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Re: Please Help, My Dad's Health Is Getting Worse Because Of My Brother by Sonnobax15(m): 7:16am On Oct 14, 2021 |
There's always a prodigal son in every family....But it depends on Whether he's ready to accept his mistakes and to get back to his family. 1 Like |
Re: Please Help, My Dad's Health Is Getting Worse Because Of My Brother by frozen70(f): 7:27am On Oct 14, 2021 |
NoJex: Why not report your father to his church members to talk to him Your brother has choosen his own path and no one can change him except Christ You too, develop a strong heart over all these so that it doesn't eat you in As for your dad, let him carry his Cross God will answer his prayers |
Re: Please Help, My Dad's Health Is Getting Worse Because Of My Brother by TheWolfen(m): 7:43am On Oct 14, 2021 |
I don't know why your brother choose that path because it is only a BIG FOOL that will doubt the existence of God. But one thing I can say about him is that he has pride and only care about himself |
Re: Please Help, My Dad's Health Is Getting Worse Because Of My Brother by SSIPON(m): 7:44am On Oct 14, 2021 |
TheWolfen:There, I corrected it for you 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Please Help, My Dad's Health Is Getting Worse Because Of My Brother by TheWolfen(m): 7:47am On Oct 14, 2021 |
Over thinking is dangerous especially for old people. That dude just want to kill the poor man. May we not give birth to heartless children Vaughanlanrewaj: |
Re: Please Help, My Dad's Health Is Getting Worse Because Of My Brother by TheWolfen(m): 7:50am On Oct 14, 2021 |
Yes he is a big fool and I will say it again.. Why will someone doubt the existence of God? BTW why are you pained? Are you the said brother? SSIPON: |
Re: Please Help, My Dad's Health Is Getting Worse Because Of My Brother by SSIPON(m): 7:52am On Oct 14, 2021 |
TheWolfen: 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: Please Help, My Dad's Health Is Getting Worse Because Of My Brother by Kobojunkie: 8:10am On Oct 14, 2021 |
NoJex:Your dad's selfish desire to force his belief on his own children is what is killing him, and not your brother. OP, your father's "wickedness" and selfishness is what you are having to endure watching him starve himself and curse his on son because his ego has been bruised. OP, may I advise that you go spend time somewhere else or move away from your father so his toxic energy does not continue to affect you, eventually causing you to blame your brother for your father's action. Anyone who truly knows Jesus Christ would not agree with any of what your father is doing, nor with those on Facebook who suppose your brother ought to have been a puppet controlled by your father. |
Re: Please Help, My Dad's Health Is Getting Worse Because Of My Brother by Kobojunkie: 8:13am On Oct 14, 2021 |
JeffreyJunior:So you are suggesting the brother live a lie for the sake of their father's ego? A father is like an umbrella, so the children should live as if zombies under the umbrella? |
Re: Please Help, My Dad's Health Is Getting Worse Because Of My Brother by Kobojunkie: 8:17am On Oct 14, 2021 |
Vaughanlanrewaj:Intervened? Lol.... where Jesus Christ tell you that one? The brother is not the problem here. The father's ego, which Jesus Christ said should be dead - you must die go self in order to be worthy of Jesus Christ- is instead the problem here. By the way, what in the world do you mean by the statement in bold? |
Re: Please Help, My Dad's Health Is Getting Worse Because Of My Brother by Kobojunkie: 8:22am On Oct 14, 2021 |
chukwuibuipob:Where in the Bible do you have God telling you he honors a parents curse? God never gave parents power to curse or bless their children. None! In fact, that belief that parents have such power is pagan in origin, not biblical although some have gone as far as to twist that idea into the Bible through doctrines(lies) Also, next time you read your Bible, do so with your eyes open. The story of the prodigal son is not of a son who quit believing in God but instead of a Son who took his inheritance and squandered it. Stop reading your Bible upside-down. |
Re: Please Help, My Dad's Health Is Getting Worse Because Of My Brother by Kobojunkie: 8:25am On Oct 14, 2021 |
NoJex:Don't worry about your brother. Worry about your father who thinks that he can force his belief on your brother. In fact, don't worry about him even... find and focus on your own life and salvation instead abeg! |
Re: Please Help, My Dad's Health Is Getting Worse Because Of My Brother by Kobojunkie: 8:30am On Oct 14, 2021 |
NoJex:Your father's actions have nothing to do with your brother. Your dad needs to grow up and find Jesus Christ for Himself. Carrying title of "Evangelist" around no be how dem dey do God at all. Jesus Christ said by their fruits you shall know them, and these fruits of your father's only reveal him to be yet another product of indoctrination. |
Re: Please Help, My Dad's Health Is Getting Worse Because Of My Brother by Jamesbiodun(m): 8:37am On Oct 14, 2021 |
I am very sorry to say this, I don't think your father will make heaven if heaven is real, everyone is entitled to his or her own faith, at least your brother no be arm robber Abi na assassin religion is our number one problem I am sorry once again |
Re: Please Help, My Dad's Health Is Getting Worse Because Of My Brother by Bluewitch(f): 8:47am On Oct 14, 2021 |
NoJex: Your dad should let go of your brother. He committed no crime. 3 Likes |
Re: Please Help, My Dad's Health Is Getting Worse Because Of My Brother by Bluewitch(f): 8:48am On Oct 14, 2021 |
baby124: Ogun bless you |
Re: Please Help, My Dad's Health Is Getting Worse Because Of My Brother by janvier27(m): 2:58pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
It may sound insensitive, but we've all got our personal crosses to carry so let your dad process and carry his. It's not his fault wanting the child to follow a particular course, but it is his fault taking responsibility for his child's decision. Two plus two in life isn't always four. Your brother has chosen what he considers best for himself after processing all the advice he got from everyone. He may change his thinking in future. It's his decision to make. |
Re: Please Help, My Dad's Health Is Getting Worse Because Of My Brother by Nobody: 3:01pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
Hmm. I can only imagine the emotional pain your father is going through right now. But he should know that your brother has his own life to live and he is responsible for any decision he takes. Make your old man free the guy, so far your brother is not posing any threat to himself and his environment, no wahala. |
Re: Please Help, My Dad's Health Is Getting Worse Because Of My Brother by Kobojunkie: 3:08pm On Oct 14, 2021 |
janvier27:Jesus Christ said anyone who wishes to be a follower of His must die to self(ego), pick up his own cross(not his wife's or his childrens or anyone else's) to do so. |
Re: Please Help, My Dad's Health Is Getting Worse Because Of My Brother by kingxsamz(m): 10:18am On Oct 17, 2021 |
Lmao... It's funny when religious folks always want you to live your life to please them and their beliefs. Anything outside that is considered abnormal. Your brother has his own life, your dad has his, you have yours to live. Told my family members I'm atheist last year, nobody died, fell sick or anything. Sure it'll hurt them, but do they have a choice? No. It's my life. Your dad has issues with himself, he should seek help and focus on what makes him happy. |
Re: Please Help, My Dad's Health Is Getting Worse Because Of My Brother by leofab(f): 10:19am On Oct 17, 2021 |
NoJex:four months and counting with heavy fasting and prayers yet no results; isn’t that enough red flag to be sceptic.. I hope your dad will join your brother soon in being agnostic… 1 Like |
Re: Please Help, My Dad's Health Is Getting Worse Because Of My Brother by kingxsamz(m): 10:27am On Oct 17, 2021 |
TheWolfen: Lol, e pain this one. When your child becomes one, you too will cry and starve yourself to sleep. |
Re: Please Help, My Dad's Health Is Getting Worse Because Of My Brother by sisisioge: 10:33am On Oct 17, 2021 |
Well....your father is on his own o. Let him continue to fast on your brother's stead, one day it will clear in his eyes. Shouldnt he start reflecting on the fact that after 4 month of rigorous fasting, prayers and stressing, God had left the matter alone? My God bless us with very reason beautiful minds fa. This is one of the problems religion fanatics create for themselves....na him sabi. As for your brother, he is an adult and should be left to his personal conviction where religion is concern. Every man for himself God for us all. |
Re: Please Help, My Dad's Health Is Getting Worse Because Of My Brother by Foodqueen(f): 12:26pm On Oct 17, 2021 |
Since he don already leave house, he suppose dey do his thing. |
Re: Please Help, My Dad's Health Is Getting Worse Because Of My Brother by Nekky5(f): 1:21pm On Oct 17, 2021 |
It's quite an unfortunate situation but I want you to know that the devil is out to destroy your family. Your father should not see himself as a failed parent or rather be termed as one but should see it all as a plot to destabilize him. If your brother as an adult could now deny the faith he was brought up in , that means he knows what he is doing and should be responsible for everything that goes with it but looking at the angle of spirituality, let your father understand it and hand him over to God. He should not kill himself over it nor worsen it by laying curses rather let God deliver him. |
Re: Please Help, My Dad's Health Is Getting Worse Because Of My Brother by GboyegaD(m): 1:48pm On Oct 17, 2021 |
It is God that saves. Salvation isn't of works lest any man should boast. He has done his part and he should trust God to lead your brother back to him. |
Re: Please Help, My Dad's Health Is Getting Worse Because Of My Brother by Kobojunkie: 11:35pm On Oct 17, 2021 |
Nekky5:Stop lying to her. The devil did no such thing to her family. The man causing the problem here is the father who seeks control over the beliefs of his children. Because you were indoctrinated as a child does not then mean you ought to live your life in it. Individuals are meant to make choices of their own that is the risk why God Himself installed a complete brain and mind in each individual. |
Re: Please Help, My Dad's Health Is Getting Worse Because Of My Brother by Karleb(m): 3:13am On Oct 18, 2021 |
If you are a Nigerian in Nigeria and you've never questioned your religion then you deserve thorough flogging. |
Re: Please Help, My Dad's Health Is Getting Worse Because Of My Brother by Karleb(m): 3:16am On Oct 18, 2021 |
kingxsamz: Religion preaches tolerance but same religion is never tolerant. As a Christian, I don't mind if my child(ren) becomes a Christian, Muslim, atheist, pagan, Buddhist etc. They will always have my love by the time I start having them. 1 Like |
Re: Please Help, My Dad's Health Is Getting Worse Because Of My Brother by Kobojunkie: 3:17am On Oct 18, 2021 |
Karleb:ROFLMAO |
Re: Please Help, My Dad's Health Is Getting Worse Because Of My Brother by DEGREE2466(m): 9:09pm On Jan 15, 2022 |
NoJex: Okay ma |
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