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Allow her to love you and spend money (however small it is) on you. I listened to one woman who is a relationship researcher on the women psychology and she said that if a woman invest anything in you, she would love you more and hold fast to you because she believes she cannot lose you after such investment.


So many males believe they must be the ones who give money to their girls or wives always. But they forget that money cannot buy love. She may pretend to love you but may give your money to the man whom she loves.


She is only staying with you because of the money and the comfort you provide her.But her heart may be somewhere else.


I believe that men should love their women and spend for their women.
But I will rather prefer a woman loves me and give me money than loving a woman and spending on her while she in turn loves another man and spend on him.



That is why when I see men insulting me for holding this view, I know they are not wise.

Most of these men believe the only thing a woman can offer them is sex.


Imagine someone being so foolish to think that he must offer a woman love, money, comfort and all in exchange for only sex which he believes is the only thing that matters to him as a man.


And he believes that it is the standard which every man should follow.


He has a nonsense standard and believes since he is following it, all men must follow it.


If you are not following his foolish thinking, he says you are not a man.

You wonder who made him a standard for all males?

There is a girl living close to me whom I like so much for her attitude.


If she loves you, she will give you everything.


She is very giving. She is very beautiful and she gives her boyfriend from her money to sex.


But I know some men don't like such women.

They like women who can only give sex in exchange for every good thing life can offer.

That is how these men change good girls into stingy, entitlement-mentality ladies.


A girl who started out as a kind hearted person would end up being a wicked, sex-for-money/comfort women because of some useless, unreasonable men who always promote the notion that sex must be the only thing a woman must offer.


Men don't know that every body wants to love someone.

If you refuse to allow your woman to love and give to you, because you believe it is a man who should give to a woman while a woman can only offer sex,


your woman would go outside and love someone and be giving him money because love finds expression in giving.


Everyone wants to love someone.

The same way you feel the desire to have a female whom you can love and spend on, is the same way women want to love and spend on men.


The same way you love her and give everything to her is the same way she wants to love someone.
( Men love "sex" and give "sex", while women love "Love" and give "Love", although both men and women want to love someone. But women have greater desire to love someone, because love is women's arena.)

And since you have refused to allow her love you and spend on you, she would find a way of loving someone which may result in she giving your money to another man.


Also, people who are loved are more likely to feel like loving someone.


If you love her but refused to allow her love you which should also involve giving money and other materials things to you, she would find a way of loving someone or something.


Remember that women like to mirror men.


Men love women and provide all their needs.


Women also want to love men and provide for them because women like to mirror men.



That is why when men were using some words for their women (like calling them babes), before you know it, women also started calling their men babes.


In a school,if the male teachers are giving preference to female students, just watch it,soon female teachers will start giving preference to the male students because women like copying men.


My summary here is that: Let your woman love you and spend for you otherwise she may do so to another man because as psychologists say " Every man wants to have sex and every woman wants to love".

So allow her to love and give to you.

It may take a little time before women start bringing out the love in them, because men(particularly African men) have so much brainwashed women into believing that sex is the only thing she must offer. That's why I say men should ALLOW women to express their love.



I know soon, men will come here and be insulting me.

But I have said my own.

Ma gee
It is well....


Na too much of love movie wey you dey watch dey worry you...
Nigerian girls to spend on you and also give you sex, lols ma gee you go know the kind flaws wey you dey give her... Because one day the kind heartbreak and insult she go give you no be person go tell you to leave woman and hustle...

Very true my guy. This has been my philosophy and it is always worked for me.

HOLLY GRAM NA CONFIRM CAPRISUN U DE CAPRISUN SO.. WTF MAN

I see many simps coming to say trash i see Falseprophet coming to expose the so called simps and finally, I see damn nigga smoking the 10th wrap of weed trying to see clearly through the wall and comment. This i have seen