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Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by Karleb(m): 7:30pm On Oct 04, 2021
tundeloveday:
Say Hello to me again 15 years from now and and I will respond to your last comment. The guy will learn and make a calculated risk next time. I pray along the way, he will never cross the path of people like you. You will only be on Nairaland to air your opinion.

please I beg you, go and sit down.
Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by jameyjaggs: 8:00pm On Oct 04, 2021
Dahustler007:
Long story Short! I'm currently serving in the North-East region of the country precisely Gombe state. I got myself into some debt mess mixed with me gambling my 33k in just two days! I know I messed up big time.
My mind isn't at rest, I'm kinda depressed and I have School tomorrow I can't teach those primary school pupils in this state of mind I need some advice on what to do... I cried my Life out... I deserve all insults and more. I just need help! Please someone should help me. I'm dead¡

You dey learn i have till Thursday to produce #260,000 naira.. na only 70k i get now. like this sniper dey hungry me badly already thinking of selling my laptop (only possession worth 80 at best.... So down right now... Just in case u guys don't see me online any more know am awaiting judgement cry cry cry
Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by malcom1X: 8:07pm On Oct 04, 2021
Numerouno94:


2months.

Batch B stream ii was 3 months back then.

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Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by Dahustler007(m): 8:11pm On Oct 04, 2021
jameyjaggs:


You dey learn i have till Thursday to produce #260,000 naira.. na only 70k i get now. like this sniper dey hungry me badly already thinking of selling my laptop (only possession worth 80 at best.... So down right now... Just in case u guys don't see me online any more know am awaiting judgement cry cry cry

Bro. No reason am
Last last we go dey alright, the person you dey owe no fit kill you na... As long as we're alive there's hope!

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Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by Numerouno94(m): 8:13pm On Oct 04, 2021
malcom1X:


Batch B stream ii was 3 months back then.

Sowi boss, i was not aware of that. Buh na enjoyment b dat na. grin grin
Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by Dahustler007(m): 8:16pm On Oct 04, 2021
CDCEO001:
Take it easy, we all make mistakes.
Let this be a lesson to make you hold yourself and stop gambling.
At least you care about the kids, that shows you have a good heart. Just forget what happened and use it as a lesson as I said above. Find something you love doing that is not gambling and use it to relax your mind. You could watch funny video skits, read book or watch movies etc. You'll be alright.

I'm just seeing this now...thanks so much for this comment I really appreciate!
I'm trying to move on right now... I'm working on getting rid of gambling.

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Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by N3wman: 9:30pm On Oct 04, 2021
I just hope we understand that not everyone is the same, not everyone has the power to "stop" things, no matter how bad they're. Some people are just natural addict, they get addicted to virtually everything and their only cure is prevention.

He talks about gambling away his allowance for last month, i.e the money that is supposed to sustain him for this month that is just in it's 4th day, and we are here with stones, wood and fire to roast him, we think it's by choice, or greed? It might be, but most times, it's none of it. It's just his psyche, he just can't help it, he's an addict.

I am one, so I know, I have been addicted to everything I can think of, it started with reading, then video games, snooker, gambling, football, movies, drugs(was addicted to trams for 5 years) writing etc. We just can't help it but we can choose which. One thing I have noticed over time is, you can only feed a few addictions at a time. There was a time I was addicted to exercising, I couldn't go a day without going to work out.

My advice is channel that addiction to something productive, something that will help your body, every of the addictions I mentioned above o quit by getting addicted to something else, something better, something less harmful, then something beneficial. Channel that addictive energy to learning something new, to reading, to work, you don't have to get rid of the gambling spirit, just replace it with something better.

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Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by oklahrelo(m): 7:36am On Oct 05, 2021
SimeonOTC:


NYSC total allowance is about 396k for 12months..I was able to save 300k from it.., after p.o.p, the state I serve paid us 96k, making it appropriately 400k, as I type this now, the money is still in my acct since February we passed out..how was I able to save this much? I am low-key nigga, never gambled, wasteful or even have a girlfriend dispite have lots of younger ones that look up to me, I have big problems, but I handle the strategically..that aside anyway..

O.p I laugh you, if you dnt stop, I swear bro, you go suffer.. heavy suffer..
I ones gambled long time ago.. gambling does not interest me..I really don't know why.. there is a spirit in me that always fight anything that takes away my hard earn funds, I go back to the drawing board to see how to starve the thing or addict or better still, look for an alternative.

O.p try this little solution, it may rewire your brain.

Channel all your funds into a 'legit' saving financial app, where you can watch the money grow through interest or investment, apps like cowry saving app, rice investment app, piggyvest..
Always login just the way you login your bet app to check your money and interest been sent to you daily and also check for other investment opportunities in the app, check for other people's savings and funds they have invested, you will be amaze and challenged to save and invest like them or more than then, you will shock to know that in this country, people save like mad mangrin, I jst loggin piggyvest and saw some saved 5milli in his target savings, about approximately 20-40k interest will be paid to him every month for absolutely doing NOTHING!!

Try this, but first, delete and unsubscribe from all bet apps as well as uninstalling them..starve yourself from betting for some days.





I don't know .. About this..
Tho have heard about it much times.. But I always looks at the platforms. (Rasksterli, so many I couldn't even remember now) do pack ups.. That your money are all but gone .. If I want to use any of the platforms you mention, definitely am going to go heavy on it.. I need something that strict and aforementioned, But am just not certain , it better make it still dey bank dey comot stupid charges than save with swindlers..
Yes, I do play bet like the op, but I no dey do pass my self abeg, 3k every week is my deal.. 5h in 6 places.. That I can afford, I win some times, I lose much times.

Pls I just want you to assure me .. Which one of those is certain . ..
Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by SimeonOTC(m): 10:53am On Oct 06, 2021
oklahrelo:






I don't know .. About this..
Tho have heard about it much times.. But I always looks at the platforms. (Rasksterli, so many I couldn't even remember now) do pack ups.. That your money are all but gone .. If I want to use any of the platforms you mention, definitely am going to go heavy on it.. I need something that strict and aforementioned, But am just not certain , it better make it still dey bank dey comot stupid charges than save with swindlers..
Yes, I do play bet like the op, but I no dey do pass my self abeg, 3k every week is my deal.. 5h in 6 places.. That I can afford, I win some times, I lose much times.

Pls I just want you to assure me .. Which one of those is certain . ..

LOL..am just a bit like you..kinda have trust issue when it comes to financial stuffsgrin.

the best you should go for is piggyvest..100% trusted..always with you 2-4-7grin..they leave you with no doubt..have been on it since 2018..i remember starting with 1,530grin..even as low as that money, i observed them for about 2-months before increasing to 5k.
it took the whole world for me to be convince they are going last long and trust worthy..
they are simply the best..
if you register and see the way people save their funds, trust me, i will know Nigeria banks are seriously losing customers..i currently don't have a single kobo in my Nija bank acct.. i pack all of them go piggyvest, cause i trust them with my life already..they have delivered beyond doubtgrin
they are recognize by all financial institute in Nija..

bro i guarantee you 100% safe and secure..

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Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by Dahustler007(m): 2:06pm On Oct 07, 2021
N3wman:
I just hope we understand that not everyone is the same, not everyone has the power to "stop" things, no matter how bad they're. Some people are just natural addict, they get addicted to virtually everything and their only cure is prevention.

He talks about gambling away his allowance for last month, i.e the money that is supposed to sustain him for this month that is just in it's 4th day, and we are here with stones, wood and fire to roast him, we think it's by choice, or greed? It might be, but most times, it's none of it. It's just his psyche, he just can't help it, he's an addict.

I am one, so I know, I have been addicted to everything I can think of, it started with reading, then video games, snooker, gambling, football, movies, drugs(was addicted to trams for 5 years) writing etc. We just can't help it but we can choose which. One thing I have noticed over time is, you can only feed a few addictions at a time. There was a time I was addicted to exercising, I couldn't go a day without going to work out.

My advice is channel that addiction to something productive, something that will help your body, every of the addictions I mentioned above o quit by getting addicted to something else, something better, something less harmful, then something beneficial. Channel that addictive energy to learning something new, to reading, to work, you don't have to get rid of the gambling spirit, just replace it with something better.




Woww! Thanks so much for this. It means a lot and I really appreciate. I'm just seeing this now.
I'm working on myself now... Like you said, I've started channelling that energy to other stuffs like reading, making new friends and gaming too.

Thanks once more for the comment... I have a shot of it to keep myself posted always!

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Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by Ameboperoo(m): 8:46pm On Oct 07, 2021
InvestorO:


Accept the fact that you are loser when it comes to gambling and there is no trick you can pull off that you can win or recover your money back,...

Let your subconscious mind know that, so when the urge to gamble comes again,you keep your money to your self....

It is the urge to recover your losses back that mostly keeps gambling addicts into deeper shiit that gets deeper like a rabbit hole they never come out from
This is the 1 million dollars truth.
Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by UltimateStarman: 10:51am On Oct 09, 2021
Dahustler007:
Long story Short! I'm currently serving in the North-East region of the country precisely Gombe state. I got myself into some debt mess mixed with me gambling my 33k in just two days! I know I messed up big time.
My mind isn't at rest, I'm kinda depressed and I have School tomorrow I can't teach those primary school pupils in this state of mind I need some advice on what to do... I cried my Life out... I deserve all insults and more. I just need help! Please someone should help me. I'm dead¡
hope it's solved now
Re: My Life Is A Mess Right Now, I Need Some Advice Please! by Dahustler007(m): 10:47pm On Oct 26, 2021
UltimateStarman:

hope it's solved now


There's always Light at the end of the Tunnel all I needed to do was stay Strong and positive!

Thanks for checking up... I really appreciate!

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