LawyerLomo:



This got my attention.


And you want us to believe this?

Tho' , you own no body any explanation.
but still on, I feel it's hard to believe that you got time to discuss indeptly with him (the said person) about improvising for another to cool his sexual tension...

...Yet, he insisted he only want to bed you.

And a friend of yours said she has someone who would interest in such act?!

Birds of one plumage flock in the same proximity

UDUJ:


The succinctness of your post is top notch as always. This is the reason I sought your input on this because of your unbiased chain of thought. Respect

debbydams:
I have no reason to lie nd I owe nobody any explanation..when I said I don't cheat, I don't cheat nd I gave the only factor which can make me cheat,nd Iv not done that before..before u quote me,read and digest what I said before coming into conclusion pls..

Michelle55:

If you don't cheat then you shouldn't come up with any factors at all.
And oh, I understood everything you said including the underlying words

debbydams:
I have no reason to argue with you and I don't owe anybody explanation,believe whatever u want to believe na your problem be that..it doesn't change anything about me or what I won't do..aunty I'm replying you because my baby Is Michelle.

Awwn, that's so sweet.. You need pay dues to me for naming your girl after me

Michelle55:

Awwn, that's so sweet.. You need pay dues to me for naming your girl after me

Biglittlelois:



Be a man, act mature, and stop derailing a female only thread with inconsequential baseless accusations and assumptions.

sisisioge:
Well....I cant cheat sha but if I mistakenly cheat o, it will be because I love the new interest like air or the oga in my life has become a terrible himan being.

Did I answer the qwesion successfully?

Beloved3:


Lol you only created a problem with your response. What's the remedy to the bolded that will prevent it from happening?

Juliearth:
This is not a counter thread to the thread created earlier by a nairalander, but my aim here is to create a balanced perception on the matter at hand and so, no gender is left unattended to.

So.....
Questions for the ladies

If possible, personalize the questions.

1. Why do women cheat on their partners?


2. Why do women cheat even when their partner is faithful?


3. Is a man's inadequacy a good enough reason to cheat?

UjuJoan2:


People who cheat on their husbands have a vacuum that they want to fill. Something their husband cannot offer. Of course the matured ones know you can’t have it all, but then the heart wants what it wants.

Also, no woman who is happy, I mean truly happy, will cheat on her husband. So if you see a woman cheating, her husband is likely doing something wrong.

Then finally, woman generally don’t cheat on faithful partners.

Juliearth:

I feel you sis! But why do such women marry these men when they know that these men can't fill this void and they can't compromise? Isn't this selfishness??

UjuJoan2:


Sometimes they don’t know at the beginning. But halfway through they realize they are unhappy. I know someone who loves her husband so much and talk about how much he means to her. Yet she had an affair.

But personally I believe all men are the same. I know that’s a bit too generalistic, but when you really think about it, they all are. Except for the useless ones who are abusive and irresponsible.

Our people say “Mma Nwere isi adiro nku, nke di nku enwero isi”. I wish I could interpret that ��

If you are looking for perfection you will never find it. The key is being contented with what you have and truly accepting people for who they are. Of course most men don’t make it easy for their wives. They set high standards for women and yet fall short themselves. It can be really annoying!!

Most women do not feel appreciated in their marriages and seek that appreciation outside. But the truth is that those men outside only appreciate them for what they have to offer . . . Sex, money etc. So what’s the point?

Riverville:
I pray the women reply you..... That gender is filled of hypocrites and pretenders..

ValCon888:
If we remove financial security/money out of the equation, I'll say women cheat for the same reason men cheat.

Variety is the spice of life. Eating only beans every day can purge you.

sisisioge:
Well....I cant cheat sha but if I mistakenly cheat o, it will be because I love the new interest like air or the oga in my life has become a terrible himan being.

Did I answer the qwesion successfully?

InfernoNig:
I am not a woman, but I know for sure some major reason are emotional lack of care and attention, discontentment and peer influence.

Ishilove:

True, although money should not be an excuse for cheating. I am all for financial independence in marital and non-marital relationships.


This is a fallacy. Big dicks do not equal sexual satisfaction. They are more instruments of torture than anything else, but it's all about preference. Some like it big, some like it sizeable. However in my own opinion I feel that it is a sexually loose person who will cheat because of sex. When you have many body counts and have sampled different dicks and pussies, you become greedy.


I don't want to believe this. I feel it is more about interest and excitement. The dramatic people like drama, and if their partner is unable to provide that drama, they look outwards.

Another reason is lack of attention. When you don't give your partner the right amount of attention and TLC, the temptation to cheat is there especially if they meet someone who gives them that attention they crave for. While you are busy having your mood swings, there is someone out there chewing your bae like biscuit bone.

All in all, a cheat is a cheat and they look for even the flimsiest excuses to cheat on their partners, no matter how faithful the other person may be.

DenreleDave:
This kind love btw uduj and ishilove

Juliearth:




Spot on! There is indeed, no moral justification for cheating.

DenreleDave:
This kind love btw uduj and ishilove

Juliearth:




LOL I kid you not

DenreleDave:


Dem go make sense

ISHILOVE wed UDUJ

ISHI is a very good lady, UDUJ is a very nice and gentleman too

DenreleDave:


Dem go make sense

ISHILOVE wed UDUJ

ISHI is a very good lady, UDUJ is a very nice and gentleman too

Juliearth:


Experience


Spot on! Pardon my intrusion, but are you speaking (abi typing) from experience?

Juliearth:




LOL!!! I feel you, babe. However, is there any such thing as cheating by mistake? Cheating is intentional

Personally, I would rather divorce my husband if we have fallen apart beyond redemption rather than cheat.

sisisioge:


That makes alot of sense but at times it is not as simple as that. I have actually seen a fairly level headed Christian sister cheat on her husband and eventually got him realigned into being a better husband. Dude became very difficult at some point and gave her a lot of grief. She would cry and beg and talk to no end. Eventually, an ex bf showed up and she started leaning towards him and stopped bothering about her husband. Long story short, it was the husband that adjusted himself and they lived happily ever after without him knowing what she did. It's called the Triangular Marriage. May God help us.

Juliearth:





Interesting! May God lead us aright.

sisisioge:


Amen!