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Re: Staying With Your Mother Inlaw by kingsceedon(m): 4:05pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
Rozcol: You be Kpekus or Dickson? 2 Likes
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Re: Staying With Your Mother Inlaw by Nobody: 4:05pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
omoolokunEsin:waka 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Staying With Your Mother Inlaw by richie240: 4:11pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
prealjewel1993:Na to avoid see finish. The person(s) that advised u thus is on point. Females are complex creatures- be it 7 yrs old or 70yrs e nor mata. They will tear each other down psychologically then physically. If u want a happy marriage/life go rent a new house. 1 Like |
Re: Staying With Your Mother Inlaw by od501: 4:12pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
Rubbiish: Na man you be 4 Likes |
Re: Staying With Your Mother Inlaw by Nobody: 4:13pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
Rozcol: You don't have any valid point. I am not a wwoma. AND MY MAMA WILL STAY WITH ME. LET ME SHARE THIS HEART WRENCHING STORY! There is this old woman that stays close to my house. Her sons are very rich but she is not staying with them. They rented an apartment for her and employed the service of a care giver. The care giver collects monthly stipends but doesn't take good care of the woman. Every now and then you will see her on the street dirty and hungry and her kids are money bags. for what will I let my Mama go through that kind of life. I OWE HER MY COMPANY,JOY, LAUGHTER, HAPPINESS AND MANY MORE. WE NIGERIANS ARE VERY WICKED AND HARD HEARTED. I KEEP SAYING IT. THERE IS NO LOVE IN THIS COUNTRY. THAT'S WHY I ANI'T DATING NO ONE FOR NOW. IT'S A WASTE OF TIME. IF I FEEL LIKE HOOKING UP I JUST HOOK UP AND STAY ON MY OWN. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Staying With Your Mother Inlaw by inumidun2010(m): 4:13pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
frozen70: From a NEUTRAL POINT OF VIEW.. When you get married, you adopt a new FAMILY (by MARRIAGE) while withholding the former but the NEW FAMILY becomes your PRIMARY RESPONSIBILITY( Imagine your DAD using your school fees to pay for his brother's business). I also DISCOVER that NIGERIAN MUMS seems too CLINGY to their SONS even after MARRIAGE forgetting that THEIR SON is now SOMEONE'S HUBBY which is not APPLICABLE to FATHERS but they Dont try that with their DAUGHTER because they know that it doesn't go WELL MOST TIMES with their SON-INLAW.. I as an INDIVIDUAL won't stay UNDER THE SAME ROOF with my WIFE and MY MOTHER, but i'll make sure she gets the required attention and CARE from me.. I've attended many WEDDING CEREMONY that the PASTORS begs the MOTHER-INLAWS from both side to please allow the NEW COUPLE enjoy their MARRIAGE without INVASION of PRIVACY and they always emphasize that FATHER-INLAWS Dont do that because they are not WIRED like that... 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Staying With Your Mother Inlaw by Jagaban880: 4:14pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
some women think say dem...smart...ni things you will never dream of doing to..yr own Mothers. and siblings.......u will gladly do and compel ur husband to do to.....his mother and siblings......just because say of marriage.............. 1 Like |
Re: Staying With Your Mother Inlaw by Roysnickz: 4:15pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
[color=#006600][/color][b][/b] Fountainofyouth: Fountainofyouth: Everybody on the face of the earth don't get along with each other, that is the simple fact, siblings fight, friends fight, husband and wife fight, even parents have misunderstanding with their children, even if a person is said to be the best of behavior, there is no how there won't be conflict when staying together for long, daughter and mother in law conflict is no different, so they should stay away from each other to completely avoid misunderstanding cos it is bound to happen. It is mischief makers that keep making it seem as if mother and daughter in law relationship is a big deal when they are not different from every other human being. Fountainofyouth:I find it difficult understanding your point. It seems contradictory. By your submission, everyone on the face of the Earth don't get along with each other, including friends, family members, daughters and mothers in-laws, husband and wife etc. Why then do you choose to separate only daughters and mothers in-laws to avoid conflict? Why not separate husbands and wives also to avoid miss-understanding. I think the fight between husbands and wives is more common than that between daughters and mothers in-laws. 2 Likes |
Re: Staying With Your Mother Inlaw by AutoChick4U(f): 4:15pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
prealjewel1993:I see no problem here cos im sure ur mom can mind her business. Abeg don't rent anything. You lucky u not in India where aunts and distant relatives dey stay same house 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Staying With Your Mother Inlaw by Nobody: 4:16pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
Rozcol: But it's the truth! Mere words, abuses and curses have never been known to erase solid truth! 4 Likes |
Re: Staying With Your Mother Inlaw by Nobody: 4:16pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
prealjewel1993: There is nothing wrong with your mother's living space being proximal to yours, but sometimes you wanna do crazy stuff and not to be reprimanded and sometimes you want your wife to be herself, to know her better and not become conditioned to behaving a certain way because the MIL is within the proximity. My advise? If the location supports business, then two flats becomes a business location and your mom lives there, while you secure a service apartment. There should be certain moets to the rented space that makes it even wonderful to move out of your own home and that becomes your reason to your mom for moving out. If the location does not support business, then by all means put tenants in the two flats and such rents should cover the rent of your new place and leave you balance for home management. Maintaining own homes are very expensive, There is something sweet about owning homes but moving into service apartment you lease for a period and packing out after a few years to even sweeter and classier rented spaces in different parts of the town or different town is amazing. I got bored living in my home, so now I am living in rented serviced apartments. I hate to deal with generator/diesel/maintenance/gate-man nonsense. |
Re: Staying With Your Mother Inlaw by Nobody: 4:17pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
nniero11:Don't take my words seriously, on the contrary I loved momas and I derive joy taking care of the old and weak (I have a personal story about this) I thought you wanted to fight but it seems you are not like the common toxic nairalanders. Please stop doing hookups its dangerous, there are still good women out there |
Re: Staying With Your Mother Inlaw by gift2xl: 4:18pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
Dude go rent an apartment, I know of a guy that stays in the same compound with his mother In-law and his wife. When the wife goes out the dude fxcks the mother In-law. At last he was caught and the wife divorce him. |
Re: Staying With Your Mother Inlaw by Nobody: 4:22pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
gift2xl:kikiki its never a good idea but some people will tag you bad for saying the obvious truth 2 Likes |
Re: Staying With Your Mother Inlaw by Nobody: 4:24pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
Rozcol: It's not a regular thing! I practice abstinence too! Good to know you are not that kind of person! |
Re: Staying With Your Mother Inlaw by seyz91(m): 4:29pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
I thought i was the only one thar noticed it Honestly OP is really dumb I wonder how he own three bedroom he claims sef SonofGod231: |
Re: Staying With Your Mother Inlaw by frozen70(f): 4:30pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
inumidun2010: Women are wired differently from men |
Re: Staying With Your Mother Inlaw by simplesearch: 4:32pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
Seems the whites are better at accommodating people than we blacks. 1 Like |
Re: Staying With Your Mother Inlaw by vickydevoka(m): 4:41pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
SonofGod231:The mother in law will eventually come when he gets married abi. Lol |
Re: Staying With Your Mother Inlaw by newoffer: 4:41pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
Let him rent out the apartment. In my case the marriage didn't last a year. Women will be women. Rivalry is their thing. For a start move out and understand your woman better. |
Re: Staying With Your Mother Inlaw by inumidun2010(m): 4:43pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
Baawahala:Let's deal with this... Your Mom is a DISCIPLINARIAN while your WIFE is kinda MILD with KIDS, everyday, YOUR MOM FLOGS the CHILDREN because they are STUBBORN and it doesn't really AUGUR WELL with YOUR WIFE seeing her CHILDREN crying EVERYTIME.. That house is SITTING on a TIME BOMB because one day, the WIFE will EXPLODE no matter how GENTLE and CALM she is SEEING her CHILDREN crying EVERYTIME You come home as the HUSBAND, whose side will you take, if you take SIDES your MOTHER( You WIFE will be DISPLEASED), You take sides with your WIFE ( Your MOTHER becomes BITTER and keep reminding you how she CARRIED YOU FOR 9 MONTHS) JUST PRAY FOR A GOOD WIFE, because loneliness at OLDAGE isn't GOOD FOR ANYONE 1 Like |
Re: Staying With Your Mother Inlaw by vickydevoka(m): 4:46pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
ImaIma1: There are still peaceful women out there. Buh it's rare to see. Women like wahala, my mum is number 1. Maybe bcus de are too emotional or something. May God help us from de hands of evil women |
Re: Staying With Your Mother Inlaw by LordIsaac(m): 4:46pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
Kondomatic:I concur with you 100% I hate to say this, but women do not truly like themselves. 2 Likes |
Re: Staying With Your Mother Inlaw by newoffer: 4:46pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
That wife and mother living in one space broke me patapata...it was heat everywhere. Remember if ur wife too get mama, she too go dey like get updates. See finish plenty. Omo no let any dumbest deceive u ooo. The experience experience make me dumb. . frozen70: |
Re: Staying With Your Mother Inlaw by Nobody: 4:53pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
I've noticed that most nowaday wives want to have their husbands to themselves only (from extended family), and kids to themselves only (from husbands). I don't know how to put it better. The MILs also need to it easy on the wives. It's not always easy for the man to take a side. May God teach you better, OP. I don't really have any advice for you coz it's a complicated situation in this age - a dilemma. 1 Like |
Re: Staying With Your Mother Inlaw by Akuruoulo(m): 5:03pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
Rubbiish:THATS IT EXACTLY 4 Likes |
Re: Staying With Your Mother Inlaw by giftphilips(f): 5:04pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
pls my brother rent another house for u en ur wife pls don't let ur mum en wife stay together it won't be funny no matter how good u think both of them are |
Re: Staying With Your Mother Inlaw by CursedNsukka: 5:07pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
Rozcol:First time you made sense to me. You're 100% correct, little conflicts can always be avoided. |
Re: Staying With Your Mother Inlaw by Akuruoulo(m): 5:08pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
Rubbiish: Bro when this ladies becomes mother in-laws , they will want their son to do exactly what they never wanted their husbands to do for his mother. Girls are selfish 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Staying With Your Mother Inlaw by uthlaw: 5:09pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
Moji12:how could a sensible guy seek advice from daughter of Eve's! 1 Like |
Re: Staying With Your Mother Inlaw by descarado: 5:10pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
mariahAngel: Wisdom is what builds a home. It takes a lot for marriage to survive in this modern society. The foundation one lays is the key. 1 Like |
Re: Staying With Your Mother Inlaw by Akuruoulo(m): 5:10pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
ImaIma1:Very true |
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