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Please to my follow dear nairaland I don’t know if this is the right place to post this am a sickle cell warrior and I have been battling it for the past 21yrs honestly it been tough for me and cuz of that I usually miss exam during school days now am done with primary and secondary school and am now processing my university admission but honestly my elder brother is against it reasons that I might not cope with school stress and other things this caused problem btw us he said that I should apply for poly located within our area but I didn’t want my reasons is because the school don’t offer my choice of course now he isn’t even the person that will be sponsoring me with my education. Now I have went to write the school post utme I haven’t even written the exam am now experiencing crisis am feeling sucidial I had exam to write tomorrow so I had to leave home . is a university entrance exam but I had barely been here for threes days and am having a crisis I hate it how do I cope this disease has cost me many things I can’t take it anymore .
Please I need more of your advice do I forfeit my university ambitions and go for poly please don’t mind my typing error
Please I need your comments
Lalasticala, Mynd44 and Seun please move to front page as I really need help.

pl Someone should help me

I'll advice you just go with a course the poly area offer, a course you can leverage on
Dont see it like anyone is against you,

Just go with the flow and dont let anything hold you back

Stay strong bro, I Totally understand how you feel right now, do not give up. Never give up on your dream. Also you have to consider your health all you do. Don't over stress. Stay strong and if you are under any form of medication always take your medication and ensure you eat lots of fruits.

Whenever you feel weak, please take a break.

viktohmarkz:
I'll advice you just go with a course the poly area offer, a course you can leverage on
Dont see it like anyone is against you,

Just go with the flow and dont let anything hold you back

Sir do I really had to forfeit all my efforts to do something I don’t really like

travelwaka:
Stay strong bro, I Totally understand how you feel right now, do not give up. Never give up on your dream. Also you have to consider your health all you do. Don't over stress. Stay strong and if you are under any form of medication always take your medication and ensure you eat lots of fruits.

Whenever you feel weak, please take a break.

Thanks for the encouragement although it never had been easy school stress and the rest of it

viktohmarkz:
I'll advice you just go with a course the poly area offer, a course you can leverage on
Dont see it like anyone is against you,

Just go with the flow and dont let anything hold you back

Sir for how long do I continue living with my parents don’t I have a life to live

Blake755:
Sir do I really had to forfeit all my efforts to do something I don’t really like

Most time we just over look the little things for the bigger picture....



I feel all you want for yourself is freedom to do as you please,but trust me a lot comes at that price

I am also a Warrior like you, but a milder form(sc), and to the glory of God I will be graduating with a First Class Degree in Medical Laboratory science.

Though I rarely have episodes, I manage my situations in school to avoid it.


I don't know the course you want to study or the one your parents wants you to study, but whatever course you want to study should never stress you physically. My dream was to become an Engineer but my Dad discouraged me of this due to my condition and I found solace in my new found love.



Your course of study shouldn't make you depress because you have Many battles yet to fight. The world is not fair to anyone and dont expect a leveled playing ground. So far the course is not stressful then anything worth doing is worth doing well.



My advise to you and other warriors as a comrade in battle, equip yourself mentally and be a formidable foe. Make academics your passion, because any other area of life requires physical exertion which we won't be able to compete with others.


There is comrade I admire her resilience here and who his a Nurse https://www.nairaland.com/5067702/living-scd-sickle-cell-disease.

viktohmarkz:
Most time we just over look the little things for the bigger picture....



I feel all you want for yourself is freedom to do as you please,but trust me a lot comes at that price

But sir since I was born I had never leave my home for any other place I hate it till when do I continue living there didn’t I have a life too I don’t really know if am making a mistake but I know it worth trying at least I wouldn’t have any regrets dying there am not the first neither would I be the last

Leem4:
I am also a Warrior like you, but a milder form(sc), and to the glory of God I will be graduating with a First Class Degree in Medical Laboratory science.

Though I rarely have episodes, I manage my situations in school to avoid it.


I don't know the course you want to study or the one your parents wants you to study, but whatever course you want to study should never stress you physically. My dream was to become an Engineer but my Dad discouraged me of this due to my condition and I found solace in my new found love.



Your course of study shouldn't make you depress because you have Many battles yet to fight. The world is not fair to anyone and dont expect a leveled playing ground. So far the course is not stressful then anything worth doing is worth doing well.



My advise to you and other warriors as a comrade in battle, equip yourself mentally and be a formidable foe. Make academics your passion, because any other area of life requires physical exertion which we won't be able to compete with others.


There is comrade I admire her resilience here and who his a Nurse https://www.nairaland.com/5067702/living-scd-sickle-cell-disease.

Wow thanks bro Am studying pharmacy

Leem4:
I am also a Warrior like you, but a milder form(sc), and to the glory of God I will be graduating with a First Class Degree in Medical Laboratory science.

Though I rarely have episodes, I manage my situations in school to avoid it.


I don't know the course you want to study or the one your parents wants you to study, but whatever course you want to study should never stress you physically. My dream was to become an Engineer but my Dad discouraged me of this due to my condition and I found solace in my new found love.



Your course of study shouldn't make you depress because you have Many battles yet to fight. The world is not fair to anyone and dont expect a leveled playing ground. So far the course is not stressful then anything worth doing is worth doing well.



My advise to you and other warriors as a comrade in battle, equip yourself mentally and be a formidable foe. Make academics your passion, because any other area of life requires physical exertion which we won't be able to compete with others.


There is comrade I admire her resilience here and who his a Nurse https://www.nairaland.com/5067702/living-scd-sickle-cell-disease.

Bro please can I have your WhatsApp number

Blake755:
But sir since I was born I had never leave my home for any other place I hate it till when do I continue living there didn’t I have a life too I don’t really know if am making a mistake but I know it worth trying at least I wouldn’t have any regrets dying there am not the first neither would I be the last

Life is made up by a set of choices,.you lead or be led astray

viktohmarkz:
Life is made up by a set of choices,.you lead or be led astray

I don’t really understand you u are using riddles

Health first... I'd prefer going to college, would you mind going to the closest college or one located near a state/province with family members close by.
How about distant learning... Do your institution support such?

Blake755:
pl Someone should help me

don't give up on yourself dear. I had a friend who was a sickle cell patient. He made to his Polytechnic level and graduated. You too can.

Crisis can be curtail if you take good care of yourself.

Always make sure that you are hydrated, eat immune boosting foods, rest a lot, avoid negative energy and embrace peaceful and motivating atmosphere.

Take a lot of veggies and low sugar fruits.

Feed well, be happy and pray always to your creator for strength and preservation for you to fulfill purpose.

You can chat me up if you don't mind.

ReignQ:
don't give up on yourself dear. I had a friend who was a sickle cell patient. He made to his Polytechnic level and graduated. You too can.

Crisis can be curtail if you take good care of yourself.

Always make sure that you are hydrated, eat immune boosting foods, rest a lot, avoid negative energy and embrace peaceful and motivating atmosphere.

Take a lot of veggies and low sugar fruits.

Feed well, be happy and pray always to your creator for strength and preservation for you to fulfill purpose.

You can chat me up if you don't mind.

Thanks for your comment

Blake755:
Thanks for your comment

Can we chat outside here?

08105446825

ReignQ:
Can we chat outside here?

08105446825

Sure I will message you

Blake755:
Bro please can I have your WhatsApp number

Just seeing this now. Kindly quote any of my post with your number. I will message you

Leem4:
Just seeing this now. Kindly quote any of my post with your number. I will message you

07037033463