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Is it bad for a poor man to marry a rich Woman?

By Arjun Armaan
A handsome poor man who married a rich woman really was humilated by her and her family member after marriage. I seen his suffering directly as I worked for that rich family. I don't know why she married him? whole family treated him like slave, not allowed him to work, just forced him to do house hold chores includes cleaning , cooking and taking care of his kids. His wife (my boss) many times insulted him and even slapped him in public places. He doesn't have any money for himself and he needs to beg her even ( less than one dollar ).

I think she married him just for house hold work, sex and making babies. Moreover he can't question her on what she does and where she goes. A selfish rich lady wants husband only for name sake …

I know a woman who married a man and controls everything around his life. The man suffered many abused from her because of her financial strength. After about 18 years of marriage, the hubby divorced her and walk away from her to a more humble woman and never return.

She became so lonely and wish she could get another good man in her life. She personally told me; that which destroy her marriage will not repeat itself again. She painfully told me that she was controlling everything in her marriage and she will not want to make that mistake again, to be in control of any man

She is more humble now as she learnt a lesson that will not repeat itself.

On a norm, India has a caste system that's so disgusting: the poor or dark-skinned don't have a place value in the talks of humans.

If you visit there on business, you'll notice the different classes of purchase; the rich go to malls: the poor on roadside.

If a rich lady comes my way.
She will fear, fear

Lostchild:
I pray to meet a rich lady.
She will fear, fear

She will fear what in you?

Abi you mean submission?

Why do you need submission when you have sold it for her rich influence?

You don't need to be rich to be rich.

chatinent:
She will fear what in you?

Abi you mean submission?

Why do you need submission when you have sold it for her rich influence?

You don't need to be rich to be rich.

There are things I can't explain in words.

Take it or leave it.

There is no big deal. But at the same time, the man must up his game financially. So that he won't look like shit and without bearing. He should be seen striving and making efforts to be financially at par or even surpass her.

I know a man who is married to a woman, although I won't really say she is rich, but at least, she is a millonaire. This man has and drives his own taxi and makes his own personal small ca$h.

That man above is a very weak man, and every women takes advantages of all weak men.

I'm

Lostchild:
Is it bad for a poor man to marry a rich Woman?

By Arjun Armaan
A handsome poor man who married a rich woman really was humilated by her and her family member after marriage. I seen his suffering directly as I worked as a driver for that rich family. I don't know why she married him? whole family treated him like slave, not allowed him to work, just forced him to do house hold chores includes cleaning , cooking and taking care of his kids. His wife (my boss) many times insulted him and even slapped him in public places. He doesn't have any money for himself and he needs to beg her even ( less than one dollar ).

I think she married him just for house hold work, sex and making babies. Moreover he can't question her on what she does and where she goes. A selfish rich lady wants husband only for name sake …

You don't know probably if he married her for her money

As a man, don't ever put your mind in a woman's money when getting married or dating, you may end up with frustration

Looks like a "hard-on" excuse.
Abuse keeps some really "charged" in the bedroom.

*meanwhile. . . . .paddle your own canoe*

frozen70:
I'm

You don't know probably if he married her for her money

As a man, don't ever put your mind in a woman's money when getting married or dating, you may end up with frustration

O bobby.
You speak the truth.

A rich man will marry a poor woman and lift her up, but can't a woman do the same?

I just felt the woman she is not a good person.

Lostchild:
O bobby.
You speak the truth.

A rich man will marry a poor woman and lift her up, but can't a woman do the same?

I just felt the woman she is not a good person.

Exactly, maybe she is not a good person

Lostchild:
If a rich lady comes my way.
She will fear, fear

Fear what?

frozen70:
Exactly, maybe she is not a good person

She married the man for his looks.

If she is a humble person, she will treat the man with respect and kindness.

She is toxic

greenie77:
Fear what?

I will not answer your question because you ask me in an arrogant manner.

I don't do toxic women

Lostchild:
I will not answer your question because you ask me in an arrogant manner.

I don't do toxic women

So Uncle Lostchild can recognize arrogance, wonders shall never end!

Lostchild:
She married the man for his looks.

If she is a humble person, she will treat the man with respect and kindness.

She is toxic

If the man is handsome, let her enjoy is looks
If he married her for her money, let him deal with it

The man is a foolish man. You may also help by slapping him, that may wake him up.

greenie77:
So Uncle Lostchild can recognize arrogance, wonders shall never end!

You arrogantly asked me a question and you expect me to answer your Question ?

Ok, believe whatever I say. I am not who I display here on nairaland. Physically, some people will always want to take advantage of me because of my gentleness, especially crazy women.

Example 1
I gave a nice Godly advice to a man here on nairaland, one babe quote me in a very disrespectful manner. I respond to her as if I was about to hit her, she became very mellow and respectful. I just sense that she is the crazy type that need an iron hands to handle.

Example 2
I move in to a new apartment which the land-lady is a woman. I tried to give her the respect she need, but she refuse to reciprocate my respect. She did worse by trying to intimidate and suppress me to submit to her fellow female loyalist. I made her understand that, she need to behave and back off. She became afraid and start hating me which I cares not about because she acted foolishly

She wanted to play me like a purpet. I made her to understand that I am a man and demand she treat me with respect as a man. I may be living in her late husband compound but that doesn't make me small.

My age mate have build their own house, married and have children, does she have to try to violate me to others ? The way I respond to her and her loyalist, they became afraid of me and back off

NOTE

Nigerians are very rude people. They will treat you the way you present yourself and not how you deserve to be respected.

Greenie. Learn to respect people, no matter who you are, or how much money you got. Do unto others, what you want others to do unto you.

Respect everyone.

Lostchild:
Is it bad for a poor man to marry a rich Woman?

Yes, it is.

A handsome poor man who married a rich woman really was humilated by her and her family member after marriage.

Your handsomeness doesn't guarantee anything else beyond breeding.
Oh, you deserve the humiliation. The rest of us knows our place and marry within our means.

I seen his suffering directly as I worked as a driver for that rich family. I don't know why she married him? whole family treated him like slave,

Well, he's a slave to them anyways. what'd you expect ?

not allowed him to work, just forced him to do house hold chores includes cleaning , cooking and taking care of his kids.

He's not the one putting food on the table so...

His wife (my boss) many times insulted him and even slapped him in public places.

Good. You can't be poor/broke and be blue-pilled at the same. Well deserving.

He doesn't have any money for himself and he needs to beg her even ( less than one dollar ).

Seems lie it's more of an employment than marriage

I think she married him just for house hold work, sex and making babies.

Now you're catching up. Handsome and poor = good "slave" semen for procreation.

Moreover he can't question her on what she does and where she goes.

His value is below a maid, he's worse than a slave

A selfish rich lady wants husband only for name sake.

Try it and get the same outcome.

NOTHING TO SEE HERE BUSINESS AS USUAL.

InfinityFabric:
Yes, it is.


You handsomeness doesn't guarantee anything else beyond breeding.
Oh, you deserve the humiliation. The rest of us knows our place and marry within our means.


Well, he's a slave to them anyways. what'd you expect ?


He's not the one putting food on the table so...


Good. You can't be poor/broke and be blue-pilled at the same. Well deserving.


Seems lie it's more of an employment than marriage


Now you're catching up. Handsome and poor = good "slave" semen for procreation.


His value is below a maid, he's worse than a slave


Try it and get the same outcome.

NOTHING TO SEE HERE BUSINESS AS USUAL.

100% √√√

frozen70:
If the man is handsome, let her enjoy is looks
If he married her for her money, let him deal with it

Sure

The world actually revolves around economic power. Those that control resources always has upper hands in any given institution, organisation or society.

Every man should understand this simple concept. You dont depend on someone and still expect such person to give 100% respect you deserved.

The man in the case op just narrated simply lack ambition or too lazy to be call a man. Having a rich wife is an opportunity for you to be rich too if you know how to play your game.

yemmit90:
The world actually revolves around economic power. Those that control resources always has upper hands in any given institution, organisation or society.

Every man should understand this simple concept. You dont depend on someone and still expect such person to give 100% respect you deserved.

The man in the case op just narrated simply lack ambition or too lazy to be call a man. Having a rich wife is an opportunity for you to be rich too if you know how to play your game.

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Greenie
A man once told me that, he is certain that my future wife will enjoy me a lot. He said this because he saw that I am person of virtue

In life people will always take advantage of you. Even prideful men and women who failed to conform you to their will or failed to suppress you, will always rebel against you. The key is for you to resist them at all cost. The scripture clearly says that God resist the proud and give his grace to the humble. If the Almighty will resist proud men, why on earth will you embrace proud men?

This is one areas where God has heavily used my resistance to my advantage to channel me through my journey of life.

Greenie. If you marry a man of virtue, you will enjoy him so much and confided in him.