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Hello House please I urgently need your advice. There is this girl I have deep feelings for and I can't help myself but keep loving this girl but the problem is that the girl is not reciprocating the Love and have not agreed to my request. She is from my town and have good character and I am very serious about settling down with such a girl but she is playing very hard to get and I am not the patient type.
Few days ago we engaged in hot conversation and I demanded she should tell me her position and that resulted in the last message she sent to me.

Here is the message

"Chima pls don't hurt yourself because of me I can't love I don't know I don't know what is wrong with me I don't want to be with you and when you will take our relationship to next and I will say no its hurt the most I wish that I can love u back I have tried but its not coming pls don't wait for me so that I won't waste your time and sorry pls��"
Please what do I do at this moment.
Please I need mature advice no insults please!

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The message is clear she cannot reciprocate your love. Don’t force love you will regret it later

Bro, the girl don tell u no, move on!!! There are girls out there u will woo and they would accept. At least she is honest with u. If it some girls, they would pretend to love u and eat ur money, food and time. Wise up and move on bro.

Alaigbopress:
Hello House please I urgently need your advice. There is this girl I have deep feelings for and I can't help myself but keep loving this girl but the problem is that the girl is not reciprocating the Love and have not agreed to my request. She is from my town and have good character and I am very serious about settling down with such a girl but she is playing very hard to get and I am not the patient type.
Few days ago we engaged in hot conversation and I demanded she should tell me her position and that resulted in the last message she sent to me.

Here is the message

"Chima pls don't hurt yourself because of me I can't love I don't know I don't know what is wrong with me I don't want to be with you and when you will take our relationship to next and I will say no its hurt the most I wish that I can love u back I have tried but its not coming pls don't wait for me so that I won't waste your time and sorry pls��"
Please what do I do at this moment.
Please I need mature advice no insults please!

A grown as nigga...why are you doing like this?

This day's.. ladies don't take guy's for granted again unless those under 20's.. if a lady want to date you and don't want to look so cheap, they will never tell you they are not interested. They will not just give you much attention, some might tell you they are not interested but want you to try more just depend on how she said it... If you try more like two times and no positive answer... please let her be for you not to look stupid to her, she will look down on you.. this day's men don't waste much time on ladies anymore... And most of these ladies dey Waka pass we men.. she fit don know how the thing go end....

Someone came out straight with you about her feeling u still want advice? You dont force love it flows naturally sorry bro nor let this your obsession put u for wahala

Love can't be forced bro.

Move on, everyone has a replacement.
As it is now, you're beginning to underestimate your worth.

If she's gonna be yours, I'm sure she would have consented right from the beginning cos real men got no time to waste all in the name of relationship.

If she says No, oga, delete her number and move.
Don't be a SIMPle man.

And never forget this golden piece of advice:

"There's no gain in begging a woman, you'll lose your honour"

Peace
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You don't love her yet lets say you are CRUSHING on her.

You will have a lot of crush later in life but focus on having a more comfortable life for now

Why niggas dey fall my hands like this