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| Everything You Said by bjprodint1: 7:29am On Aug 15, 2021 |
Good morning my family,i went through everything you said on my recent threads,and i agree that you are absolutely right.nairaland members have invested alot in my life and its a shame that i paid back with disapointment.i left my relationship with botrix last year(u all know d story),when u are with someone who pulls u back even when u try to hustle hard is d worst dat could happen to a person.the fruit busines?,i would sell fruits 4rm 7am to 11pm mondays to sundays,botr ix would sit down,cross legs and start eatin fruits witout payin,wen i query him,he would say dat doctor said he needs fruits due to his health.even wen he makes money 4rm d computer work,he wil keep it and expect me 2 feed d family 4rm d busines.i couldnt see d kids hungry so i did.that apart 4rm d fruits that perishes everyday.after d fruit busines,i went into selling of soft drinks,sachet water and bread.the drinks and bread became our daily food.when i left d relationship,i met a foo l who is stil stucking me even on nairaland..... |
| Re: Everything You Said by bjprodint1: 7:44am On Aug 15, 2021 |
Thats why i closed d newoldme account i opened.the fo ol changed my bjprodint acount password,would get angry wen ever he sees me on nairaland,and was jealous on one of my posts where i blew lalasticlala kises cos i was ftc(believe it or not,i am a very social person person and am fun to b with).he went on to abusing my 6yrs old daughter sexually,playing with her private parts.i left d relationship and was sleeping in a fuel station wit d kids under d december january cold.we slept in an open space with d help of d security man then,pregnancy happened,incomplete miscarriage happened,i called b otrix,he asisted me with 15k 4 emergency evacuation to save my life.i sold part of my properties and rented a room.i did pop corn busines,i taught in a sch.to earn 12k per month,i stoped because 12k was enough to take care of 2 kids and myself.my siblings couldnt help,they have their families to care 4.my father who retired 4rm his work 2 takecare of my mum who died about six years ago is jobles.believe it or not,i am ... |
| Re: Everything You Said by bjprodint1: 7:58am On Aug 15, 2021 |
I am 4rm a royal family,i am a princess,my surname is a king who married 27 wives,now imagine how big the family is,like a big community,so d shame my father faces is too much,i couldnt go home to live with him with 2 kids.so did i add that d guy stuckin me was always threatening me with knives.he must follow me everywhere like my body guard,i couldnt say hello to ladies not to talk of guys.he got into fights in d market with guys trying to touch me to advertise their goods.he was dat st upidly jealous.he was a gambler.i know u are reading chinedu,defend urself if i lied against you.b otrix begged me to come back.my boss in abuja begged me to come back to my job.the marriage issue that did not take place happened.i came back 2 abuja back to my job.b otrix started beatin me even in public.and always insulted me wit wat happened with chinedu.that made me leave after d last beating dat happened on july 29 which was a night to my 29th birthday(july 30).i reported him to human right in karu abuja.i was also... |
| Re: Everything You Said by GTCO: 8:07am On Aug 15, 2021 |
Oga but in one of your threads, you confirmed to have built a house.... Which nairalanders even supported you with hundreds of thousands of naira. It's just that I can't find the thread again. People that are giving you money here on nairaland don't even have their own personal houses yet You and this botrix post is a carefully orchestrated scam being used to milk those who are Willing to listen. 5 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Everything You Said by bjprodint1: 8:19am On Aug 15, 2021 |
Insulted"igbo girl wey no get sense"i was also encouraged to remove sentiments,this time around.but their response was slow.my boss said i should manage in d sch.pending when i av fund to move out,but d mosquitoes and cold here is too much.did i add that b otrix asked me to leave his house(the house i built).when i asked him what of the children,he said he "dash' me,he said even in hundred years,d kids wil come and look 4 him.since we left home on july 30,he only gave his kids #500 naira to feed after i sent d kids to him to ask 4 their feeding.i have sent d kids to go and meet him in church now,i called him to tell him dat his kids wil b worshiping in his church this morning dat he should "find something" for dem,he said "ha!",and i hung up.d kids are yet to return 4rm church.he is beging me to come back home again,he said"na devil cause am" and i always remember one statement by the human rights"no sentiment".now,wen peopld around heard of our seperation,some who doesnt know d story said... |
| Re: Everything You Said by bjprodint1: 8:42am On Aug 15, 2021 |
"she don dey taste another preek" some married men wants to take advantage.some say the "medicine wey he use don expire".some say "u for manage,na so our husbands dey beat us,but we stil dey because of our children'my boss' wife said"why wil u allow somebody like dat to beat u,u should have defended urself"my hairdresser said"person wey u supose use cain flog like say u dey flog ur daughter'.all these gosip depresses me dats why i cant live in kurudu.but i want to live close because of my job...my wish?my sincere wish is to see a rich widower who wil marry me and give my kids a good life,or someone who cant have kids of his own who wil marry me and adopt my kids.someone in my previous post said,hope its not expired products i want to sell.am no longer going to sell myself,except in marriage.and u see me,i be babe o,i am 29yrs but i look 20yrs,team baby face.i have decided to wait till endin of september to rent a room wit my salary even if na 6months i go first pay.i want to start loving myself...udo! |
| Re: Everything You Said by bjprodint1: 8:50am On Aug 15, 2021 |
I am presently staying in a sch.,rapi d kno wle dge sch.kurudu.wen u get to kurudu junction,take a bike dat u are going to riv er si de gue st inn.ask 4 d sch.its #50 naira bike 4rm d junction.i dey there dey press phone.and to my helpers and advicers here.am so sorry 4 d disapointments,thank u 4 d phone calls and messages on facebook to encourage me.joyce will rise again.udo! |
| Re: Everything You Said by Curious345: 9:32am On Aug 15, 2021 |
bjprodint1:you're just a lazy ass. Keep begging. You may just find a muguuu 4 Likes |
| Re: Everything You Said by mrblessed(m): 10:25am On Aug 15, 2021 |
This is a never-ending love affair. I want to believe you don't really know what you want. I pray you get a widower that will take all your troubles away. 2 Likes |
| Re: Everything You Said by mariahAngel(f): 11:08am On Aug 15, 2021 |
bjprodint1: When you decide to let go of the victim mentality, you’ll find out that you’re stronger than you thought you could ever be. You can do well without a man if only you believe in yourself. You keep making the same mistakes because you think a man is the solution to your problems. No! The solution to your problem lies within you. There are so many options you haven’t even explored yet. When you decide to be strong, strength will come. 6 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Everything You Said by GboyegaD(m): 11:33am On Aug 15, 2021 |
Why not report the guy stalking you? What did you do after he abused your daughter? 1 Like |
| Re: Everything You Said by AutoChick4U(f): 12:17pm On Aug 15, 2021 |
Take it all to God in prayer. As a single mom myself its definitely not easy at all but I made God my stronghold and he comes through for me. 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Everything You Said by bukatyne(f): 12:32pm On Aug 15, 2021 |
How do you leave an abusive relationship of almost a decade, jump into a rebound relationship and go back to your ex? Do you like yourself at all?  Madam, learn to love yourself first. You really need it. 5 Likes |
| Re: Everything You Said by gratefulme40: 1:58pm On Aug 15, 2021 |
bukatyne: And currently open to new relationship with a financially stable man!! 3 Likes |
| Re: Everything You Said by bukatyne(f): 5:18pm On Aug 15, 2021 |
gratefulme40: Toor! |
| Re: Everything You Said by greenie77: 5:25pm On Aug 15, 2021 |
bjprodint1 is still obsessed with the belief that another man will be the solutions to her self inflicted troubles...wishing you a happy ultimate search for a rich widower who wil marry you and give botrix's children a good life. |
| Re: Everything You Said by MMotimo: 2:37am On Aug 16, 2021 |
I think your biggest problem is that you have lost all sense of self worth. You don’t believe you are anything, you’ve allowed yourself to be beaten down to nothing and you have given up on yourself. It would be interesting to know your childhood background, I suspect this constant need for male validation is something that developed in your psyche before you even matured. How can you explain leaving one man and jumping into pregnancy with a new man shortly after when you are still struggling to take care of the kids you brought into the world  The first guy was a liability to you and did not “put a ring on it” yet you were willing to start a new cycle with a new online moniker just like that! That person sexually molesting your kid is a testament to your poor decision-making yet you are not naming the pedophile, you’re more concerned about finding yet another new man. Your solution to your challenges is to find a man, any man, to come to your rescue.Another problem you have is that you have become comfortable with poverty and lack so even when you see money, you cannot make rational decisions to use the money wisely and plan for a smoother tomorrow. I don’t want to be harsh because your mental state is fragile but even at that, you are very cunning. You are still talking about baby face and seeking to attract a new man, even after everything! Do you think the men that are coming after you are stupid? You think it’s because of your baby face? No, hun! You are attracting predators whose job it is to seek prey and nothing spells prey to an abuser like prey that has been tried and certified through past cycles of domestic abuse and is still asking for more. Simply put, you are an abuser’s dream come true. You need to do a lot of work on your self esteem/worth before even thinking of another man. You would do well to stop thinking of yourself as some sort of Marilyn Monroe, you have real problems to deal with. Even now, it would be no surprise that you still have botrix on reserve as plan B. I think the best solution for you would be a benefactor that is able to keep you on a leash - make all decisions (accommodation, work, school, etc) for you and your kids, manage your money for you and above all, keep you away from men until you are capable of making rational decisions. In some countries, it’s a legal arrangement described as a conservatorship. In Naija, let’s just say you need an angel, preferably female, not another romantic entanglement. Maybe there are people on Nairaland that can help you because right now, you’re on a path of self destruction and you seriously need help to focus. bjprodint1: 18 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: Everything You Said by sisisioge: 3:54am On Aug 16, 2021 |
It is well....biko in addition to what have been said, you need to get your house from that guy. He cant just send you out of the house you built nau....biko pull your weight to get that straightened. Find out which body takes care of matters like that....you cant be homeless with kids when you have a house standing in Abuja. Also, that mofooo that abused your child should be brought to books....it is well o. 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Everything You Said by Richy4(m): 4:30am On Aug 16, 2021 |
Since you have made Nairaland a real family, I swear you need a tough female coach who can help toughen you up.. that is after a therapist must have seen you to revive your self esteem that was brutally damaged... I would have recommended sisisioge or Klass99 but they are too sweet @ heart  ...You needed a hard nut to crack lady... someone who can tell you/ teach u not to 'born again' @ the moment and take care of the ones u have... |
| Re: Everything You Said by cococandy(f): 4:40am On Aug 16, 2021 |
Say this with me “I don’t need a man to be complete”. “I’m a complete human with or without a man”. Say it as many times as it will take for you to start believing it. A good man is great to have but if you live in a mental space where you’re nothing unless a man is in your life, you will do anything to keep one even if it means enduring abuse. 4 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Everything You Said by sisisioge: 4:57am On Aug 16, 2021 |
Richy4:  ....thank you for the nice thought. She really does need to toughen up. Imagine, shes only 29yrs but have seen almost all the ills of this earth. It is well....may God help us. |
| Re: Everything You Said by Acidosis(m): 5:38am On Aug 16, 2021 |
Having read your story, I can confirm to you that only God or a good CHURCH can save you. Unless you move closer to God at this point, nothing can change your life. You're not even in the right state of mind and health to attract the kind of man you want. You think rich widowers are st*p!d? 5 Likes |
| Re: Everything You Said by Richy4(m): 6:34am On Aug 16, 2021 |
sisisioge: That's just my thought... If you take her under your wings, If U give her your three signature words.... "It is well" 12 times, She might get pregnant again under your watch thinking that it was well.. 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Everything You Said by Richy4(m): 6:38am On Aug 16, 2021 |
cococandy: Ohh!!! how did I forget you already... Please take her under your wings... She needs you.... I really feel sorry for this young lady |
| Re: Everything You Said by LadySarah: 6:49am On Aug 16, 2021 |
Whatever sex you indulge in, pls be protected. The last thing you need is a baby. 4 Likes |
| Re: Everything You Said by cococandy(f): 7:02am On Aug 16, 2021 |
Richy4: She needs all of us |
| Re: Everything You Said by sisisioge: 7:26am On Aug 16, 2021 |
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| Re: Everything You Said by pocohantas(f): 7:31am On Aug 16, 2021 |
This babe get coconut head o. From botrîx to NL gambler and pedophile. Like someone said already, you need to work on yourself first. Something is wrong with your esteem and values.  2 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Everything You Said by Nobody: 7:51am On Aug 16, 2021 |
You didn't mention seeking any help for your daughter who was molested, if she truly was, but you're looking for a widower to marry you, as if that's any solution. Introducing different men into your children's lives isn't the way to go. You should be more focused on being a self-sufficient woman with self-worth and looking after your kids properly than looking for another man to latch onto. 2 Likes |
| Re: Everything You Said by pocohantas(f): 7:54am On Aug 16, 2021 |
InTheCloudySky: Those kids should actually be taken away from her all things being equal. 1 Like |
| Re: Everything You Said by Foodqueen(f): 8:01am On Aug 16, 2021 |
Bj and botrix might just be a script written by botrix. Any thread they create that doesn't go well as plan is usually taken down. 5 Likes |
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