₦airaland Forum

Romanoff:
If the bills are split and he always eats the meat in the pot, what wrong with him bringing more money for his meat snacks?

Dont mind them .... I have that habit of sneaking to pick meat as snacks .... But I must provide the money for replenishment.......

CharisEleos:
What will I do to an adult?
I'll simply let him know he has taken his own portion. So when I'm serving his next meal, no meat.

I know someone who does it and still expects to be served food with meat.

You gonna make a man cry .... Stopeeeetttt .....

What a Punishment.... I must sneak to eat and I must be served and I must pay with money and other ....hmmmm ......

InTheCloudySky:
"My" pot of soup? Rubbish.

I would ask him if he wants more and tell him to eat from it anytime he craves meat or whatever's in the pot (OUR pot of soup).

Good Wife !!

DonroxyII:
My number one bad habit...... I did it to my sister yesterday........

You better stop it!

mariahAngel:
You better stop it!

I can't especially when I'm buoyant!

even with you ... you will have to punish me or I bribe you in other sphere so you can overlook it!

DonroxyII:
I can't especially when I'm buoyant!

So?
You need not sneak around.

even with you ... you will have to punish me or I bribe you in other sphere so you can overlook it!

The look I’ll give you ehn...when next you want to repeat that sh!t, you’d see my face in the pot!

@CharisEleos


Well, that's because I'm the one cooking and it's different from going to the pot after cooking and setting the pot down. It's not a good habit. The soup can get soured like that.

That is why some women lock their soup inside the cabinet. Lol..


@me
Hahahaha....if you lock the soup in the cabinet, I'll will lock my pocket. 1 - 1

Vision101:
@CharisEleos


Well, that's because I'm the one cooking and it's different from going to the pot after cooking and setting the pot down. It's not a good habit. The soup can get soured like that.

That is why some women lock their soup inside the cabinet. Lol..


@me
Hahahaha....if you lock the soup in the cabinet, I'll will lock my pocket. 1 - 1

Me too, I'll lock everywhere.

@CharisEleos

Me too, I'll lock everywhere.


@me
Hahahaha... Lock "everywhere?" I hope it's not what I'm thinking. If it's your soup and food, no problems. With my locked pocket I can buy a decent Iya fusi. When your soup finishes you will look for my pocket. Score = 1 - 2

Vision101:
@CharisEleos

Me too, I'll lock everywhere.


@me
Hahahaha... Lock "everywhere?" I hope it's not what I'm thinking. If it's your soup and food, no problems. With my locked pocket I can buy a decent Iya fusi. When your soup finishes you will look for my pocket. Score = 1 - 2

I will sha lock everywhere. Final.

@CharisEleos

I will sha lock everywhere. Final.

@me
Hahahaha.... you have not won. If you lock everywhere I will report you to my very understanding father and mother in-laws.

Final match. Score: 1 - 3 in my favour.

mariahAngel:
So?
You need not sneak around.

The look I’ll give you ehn...when next you want to repeat that sh!t, you’d see my face in the pot!

.... I'm just spoilt !... It's just like snacks.... something to keep the mouth going when I'm bored or enthused!..... e.g. I'm enjoying a movie and I feel like having a cafeteria feeling .... I just serve piece of meats and some others then bring KFC/Chicken Republic home or when I'm bored and the pot is heavy .... !!
Only if you know how much I can get around looks (I can be very persuasive like "Mummy pls last chance" boy ) ... it will turn to a finger smack on the nose trust me.... and uhmmmmm .......

I just know how to go around it without making it look insulting but Romantic At last, we go dey chop am together because I'm infectious and contagious !!

Kandeed:
how ur equating pot of soup/meat to wallet n money is what is shrinking my spines like who can help us connect the dot

You typed the words before I did.
Exactly what I wanted to type.
How can she equate taking meat from pot and taking money from wallet.

Mehnn...

Lol

DonroxyII:
.... I'm just spoilt !... It's just like snacks.... something to keep the mouth going when I'm bored or enthused!..... e.g. I'm enjoying a movie and I feel like having a cafeteria feeling .... I just serve piece of meats and some others then bring KFC/Chicken Republic home or when I'm bored and the pot is heavy .... !!
Only if you know how much I can get around looks (I can be very persuasive like "Mummy pls last chance" boy ) ... it will turn to a finger smack on the nose trust me.... and uhmmmmm .......

I just know how to go around it without making it look insulting but Romantic At last, we go dey chop am together because I'm infectious and contagious !!

Now, I get it!

You’re the annoyingly persuasive type...just like one of my brothers.
He’d get so persistent, I’d give him whatever he wants just to get him off my nerves. Urgh!

Most boys with sisters are usually entitled spoilt brats!

mariahAngel:
Now, I get it!

You’re the annoyingly persuasive type...just like one of my brothers.
He’d get so persistent, I’d give him whatever he wants just to get him off my nerves. Urgh!

Most boys with sisters are usually entitled spoilt brats!

Hewwwww ... First son with 3 immediate sisters .... Now u know how we get it done ... You just have to help our cravings else we will hang on your shoulders and helping you with chores ... Anything for the meat and when we misbehave we would have done things to make you overlook it for us .... Then you join the crew of those spoiling us ..... I toldya .. I know how to bribe my way out .....

DonroxyII:
Hewwwww ... First son with 3 immediate sisters .... Now u know how we get it done ... You just have to help our cravings else we will hang on your shoulders and helping you with chores ... Anything for the meat and when we misbehave we would have done things to make you overlook it for us .... Then you join the crew of those spoiling us ..... I toldya .. I know how to bribe my way out .....

I said it!

You’re incorrigible. Smh!

Can a person steal what belongs to him? Oga is simply taking meat from the pot, not "stealing" it.

I will shake my head and ask him why he is stealing from himself.

mrblessed:
Can a person steal what belongs to him? Oga is simply taking meat from the pot, not "stealing" it.

Indeed!

Bigredmachine:
House chores and money making no be mate o... They can't be compared, a man should assist where and whenever he can... The wife should be working or doing business to meet up with at least cooking and feeding aspect
... While oga should face house bills, school fees, car maintenance amongst others

Nobody said they are mates. But if you think taking care of the kids and running the entire home is not such a big deal, then it makes sense to say the men should assist with these to the same extent they want the women to assist with running expenses. That's only logical. If the man is too busy to assist with washing clothes, washing plates, cleaning the house, cooking, taking care of the kids, etc., then someone has to do those. That's how things are done in those homes where women work hard to bring in money. You think Nigerian men are spoiling thier women and I agree. We just have slightly different perspectives on how they do it. I think you are spoiling your women by making them house chore machines while other women are out there making money.