MrJM:
Good evening well meaning Nigerians, Please help me. I am broke and dying of hunger as a result of a motor accident I had four months ago. Please help me, all I need is #2,300 to buy a carton of Chikki Chicken indomie. A carton of Chikki Chicken indomie contain 40 pieces of indomies, it will sustain me for some days.

My account number is 3173689537, Tunde Olaoluwa, First Bank.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O0MvouDzb80

My whatsapp number is 0815 574 6911.

Please help me. Have mercy on me, I have been starving since yesterday.

Below is my account number, if I cannot get #2300, please send me #1000 make I take buy half paint of garri and a bag of pure water.

Please I am seriously hungry.

My account number is 3173689537, Tunde Olaoluwa, First Bank.

I hope by other women, it does not include his own mother or sisters

pocohantas:


Even your fellow men on this thread have said men must cheat. Why are you now crying and singling me out? Your fellow men told us you guys must cheat. The pastor knows it and he has to lead prayers for you guys. Please face yourselves and leave me. Hian!

On the other hand, a lot of women in relationships and married women often feel the need to cheat whenever there's tension in their affairs. Poco, check yourself first.

Kobojunkie:
Can a one be snatched without wanting to be?

Oh... yes.
Some people would go to any length..... and there are many cases like that.

But sometimes, regarding the prayer, you may not have to look at the marriage alone. Also, look at how grave adultery is and how it has seriously messed up a lot of marriages.

So, going back to your question.
You can only speak for yourself. You may have little idea of the mental state of your partner.

What kind of prayer is this one now? Mumu congregation will say Amen

noise

AZControversial:

Oh... yes.
Some people would go to any length..... and there are many cases like that.

But sometimes, regarding the prayer, you may not have to look at the marriage alone. Also, look at how grave adultery is and how it has seriously messed up a lot of marriages.
So, going back to your question.
You can only speak for yourself. You may have little idea of the mental state of your partner.

Marriages aren't meant as perfect institutions to begin with. In Genesis 3 vs 16, God Himself cursed marriage, so let's banish any ideas we may have that marriage should somehow play a part in determining one's relationship with God - it doesn't and neither is such an excuse considered where God is concerned.

Those who will chose to cheat in marriage will chose to cheat in marriage whether the temptation is great or not. No excuses will ever make their choices of good or right - sin is sin.

That said, Jesus Christ's commandment to us is that we show our love for Him through our obedience of His commandments. And And prayer seems more like something said against Jesus Christ-Sin - than something said by one who obeys Jesus Christ.

Is there any reason why the Nigerian Church CANNOT teach Nigerian husbands self-control, sexual discipline and loving their wives?

Any reason why they continue to breed and encourage baby husbands?

Please stop mixing culture & Christianity; it is very annoying.

bukatyne:
Is there any reason why the Nigerian Church CANNOT teach Nigerian husbands self-control, sexual discipline and loving their wives?

Any reason why they continue to breed and encourage baby husbands?

Please stop mixing culture & Christianity; it is very annoying.

Jesus Christ no send anyone go teach any man or woman how to act in marriage.

Your churches are part and parcel of the problem that is now marriage in Nigeria today. They have preached rubbish to generations taking from them , both men and women, the ability to make sound decisions even in their marriages.

What you see in Nigeria is not Christianity according to Jesus Christ but the doctrines and traditions of men , lies, which breed nothing but ruin.

pocohantas:
Mtcheew

Some women don’t mind praying a side-chick dies all to ensure their horseband doesn’t cheat.

Some will rather employ a minor as maid, than a grown girl.

You will see them dressed in ankara and hideous head tie, moving from one crusade to another. All this to protect the supposed head of the house. Leaves me confused. Who is supposed to have this mantle of praying and protecting?

Do this for 10 years straight and you wonder why women age faster than men? You must age na. The day Nigerian men call themselves to order, you will see that pastors will stop making plenty money from aggrieved and stressed Nigerian wives.

The Ankara and hideous head tie got me.

The Nigerian Church honestly breed and encourage 'unchristian' and baby husbands.

I wouldn't be surprised that pastor has never taught the husbands how to be good husbands according to biblical standards.

His own wife might be among the Ankara tying group.

Dey will still deceive.

Kobojunkie:
1. Jesus Christ no send anyone go teach any man or woman how to act in marriage.

2. Your churches are part and parcel of the problem that is now marriage in Nigeria today. They have preached rubbish to generations taking from them , both men and women, the ability to make sound decisions even in their marriages.

1. You know your Bible is a special one, I won't argue with you.

2. Sadly very very very true. The word submission has been twisted for ages. And to think Apostle Paul (in my Bible, the standard Bible around ) actually said people would twist his teachings to suit their agenda.

Kobojunkie:
Marriages aren't meant as perfect institutions to begin with. In Genesis 3 vs 16, God Himself cursed marriage, so let's banish any ideas we may have that marriage should somehow play a part in determining one's relationship with God - it doesn't and neither is such an excuse considered where God is concerned.

Those who will chose to cheat in marriage will chose to cheat in marriage whether the temptation is great or not. No excuses will ever make their choices of good or right - sin is sin.

That said, Jesus Christ's commandment to us is that we show our love for Him through our obedience of His commandments. And And prayer seems more like something said against Jesus Christ-Sin - than something said by one who obeys Jesus Christ.

Point of correction.... He cursed the man... and the woman,....not the marriage. Coz, even if you're not married, you'll still face hardship/ hustle as a man.... and to the woman, pain while in labour, because God still said she'll still desire her husband. Baby mamas too give birth. Is it rosy for them?

Again, the fact that marriage isn't a perfect institution doesn't excuse anyone from carelessly venturing into it without considering the fundamental ingredients necessary to sustain it.

Now, let me just say this.... there are spiritual forces looking to dent that institution called marriage. I can bear witness to this. One scenario played out recently but the story long sha.

Long and short, one should be spiritually cautious. You may not have an idea or be uninterested of what is at play spiritually, but don't underestimate those who try to ruin that union called marriage.

What a prayer point

bukatyne:




The Ankara and hideous head tie got me.

The Nigerian Church honestly breed and encourage 'unchristian' and baby husbands.

I wouldn't be surprised that pastor has never taught the husbands how to be good husbands according to biblical standards.

His own wife might be among the Ankara tying group.

It is worrying, Buka. They encourage baby husbands. This is a grown man for God sake. The one that is supposed to lead. How do you justify him being pampered spiritually and morally like this?

I have never seen one church program organized for men and they gathered themselves to pray for their wives not to cheat. Is it that men do not know women face temptations, way more than they do?

Some women there are also side chick to some men out there .

lalasticlala:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JWHThHc4XTw

Other women will smell like excreta to your husband, pastor prays for couples.

'That woman (side chick) will look like excreta to you, they will smell to you!..it is only me you will desire in the name of Jesus' - Pastor leads prayers.

After the prayer point, the pastor urged the women to kiss their husbands as an affirmation of answered prayer.

& his forehead is on her breasts & two hand on the buttock endtime pastor

Awww so romantic , A christain marriage centered around God is "less likely" to involve cheating. So I don't think this is wrong, if it promotes fidelity its a good thing.

Many lunatics are out there answering pastors. Meanwhile I didn't have any reason to watch the video shaa. So I didn't watch the video.

pocohantas:
Mtcheew

Some women don’t mind praying a side-chick dies all to ensure their horseband doesn’t cheat.

Some will rather employ a minor as maid, than a grown girl.

You will see them dressed in ankara and hideous head tie, moving from one crusade to another. All this to protect the supposed head of the house. Leaves me confused. Who is supposed to have this mantle of praying and protecting?

Do this for 10 years straight and you wonder why women age faster than men? You must age na. The day Nigerian men call themselves to order, you will see that pastors will stop making plenty money from aggrieved and stressed Nigerian wives.

You were on track till your last sentence.

Story story story.....reddish vulva must attract male dogs for mating.......if you under the proverbs click like.

Odiegwu. Kuku remove cloth na.

A big Amen to that

pocohantas:


It is worrying, Buka. They encourage baby husbands. This is a grown man for God sake. The one that is supposed to lead. How do you justify him being pampered spiritually and morally like this?

I have never seen one church program organized for men and they gathered themselves to pray for their wives not to cheat. Is it that men do not know women face temptations, way more than they do?

It is terrible.

I created a thread here some years back.

When I go to the few women programs, I don ask questions tire.

Teach women to submit yes, but to what?

How can we have a Christian women program (women married to Christians) and you are discussing how to condone cheating and telling women that leaving their marriages or separation/even confronting their husbands is wrong?

Even the men programs are how to 'dominate' their wives and be the 'head'

pocohantas:
Mtcheew

Some women don’t mind praying a side-chick dies all to ensure their horseband doesn’t cheat.

Some will rather employ a minor as maid, than a grown girl.

You will see them dressed in ankara and hideous head tie, moving from one crusade to another. All this to protect the supposed head of the house. Leaves me confused. Who is supposed to have this mantle of praying and protecting?

Do this for 10 years straight and you wonder why women age faster than men? You must age na. The day Nigerian men call themselves to order, you will see that pastors will stop making plenty money from aggrieved and stressed Nigerian wives.

This is good!!!

Addressing husband as horseband. You claim to be married but is this how you address your horseband?

I've been following some of your hot takes on nairaland. Some times you're on point.

Some other time, you sound like a middle age lady who suffered from a chronic heartbreak.

I don’t like that prayer.

Sharon6:
I watched the video last night and I couldn't stop laughing. A community penis will still leave to his side chick's house after dropping the family at home from the church for his regular Sunday dose.

So his boss if female will smell like excreta, his colleagues at work will smell like poo, the food seller will smell like shiiiit? Haba na!

Smell like excreta my foot when we have nice and tantalising scents for female that will make you smell like Beyonce. Read the thread on my SIGNATURE to know more.

I love your sincerity of opinion on the video,that can only happen in a country like naija, church is business.
Let that pastor come pray such here in the state and smell his own butt.

lalasticlala:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JWHThHc4XTw

Other women will smell like excreta to your husband, pastor prays for couples.

'That woman (side chick) will look like excreta to you, they will smell to you!..it is only me you will desire in the name of Jesus' - Pastor leads prayers.

After the prayer point, the pastor urged the women to kiss their husbands as an affirmation of answered prayer.

What if na the ecreta smelling women the husbands dey like, cus we no dey no Finish, different strokes for different folks

Joker

bukatyne:


It is terrible.

I created a thread here some years back.

When I go to the few women programs, I don ask questions tire.

Teach women to submit yes, but to what?

How can we have a Christian women program (women married to Christians) and you are discussing how to condone cheating and telling women that leaving their marriages or separation/even confronting their husbands is wrong?

Even the men programs are how to 'dominate' their wives and be the 'head'

The irony of it all. Is a christian man not supposed to be spirit filled? Why invoking body odour on unsuspecting women to protect him?

Women married to the few sensible and responsible Nigerian men, do not know how the whole world has aligned for them.