To me, one of such character is Unnecessary pride.

It only requires a proud person to believe that every other person is below him/her.

It only requires a proud person to imagine that he/she can insult and abuse everyone because he/she is higher than all.

For example, you can see a final year student of the University,

and you try to relate with him, but he would be insulting you, with the mind that he is higher than you academically.

He doesn't even stop to think that you could be a Masters student.

He just conclude in his mind that he is higher than everyone in the school, because he is in final year.

I remember when in camp, some corpers were insulting one of the officials, asking why someone like him have to address them on an issue which I have forgotten.

It turned out later that the man was a PhD holder.

This is the kind of pride that characterizes human interaction.

People don't want to know, they just assumed things out of pride.

I know some people may use pride to characterize their new promotion, job, and etc.

But must you characterize your next level with pride?


Although I know some people who became very humble due to promotion, good job, and etc.


Please share the character people exhibit that shocks you.

Another thing is Unnecessary wickedness.

Some people can be so unnecessarily wicked that you begin to wonder.

Someone would do something wicked of which he/she will not gain anything.

So many people are only waiting for you to cross their path, so they can harm you.

Even if you try to avoid it,

somehow or other, he/she would still find a way to do you harm.

This character underlines why there is so much backwardness and poverty in this world(particularly in the third world countries where wickedness is the order of the day), even though there is so much wickedness.

It is because most people are wicked but they don't gain anything from it.

If people were to gain from wickedness,then most people (particularly Africans) would have lived above poverty.

They would have enjoyed good health and better/long lives.

So wickedness is mostly unnecessary.

Another thing that is very shocking is the tendency of people to hate and abuse good, humble and kind people while evil people are being pampered.


Infact, if you are good, humble and kind, everything you do, people will be offended.


For example, if you're the principal of a school and in your school, you expelled stubborn students.

People would be so mad at you, even when other principals before you had expelled students, but people did not react.


They are only mad at you because you are good.



Another example is this: Let's assume you are a good, humble and caring person,



everywhere you go, people will try to provoke,hate and abuse you, thinking that since you are good, you will not react against them.



As a good, humble and caring person,if one day you do something that is not so favourable to someone/people,


he/she/they would curse and abuse you more than they ever cursed a wicked person who did worse than you did.



I don't mean that you committed a crime against people.

What I mean is maybe as a leader, you took a decision like "from today,I will only supply A and B, but not C"



They will curse you more than they ever cursed a leader who was very wicked and committed murder and crimes against humanity.



Infact people will not hesitate to always find offence in you. They will judge and condemn you in everything.

Let's say, you are reading a novel, there must be someone who condemn you for reading the novel.


I believe what underlies this tendency is because so many people are bad and wicked, and they will condemn the good ones,


so that it will not appear as if the good ones are better than them.


They want to make the good ones to look evil like themselves.


This underlies why people would not hesitate to always find offence in the good, caring, loving and the humble ones

Another thing that is not far from surprising is the tendency of people to follow the crowd.

They do it without reasoning.

For example, if I and my group of friends decide to tag someone a thief and beat him/her up.

Before you know it, other people would join to beat the person without trying to find out if the person is a thief or is being set up.




Countless number of people have lost their lives because of the tendency of people to follow the crowd.


If people are saying that "X" is the best,

someone will almost never try to find out if the people are correct or not, before believing it.


That is why lies/deception spread so much in our society, because everyone believes what the majority is believing, without trying to find out the truth.

Another thing that is very shocking is the tendency of people to hate and abuse good, humble and kind people while evil people are being pampered.


Infact, if you are good, humble and kind, everything you do, people will be offended.


For example, if you're the principal of a school and in your school, you expelled stubborn students.

People would be so mad at you, even when other principals before you had expelled students, but people did not react.


They are only mad at you because you are good.



Another example is this: Let's assume you are a good, humble and caring person,



everywhere you go, people will try to provoke,hate and abuse you, thinking that since you are good, you will not react against them.



As a good, humble and caring person,if one day you do something that is not so favourable to someone/people,


he/she/they would curse and abuse you more than they ever cursed a wicked person who did worse than you did.



I don't mean that you committed a crime against people.

What I mean is maybe as a leader, you took a decision like "from today,I will only supply A and B, but not C"



They will curse you more than they ever cursed a leader who was very wicked and committed murder and crimes against humanity.



Infact people will not hesitate to always find offence in you. They will judge and condemn you in everything.

Let's say, you are reading a novel, there must be someone who condemn you for reading the novel.


I believe what underlies this tendency is because so many people are bad and wicked, and they will condemn the good ones,


so that it will not appear as if the good ones are better than them.


They want to make the good ones to look evil like themselves.


This underlies why people would not hesitate to always find offence in the good, caring, loving and the humble ones

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Unforiveness. They would never let go do matter how much u beg them

HillaryNelo:
Unforiveness. They would never let go no matter how much u beg them

Thank you Sir.

I’m shocked at anyone (especially elders) who are quick to tell you what is right even when they themselves have found no happiness doing same thing.

CrystalSpark:
I’m shocked at anyone (especially elders) who are quick to tell you what is right even when they themselves have found no happiness doing same thing.

This is a good one Sir.

Proudness ...

Lies and pride u will see a one dollar dude wit a one thousand dollars attitude

thinking and acting like you are smart.

when u are smart i will know without you showing or telling me, cos when i meet people i usually act like i am slow, to gauge ur level of smartness

i know a friend that every single time he has the opportunity he will always wants to play the smart one, if we hang out together, he wants me to foot the entire bill, last time i hung out with him, we wen to swim, i paid his gatefee cos i invited him to come with me, i was shocked when this guy asked me to give him transport money when we were thru, i was boiling inside of me, but i just maintain calm, swipe him enough money to take him home and swore never to go out with him again.

several weeks later, he has been sending me messages that we should hang out again and brainstorm and share ideas lmao, i usually tell him , i am already somehwere with friends, when i am thru i will call him, when i am naked inside my room playing pubg

Damnnn niggar
Isoright....

The one that shock me most are those Christians

Their annoying ways dey shock person..

them dey always want force that their gospel and way of life into people...

You go dey commercial bus....trying to relax....going home after a busy day at work.....then boom one christian brother ab na sister go just start....

I’m still shocked at how parents tries to live their lives through their children.

Telling your children the type of friends to keep, How to spend money, who to help with money , who’s evil and who’s not evil.

Even choosing a career

Jeesu

You do teach well, follow all the teaching patterns as faced in the curriculum, manuals and study notes.

You face the topic and explain it well but they don't appreciate you, instead they want the class to always be of chats and gists not related with the teaching topic of the day.

I once faced an issue with that. I was to be taking a class and in the curriculum which teachers were to study we had different teaching styles for different topics such as Lecture methods Questions and answers methods Discussion sessions But some don't follow the pattern and the class is always seen for a chatting and gists which is not related to learning anything related to the study of the day.

It shocks to see that some guys who can't afford good meals still keep two or more girlfriends just for knacking purpose; selling lies to each of them. I really find it so weird.

Then I wonder if some people would die if they don't let their third legs do the thinking for them.

Gossiping! It is really unfair on the person being discussed. You tell a whole lot about someone to another person (true or not true)from your own perspective and deprives the person you are talking to, the opportunity to access the victim from his/her own perspective.

2. Those who appreciate you for being nice, but are first to prey on your vulnerability, knowing they can get away with it.

It's shocking for me. I'm always like ah!, even you?

Defending Buhari's wickedness and cursing people who don't support it.

Immaturity, even among the elders.

Lack of exposure and understanding.

You will lose all your customers if you try to be nice with them in business.. .! Especially if you give Dem credit sales.

Mine is Buhari.
Some people are yet to accept he his not ruling the way he should be after all the promises. Nepotism, Hardship, Poor economy and many more but yet some people wont just speak the truth i dont know the mannabrills sorry manner of such behavior hiding from the truth...

How can someone be a Vegetable, a Cow and a Shock absorber at a time?!


E choke!

You do teach well, follow all the teaching patterns as faced in the curriculum, manuals and study notes. You face the topic and explain it well but they don't appreciate you, instead they want the class to always be of chats and gists not related with the teaching topic of the day.

I once faced an issue with that. I was to be taking a class and in the curriculum which teachers were to study we had different teaching styles for different topics such as
Lecture methods
Questions and answers methods
Discussion sessions
But some don't follow the pattern and the class is always seen for a chatting and gists which is not related to learning anything related to the study of the day.

How buhari got re-elected ...it shows us that the numbers of reasonable people are far far More than the opposite