₦airaland Forum

Its very obvious that our generation has totally got it all wrong with relationship. Everybody wants to be in a relationship but without objective or purpose. Pls NAIRALANDERs, Why are u or why do u want to be in a relationship?

for a great many ppl esp men, it's just to collect phucks ie fornication and challenge God that they are bold enough to break the divine laws and prohibition ,while for the ladies its for survival basically

I think the most reason people get into relationship is to reduce burden.

Its a very lovely thing when u come home and have a shoulder to cry on after a very bad day, while at work or travel out for business purposes, u will be happy knowing that ur children is in the safest hands they could ever be.

Its beautiful knowing that their is someone who u don't trip over for, u can be the most stupid person u wanna be around them.

That's not the Nigerian version

Quality20:
for a great many ppl esp men, it's just to collect phucks ie fornication and challenge God that they are bold enough to break the divine laws and prohibition ,while for the ladies its for survival basically

From ur points, it cud all be summed up to be 4 "SELFISH INTEREREST".

richmond500:
I think the most reason people get into relationship is to reduce burden

"SELFISH" What happens to Personal growth nd values?

Promzy99:
"SELFISH" What happens to Personal growth nd values?

that's not what I mean.

What I am saying is that, u have ur goals, she has her goals too, if u put heads together (Assuming she's not the typical leg chain wearing olodoic Nigerian lady), u can reduce burden.

Women are very intelligent that most great men wouldn't be there without the help of a woman(Wife, sister, mother, friends) like Barack Obama and Michael Jackson to mention but a few

richmond500:
that's not what I mean.

What I am saying is that, u have ur goals, she has her goals too, if u put heads together (Assuming she's not the typical leg chain wearing olodoic Nigerian lady), u can reduce burden.

Women are very intelligent that most great men wouldn't be there without the help of a woman(Wife, sister, mother, friends) like Barack Obama and Michael Jackson to mention but a few

u made a valid point. Honestly, I miss d days when b4 u get clinched to a lady, u both got to sit dwn nd talk abt what u plan 2 achieve nd how to get there 2geda. This days, most of what we have as relationship is crap. No dirction. No magnitude.

Promzy99:
u made a valid point. Honestly, I miss d days when b4 u get clinched to a lady, u both got to sit dwn nd talk abt what u plan 2 achieve nd how to get there 2geda. This days, most of what we have as relationship is crap. No dirction. No magnitude.

there are a lot of ladies like that out there.

I remembered meeting a very beautiful delta girl back then in the university in 2019, it was love at 1st sight.

The feelings was reciprocated almost immediately, first time I saw her, we were with her friends so we couldn't talk one on one, the second time we met, her first question is "where do u find urself in the nearest future" the question melt my heart cos a typical Nigerian girl will first tell u how fried rice deh hungry am.

richmond500:
there are a lot of ladies like that out there.

I remembered meeting a very beautiful delta girl back then in the university in 2019, it was love at 1st sight.

The feelings was reciprocated almost immediately, first time I saw her, we was with her friends so we couldn't talk one on one, the second time we met, her first question is "where do u find urself in the nearest future" the question melt my heart cos a typical Nigerian girl will first tell u how fried rice deh hungry am.

I bet, u wud neva eva be bored conversing with her. Such questions are only asked by ladies who knws details about life and its struggles. I have only met such a lady ONCE in my LIFE.