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No Sex Before Marriage ( I'm Taking A Break) by fineboynl(m): 6:59pm On Jul 26, 2021
Sex is nothing and I hate it when a girl is making it to be something as I will never be interested. I once break up with a virgin even when she was crying still I revoke her as I never wanted one and will never forced one neither value it.

She thought i would be excited when she told me she was a virgin even wanted me to carry Her to the hospital to check and confirm it myself.

But I wasn't really interested in anything to do with it as I keep telling her that virgin means nothing to me and I think she has got the wrong guy. And it's best she look for someone else, atleast who will value it but definitely not me and in fact for that reason I was mean to her and broke up with her for her own good.

It's not true that I don't like or love her, but I have a principle and rules of engagement, if by this my age I don't know what I want and what excite me it all means I don't know what I am doing in life.

But Yet she never wanted to leave me and crying, it took her 1year to fully get ever me because once in a while she will call even when I blocked her and delete her contact.

Maybe she knows I was a good guy and very sincere in my nature of person and it wasn't a manipulation or something I was just the wrong guy. I'm only attracted to girls who don't see sex as anything and because you sleep with them shouldn't be a yastick of some sort or to get myself entangle into something or trouble. Same fate has affected so many girls in the past I can't make mentioned of. Sex should be mutual and come naturally, i like and value my peace.

Look like it will repeat itself again.

Here is the brief story. I meant this mature girl recently and we have a thing for each other as the interest was there. She is now so fond of me to the extent she is worried and not happy if she doesn't heard from me. The problem now is she has make a rules "no sex until marriage" I know want to get married but should that be at my peace? what I will be doing in such a relationship?

Each passing day I don't call less than 30minuts call. Even the call she called me I am the one that sent her the card. When I go visiting her she want me to buy something when coming. I am investing money, time in all this while she just sit there and enjoying it. Initially she said no sex before marriage I just wave it like a joke which many girls always says. But it's seem she is taking it too far.

The reason I was still communicating with her I don't want her to feel I disappeared because she said no sex. But relationship doesn't work like that by making her own condition.

Just this evening I was beginning to stop picking her calls and start ignoring her. Another thought was telling me to make my own condition too and maybe by that she will run by herself. I am not really interested to sleep with her anymore. Because like I said up there I don't do sex when it becomes a big deal or something worth discussing. I have a past of abandoned women in their pant or even unclothedness because just before it they make a condition for wanting to have sex with me.
Re: No Sex Before Marriage ( I'm Taking A Break) by Goldbw122(m): 7:03pm On Jul 26, 2021
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Re: No Sex Before Marriage ( I'm Taking A Break) by Bigredmachine: 7:08pm On Jul 26, 2021
Hmmmm something wey billy goat dey collect anytime dey like...

If u like be him sister or cousin he no mind...

Yet Nigeria girls will be making it look as if they are doing u a life time favour...

Any girl that gives me such condition will only have herself to blame... Cos na handicap I go carry her put

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage ( I'm Taking A Break) by Fountainofyouth(f): 8:29pm On Jul 26, 2021
When a particular moniker keeps opening different threads day after day on anything women, imagine them to be the below;


They shouldn't be taken seriously.

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage ( I'm Taking A Break) by crackhaus: 10:29am On Jul 27, 2021
fineboynl:
Sex is nothing and I hate it when a girl is making it to be something as I will never be interested. I once break up with a virgin even when she was crying still I revoke her as I never wanted one and will never forced one neither value it.

She thought i would be excited when she told me she was a virgin even wanted me to carry Her to the hospital to check and confirm it myself.

But I wasn't really interested in anything to do with it as I keep telling her that virgin means nothing to me and I think she has got the wrong guy. And it's best she look for someone else, atleast who will value it but definitely not me and in fact for that reason I was mean to her and broke up with her for her own good.

It's not true that I don't like or love her, but I have a principle and rules of engagement, if by this my age I don't know what I want and what excite me it all means I don't know what I am doing in life.

But Yet she never wanted to leave me and crying, it took her 1year to fully get ever me because once in a while she will call even when I blocked her and delete her contact.

Maybe she knows I was a good guy and very sincere in my nature of person and it wasn't a manipulation or something I was just the wrong guy. I'm only attracted to girls who don't see sex as anything and because you sleep with them shouldn't be a yastick of some sort or to get myself entangle into something or trouble. Same fate has affected so many girls in the past I can't make mentioned of. Sex should be mutual and come naturally, i like and value my peace.

Look like it will repeat itself again.

Here is the brief story. I meant this mature girl recently and we have a thing for each other as the interest was there. She is now so fond of me to the extent she is worried and not happy if she doesn't heard from me. The problem now is she has make a rules "no sex until marriage" I know want to get married but should that be at my peace? what I will be doing in such a relationship?

Each passing day I don't call less than 30minuts call. Even the call she called me I am the one that sent her the card. When I go visiting her she want me to buy something when coming. I am investing money, time in all this while she just sit there and enjoying it. Initially she said no sex before marriage I just wave it like a joke which many girls always says. But it's seem she is taking it too far.

The reason I was still communicating with her I don't want her to feel I disappeared because she said no sex. But relationship doesn't work like that by making her own condition.

Just this evening I was beginning to stop picking her calls and start ignoring her. Another thought was telling me to make my own condition too and maybe by that she will run by herself. I am not really interested to sleep with her anymore. Because like I said up there I don't do sex when it becomes a big deal or something worth discussing. I have a past of abandoned women in their pant or even unclothedness because just before it they make a condition for wanting to have sex with me.

Guy you need to relax... What's all this?

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage ( I'm Taking A Break) by Regex: 11:34am On Jul 27, 2021
crackhaus:

Guy you need to relax... What's all this?

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage ( I'm Taking A Break) by ahnie: 3:55pm On Jul 27, 2021
Rants from an old over used suya midnight staled male shrinked newspaper.













Nonsense na person like this shrinked male overstretched midnight newspaper dey get very small **preeek**.

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage ( I'm Taking A Break) by gidob(m): 4:02pm On Jul 27, 2021
ahnie:
Rants from an old over used suya midnight staled male shrinked newspaper.













Nonsense na person like this shrinked male overstretched midnight newspaper dey get very small **preeek**.


G grin
Re: No Sex Before Marriage ( I'm Taking A Break) by ahnie: 4:41pm On Jul 27, 2021
gidob:


G grin
Amigo howdy?
Re: No Sex Before Marriage ( I'm Taking A Break) by gidob(m): 4:42pm On Jul 27, 2021
ahnie:

Amigo howdy?

Great!!!
How are you Ahnie?
Re: No Sex Before Marriage ( I'm Taking A Break) by ahnie: 4:42pm On Jul 27, 2021
crackhaus:

Guy you need to relax... What's all this?
My sweet,howdy?
Re: No Sex Before Marriage ( I'm Taking A Break) by ahnie: 4:43pm On Jul 27, 2021
gidob:



Great!!!
How are you Ahnie?
I'm a success,and you?
Re: No Sex Before Marriage ( I'm Taking A Break) by gidob(m): 7:56pm On Jul 27, 2021
ahnie:

I'm a success,and you?

I am a breakthrough grin.....
Re: No Sex Before Marriage ( I'm Taking A Break) by crackhaus: 4:43pm On Jul 28, 2021
ahnie:

My sweet,howdy?
Anna Banana, I dey o.
Re: No Sex Before Marriage ( I'm Taking A Break) by folake4u(f): 9:48pm On Jul 28, 2021
ahnie:
Rants from an old over used suya midnight staled male shrinked newspaper.













Nonsense na person like this shrinked male overstretched midnight newspaper dey get very small **preeek**.


Fatality! Mama Zino.
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Re: No Sex Before Marriage ( I'm Taking A Break) by ahnie: 11:31am On Jul 29, 2021
folake4u:


Fatality! Mama Zino.
grin grin grin

Sweetie blessed morning to you.
Continue making mama Proud.

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Re: No Sex Before Marriage ( I'm Taking A Break) by folake4u(f): 11:51am On Jul 29, 2021
ahnie:


Sweetie blessed morning to you.
Continue making mama Proud.


Aww Good morning Ma.
Thank you so much. I will certainly! smiley smiley
Re: No Sex Before Marriage ( I'm Taking A Break) by ImaIma1(f): 12:24pm On Jul 29, 2021
The things we see on Nairaland
Re: No Sex Before Marriage ( I'm Taking A Break) by frosy1(m): 7:28am On Jul 30, 2021
Most everything be on sex. The youth have bastardized this generation, now every relationship must be sex relationship else they will leave you.
OP sex in relationship doesn't guarantee you a better life after marriage rather think of the values she have to offer.

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