bjprodint1:
Good morning my family,i went through everything you said on my recent threads,and i agree that you are absolutely right.nairaland members have invested alot in my life and its a shame that i paid back with disapointment.i left my relationship with botrix last year(u all know d story),when u are with someone who pulls u back even when u try to hustle hard is d worst dat could happen to a person.the fruit busines?,i would sell fruits 4rm 7am to 11pm mondays to sundays,botr ix would sit down,cross legs and start eatin fruits witout payin,wen i query him,he would say dat doctor said he needs fruits due to his health.even wen he makes money 4rm d computer work,he wil keep it and expect me 2 feed d family 4rm d busines.i couldnt see d kids hungry so i did.that apart 4rm d fruits that perishes everyday.after d fruit busines,i went into selling of soft drinks,sachet water and bread.the drinks and bread became our daily food.when i left d relationship,i met a foo l who is stil stucking me even on nairaland.....

Bigdre31:
send me a p.m , I have some one in kurudu

bjprodint1:
I am presently staying in a sch.,rapi d kno wle dge sch.kurudu.wen u get to kurudu junction,take a bike dat u are going to riv er si de gue st inn.ask 4 d sch.its #50 naira bike 4rm d junction.i dey there dey press phone.and to my helpers and advicers here.am so sorry 4 d disapointments,thank u 4 d phone calls and messages on facebook to encourage me.joyce will rise again.udo!

UDUJ:


Low self esteem. Pathetic

mariahAngel:


She can’t help the way she feels.
The needs all the encouragement she can get, not criticism.

UDUJ:


Well she needs to toughen up or else the same circumstances will keep repeating itself in her life.

mariahAngel:


Someone for what?

Bigdre31:


She has an eatery there ( celebrity chicken ) she needed workers some months back

bjprodint1:
Chinedu monikers are mnuelklitcho Embryo4040 cirusx1 or cirusxi

dobnina:

Are you sure because these monikers don't exist.

dobnina:

Are you sure because these monikers don't exist.

bigjackass:
No rich widower will marry you like this. Take the children back to their father or you will continue like this forever. They will be fine. Drop the mentality that you will never see your children again. This isn't the 60s. This is 2021. If you want to see your children you will see them. You will keep jumping from one loser of a man to the other as long as those children are with you because their burden is clouding your thinking.

LadySarah:


But even if they do, what are we gonna do with them?

pocohantas:


If at all a woman makes the mistake of marrying a bad husband, he should at least be a loving father. She can’t leave them because she doesn’t trust him to take care of them. You are also right that she would most likely not get the high-value-male she seeks. Life is not Nigerian film. Her “CV” is not impressive and she is suffering from Stockholm Syndrome, keeps going back to the abuser as some sort of Plan B. That is asides seeing the next man as a meal ticket.

bigjackass:
But the reason she says she can't leave them for the man is that "they are only gain and her father will disown her". Na wetin she write be that

pocohantas:


Lmao! She did? I’ll read again.

The same father that can’t lend a helping hand? I done commot hand for the matter be that.

bigjackass:
But the reason she says she can't leave them for the man is that "they are only gain and her father will disown her". Na wetin she write be that

bjprodint1:
Did i offend u b4?i am sorry if i ever did.i hope u have a perfect life sha.thank u

bigjackass:
It seems you are cunning like someone said. Hope you have a perfect life too.

BabbanBura:


I told una, the whole matter no add up - either she is using her predicament to get unwholesome advantage, or she is outrightly scamming people or she has lost mental control of her life. The later seemed less likely of the three!

bjprodint1:
I am presently staying in a sch.,rapi d kno wle dge sch.kurudu.wen u get to kurudu junction,take a bike dat u are going to riv er si de gue st inn.ask 4 d sch.its #50 naira bike 4rm d junction.i dey there dey press phone.and to my helpers and advicers here.am so sorry 4 d disapointments,thank u 4 d phone calls and messages on facebook to encourage me.joyce will rise again.udo!

Bigdre31:
send me a p.m , I have some one in kurudu

UDUJ:


I stopped caring when people bring such tales to nairaland because I see it all as scams. I swore never to fall for such anymore after sending some good sum of money to someone seeking assistance last year only to discover it was a big scam later.