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His Wife Doesn't Rate Him by Baba40(f): 2:50pm On Oct 02, 2021 |
Dear Nairalanders, this thread is for married persons ONLY pls.. No insults. A friend of mine told me his wife doesn't rate him at all... I asked him the reason he's thinking in that line of thought, he told me when he checked the wife's phone that on the emergency contact he couldn't find his phone numbers there but her father, mum and elder brother. I told my friend that incase of emergency he should be the next line of contact but the wife doesn't see it that way What could make a wife not to put her husband contact in an emergency list? Would appreciate your contribution, thanks. |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Rate Him by Baba40(f): 2:54pm On Oct 02, 2021 |
Honest opinion only pls |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Rate Him by chatinent: 2:59pm On Oct 02, 2021 |
Speak to your wife about it, she mayn’t understand what the emergency feature there stands for. 5 Likes |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Rate Him by Baba40(f): 3:05pm On Oct 02, 2021 |
chatinent: Not my wife but my friend's.... Even if she doesnt know, a particular line of thought made her put her parents nah. Dont you think her husband should come to mind before her parents ? |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Rate Him by chatinent: 3:10pm On Oct 02, 2021 |
Baba40: Yeah, I think you should come to mind before her parents. 4 Likes |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Rate Him by Raymond0008(m): 3:16pm On Oct 02, 2021 |
As far he’s doing okay, kids are fine definitely that’s less of his problem. Women do some usual things, when her head calm down definitely she will put his number on the emergency list. 2 Likes |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Rate Him by Authoreety: 3:19pm On Oct 02, 2021 |
Majority of women are wired to be careless and irresponsible to her husband and home Also check her mums character... Women mostly tend to take after their mum character wise 3 Likes |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Rate Him by mardis: 3:42pm On Oct 02, 2021 |
It could be that the man is not doing all he is supposed to do as a husband 3 Likes |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Rate Him by greenie77: 3:52pm On Oct 02, 2021 |
He alone knows the true state of his relationship with his wife. 1 Like |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Rate Him by JovialJune(f): 4:01pm On Oct 02, 2021 |
This is an issue? To the extent of concluding what she thinks of him? Let's say for example? There is an emergency that involves him or he is incapacitated, who is she suppose to call? Or he is unreachable when away from them, who should she call? Most times, emergency call number decision is usually for someone living far and nearest vicinity in case there is an issue at the home front, again, what if she knows her husbands number off hand? He should discuss this with her. And for the idiots already assuming and concluding rubbish of the wife and most women baselessly, pray to God to give you a complete human brain and stop using that of an asinwin. 4 Likes |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Rate Him by MufasaLion: 5:00pm On Oct 02, 2021 |
Firstly, you're the person. Stop lying. Secondly, go and have a discussion with your wife on this matter. That's the best advice you can get. Or do you expect us to bash your wife? I'm sure that's what you were expecting. 3 Likes |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Rate Him by Kobojunkie: 5:06pm On Oct 02, 2021 |
Baba40:You lied to your friend, why? There is no rule that states married couples must list each other as emergency contacts. Each person has his or her own reasons for these things. 4 Likes |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Rate Him by Kobojunkie: 5:07pm On Oct 02, 2021 |
greenie77:Precisely! |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Rate Him by Nobody: 5:20pm On Oct 02, 2021 |
Divorce her. Marriage is for only fools |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Rate Him by greenie77: 5:25pm On Oct 02, 2021 |
Unknown31: I believe your parents are not fools because I want to assume they got married, unless you were born at home. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Rate Him by Baba40(f): 6:08pm On Oct 02, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: The reason for the question... what do you think might be the reason(s) |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Rate Him by Kobojunkie: 7:10pm On Oct 02, 2021 |
Baba40:Like I said... we each have our own reasons for the things we do. |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Rate Him by crackhaus: 7:57pm On Oct 02, 2021 |
Baba40:Tell him to put his father, mother, and brother/sister as emergency contacts on his phone as well. Case closed. Some things don't need to be deliberated. I would have suggested he talks to her, but what do you think will happen afterwards? 4 Likes |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Rate Him by sisisioge: 8:20pm On Oct 02, 2021 |
She actually rated him....very low. She probably saved those numbers on her emergency list long before she got married. Simply asking her would have answered his question o instead of him asking you and you asking us 3 Likes |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Rate Him by SeaTrade(m): 8:49pm On Oct 02, 2021 |
Baba40:Maybe because the emergency she could be worrying over is you, Like for instance anyday you decide to beat craze commot her body or the day she sees you with another woman.You expect her to call you? She can't have you on emergency dial while you are the emergency na 3 Likes |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Rate Him by yunqdady: 8:59pm On Oct 02, 2021 |
Baba40:Come back when you stop lying on your friend. This is your wife and not your friend's 1 Like |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Rate Him by Mrlola: 7:21am On Oct 03, 2021 |
JovialJune: He should at least be one of the emergency contacts. I don't think I will like it that my in-laws are the one calling me that my wife is in a bad situation. 2 Likes |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Rate Him by Richy4(m): 7:42am On Oct 03, 2021 |
Is there a possibility that she has been using that phone for a long time? ie before she got married to him 2 Likes |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Rate Him by frozen70(f): 7:54am On Oct 03, 2021 |
Baba40: Every one has a preference. Besides, not every married couples love themselves so much to make their spouse a next of kin or a preference incase of emergency Some things are not adding up 2 Likes |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Rate Him by ImaIma1(f): 12:39pm On Oct 03, 2021 |
Simply ask her why she didn't use you as her emergency contact. Most couples use each other. 2 Likes |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Rate Him by pocohantas(f): 9:57am On Oct 05, 2021 |
It is not that she doesn’t rate him, but due to his reputation, she has prioritized her peace of mind over his emergency support. If you are driving behind a woman and hit her car, her first instinct would be most likely to call her husband or partner. If you give her the mechanic’s number, if you are in Saturn, she would most likely call you first. IF AND IF ONLY, YOU ARE A DEPENDABLE MAN! A MAN THAT PROFER SOLUTIONS, NOT EXCUSES. It is the joy of even the most independent woman to have a man like this and it is extremely painful to have the opposite. So it is not happiness she used in putting her family as her emergency contact. Some of you give more excuses than actions. Yet you complain you are not the first on her emergency contact? You complain you are not being rated. On what basis should you be rated? Why should you be first there when she knows you won’t come through or you will come through after 2 months of arguments, fights and begging? You want to add to her pain in an emergency situation? 15 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Rate Him by merieam16(f): 7:10pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
chatinent:lolzz...u eeh, the guy told u his nt the one involved nah |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Rate Him by chatinent: 7:27pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
merieam16: If I want to use another pronoun, my spirit dey control me to type him. 1 Like
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Re: His Wife Doesn't Rate Him by Baba40(f): 10:06pm On Oct 05, 2021 |
[quote author=Mrlola post=106393059] He should at least be one of the emergency contacts. I don't think I will like it that my in-laws are the one calling me that my wife is in a bad situatio 1 Like |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Rate Him by cooooooks(m): 1:47pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
Umm, yes, this is an issue. It may not be the end of the world but I would definitely have a dialogue with my wife about this if I were in his shoes. She may have had these emergency contacts since before she was married and never changed. Her husband may work offshore or is generally far from their city. Her husband may be unreliable at times and hard to reach. They may not be the best communicators. She may not trust him. Anything could be the reason. The onus is on them to discuss and move forward, together. JovialJune: |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Rate Him by cooooooks(m): 1:48pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
Ah ah aunty, aren't you assuming all these? He hasn't said why he thinks this is the case na. Aunty Poco with the fire. pocohantas: |
Re: His Wife Doesn't Rate Him by Sonnobax15(m): 1:57pm On Oct 11, 2021 |
Well,this thread is strictly for married couples...so lemme sit here and read comments. |
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