutes. Sometimes she uses a hands on me so that I can get my erection back but it just keeps going down.

It's very embarrassing and disappointing, I can always see the disappointment on her face.
I've taken some herbal medications recently but me and girlfriend don't stay in the same area, so there is no way to know if the medication worked and I can't bear such disappointment again when we eventually meet up and the medication doesn't work.

Please, if there is anyone who knows a medication I can take that is sure to work or a way to find out if the one I have taken already worked, because I can't cheat on her to find that out.

You need to first know the cause of your ED before looking for a cure,find the the cause if its diabetes,stress or other ailment.ED is related to heart disease because if the heart is no longer pumping blood to the right areas issues like ED crop up,
Re: HELP! I Have Erectile Dysfunction And Need Help by Hoodforever: 2:59pm On Jul 02, 2021
2livescrew:

You need to first know the cause of your ED before looking for a cure,find the the cause if its diabetes,stress or other ailment.ED is related to heart disease because if the heart is no longer pumping blood to the right areas issues like ED crop up,
ok, thanks
Re: HELP! I Have Erectile Dysfunction And Need Help by dicosuccess(m): 10:38am On Jul 03, 2021
Do you still experience your morning wood?
Re: HELP! I Have Erectile Dysfunction And Need Help by Ghostmode2two(m): 12:38pm On Jul 03, 2021
OP be very careful of people who ask you to PM them as they could scam you. What's your age range? Take care of your diabetes and heart issue first and stop taking those useless concortions
Re: HELP! I Have Erectile Dysfunction And Need Help by Ghostmode2two(m): 12:39pm On Jul 03, 2021
dicosuccess:
Do you still experience your morning wood?
what if he doesn't have his morning wood? Any solution?
Re: HELP! I Have Erectile Dysfunction And Need Help by dicosuccess(m): 1:30pm On Jul 03, 2021
Ghostmode2two:
what if he doesn't have his morning wood? Any solution?

If he noticed he hasn't been having morning wood consecutively for a long time, it can also be a cause of erectile dysfunction.

Possible solution
He should stop thinking too much so as not to get depressed. (Thinking won't solve anything)
Take medication for blood flow and circulation

Test if he is diabetic, (if yes, it should be treated).

Also when you consume sugar too much, pile will come in. Which is not healthy also.
So avoid sugar or carbonated drinks for now.

Have a enough rest, and eat vegetables.

The best option is to visit a doctor/urologist.
Re: HELP! I Have Erectile Dysfunction And Need Help by Ghostmode2two(m): 3:06pm On Jul 03, 2021
dicosuccess:


If he noticed he hasn't been having morning wood consecutively for a long time, it can also be a cause of erectile dysfunction.

Possible solution
He should stop thinking too much so as not to get depressed. (Thinking won't solve anything)
Take medication for blood flow and circulation
.Thanks for this

Test if he is diabetic, (if yes, it should be treated).

Also when you consume sugar too much, pile will come in. Which is not healthy also.
So avoid sugar or carbonated drinks for now.

Have a enough rest, and eat vegetables.

The best option is to visit a doctor/urologist.
Re: HELP! I Have Erectile Dysfunction And Need Help by Hoodforever: 4:08pm On Jul 04, 2021
dicosuccess:
Do you still experience your morning wood?
yes I still get it
Re: HELP! I Have Erectile Dysfunction And Need Help by Hoodforever: 4:10pm On Jul 04, 2021
Ghostmode2two:
OP be very careful of people who ask you to PM them as they could scam you. What's your age range? Take care of your diabetes and heart issue first and stop taking those useless concortions
diabetes? I check my sugar regularly, it's normal.

Can my sugar level be normal and I still have diabetes?

I'm 24
Re: HELP! I Have Erectile Dysfunction And Need Help by Hoodforever: 4:11pm On Jul 04, 2021
dicosuccess:


If he noticed he hasn't been having morning wood consecutively for a long time, it can also be a cause of erectile dysfunction.

Possible solution
He should stop thinking too much so as not to get depressed. (Thinking won't solve anything)
Take medication for blood flow and circulation

Test if he is diabetic, (if yes, it should be treated).

Also when you consume sugar too much, pile will come in. Which is not healthy also.
So avoid sugar or carbonated drinks for now.

Have a enough rest, and eat vegetables.

The best option is to visit a doctor/urologist.
thanks for this, I plan on visiting a doctor soon.

I still think it's an infection because I had raw sex with my Gf recently and the next time she was supposed to see her period, it didn't come. We know infection is the other thing aside pregnancy that stops a girl from seeing her period
Re: HELP! I Have Erectile Dysfunction And Need Help by Ghostmode2two(m): 4:57pm On Jul 04, 2021
Hoodforever:
diabetes? I check my sugar regularly, it's normal.

Can my sugar level be normal and I still have diabetes?

I'm 24
It is good that you check your sugar level regularly and your blood sugar level is normal but you see diabetes is a very trickish condition, it could still slow the way the body works. Are you having relationship issue with your partner? Some ED is caused by psychological issues, emotional issues. Don't stress yourself too much, ED happens to every man once in a while please make yourself emotional balanced and please don't think about sex too much, erection will surely come just be patient. Do you have kids already? Some sex drugs have very bad side effects. Since you said your diabetes is under full control, it is fine but is your BP okay? Are you taking any pills to control BP? As some BP drugs can cause ED. Please eat lots of fruits and vegetables. Fruits like Banana and water melon are natural sex stimulants also chocolate too. Try to engage in Kengel exercise to tighten your pelvic floor muscles. Read about Kengel exercise on the internet and try to engage it it. Do more of aerobic exercises
Re: HELP! I Have Erectile Dysfunction And Need Help by Hoodforever: 5:24pm On Jul 04, 2021
Ghostmode2two:
It is good that you check your sugar level regularly and your blood sugar level is normal but you see diabetes is a very trickish condition, it could still slow the way the body works. Are you having relationship issue with your partner? Some ED is caused by psychological issues, emotional issues. Don't stress yourself too much, ED happens to every man once in a while please make yourself emotional balanced and please don't think about sex too much, erection will surely come just be patient. Do you have kids already? Some sex drugs have very bad side effects. Since you said your diabetes is under full control, it is fine but is your BP okay? Are you taking any pills to control BP? As some BP drugs can cause ED. Please eat lots of fruits and vegetables. Fruits like Banana and water melon are natural sex stimulants also chocolate too. Try to engage in Kengel exercise to tighten your pelvic floor muscles. Read about Kengel exercise on the internet and try to engage it it. Do more of aerobic exercises
wow, I really appreciate that you took out your time to type all this.

I don't have any relationship issues, I dont take any blood pressure drugs, I don't have kids.

I replied someone here as to why I think mine is caused by an infection because after having sex with my girlfriend she didn't see her period when she was supposed to and she isn't pregnant plus I just believe I'm too young to be having all these problems you mentioned above
Re: HELP! I Have Erectile Dysfunction And Need Help by Ghostmode2two(m): 6:34pm On Jul 04, 2021
Hoodforever:
wow, I really appreciate that you took out your time to type all this.

I don't have any relationship issues, I dont take any blood pressure drugs, I don't have kids.

I replied someone here as to why I think mine is caused by an infection because after having sex with my girlfriend she didn't see her period when she was supposed to and she isn't pregnant plus I just believe I'm too young to be having all these problems you mentioned above

God will not let you have those issues, as you said about the possibility of some infections then find out and get yourself treated okay. In life we are to help one another. There is something I will tell you use but check your doctor about the infection stuff first.
Re: HELP! I Have Erectile Dysfunction And Need Help by Hoodforever: 9:27pm On Jul 04, 2021
Ghostmode2two:


God will not let you have those issues, as you said about the possibility of some infections then find out and get yourself treated okay. In life we are to help one another. There is something I will tell you use but check your doctor about the infection stuff first.
thanks allot
Re: HELP! I Have Erectile Dysfunction And Need Help by Ghostmode2two(m): 10:25pm On Jul 04, 2021
Hoodforever:
thanks allot
you are most welcome
Re: HELP! I Have Erectile Dysfunction And Need Help by Hoodforever: 7:11am On Jul 05, 2021
Domale:
I think I might have ED
it's best to go see a doctor then cos i plan on doing so soon
Re: HELP! I Have Erectile Dysfunction And Need Help by dan761(m): 7:25am On Jul 05, 2021
Don't Hesitate Pay Attention to it Quickly before its too Late ...If you have a Personal Doctor do see him quickly .

Try as much as Possible to Stay off Sugary things . Minerals ,Beer . Don't be too Anxious and eager when you want to Play .

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