₦airaland Forum

zanshi:
Before you divert the conversation in focus or make it about whataboutism

I am not taking about rape or about men who can't keep their sexuality in check, i am talking about women who go out and don't dress well even in social gatherings and wear clothes that are too revealing.

Let me ask: Do you think young women can do better when it comes to wearing decent clothes out there?

Biglittlelois:
Are there not ladies that are "decently dressed"? Why are you not focused on them? Are all women dressed that way? How does it affect your existence?

zanshi:
I am down for the back and forth with you.

zanshi:
Let me ask: Do you think young women can do better when it comes to wearing decent clothes out there?

Kobojunkiee:
Do better as in try to meet up with your standard as far as what you call decent dressing,
obviously not theirs, right?

Kobojunkiee:
Do better as in try to meet up with your standard as far as what you call decent dressing,
obviously not theirs, right?

MrLucifer:
Why are you trying to twist his words to fit your narrative.
Argue constructively or leave the discussion, let those who can be objective see space to talk

zanshi:
I find it to be utterly despicable what a lot of younger women wear out today all in the name of fashion, i am talking about women particularly within the age of 18-28. I very much understand that a lot of women love fashion and like to dress to impress to every occassion, but there is a thin line between being excessive and being modest. I reside here in Lagos, and i see young girls the age of 15 wear skimpy body tight clothes and you being to ask yourself what has society come to.

You see in society, regardless of how crazy, rich, influential a man is there are certain people who will call out his behavior if he decides to step out of line, but watch in the case of a woman, even women are afraid to call out their fellow women who go out of line and would often look the other way, but you know what society as we have today didn't just morph into this liberalized do as you like mentality, society was bond by rules and moral consciousness whenever we err.

Just when you think societal norms is crumbling right at our feet, there is hope afterall. A lot of high end restaurants in Lagos wouldn't let you enter if you wear too revealing clothes or outfits that doesn't differentiate you between an escort or just a city girl. Whilst, it would be unfair of me to completely blame the women, it is imperative the designers of these outfits know that this is not casual dressing that is appropriate for your average teenage girl. Back when we i was growing up in Lagos in the early 2000's a lot of people frowned upon women who wore mini skirts, but the average girl wears it nowadays and because if she doesn't people would look at her as if she is not in vogue.


Would be great to hear the suggestion of other folks chime in on this topic.

Magnoliaa:
Lmaooooo. Haaa. Members of the Committee for the Preservation of Humanity's Morals would start arriving now. Lol. They are landing small small to come and feast on this.

Waiting for the big madams them. This'll be interesting.

Legendoo:
Can't you see how cheap women are lately? , their daughters will suffer the fate of what they encouraged.

Kobojunkiee:
How so?

Legendoo:
The new mantra is thotery under the guise of liberty.
Nudity, sexual liberation, recklessness.
This behaviour is the unintended consequence of what is being encouraged..

Kobojunkiee:
Unintended consequence of what exactly?

Legendoo:
You don't know what's going on dear.

Nigerian women are bleeped. Anyways, we're on the same page now, let it burn, no one gives a shit anymore.

Kobojunkiee:
I don't see the world the way you do. And I certainly don't believe Nigerian women are fked.

I see Nigerian women breaking free of shackles imposed on them by society and trying to find life and meaning on their own terms. It will take them sometime to get there, and there will be bumps in the road but they are certainly moving in the right direction which is away from societally imposed control.

Legendoo:
Lol, Nigerian women were never in bondage.

Kobojunkiee:
If you truly believe the statement in bold, then this discussion is meaningless... and this meaning the OP is just another bigot attempting to impose his views on women who don't dress like he wants.

Legendoo:
Lol, as if I don't have women in my life.
My mother for example did everything a woman could do even feminism.
She traveled, bought properties,employed staff, raised children and stayed married without feminism.
So what restrictions are you on about.
Feminism did it's job , what's left anti woman.

dobnina:
It's painful that the society have lost its morals.
The people who suffer the consequences of these are the innocent ones. The underage children that are sexually abused.
Men are moved by what they see. They get easily aroused by the sight of a half naked woman.
Since they can't have anything with the lady who seduced them, they will rather have sex with one innocent young girl thereby destroying the life of the innocent child.
The government should put laws in place for indecent dressings and also castrate Rapist.

Mstick:
Blood of Jesus Christ!!!!

What type of comment is this!

Jesus! Jesus!

Really so women are now responsible for rape committed by men?

Jesus! Jesus!

So if I see a jewelry I can't buy then I go ahead to destroy my neighbors house to steal her jewelry because of my greed, so the blame is on the store right!

Phew I am in shock!!!!!
WTF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Hey! Hey!

Lemme just leave nairaland for a year please. I am DONE!

dobnina:
Its not by force to comment, you know.
I never tagged you for a response.
If you have a hard time comprehending my response, I think it's better you ignore and make your own comment.
You don't have to like my opinion.

Mstick:
Your opinion is very very very stupid and dangerous, both you and the people that liked your comments are the lowest of the low.

1)You're blaming an adult woman's key word adult woman's fashion choice as the cause of rape and pedophilia.
2) You're the type of woman that would blame a lady for her rape because you feel a man shouldn't have self control.
3)You're talking about morals as if women are the only ones that make up society, in countries and states where women cover up fully they're still being raped.

Oh you don't have to tag me for a response, your evil opinion was made public.

Mstick:
Your opinion is very very very stupid and dangerous, both you and the people that liked your comments are the lowest of the low.

1)You're blaming an adult woman's key word adult woman's fashion choice as the cause of rape and pedophilia.
2) You're the type of woman that would blame a lady for her rape because you feel a man shouldn't have self control.
3)You're talking about morals as if women are the only ones that make up society, in countries and states where women cover up fully they're still being raped.

Oh you don't have to tag me for a response, your evil opinion was made public.

dobnina:
I can't believe I was arguing with someone who reason like this.
No more reply from me. It's plain clear the kind of person you are.

Mstick:
OMG! So the "woman" that thinks a child should be raped because of an adult woman's dress choice thinks she's better and have more morals than me.

Lol! The clown is anti abortion but pro pedophilia, you just can't make this joke up.

Who gives a flying f**k about your reply?