This is common with ladies. While some men stupidly do it.
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It's a turn off to regale a new man who is still trying to know you and make romantic interest, with all your life problem. Or by quickly asking him money early in the dating game . Even if u are broke or hungry, no tell am, it's too early. It will only give a message that u can be had(gotten) with money.
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Nobody like problem, he may quickly deflect or avoid you, if ur first few meetings is filled with problems.
Even if u no get, no show am, even if u are broke, no post am for whatsap status where he will see it. I've stopped associating with some ladies I initially had romantic interest in based on this attitude.
It's not classy at all. It makes u and your family look cheap and poor. Also make you look lazy, disingenuous, unwise, problematic and entitled.
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Project your caring, clever, funny, and interesting side when u meet a new man instead for a while, give the man the reason to fall in love with you, not a reason to run away from problem.
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After a man already fell for u, if they get to know ur problem many of them will want to help in their own way with love.
Don't make them run away before they have that genuine interest to help out of love they have for you.

They won't hear. Nigerian girls are glutton. Immediately you show interest in them they will transfer all their lives problems to you

Op you made valid points...Most of these girls are not wise together with their entitlement mentality

Relationship,in Nigeria,is just another avenue for Financial breakthrough

Na she go still lose because if I later find out from another person mouth las las,I won't take it easy with her PURRY

We hear

Interesting topic. 5 different ladies:

1. Meet Duration: 1day. I want to fix my car
2. Meet duration: 2days : My house rent is due
3. Meet duration 1 week. : I want to pay my house rent
4. Meet duration : few days...Please buy Remmy hair 250k for me.
5. Meet duration few days: I want to change my phone.

ProtectMyMoney:
Interesting topic. 5 different ladies:

1. Meet Duration: 1day. I want to fix my car
2. Meet duration: 2days : My house rent is due
3. Meet duration 1 week. : I want to pay my house rent
4. Meet duration : few days...Please buy Remmy hair 250k for me.
5. Meet duration few days: I want to change my phone.

Really terrible. And some of them will say they are looking for husband..lol....while they are pushing men away with that attitude.

Trash!!!
Why don't you tell your fellow men not to ask for sex too early in a relationship. Why don't you give the woman time to adjust?

If she initiates it FINE!!! But don't coerce her.

siofra:
Trash!!!
Why don't you tell your fellow men not to ask for sex too early in a relationship. Why don't you give the woman time to adjust?

If she initiates it FINE!!! But don't coerce her.

Back then when I was in Naija, Na girls dey beg me for sex. Naija girls wey no fit hold body.

Fahdiga:
They won't hear. Nigerian girls are glutton. Immediately you show interest in them they will transfer all their lives problems to you

smiles

debbydams:
smiles

You are feeling nostalgic right? Having indulged in everything I said about your gender

siofra:
Trash!!!
Why don't you tell your fellow men not to ask for sex too early in a relationship. Why don't you give the woman time to adjust?

If she initiates it FINE!!! But don't coerce her.

One of em spotted. Sex is the only thing they can offer

Fahdiga:
You are feeling nostalgic right? Having indulged in everything I said about your gender

u are funny

Lolss..
OP
It is Not Easy nah..

Our Naija Babes are Hungry and Broke and need Helpers!
One I met dis year on a Date told me: My Store rent has expired, the money is N75,000 and I have only N2000..

Na once, I Quickly advise myself!

OP, you have written a piece indeed. Girls are making people like us giving up on relationship. Even when girls turn you down, they still foolishly ask you for a favor. Any small conversation, they start asking you anything for the girl. These hungry, lazy and unproductive gender always shouting they can't marry broke guys, but can't afford little of their needs without a man. These girls behave as if government pay you for being a man.

And later they be like "somebody's son go find me one day" like say dem lost
Always pushing the real men away with their entitlement

Sadly true met one sometime ago.. Omo girl was so demanding like she never had a parent.

I had to call everything off.. nonsense

siofra:
Trash!!!
Why don't you tell your fellow men not to ask for sex too early in a relationship. Why don't you give the woman time to adjust?

If she initiates it FINE!!! But don't coerce her.

Who's talking...

Fahdiga:
One of em spotted. Sex is the only thing they can offer

God bless you, ma gee

Vinnie2000:
Lolss..
OP
It is Not Easy nah..

Our Naija Babes are Hungry and Broke and need Helpers!
One I met dis year on a Date told me: My Store rent has expired, the money is N75,000 and I have only N2000..

Na once, I Quickly advise myself!

Watin she dey sell for her store wey no get profit.

Okay...what should we tell them instead?

Sugar97:
Okay...what should we tell them instead?

Talk about your Goals, likes, dislikes, aspirations,etc..
A real guy will be so wowed about ur Goals and will contribute some Cash to it, even without u asking!
However
Don't forget to Bless him with some Good Punny afterwards..

Vinnie2000:





Talk about your Goals, likes, dislikes, aspirations,etc..
A real guy will be so wowed about ur Goals and will contribute some Cash to it, even without u asking!
However
Don't forget to Bless him with some Good Punny afterwards..

Laishe job interview

Telling him my problems ≠ asking for money

My problems are a part of me and he should be ready to listen to them.
Abi what are his broad shoulders for?

90% of girls are guilty of this. This is me just being lenient with the percentage.

They really don't know it's a great turn off for guys. We are just meeting, chatting and calling on the phone, and boom they will start bombarding you with how they need money for this and that. Isn't that foolish?

Na mumu still get time for girls 4 this hard country

siofra:
Trash!!!
1. Why don't you tell your fellow men not to ask for sex too early in a relationship. Why don't you give the woman time to adjust?

2. If she initiates it FINE!!! But don't coerce her.

1. So your response to OP's post is this??

OP said women should not ask men for money too soon in a relationship and you say men should not ask women for sex in a relationship... So money is the reason why a girl should have sex with a guy?? No be prostitution be that??

Maybe you still believe that sex is the reward for a guy who has spent well :

2. So men shouldn't initiate sex?? And women don't coerce men into having sex??

Vinnie2000:
Lolss..
OP
It is Not Easy nah..

Our Naija Babes are Hungry and Broke and need Helpers!
One I met dis year on a Date told me: My Store rent has expired, the money is N75,000 and I have only N2000..

Na once, I Quickly advise myself!

Thank God say you advice yourself o...
2k out of 75k... Na wa o...

SmellySperm:
And later they be like "somebody's son go find me one day" like say dem lost
Always pushing the real men away with their entitlement

Even if them loss, who go get mind find liability...

See eh...
I don't mind spending on girls o (or even my guys them), but na that entitlement mentality dey pain me.... They believe that because hole dey their body it automatically means that they are worth spending on..

Sugar97:
Okay...what should we tell them instead?

Anything else but billing...