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A Way Out Of This Maze I Find Myself � by KidsUnsaid(f): 7:42pm On Oct 24, 2021
The challenge of most young Adult Survivors of Childhood Trauma today about clarity of purpose isn't that we do not know what to do with our lives, but the bravery to stand for what we know we should be doing with our lives.

.. That you were born and raised in poverty is not a prerequisite that poverty's been handed over to you generationally.
.. That you have been sexually abused and emotionally violated is not an invitation to maintain the high table of bitterness, anger and pessimism.
.. The loss of your parents or guardian did not open the door to hell

I tell you the bitter truth, little by little you built a wall, then a fence, and a cage...
Now there is a MAZE!
A maze that you solely designed and have to find a way out.

Some five years ago, I realized how much I yearned for genuine freedom, peace and happiness.
I knew exactly what I wanted but breaking out of this mental cage of uncertainty, confusion and societal validation was for me, attempting the impossible maze like Mr Beast.
My mum used to say that the best advice taken is the one an individual gives to himself. She'd occasionally mention also that after a child is born, the child has to birth itself again. More like discovering for yourself PURPOSE.
These statements only made sense when I started efforts towards creating contents around unexpressed childhood emotions targeted at Adult Survivors Of Childhood Abuse because I genuinely want kids now to have it better than I did growing up.
Regardless of how it'd make me look, It deeply made me happy to run an orientation about childhood struggles by sharing my experiences without having to hide a thing.
Truth be told, the normal thing for an individual abused at Childhood is to sulk and wallow in everything that has happened against him or her hoping to get sympathy from people around.

As amazingly easy as that sounds, it can never be legit!
Good people may share in your pain for a couple of minutes until lunch time and you are left alone again. Others who cannot relate to your childhood struggles or trauma would choose to think you have an ulterior motive to get cheap attention.
Guess what, there is a large community of people who can actually relate to you 100% but choose to form ignoramus for fear of stigmatization, getting judged or losing validation from people who barely notice them.

I am fully aware that just like a walk through a gameplay, as honest as my intentions are to draw parents attention towards their children and see how they can ensure better childhood, there are people listening to me right now who think I am all about cheap attention and who feel I am being irresponsible by sharing my stories of childhood abuse and traumas!
Choosing to find clarity of purpose for your existence is the biggest self help you can actually gift yourself.

This Maze you've built around yourself out of ignorance, you've got to find a way out!
I tell you today, your childhood trauma, experiences, abuse, loss, lack cannot hold you back except you empower it for that.

Challenge yourself to bravery.
You have got to move out of this emotional, psychological, physical and mental maze of self pity you find your self.

I don't care for how long you've been there, you may not discover you immediately, but as long as you remain restless to find a way out, I am certain that revelation will break forth and you will find that light you are looking for.
You have a second chance at life, but only you can rewrite a new chapter about it.

I realized as I began to genuinely love myself with all of the childhood scars, other people saw them as beauty marks.
Heaven bear me witness, there is only one You!
You've got to step into your light because you've got a whole audience waiting for you to perform!
Break through today!


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Re: A Way Out Of This Maze I Find Myself � by 10mobile: 7:56pm On Oct 24, 2021
How to get out of the MAIZE? Just roast it and eat, lol!

You've written very well. Believe me, you are only whom you believe you are. If you believe you were abused, then, you were. Otherwise, you weren't. In fact, EVERY 9 IN 10 AFRICAN WAS ABUSED AS A CHILD, ONE WAY OR ANOTHER. How to roast the 'maize' is to believe it doesn't exist. I am flying in case you don't know... even though life tried to clip my wings.
Re: A Way Out Of This Maze I Find Myself � by KidsUnsaid(f): 8:40pm On Oct 24, 2021
10mobile:
How to get out of the MAIZE? Just roast it and eat, lol!

You've written very well. Believe me, you are only whom you believe you are. If you believe you were abused, then, you were. Otherwise, you weren't. In fact, EVERY 9 IN 10 AFRICAN WAS ABUSED AS A CHILD, ONE WAY OR ANOTHER. How to roast the 'maize' is to believe it doesn't exist. I am flying in case you don't know... even though life tried to clip my wings.

While I think you have a valid point, it is best one addresses childhood abuse.
It goes a long way in affecting adulthood one way or the other.

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