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What Is Your "Most Unacceptable" In Your Marriage/Relationship? by greatgod2012(f): 1:03pm On Aug 29, 2012
We all know that love and continuos forgiveness are part of recipe for marriage,and that there is no way there will not be disagreement in ones marriage, but we need love and forgiveness to make d marriage to continue existing. However, there are some things that seems "too extreme" or "most unacceptables", its like crossing ones boundary totally and which may not be easily be forgotten/forgiven. A colleague said her own is when her spouse raise his hand against her, then d marriage is heading to collapse, another colleague said, its only on d basis of infidelity dt he can not forgive his wife. To me i still dont know yet, but i dont like a situation when there will be disagreement btw a couple, and one will be beating d other, i dont pray it happens to me,but if it happens, i'm yet to know what i'll do about it. Pls, share yours, what is d most unacceptable in ur marriage/relatioship?
Re: What Is Your "Most Unacceptable" In Your Marriage/Relationship? by MissIfe(f): 1:16pm On Aug 29, 2012
There are many things that are unacceptable to me in a relationship, I just made sure to marry a man who wouldn't have such behaviors. There are some things one shouldn't compromise with.
Re: What Is Your "Most Unacceptable" In Your Marriage/Relationship? by nikkyshyne(f): 1:31pm On Aug 29, 2012
Religious belief top the list. I am and will always be christian!

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Re: What Is Your "Most Unacceptable" In Your Marriage/Relationship? by greatgod2012(f): 1:32pm On Aug 29, 2012
Miss_Ife: There are many things that are unacceptable to me in a relationship, I just made sure to marry a man who wouldn't have such behaviors. There are some things one shouldn't compromise with.



like what and what should one not compromise with, pls, share and lets learn from one another. Thanks
Re: What Is Your "Most Unacceptable" In Your Marriage/Relationship? by wonlasewonimi: 1:33pm On Aug 29, 2012
Putting one piece of meat in my plate.

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Re: What Is Your "Most Unacceptable" In Your Marriage/Relationship? by Nobody: 4:07pm On Aug 29, 2012
Separate bedroom with my wife in our home? Never! undecided
Re: What Is Your "Most Unacceptable" In Your Marriage/Relationship? by EfemenaXY: 6:11pm On Aug 29, 2012
I can forgive almost anything. But the one thing I'll never forgive, the one thing that'll break the camel's back is having my man drop his wet towel on our matrimonial bed.

uh..uh.. that is unforgivable o!
Re: What Is Your "Most Unacceptable" In Your Marriage/Relationship? by greatgod2012(f): 6:20pm On Aug 29, 2012
Efemena_xy: I can forgive almost anything. But the one thing I'll never forgive, the one thing that'll break the camel's back is having my man drop his wet towel on our matrimonial bed.

uh..uh.. that is unforgivable o!


seriously, u must be very neat then, and ur man must have known dt 4 u b4 u got married,because, majority of men are guilty of dt.


@men, pls dont crucify me o,i'm only saying d truth,anyway.
Re: What Is Your "Most Unacceptable" In Your Marriage/Relationship? by greatgod2012(f): 6:22pm On Aug 29, 2012
kunletiwoo: Separate bedroom with my wife in our home? Never! undecided



dt's lovely, i'm proud of men like u!

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Re: What Is Your "Most Unacceptable" In Your Marriage/Relationship? by greatgod2012(f): 6:25pm On Aug 29, 2012
wonlasewonimi: Putting one piece of meat in my plate.

but, sometimes, it may happen like dt,caused by circumstances, and d woman will not any other choice than to give u d only remaining meat, she herself may not even eat her meal with any meat.
Re: What Is Your "Most Unacceptable" In Your Marriage/Relationship? by EfemenaXY: 6:29pm On Aug 29, 2012
greatgod2012:


seriously, u must be very neat then, and ur man must have known dt 4 u b4 u got married,because, majority of men are guilty of dt.


@men, pls dont crucify me o,i'm only saying d truth,anyway.

Na so now. grin grin grin

Different strokes for different folks. Hubby and kids have long since learnt that, that bed is seriously off limits. No manky socks, clothes, books, toys or (((shivers))) wet towels!
Re: What Is Your "Most Unacceptable" In Your Marriage/Relationship? by engrtee(f): 8:24pm On Aug 29, 2012
To me, as long as we hav tied d knot, i can tolerate anything.

INSTEAD OF GETIN MARID AND DIVORCING, I WIL REMAIN SINGLE
Re: What Is Your "Most Unacceptable" In Your Marriage/Relationship? by Nobody: 10:04am On Aug 30, 2012
engrtee: To me, as long as we hav tied d knot, i can tolerate anything.
Including infidelity?
Re: What Is Your "Most Unacceptable" In Your Marriage/Relationship? by engrtee(f): 8:13am On Aug 31, 2012
fellis:
Including infidelity?

yes ooo. I wil neva b a divorcee.
Re: What Is Your "Most Unacceptable" In Your Marriage/Relationship? by warrior01: 8:27am On Aug 31, 2012
engrtee:

yes ooo. I wil neva b a divorcee.
that's the spirit. Wishing u the very best.
Re: What Is Your "Most Unacceptable" In Your Marriage/Relationship? by Tgirl4real(f): 10:47am On Aug 31, 2012
nikkyshyne: Religious belief top the list. I am and will always be christian!

Will you divorce your spouse when he/she turns to a muslim or atheist?
Re: What Is Your "Most Unacceptable" In Your Marriage/Relationship? by Tgirl4real(f): 10:50am On Aug 31, 2012
The only thing that is unacceptable to me is any form of abuse. That I can't take.


Well, I will run if he becomes a ritualist sha o.
Re: What Is Your "Most Unacceptable" In Your Marriage/Relationship? by nikkyshyne(f): 11:05am On Aug 31, 2012
Tgirl4real:

Will you divorce your spouse when he/she turns to a muslim or atheist?
No I will not. I'll only pray for him. It is unacceptable if he wants me to convert. I can't compromise that.
Re: What Is Your "Most Unacceptable" In Your Marriage/Relationship? by greatgod2012(f): 5:58pm On Sep 07, 2012
nikkyshyne:
No I will not. I'll only pray for him. It is unacceptable if he wants me to convert. I can't compromise that.

of course, there is nothing prayer cant do, but i would rather pray u dont experience dt, because sincerely,if it happens(God forbid) its areint going to be easy mehn!!!!!!
Re: What Is Your "Most Unacceptable" In Your Marriage/Relationship? by dayokanu(m): 6:54pm On Sep 07, 2012
engrtee: To me, as long as we hav tied d knot, i can tolerate anything.

INSTEAD OF GETIN MARID AND DIVORCING, I WIL REMAIN SINGLE

So if your wife is fucckingg your neighbours nko?
Re: What Is Your "Most Unacceptable" In Your Marriage/Relationship? by greatgod2012(f): 2:36pm On Sep 09, 2012
dayokanu:

So if your wife is fucckingg your neighbours nko?

i believe he would not marry a woman who can do such.
Re: What Is Your "Most Unacceptable" In Your Marriage/Relationship? by EfemenaXY: 7:26pm On Sep 09, 2012
It just goes to show that most peeps here type before thinking... grin
Re: What Is Your "Most Unacceptable" In Your Marriage/Relationship? by greatgod2012(f): 4:11am On Sep 10, 2012
Efemena_xy: It just goes to show that most peeps here type before thinking... grin


i can sense that too!!!!!!!!
Re: What Is Your "Most Unacceptable" In Your Marriage/Relationship? by Nobody: 7:41am On Sep 10, 2012
if my hubby turns muslim n wants me to do same, hell NO. cnt even be in d same house wit him n we are of different religion.
Re: What Is Your "Most Unacceptable" In Your Marriage/Relationship? by greatgod2012(f): 5:59am On Sep 11, 2012
Julesbloom: if my hubby turns muslim n wants me to do same, hell NO. cnt even be in d same house wit him n we are of different religion.

so urs is on religion, o.k then.
Re: What Is Your "Most Unacceptable" In Your Marriage/Relationship? by slimyem: 8:23am On Sep 11, 2012
Any form of deceit and/or any form of abuse!
Re: What Is Your "Most Unacceptable" In Your Marriage/Relationship? by Sagamite(m): 4:28pm On Sep 11, 2012
Take your pick:

- Selfishness (Me, me, me)
- Religious fanatism
- GBWA (Ghetto Black Woman Aggression - rude, classlessness, lack of social & communication skills)
- Frequent arguments
- Over-neediness
- Airheadedness
- L'Orealism (A sense of entitlement based on gender rights)
- Hollywoodism (Thinking what you want me to want in a relationship is what I should want, instead of working out what I want)
Re: What Is Your "Most Unacceptable" In Your Marriage/Relationship? by greatgod2012(f): 4:18am On Sep 12, 2012
Sagamite: Take your pick:

- Selfishness (Me, me, me)
- Religious fanatism
- GBWA (Ghetto Black Woman Aggression - rude, classlessness, lack of social & communication skills)
- Frequent arguments
- Over-neediness
- Airheadedness
- L'Orealism (A sense of entitlement based on gender rights)
- Hollywoodism (Thinking what you want me to want in a relationship is what I should want, instead of working out what I want)


which one of these do u think is almost unforgivable, ie ur most unacceptable in ur relationship?
Re: What Is Your "Most Unacceptable" In Your Marriage/Relationship? by Nobody: 7:42pm On Sep 22, 2012
A cheating motherf.u-c.ker. Bullshit!
Re: What Is Your "Most Unacceptable" In Your Marriage/Relationship? by Mrsmansson(f): 9:52pm On Sep 22, 2012
Having unprotected sex with some random ladies.Cant ever forgive such if i find out.
Re: What Is Your "Most Unacceptable" In Your Marriage/Relationship? by EfemenaXY: 10:33pm On Sep 22, 2012
^^ Does it really matter whether it's unprotected or not?

Shouldn't the act in itself, whether protected or not be unforgivable?
Re: What Is Your "Most Unacceptable" In Your Marriage/Relationship? by greatgod2012(f): 11:17am On Sep 25, 2012
Efemena_xy: ^^ Does it really matter whether it's unprotected or not?

Shouldn't the act in itself, whether protected or not be unforgivable?

i wonder o!!!!
But come to thjnk of it, some pple can stomach some things and be revengeful.

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