Omo that thing real o...
When i graduated in 19, and someone organised anonymous in my group ,wey Dem dey send anonymous messages, na that time I Sabi say babes I dey follow yarn dey give lecturers quickie for office when everybody don leave faculty and dey even meet them for hotels just for upgrades.
I confirmed that story when the accused started leaving the group that night...
That day ehn that anonymous burst out bubbles o.

folake4u:
When I was in 300level, this particular course Lecturer was disturbing me. Oga failed me oh .
I went to his office with my Aunty who's also a Lecturer to plead with him, all fell on deaf ears. When we were even leaving the office, my Aunty said,"Who are the people sleeping with this ugly thing sef?".
To be honest, that man was ugly as hell.
I was really depressed that period, cos despite him failing me, he'd call me at odd hours, it was frustrating.
My family put up prayers ontop my head and I also was praying, wrote the exam again in 400level, and I had a B; he failed my friends AGAIN.

I even remember a day, when he finished teaching the new 300level students (when I was in 400level), and the class rep brought out 70k sales she made from selling his textbook to the class. She wanted to give him the money, but he told her to give me the money instead. When I went to his office to beg him again to remove the F he had given me, and also give him his 70k, Uncle said, "The 70k is yours, you know what to do". Haaa!
That man is a beast and e nor go better for am for this life.

I have two pressing questions that I would appreciate if you clarify:

1. How do you rewrite a carry over course and get a B?

2. Did the lecturer FAIL you or did you FAIL the course and wanted to beg your way out?

iamtardey:
Yes make I lie small this morning,
Na so one miss pepeye Lecturer offer toto to clear my so many COs dah yr for akungba, I say NO ma, leave my COs, IDC, regardless I'll leave school after 4yrs and never return.

for which department in akungba

This response deserves a standing ovation!

Sheer brilliance in every paragraph.

Bravo!!!

Tadeknkeepcalm:

The thing is....in a bid to uphold some self-righteousness, as indicated in your signature, "I am not a misogynist" you become thoroughly blind. It's true, lecturers do request sex from some students to pass a course (which no one is disputing how evil that is), but it is also true that some students offer sex to lecturers so they could be favoured in their exams. Don't both cases fall under "sex for grades".

It would have been wiser for you to let the guy state his opinion and you, state your own opinion and your experiences rather than try to gag any opinion that doesn't favour "every woman is a victim of our society" which is the bane of those brainwashed to appear "woke". This is an avenue for people to have conversations and be informed about the society so the root cause of certain problems can be fixed rather than being dogmatic so much so that you must only view things through only one lens.

In the end, you will only sound like a bleating wounded sheep rather than a person of reason and end up not achieving anything but only cementing other corrupt mindsets.

Now tell me, since the day you've been bleating all over Nairaland, have you ever changed anyone's opinion? I highly doubt that. You know why, because your replies always reeks of arrogance and self righteousness. You only comment to establish that you're better than everyone and wiser than all. Like one of your woke lords recently said (she knows better now), "we are all trying to out-angel one another".

Maybe if you listen, share your experiences and not just rubbish people and their experiences, you might start seeing the change you want. And if not, move to twitter and continue living in your echo chamber.

This is how the Alpha handles such.

You are a man!

federal9:
My babe called that she wanted to sort two courses, and it was 30k. If I don't send her the 30k within two days that she was gonna sleep with the lecturer. The lecturer wanted sex or money.

Her second statement revealed to me that she was willing to sleep with the lecturer.

I deleted her contact, blocked her on all my social media, and block her from calling me.


I was happy. Some men don't even know they have the power or what it takes to make them happy.

SunLight11:


I had a strong 2.1

I don't get your point.Does having a strong 2.1 mean you can't fail a course?

Let me put it this way,did you really fail the course or the lecturer failed you because of his interest in you?

PrimadonnaO:
A lecturer started trying to intimidate me in 100 level... Threatening that if I don't sleep with him, I'll be in his "black book.".

Well, he didn't know me, then. Maybe he thought I was an olodo. We hadn't even written first semester exam when oga started his intimidation tactics.

Initially, I was a bit worried, but my boyfriend then was an oldie in the school, and reassured me it was mere intimidation, and I only needed to ignore him, and show him I was a smart student.

Oh well, I did that. In courses I was meant to get As in, the wicked man just kept giving me Cs. He knew he couldn't give a D or an E... I'd have recalled the scripts.

I just avoided his elective courses until final year when he took a compulsory course. Another C. Lol.

And then the devil wanted to make him my Project Supervisor.

No jokes, I went into 21 days prayer and fasting... God being faithful, I was miraculously reassigned to another supervisor.

The man started calling me " church girl" and trying to shine teeth with me. Mtchewww.

Anyway, that's how I graduated untouched.

Lecturer that had a reputation of raping students in the office... And the authorities don't come for him.

By 100 level first semester,you already had a boyfriend?
No chills at all

COMPAQ:


Eventually she will use sex to get a job and surprise, surprise she will use sex to do well in the job, especially if its marketing and become many intelligent people boss.

I hear there was this popular senior babe in Zenith bank that was dating the then CBN Governor. This was like 15years ago. On basis of that relationship, she was able to get so many big accounts that this babe was being promoted like every year. In some years sef, she got double promotion. From Entry level to DM in like 3 years.

My brothe, mark the end story of such people, it is always disastrous. Bad marriage, sometimes no kids, life of clubbing and drugs.
No woman that expends her life in servicing men for gains and promotions succeeds at the end

Drella:


By 100 level first semester,you already had a boyfriend?
No chills at all

Yes o. Lol.

The first LOML!

Homeboiy:
Na students dey fight to date lecturers in my own school

winch screwl be that oooo ?

Missionaire:


I don't know what is wrong with you guys.

The poster said "Osho girls in school" not "girls in school " or "All girls in school".

He never generalized his statement and yes he is right.

You asked people to share their experiences but in your mind, you are already biased against the male lecturers.


If everybody share their experiences here, you would find that there are some that were approached by lecturers for sex and grades and there are some who approached lecturers for sex and grade.

But they won't say. Only those who have been approached by lecturers will say anything.

What you requested for is people's experiences and not the morality of actions and experience is what that young man has shared. It is not on your place to begin making a case for anybody whether the lecturers or the female students.

Don't be bias, allow everybody to say their experiences.

Please, I am not the OP. The guy who carefully refused to call out the lecturer but rather focus on the ladies was clearly trying to shift the blame. Even a baby could see that. We should chastise ladies but let's not shy away from holding each other accountable

Missionaire:


I don't know what is wrong with you guys.

The poster said "Osho girls in school" not "girls in school " or "All girls in school".

He never generalized his statement and yes he is right.

You asked people to share their experiences but in your mind, you are already biased against the male lecturers.


If everybody share their experiences here, you would find that there are some that were approached by lecturers for sex and grades and there are some who approached lecturers for sex and grade.

But they won't say. Only those who have been approached by lecturers will say anything.

What you requested for is people's experiences and not the morality of actions and experience is what that young man has shared. It is not on your place to begin making a case for anybody whether the lecturers or the female students.

Don't be bias, allow everybody to say their experiences.

I am not the OP. Yes, girls make the move sometimes l, but coming to a thread created to share experiences of lecturers asking for sex in exchange for marks to tell people that it's the ladies that make the offer instead is clearly a deliberate attempt suppress the discussion and shift the blame to another party. Even a kid could see that. The comparison is not fair cause the lecturers are clearly in charge of their choices. They could decide to do the right thing and the students would have no choice than to move on. The person I quoted simply aimed at undermining the atrocities of these lecturers by giving the impression there are equally shared with the students. Such defensive comparisons are ugly and we men do that a lot as if it makes us better men. We are humans, we have sisters and daughters, let's learn to hold each other accountable and the world a better place for them.

GeneralPula:


How does a student offering sex equate lecturer threatening to deny you your actual score if you don't sleep with him?
Except in movies, I've never seen this happening in reality.

If you put a yam outside and a passing goat chop it, will it be realistic for you to go after the goat, knowing well enough goat didn't come into your apartment to chop the yam..?

These girls don't only fvck lecturers to pass... They'll fvck a doctor so as not to be paying for health services... They'll fvck a landlord so as not for them not to pay rent... They'll fvck a uber man so as not to be paying for transports...

Same girls, whenever they want to report to you.. They'll be like;'
Lecturer is demanding for sex or she'll fail
landlord is demanding for sex cuz she's owing rent
Uber man is demanding for sex cuz she wanted to transport somewhere and she has no cash

These girls, stories and forming victims are like 5&6..

You can't blame a man for accepting sex advances from any lady, just as you can't blame any lady for collecting free money from any man..

Did you just compare the relation between a man and a woman with that of a goat and a yam? So we should start hiding our sisters and daughters cause, like the goats, the men do not have common sense to know what is wrong or right? It's funny how you guys would go to any length to defend corruption in Nigeria.

Dude, a lecturer who accepts sex for marks is not the same as a random guy who accepts sex from ladies in exchange for material items. I couldn't care less about the later but in case of the lecturer, he is corrupting the institution and cheating the system. There's nothing like goat and yam thoery here. You make a mess of your job and give the excuse of "the student approached me". Did the school employ the student or you to ensure proper flow of education? The student is a customer to the university and the education/certificate you're giving is the service/good. You don't give away your boss' items cause a customer offered sex.

BigYash:
I no sure say you go uni for Nigeria.

Are lecturers denied thier salaries when they refuse to sleep with students in Nigeria?

Drella:


I don't get your point.Does having a strong 2.1 mean you can't fail a course?

Let me put it this way,did you really fail the course or the lecturer failed you because of his interest in you?

Don't bother, okay?

SunLight11:

Don't bother, okay?

Don't bother what? Answering that question will give you sense.

GboyegaD:


No vex, you get level so? Why shame them when you frolicking with them?

I can't say no to fucck bruh, you a hater.

GeneralPula:


How does a student offering sex equate lecturer threatening to deny you your actual score if you don't sleep with him?
Except in movies, I've never seen this happening in reality.

If you put a yam outside and a passing goat chop it, will it be realistic for you to go after the goat, knowing well enough goat didn't come into your apartment to chop the yam..?

These girls don't only fvck lecturers to pass... They'll fvck a doctor so as not to be paying for health services... They'll fvck a landlord so as not for them not to pay rent... They'll fvck a uber man so as not to be paying for transports...

Same girls, whenever they want to report to you.. They'll be like;'
Lecturer is demanding for sex or she'll fail
landlord is demanding for sex cuz she's owing rent
Uber man is demanding for sex cuz she wanted to transport somewhere and she has no cash

These girls, stories and forming victims are like 5&6..

You can't blame a man for accepting sex advances from any lady, just as you can't blame any lady for collecting free money from any man..

Thank you so much for being so frank on this.

Don't mind that wounded goat abi wounded alligator.

Kingsuave:
Wuna never know wetin the sup for higher institutions nowadays abi?

I get female course mate(Name withheld) wey the talk with our department HOD for phone,like say na mate them be.

Wuna never still get?

Na based on say them dae gbansh na

Stone03:


I knew one of them that passed through that way. She was in unizik but always in Lagos only for her to submit pussy to pass.
She got graduated and began to look for job. This lady kept failing interviews to the point that even local factories couldn't employ her lol.

Sad

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Coldie:
A particular lecturer in social sciences IN ONE OF THE POPULAR schools in the southsouth thats also a politician from Rivers state, there was a time he wanted to sleep with a particular girl, but he couldnt, he had tried everything possible. What he did was during exam he put the girl in a seat where he knew she couldnt do anything, but the girl ready come. when he knew that wasnt working, he planned a new strategy.

from the roll the girl is staying someone it seems whispered or made some kind of noise, he barked who was that who was that; ''from this role like this minus 50 marks, which happens to be the roll the girl is in''. They cried out he shut them up and said you better make sure you score up to 50, cause if you dont i would put it on your sheet, next year i will minus the remaining.

All because he wants to sleep with one girl.

Rivers State University

Well its painful how lecturers got really bombarded for all....ladies refused to read, failed n then approach a lecturer that she wants to pass (is this moral?). The lecturer says OK, nothing goes for nothing....pull down d skirt....u said he's immoral... Then u refused to bleep and he refused to pass...then u go ahead n tell your friends, u failed becos u refused to bleep him....well-done.

WoundedLamb:


I am not the OP. Yes, girls make the move sometimes l, but coming to a thread created to share experiences of lecturers asking for sex in exchange for marks to tell people that it's the ladies that make the offer instead is clearly a deliberate attempt suppress the discussion and shift the blame to another party. Even a kid could see that. The comparison is not fair cause the lecturers are clearly in charge of their choices. They could decide to do the right thing and the students would have no choice than to move on. The person I quoted simply aimed at undermining the atrocities of these lecturers by giving the impression there are equally shared with the students. Such defensive comparisons are ugly and we men do that a lot as if it makes us better men. We are humans, we have sisters and daughters, let's learn to hold each other accountable and the world a better place for them.

Again, I will still tell you that you are quite wrong. The young man didn't say "it is the ladies that make the offers instead.... "

He instead referred to a particular set of ladies and that is why he used the term "Osho girls". And this is a fact.

Personally, I don't know what your issue is. There was no comparison. Haven't you heard about female lecturers and teachers going after male students?

The comment of that young man gives us another perspective to look at. He didn't blame the ladies, he didn't even blame anybody. He just said that there are some particular girls who also go after lecturers to exchange sex for grades.

Now, this opens our eyes to another problem. It makes us to understand that this problem is a two way problem and prepares our minds to bring up solutions with these two problems in mind.

We should learn to be realistic. Why do you think prisons are built? Why are they punishments in the constitution?
It is because while we hope that people would do right, we also prepare in case some people don't do right.

Do you think you can stop sex for grades by removing all male lecturers and replacing them with females? It doesn't work that way.

Once the problem is identified, the solutions would be easier to bring up and the problems are SOME lecturers asking for sex to give grades and SOME ladies asking for sex to get grades. We can't discuss one and leave the other neither can we solve one and leave the other unsolved.

They are equally important and until people like you stop being myopic, we will continue to waste time on frivolities instead of creating sustainable systems that can curb or reduce this menace

WoundedLamb:


Are lecturers denied thier salaries when they refuse to sleep with students in Nigeria?

Are politicians denied their salaries when they refuse to loot public funds?

Does life deny people their partners when they refuse to cheat?

You must be realistic to know that not everybody will follow the rules and regulations of a country and place. This is why we have punishments and prisons for those who chose to go outside the law.

We have karma because some people will not do what is right.

Your focus should be on how to effectively implement regulations, laws and policies already established in our constitution and schools.

You cannot throw the baby with the bath water. Not every lecturer ask for sex to give grades or agree to sex for grades and the same is for the female students.

Now, what can be done to ensure that those bad eggs amongst the students and lecturers punished and prevented from continuing their immoral activities?

This is what you should be thinking about and not living in a world in your mind where everyone is good and everything okay.

WoundedLamb:


Did you just compare the relation between a man and a woman with that of a goat and a yam? So we should start hiding our sisters and daughters cause, like the goats, the men do not have common sense to know what is wrong or right? It's funny how you guys would go to any length to defend corruption in Nigeria.

Dude, a lecturer who accepts sex for marks is not the same as a random guy who accepts sex from ladies in exchange for material items. I couldn't care less about the later but in case of the lecturer, he is corrupting the institution and cheating the system. There's nothing like goat and yam thoery here. You make a mess of your job and give the excuse of "the student approached me". Did the school employ the student or you to ensure proper flow of education? The student is a customer to the university and the education/certificate you're giving is the service/good. You don't give away your boss' items cause a customer offered sex.

If a lady position herself in a manner that suggests to a lecturer that she wants to engage in sex for grades (putting the yam outside) and the lecturer sleeps with the student (goat eating the yam), you can't blame that lecturer (the goat) however, it still doesn't mean that the lecturer-goat shouldn't be punished.

There is an amount of evil in the average man and while some have learned to allow the good in them to win, some are still struggling.

That is why we have prisons or corrective facilities so that those who are still struggling can be separated from the society to allow those who have allowed the good in them to win to live peacefully.

You cannot solve a crime without seeking to understand why and how that crime was committed. If you don't do this, you would only be tackling the product and not the root cause(s).

Even in America, there are some places you are not advised to be at some certain times because these places increases the chances of you being a victim of crime.

There are some things a female student will do that will increase the chances of her being a target for randy lecturers and again, this doesn't mean the randy lecturers shouldn't be punished. The question now is how can this be done.

You have been going round this thread trying to be philosophical and yet to proffer one concrete solution to curbing this menace.

WoundedLamb:


Please, I am not the OP. The guy who carefully refused to call out the lecturer but rather focus on the ladies was clearly trying to shift the blame. Even a baby could see that. We should chastise ladies but let's not shy away from holding each other accountable

Mr man, that guy didn't focus on anybody and neither did he try to shift the blame to anyone.

He could have spoken on both problems but instead chose to give us another perspective to this menace and as you can see from the comments here, he is right.

How can you hold anybody accountable when you are focused on only one part of the problem.

When you talk about shifting the blame, where was Was blame before? If you put the blame on the lecturers, you are more guilty of what you are trying to accuse him.

Your mind is already prejudiced and you cannot be objective.

SenecaTheYonger:


I meant where you the only one in school banging her or did you hear rumors of others.

Ooh that! Like i stated earlier I don't even stay in the student area talk more of engaging in chitchats about an affair I'm having with a female departmental lecturer with guys in my department. Nop that's childish.

I play most of my games alone after all.

PaaRichie5:


So did you do the do...your quote was a bit vague...

Would you believe me if I say I didn't do the do?

vincentjk:



Ooh that! Like i stated earlier I don't even stay in the student area talk more of engaging in chitchats about an affair I'm having with a female departmental lecturer with guys in my department. Nop that's childish.

I play most of my games alone after all.

Lone wolf. That’s good

SunLight11:

Don't bother, okay?

Okay.

vincentjk:


Would you believe me if I say I didn't do the do?

Your guess is as good as mine. Question answered.