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| Guys, a virgin or a none Virgin in marriage by Nobody: 2:07am On Jul 30, 2021 |
Hello guys, what's the hype about a lady being a virgin or not at time of marriage. Do you think it a big deal.? Does it really matter? For me, I prefer a lady with tons of sexual experience versus a novice. What do you guys think? |
| Re: Guys, a virgin or a none Virgin in marriage by Goldbw122(m): 6:11am On Jul 30, 2021 |
Well just marry a good woman, that urge you are feeling now will go down one day, so focus on getting a good, God fearing woman.. e get why, to avoid someone killing someone in a long run.. 7 Likes |
| Re: Guys, a virgin or a none Virgin in marriage by Divoc19(f): 8:32am On Jul 30, 2021 |
If you find someone you're compatible with. Someone you know you can love/like endlessly. Someone you want your kids to resemble. Someone you can easily forgive. Someone you're physically attracted to. Someone who respects you (the list goes on) And You can stay committed to that person then you're good to go. Virgin or no virgin isnot a big deal. 9 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Guys, a virgin or a none Virgin in marriage by Vision101(m): 3:09am On Jul 31, 2021 |
Who virgin help? 2 Likes |
| Re: Guys, a virgin or a none Virgin in marriage by Lamanii22(f): 4:48pm On Aug 04, 2021 |
Why not look for other qualities.... Virginity should be the least or an additional quality.... Just look for a good woman, someone you can tolerate... 2 Likes |
| Re: Guys, a virgin or a none Virgin in marriage by 2dice01: 6:06pm On Aug 04, 2021 |
Skyview01:Tons of Ex and side guys be chopping your Queen even few days after wedding  4 Likes |
| Re: Guys, a virgin or a none Virgin in marriage by efficiencie(m): 7:27am On Aug 05, 2021 |
Skyview01: Omo it is a big deal ohh. How can you privatize a public utility? A sexually experienced lady will have tons of EXs who in turn can at any time become the father of your children...If she is not a virgin in body, heart and character, I am not interested. I cannot marry refurbished olosho and spend a lifetime raising the children of her customers! 1 Like |
| Re: Guys, a virgin or a none Virgin in marriage by efficiencie(m): 7:30am On Aug 05, 2021 |
Lamanii22: Lol! Virginity should be the least? Look for a good woman, abi? A good woman with 30 EXs, right? By the time you are 70, your good wife would have been so good to the neighbors, friends, bosses, etc and made you father children that are not yours... 1 Like |
| Re: Guys, a virgin or a none Virgin in marriage by Lamanii22(f): 9:45am On Aug 05, 2021 |
efficiencie: What if your virgin wife cheats on you.... Non-virgins were ones virgins too..... Stop making the virgin wife seem like a perfect wife.... 1 Like |
| Re: Guys, a virgin or a none Virgin in marriage by KevinDein: 11:52am On Aug 05, 2021 |
Lamanii22:Agreed, there's no guarantee here, it's all about probabilities and what one is willing to take a risk on. The truth however is that a woman who is used to sleeping with multiple men is less likely to be satisfied with one and far more likely to cheat on her partner. Also, women with high body counts are incapable of bonding with one man. 2 Likes |
| Re: Guys, a virgin or a none Virgin in marriage by Tony818(m): 8:36pm On Aug 05, 2021 |
So you want to go for a wife with second hand kpekus and possible second hand womb (abortion) wey fit no carry pikin. Chairmen be wise. I rather marry a virgin and groom her. |
| Re: Guys, a virgin or a none Virgin in marriage by smachboss01(m): 8:38pm On Aug 05, 2021 |
A virgin for peace of mind oh |
| Re: Guys, a virgin or a none Virgin in marriage by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 2:03pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
You'd wife up a lady with tons of sexual experience? Skyview01: |
| Re: Guys, a virgin or a none Virgin in marriage by MufasaLion: 5:26pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
Most men want a virgin or preferably a woman with less sexual experience but damn it! an average Nigerian lady has got lots of sexual experience, hence the reason many guys gonna go for strictly virgins. Virgins are even hard to come by but there as still many virgins  |
| Re: Guys, a virgin or a none Virgin in marriage by efficiencie(m): 8:12pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
Lamanii22: For where? A true virgin is a blank slate...bro, you can experiment with your life by marrying a sexual experienced lady and tell us the outcome! |
| Re: Guys, a virgin or a none Virgin in marriage by Lamanii22(f): 9:44pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
KevinDein: I agree with you... 1 Like |
| Re: Guys, a virgin or a none Virgin in marriage by bukatyne(f): 10:58pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
Skyview01: Depends on your preference. A man with little or no sex experience and sexual/romantic experience has always been my preference. Let's build ourselves together and I don't want the ajeku of the whole of Lagos in body, soul & spirit. 4 Likes |
| Re: Guys, a virgin or a none Virgin in marriage by NoToPile: 5:30am On Aug 07, 2021 |
bukatyne: |
| Re: Guys, a virgin or a none Virgin in marriage by Nobody: 6:16am On Aug 07, 2021 |
bukatyne: Lol! @ ajeku. I don't see it that way though. |
| Re: Guys, a virgin or a none Virgin in marriage by Nobody: 7:00am On Aug 07, 2021 |
nwaezeemmanuel: What's wrong with that? 1 Like |
| Re: Guys, a virgin or a none Virgin in marriage by Richy4(m): 9:29am On Aug 07, 2021 |
efficiencie: Nice Decision ..... what about you sir.. Are you a virgin in body, heart and in Character? 1 Like |
| Re: Guys, a virgin or a none Virgin in marriage by bukatyne(f): 9:33am On Aug 07, 2021 |
NoToPile: Na true na. Let water seek its level mbok! They are the 'I have been there, done that; vjay is vjay; I cannot kill myself to satisfy any woman; a wife should be different from those girls outside; all women are the same' types. I jump & pass! |
| Re: Guys, a virgin or a none Virgin in marriage by bukatyne(f): 9:34am On Aug 07, 2021 |
| Re: Guys, a virgin or a none Virgin in marriage by angelfallz(m): 9:53am On Aug 07, 2021 |
A virgin woman is the best simply because: 1. A virgin woman is less likely to cheat but a non virgin woman is more likely to cheat. 2. You can pair bond with a virgin woman, but you can't pair bond with a non virgin woman, a non virgin woman has lost the ability to bond with her husband due to sleeping around with multiple men. 3. A non virgin woman has seen it all when it comes to sex and if you as her husband don't measure up to her experience... Kasala don burst be that, but a virgin woman has no previous sexual experiences to compare you with, she is perfect for you as her husband to teach her one or two things about sex. In the end marry the woman you want and be ready to face the consequences. Skyview01: |
| Re: Guys, a virgin or a none Virgin in marriage by angelfallz(m): 9:55am On Aug 07, 2021 |
Lol. You people never learn. It doesn't have to go both ways. There's no such thing as a virgin deserves to marry a virgin. So your question is irrelevant. Richy4: |
| Re: Guys, a virgin or a none Virgin in marriage by crackhaus: 11:01am On Aug 07, 2021 |
bukatyne:But aren't they? I mean really though... On a basic functional level, what differentiates vjay from vjay or woman from woman? Be careful in your reply so you don't come off as classist.  1 Like |
| Re: Guys, a virgin or a none Virgin in marriage by bukatyne(f): 12:17pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
crackhaus: Classist kwa? No two people have 100% same personality nor can two people have 100% body type/parts. |
| Re: Guys, a virgin or a none Virgin in marriage by efficiencie(m): 1:01pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
Richy4: It's not my fault that ladies have a hymen...GOD did that way for a reason. Any lady who allows herself to be used and re-used and over-used is on her own because most of the very same guys who over-used her will eventually seek out and marry a virgin...So I will not be the fool who will marry the leftovers of other guys while those same guys seek out and marry virgins. I am not blameless in this area but that did not stop me from seeking out and marrying a virgin. Over-used ladies are good as girlfriends but virgins are best as wives...it's that simple! I have heard countless sorry tales involving sexually experienced ladies and I most certainly would not like to have a marriage with a sorry ending. So ladies who want to have fun in their 20s should keep having fun and keep ruining their lives in the name of having fun but as for me I will not take responsibility for the foolish life choices of a lady... |
| Re: Guys, a virgin or a none Virgin in marriage by crackhaus: 1:38pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
bukatyne:This is true, but I did state 'on a basic functional level' Buka. A vjay on its own does not have a personality, and body types/parts will not make one woman more special than the other. So it's quite accurate and not at all insulting to insinuate that a vjay is a vjay & that all women are the same, within the context of what's meant when such statements are made. 2 Likes |
| Re: Guys, a virgin or a none Virgin in marriage by cooooooks(m): 5:22pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
Virginity plays no role in making that decision. Remember that the opposite of virginity is mom virginity not necessarily promiscuity. Skyview01: 3 Likes |
| Re: Guys, a virgin or a none Virgin in marriage by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 1:42pm On Aug 08, 2021 |
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