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Re: Is It Possible To Share An Apartment With The Opposite Sex Without Having Sex by MufasaLion: 5:22pm On Aug 20, 2021
josh123:
There was a guy during my university days he helped an 100 level student with accommodation, he allowed her stay in his room for months, they were sleeping and waking up together in the same room, but he could not do anything, sometimes he will come to my room to sleep. We mocked him that period, we began to think he was impotent. When the girl got her own accommodation, she never came back to greet him or appreciate him, she was angry he couldn't make a move.
He made a good decision. I'm proud of him!
Re: Is It Possible To Share An Apartment With The Opposite Sex Without Having Sex by respect80(m): 5:26pm On Aug 20, 2021
It's very possible. If I'm not attracted to you sexually, if u like chuk my prik inside ur kpekus, I will still not fvck u
Re: Is It Possible To Share An Apartment With The Opposite Sex Without Having Sex by chuggy(m): 5:42pm On Aug 20, 2021
Not possible
Re: Is It Possible To Share An Apartment With The Opposite Sex Without Having Sex by Nobody: 5:46pm On Aug 20, 2021
If she no gree you no go rape am now so that means its up to both parties for that to happen
Re: Is It Possible To Share An Apartment With The Opposite Sex Without Having Sex by FairlyUSEDpussy:
CharisEleos:
It's very possible with someone like me.
Just that I can't speak for the other fellow. Even at that, dem never born the person well.

Like seriously, what has this world turned into that a male and female in a platonic relationship can not sleep together in same room?
U cant even if u can not with me.........

By the time.........i start touching your errogenous zones stylish and making u wet your pant every night...........

There had definitely cum a time u wouldn't be able to keep it to yourself no more........

Esp during yo ovulation period.......when u super honey.......
Re: Is It Possible To Share An Apartment With The Opposite Sex Without Having Sex by Craggybogg: 6:21pm On Aug 20, 2021
It is possible in an apartment with different rooms. But in a single room it is impossible!
Re: Is It Possible To Share An Apartment With The Opposite Sex Without Having Sex by YoungBlackRico(m): 6:54pm On Aug 20, 2021
Very possible. I did very recently.
Re: Is It Possible To Share An Apartment With The Opposite Sex Without Having Sex by YoungBlackRico(m): 6:56pm On Aug 20, 2021
respect80:
It's very possible. If I'm not attracted to you sexually, if u like chuk my prik inside ur kpekus, I will still not fvck u
give this man a medal. This is what I tell some girls, if you're not sexually attractive to me, if you like naked for my front...nothing will make me touch you.
Re: Is It Possible To Share An Apartment With The Opposite Sex Without Having Sex by Osashalom: 7:04pm On Aug 20, 2021
SportsHD:
Sex is sweet but, overrated. If you have self control, this won't be a problem for you.
I agree with the fact that sex is over rated. But to say self control won't allow you do it with a woman not related to you but she lives with you as roommate is not so. The greatest aspect of self control is avoiding what is avoidable. By that I mean someone with self control won't let an opposite sex share the same room with him/her in the first place.
Re: Is It Possible To Share An Apartment With The Opposite Sex Without Having Sex by youngking22(m): 7:16pm On Aug 20, 2021
Very possible, I stayed with two girl for complete 2 months in my 200 level. I mean girls that where always full blown naked, it's All about upbringing and discpline. I did things for the girls, I cleaned, washed, cook, they were even scared too mess up there own lodge. The day I give these girls breakfast in bed, They did not hide there exictment. I'm into pedicure and manicure, I fixed nails, lashes body treatments massages for these girls. They can't go out without me seeing their outfit, just wear rubbish I will bad mouth you. The day one off their friend came by and saw me washing dishes, She legit said the person that will marry me, will enjoy. I shocked them ooo i said" I will not get married" till this day they always beg me too reconsider that my statement.
FYI my father is currently accommodating two ladies in Lagos for almost 1 year...
Re: Is It Possible To Share An Apartment With The Opposite Sex Without Having Sex by Corroro: 8:06pm On Aug 20, 2021
It is possible but very difficult
Re: Is It Possible To Share An Apartment With The Opposite Sex Without Having Sex by Nobody: 8:35pm On Aug 20, 2021
It is not possible.

Even if the guy stays on his own, one day the girl go seduce am
Re: Is It Possible To Share An Apartment With The Opposite Sex Without Having Sex by Delphnewsdotcom: 8:38pm On Aug 20, 2021
Abetterperson:
I ask this question because have wondering why so many people refuse to share an apartment with the opposite sex, many claim that sex is unavoid

How true is this statement
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Re: Is It Possible To Share An Apartment With The Opposite Sex Without Having Sex by lascos912(m): 8:54pm On Aug 20, 2021
josh123:
the girl might think she is not attractive enough. Maybe she tries to seduce him but the Guy was not bold enough.
it was not a matter of boldness but self control
Re: Is It Possible To Share An Apartment With The Opposite Sex Without Having Sex by Vinnie2000(m): 9:16pm On Aug 20, 2021
CharisEleos:
It's very possible with someone like me.
Just that I can't speak for the other fellow. Even at that, dem never born the person well.

Like seriously, what has this world turned into that a male and female in a platonic relationship can not sleep together in same room?
I just dey look you dey Laff!!
You underestimate the power of Lust or sexual attraction.. sad

If you are sleeping with a Guy on the same bed for weeks/months
and nothing happens, it is simply because He doesn't find you Attractive and Vice Versa..

If they give you Cristiano Ronaldo, Trey Songz or Wizkid to be on same Bed every night for Weeks, You will Feel the Heat..

Maybe u will be the one to even devour Dem.. cheesy smiley
So Don't be too Confident!
Re: Is It Possible To Share An Apartment With The Opposite Sex Without Having Sex by Vinnie2000(m): 9:20pm On Aug 20, 2021
Veggieseedies:
It is not possible.

Even if the guy stays on his own, one day the girl go seduce am
Dats just it!!
Many of our Females have a Higher libido than Guys..
They just Pretend.. sad
Re: Is It Possible To Share An Apartment With The Opposite Sex Without Having Sex by Vinnie2000(m): 9:34pm On Aug 20, 2021
debbydams:
its not possible with the men we have today,they think with their third leg..
'The men we have today' sad

Or it's the Lady dat will seduce or Climb the Guy inside the room..

Why do u ladies like to Deny dat you have sexual urges too?.
They are pretty normal..
Re: Is It Possible To Share An Apartment With The Opposite Sex Without Having Sex by respect80(m): 10:49pm On Aug 20, 2021
YoungBlackRico:
give this man a medal. This is what I tell some girls, if you're not sexually attractive to me, if you like naked for my front...nothing will make me touch you.
Dats ma niggy...

Tbh, I'm not d fvck anything u see squad.
If I must fvck u then I have to find u attractive to me sexually first.
Back then during my NYSC, one Mary tried so hard for me to F her but it didn't work. She will touch me any how, talk dirty and even lied that she was afraid of sleeping alone in her room after returning from her mum's burial but I just didn't find her attractive to me sexually.
Las las I encouraged one new corper who came in when we were about passing out to corner her so she could let me be.
Re: Is It Possible To Share An Apartment With The Opposite Sex Without Having Sex by womenareapess: 1:05am On Aug 21, 2021
Abetterperson:
I ask this question because have wondering why so many people refuse to share an apartment with the opposite sex, many claim that sex is unavoid

How true is this statement
undecided
Re: Is It Possible To Share An Apartment With The Opposite Sex Without Having Sex by Ceasaerius: 2:22am On Aug 21, 2021
Of course.
There's always a line.
Re: Is It Possible To Share An Apartment With The Opposite Sex Without Having Sex by gregyboy(m):
Ladies are more weaker than guys when they are cornered with no choice in a room


Just touch from the guy at any time they are already wet

Ladies are only bold when they are not conered....

Mary the lady living opposite my room wants me to Bleep her and i dont find her attractive, tho, so she starts calling me a pastor me wen dey bobo. All because i refuse to ban her......

But if she corner me with d pussy i go knack am... But she want date na wetin i nor want...
Re: Is It Possible To Share An Apartment With The Opposite Sex Without Having Sex by proxitaly: 8:33am On Aug 21, 2021
All the ladies I ever done favors for in the past without demanding anything in return are not talking to me currently. But all of them that ended up with 1 into 0 are still good friends today even the married ones.
The truth is that men have self control in the long run than ladies.
If I decide no f*king then no f*king (yes the dick will rise - it even rises every morning on it's own self not to talk of when temptation dey nearby - but it's left for me to put it into a hole)
It's mostly the female that will raise attitude in the long run when the guy is not forthcoming.
So op while it's possible for two unrelated male to share apartment with a female, I for one won't try it or like to try it.
Re: Is It Possible To Share An Apartment With The Opposite Sex Without Having Sex by bularuz(m): 9:06am On Aug 21, 2021
proxitaly:
All the ladies I ever done favors for in the past without demanding anything in return are not talking to me currently. But all of them that ended up with 1 into 0 are still good friends today even the married ones.
The truth is that men have self control in the long run than ladies.
If I decide no f*king then no f*king (yes the dick will rise - it even rises every morning on it's own self not to talk of when temptation dey nearby - but it's left for me to put it into a hole)
It's mostly the female that will raise attitude in the long run when the guy is not forthcoming.
So op while it's possible for two unrelated male to share apartment with a female, I for one won't try it or like to try it.
Yes you are right, i guess it's a reaction to the rejection
Re: Is It Possible To Share An Apartment With The Opposite Sex Without Having Sex by zexy2030(m): 9:19am On Aug 21, 2021
CharisEleos:
It's very possible with someone like me.
Just that I can't speak for the other fellow. Even at that, dem never born the person well.

Like seriously, what has this world turned into that a male and female in a platonic relationship can not sleep together in same room?
Stop making mouth. You are very weak. When you sleep in the same room with someone that is sexually attractive...your hormones will definitely make you loose ur sense.

You are definitely staying with a guy you are not sexually attracted to.

Na you go flash am sef...no matter how u strong reach...women are weak and vulnerable when they:

1. Depressed
2.Abused drugs n alcohol
3.over excited.

These periods their hormones always desire to share those moments with someone especially the opposite sex.

But note: if the guy she is attracted to rejects her, she could be suicidal or be too aggressive to live with.
Re: Is It Possible To Share An Apartment With The Opposite Sex Without Having Sex by Nobody: 9:30am On Aug 21, 2021
josh123:
There was a guy during my university days he helped an 100 level student with accommodation, he allowed her stay in his room for months, they were sleeping and waking up together in the same room, but he could not do anything, sometimes he will come to my room to sleep. We mocked him that period, we began to think he was impotent. When the girl got her own accommodation, she never came back to greet him or appreciate him, she was angry he couldn't make a move.
I once had an experience similar to this cheesy, chai. Anyways that time my eye never tear grin. I double dare her to show body again, na her body go tell am. angry
Re: Is It Possible To Share An Apartment With The Opposite Sex Without Having Sex by fineberry(m): 9:36am On Aug 21, 2021
People av this misconception that its the male folks that can't hold-body but It a lie, it is the famlae gon gon that can't hold body.

As at last academic section I tried not to do anything woman, I didn't bring any woman to my room neither did I make any effort to chick any babe..... Will u believe I started hearing rumors in my compound if am a normal guy grin grin.

If you're a guy and a woman is cohabiting with you and you make no move...hmm...my brother just know say them don dey talk your matter.
Re: Is It Possible To Share An Apartment With The Opposite Sex Without Having Sex by Palazee(m): 9:58am On Aug 21, 2021
falcon01:
I accommodated my friends sister back in college after 1 month I just couldn't help it. I have very strong control over my feelings, but the fact that I'm not in a relationship and is with this hot Ass in my house I aint gonna lie, mans gotta do what mans gotta do I banged her like crazy. It was a year of crazy bomb ass sex.
You be real niggar

Re: Is It Possible To Share An Apartment With The Opposite Sex Without Having Sex by Palazee(m): 10:04am On Aug 21, 2021
youngking22:
my father is currently accommodating two ladies in Lagos for almost 1 year...
am not understanding Pls explain

Re: Is It Possible To Share An Apartment With The Opposite Sex Without Having Sex by Palazee(m): 10:14am On Aug 21, 2021
What people don't understand is that the dick doesn't need permisssion to rise

But it how you control yourself

I have this to bleep many girls, who are curious why after talking dirty, doing all mannet of things to me but i won't fück them, They will saying that am gay if am not i should prove in the Oza room.


Well that i gat free püssīes

Re: Is It Possible To Share An Apartment With The Opposite Sex Without Having Sex by mrbyron(m): 10:57am On Aug 21, 2021
youngking22:
Very possible, I stayed with two girl for complete 2 months in my 200 level. I mean girls that where always full blown naked, it's All about upbringing and discpline. I did things for the girls, I cleaned, washed, cook, they were even scared too mess up there own lodge. The day I give these girls breakfast in bed, They did not hide there exictment. I'm into pedicure and manicure, I fixed nails, lashes body treatments massages for these girls. They can't go out without me seeing their outfit, just wear rubbish I will bad mouth you. The day one off their friend came by and saw me washing dishes, She legit said the person that will marry me, will enjoy. I shocked them ooo i said" I will not get married" till this day they always beg me too reconsider that my statement.
FYI my father is currently accommodating two ladies in Lagos for almost 1 year...
You're gay bro! huh
Re: Is It Possible To Share An Apartment With The Opposite Sex Without Having Sex by RoyalBoutique(m): 11:01am On Aug 21, 2021
Is it possible to keep a yam and goat together?

But on a more serious note, even if the girl is fugly, one day you will still reason her matter.
Re: Is It Possible To Share An Apartment With The Opposite Sex Without Having Sex by gregyboy(m):
zexy2030:
Stop making mouth. You are very weak. When you sleep in the same room with someone that is sexually attractive...your hormones will definitely make you loose ur sense.

You are definitely staying with a guy you are not sexually attracted to.

Na you go flash am sef...no matter how u strong reach...women are weak and vulnerable when they:

1. Depressed
2.Abused drugs n alcohol
3.over excited.

These periods their hormones always desire to share those moments with someone especially the opposite sex.

But note: if the guy she is attracted to rejects her, she could be suicidal or be too aggressive to live with.
If she is attracted to me forget and we dey dsame room we go knack,

Forget talk to be on safer side attempt touching her when she resist and starts pointing finger after a while for u not attempting you can then tell her, u tried but she declined
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