Most times here on Romanceland, men talk with fervor and anger about how horrible society treats them in relation to their female gender. The female gender themselves engender this poor treatments, that most guys now seek various means, tactics or philosophy to mitigate damage and heartbreak.
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My main point is, if truly, female in general, or the ones that frequent this sections seeks smooth and cordial relationship with men, then it's easy for them to see where the shoe really hurts the men from how much they talk about women's cold-heartedness and failings, so such women with Nairaland exposure is or I expect to behave differently with grace and understanding in relating with their men.

But I doubt this...... I feel it should make them wiser in dealing with guys for successful relationship, but I still doubt it..cos I feel women don't really seek peaceful cohabitation but a selfish motive that prioritise their own happiness, only, over the good of both partners and the relationship itself.
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This I find amazing, and too bad about women's way of reasoning, which is quite contradictory to their quest for happy relationship. Ironic.
I stand to be corrected though.

Hypergamy and innate Solipsism.

Very ruthless living in the head.

TarOrfeeek:
Hypergamy and innate Solipsism.

Very ruthless living in the head.

If that be the case, then everything seems hopeless in their case

TarOrfeeek:
Hypergamy and innate Solipsism.

Very ruthless living in the head.

Just few words and you made so much sense that may take me a book to write. Why you get sense like this ? Why?

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Why are the good women unmarried?
Truth is, you guys are suffering from your clinge to bad choices. There was a time when girls were nice and good, you remember those our secondary school days with the letters and kind words... But many of you messed up the relationship afterwards. Now we have social media and very very crazy materialistic girls. Lick your wounds.

LadyRosa:
Why are the good women unmarried?
Truth is, you guys are suffering from your clinge to bad choices. There was a time when girls were nice and good, you remember those our secondary school days with the letters and kind words... But many of you messed up the relationship afterwards. Now we have social media and very very crazy materialistic girls. Lick your wounds.

Haba!!
No, why blame Guys for poor Relationships diz days?
Agreed many Guys doz days will just Fvckk a young, naive girl and Dump her..
But dats not d cause of d poor romantic relationship we re having diz days..

D Cause is Simply Social Media influence!!
All our Girls want to be Kim Kardashian, Nicki Minaj, Chioma Davido, JaneMena, etc..
But how many Guys (Even Yahoo guys or married men) can help them achieve dat?

Dats y you see Many Young Girls diz days Running from Pillar to Post looking for Rich Boyfriends..
One of my 21 yr old female Friend has like 3 Boyfriends but on WhatsApp Status, she post sexy pictures and Stylishly claim she is Single to d viewers..

@d end of dis, one Badt Guy will promise her 50k, Fcvkk her, give her N10k like two times n Take Off!! She will now go back to her Boyfriends..

So Materialism/Social media Influence is the cause of 'Empty' Relationships you see among Young pple..
Some Young Girls Hardly know the Value of Chastity and Good Moral Lifestyle..
If only they Knew..

Vinnie2000:




Haba!!
No, why blame Guys for poor Relationships diz days?
Agreed many Guys doz days will just Fvckk a young, naive girl and Dump her..
But dats not d cause of d poor romantic relationship we re having diz days..

D Cause is Simply Social Media influence!!
All our Girls want to be Kim Kardashian, Nicki Minaj, Chioma Davido, JaneMena, etc..
But how many Guys (Even Yahoo guys or married men) can help them achieve dat?

Dats y you see Many Young Girls diz days Running from Pillar to Post looking for Rich Boyfriends..
One of my 21 yr old female Friend has like 3 Boyfriends but on WhatsApp Status, she post sexy pictures and Stylishly claim she is Single to d viewers..

@d end of dis, one Badt Guy will promise her 50k, Fcvkk her, give her N10k like two times n Take Off!! She will now go back to her Boyfriends..

So Materialism/Social media Influence is the cause of 'Empty' Relationships you see among Young pple..
Some Young Girls Hardly know the Value of Chastity and Good Moral Lifestyle..
If only they Knew..

Stop generalizing please.
There's no such thing as ALL the girls trying to be Kim. Truth is men are first attracted by what they see while women are attracted mostly by what they hear(reasons why a smooth talker can get a girl laid easily if he knows his game).
Many of you guys get easily attracted to women who seem flashy or well endowed or with good appearance and most times su h attractive clouds the main purpose of your need in a woman rather than your wants.
Reasons why every Saturday ladies with loose character gets married while the decent ones are struggling in their relationship.

I'm a very crazy woman and I love to enjoy life and don't care whose horse is gored. From my experience, I noticed that my craziness attracts very good guys, SERIOUSLY. I mean good guys, quiet and 'husbandable'. But if I try to do 'holy holy' na all these jaguda guys go dey wink.Most of you find it difficult to stay with simple women.

I had an ex who left his girlfriend because he complained she is too calm. I see the babe, very calm lady and obedient. When I asked why he dumped he told me she is too docile and whatever he wants she does without grudges. Can you just imagine?!

So we started dating and I became a terror! Him buy phones and laptops tire for computer village because if he pisses me off na wetin I use dey stone am. But he left a cool woman for a cray cray, so na him choice and me I dey game.

LadyRosa:


Stop generalizing please.
There's no such thing as ALL the girls trying to be Kim. Truth is men are first attracted by what they see while women are attracted mostly by what they hear(reasons why a smooth talker can get a girl laid easily if he knows his game).
Many of you guys get easily attracted to women who seem flashy or well endowed or with good appearance and most times su h attractive clouds the main purpose of your need in a woman rather than your wants.
Reasons why every Saturday ladies with loose character gets married while the decent ones are struggling in their relationship.

I'm a very crazy woman and I love to enjoy life and don't care whose horse is gored. From my experience, I noticed that my craziness attracts very good guys, SERIOUSLY. I mean good guys, quiet and 'husbandable'. But if I try to do 'holy holy' na all these jaguda guys go dey wink.Most of you find it difficult to stay with simple women.

I had an ex who left his girlfriend because he complained she is too calm. I see the babe, very calm lady and obedient. When I asked why he dumped he told me she is too docile and whatever he wants she does without grudges. Can you just imagine?!

So we started dating and I became a terror! Him buy phones and laptops tire for computer village because if he pisses me off na wetin I use dey stone am. But he left a cool woman for a cray cray, so na him choice and me I dey game.

word .. This then brings the same question. Why do good men fall into the wrong women hand?

LadyRosa:


Stop generalizing please.
There's no such thing as ALL the girls trying to be Kim. Truth is men are first attracted by what they see while women are attracted mostly by what they hear(reasons why a smooth talker can get a girl laid easily if he knows his game).
Many of you guys get easily attracted to women who seem flashy or well endowed or with good appearance and most times su h attractive clouds the main purpose of your need in a woman rather than your wants.
Reasons why every Saturday ladies with loose character gets married while the decent ones are struggling in their relationship.

I'm a very crazy woman and I love to enjoy life and don't care whose horse is gored. From my experience, I noticed that my craziness attracts very good guys, SERIOUSLY. I mean good guys, quiet and 'husbandable'. But if I try to do 'holy holy' na all these jaguda guys go dey wink.Most of you find it difficult to stay with simple women.

I had an ex who left his girlfriend because he complained she is too calm. I see the babe, very calm lady and obedient. When I asked why he dumped he told me she is too docile and whatever he wants she does without grudges. Can you just imagine?!

So we started dating and I became a terror! Him buy phones and laptops tire for computer village because if he pisses me off na wetin I use dey stone am. But he left a cool woman for a cray cray, so na him choice and me I dey game.

Owk..You have made some gud points..

But reasonable Guys likes Quiet, cool and sensible Girls..
It's Crazy Guys that will tell you dat they like Wild Girls..
maybe only for fcvkking tho..

because Quiet Girls are very Shy and reserved in sexual activities..
Unlike The Wild Girls who will succk Dicck after 1st round, Give you Angles 45,90,360,etc during d Banging..
Maybe dats y dat ur Ex left his Quiet/docile Girlfriend for you..

Mide3367:
word .. This then brings the same question. Why do good men fall into the wrong women hand?

I don't know...
You're a man, maybe you can tell me.

LadyRosa:


Stop generalizing please.
There's no such thing as ALL the girls trying to be Kim. Truth is men are first attracted by what they see while women are attracted mostly by what they hear(reasons why a smooth talker can get a girl laid easily if he knows his game).
Many of you guys get easily attracted to women who seem flashy or well endowed or with good appearance and most times su h attractive clouds the main purpose of your need in a woman rather than your wants.
Reasons why every Saturday ladies with loose character gets married while the decent ones are struggling in their relationship.

I'm a very crazy woman and I love to enjoy life and don't care whose horse is gored. From my experience, I noticed that my craziness attracts very good guys, SERIOUSLY. I mean good guys, quiet and 'husbandable'. But if I try to do 'holy holy' na all these jaguda guys go dey wink.Most of you find it difficult to stay with simple women.

I had an ex who left his girlfriend because he complained she is too calm. I see the babe, very calm lady and obedient. When I asked why he dumped he told me she is too docile and whatever he wants she does without grudges. Can you just imagine?!

So we started dating and I became a terror! Him buy phones and laptops tire for computer village because if he pisses me off na wetin I use dey stone am. But he left a cool woman for a cray cray, so na him choice and me I dey game.

LIES...................

Spider20:
LIES...................

Accepted.