I live with my girlfriend. She has been staying with me for a year and 8 months now. Sex was perfect 3 to 4 times a week.

But ever since she started working sex has become a problem. She will make excuses that she is tired that her back is hurting or headaches. For 3 weeks no sex. She doesn't care at all and we are living like roommates and yesterday was worse.

I was in the mood for it and she bluntly refused so I had to force her. I ripped her pant but she didn't give up she scratches me on my face. I slapped her so hard out of anger. I didn't mean to and I left the house for a few hours. I apologised for forcing her and I told her I am not going to leave with her anymore if she will not give me sex. I asked her to leave so my next babe can move in she said she is leaving in 2 weeks.

Note I don't have any other babe except from her and I have never cheated on her before. I love her a lot she is my life but I just don't like her new attitude.

What do you think I should do for her to be happy with me and give me sex without a fight because I don't want what had happened yesterday to ever happen again in the future.

I live with my girlfriend. She has been staying with me for a year and 8 months now. Sex was perfect 3 to 4 times a week.

But ever since she started working sex has become a problem. She will make excuses that she is tired that her back is hurting or headaches. For 3 weeks no sex. She doesn't care at all and we are living like roommates and yesterday was worse.

I was in the mood for it and she bluntly refused so I had to force her. I ripped her pant but she didn't give up she scratches me on my face. I slapped her so hard out of anger. I didn't mean to and I left the house for a few hours. I apologised for forcing her and I told her I am not going to leave with her anymore if she will not give me sex. I asked her to leave so my next babe can move in she said she is leaving in 2 weeks.

Note I don't have any other babe except from her and I have never cheated on her before. I love her a lot she is my life but I just don't like her new attitude.

What do you think I should do for her to be happy with me and give me sex without a fight because I don't want what had happened yesterday to ever happen again in the future.

Osezzua:


the best advice so far very spot on.
well i can see this lad is a naive young man.
one thing i would put in
is never force or beg anyone for sex
forcing is called rape.
begging devalues you.
it is meanth to be mutual
simply talk about it.


Break up with her now. You guys are not compatible especially in the aspect of sex. She will do worse if you Marry her. I remember during my Marriage counseling session, I n other participants were taught on the value of that extra effort required to provide sexual comfort to your partner no matter how stressful/ tedious our day must have been at work. For some, sex is life while for others it's just one of those things. Find what suits you n make yourself happy.
Someone might say, oh they are not married yet, perhaps when they get Married she will change n respond differently. Those are not to be banked on. She's obviously not as sex freaked as you are. It is who she is n it will continue into marriage.
Don't make the mistake of marrying this girl, otherwise you will regret your life all the days of your marriage life with her. Both of you obviously don't attach same importance to sex. Of course, there is someone out there who can match her perfectly in this regards but I can tell you for free that that person is definitely not you.

I live with my girlfriend. She has been staying with me for a year and 8 months now. Sex was perfect 3 to 4 times a week.

But ever since she started working sex has become a problem. She will make excuses that she is tired that her back is hurting or headaches. For 3 weeks no sex. She doesn't care at all and we are living like roommates and yesterday was worse.

I was in the mood for it and she bluntly refused so I had to force her. I ripped her pant but she didn't give up she scratches me on my face. I slapped her so hard out of anger. I didn't mean to and I left the house for a few hours. I apologised for forcing her and I told her I am not going to leave with her anymore if she will not give me sex. I asked her to leave so my next babe can move in she said she is leaving in 2 weeks.

Note I don't have any other babe except from her and I have never cheated on her before. I love her a lot she is my life but I just don't like her new attitude.

What do you think I should do for her to be happy with me and give me sex without a fight because I don't want what had happened yesterday to ever happen again in the future.

chinchonglee:

Madam go and rest its already 8, office has resumed.
I have plenty of work on my desk

CorGier:


You fickle lot keep acting like the world revolves around your vagina. OP may be culpable with his approach to the matter, but I'm not going to jump on the bandwagon of you SJWs and demonize him over one silly mistake.

Your friend and sister, Chidimma. Remember her? She's the cold-blooded killer of Ataga, the Super TV Boss. A married man with kids. Where was the outrage? No talk of her rotting in jail and all that gibberish. Some idiots even saw her as being too pretty to be a killer. She was seen cat-walking her arse to the courtroom the last time we heard of her.

I live with my girlfriend. She has been staying with me for a year and 8 months now. Sex was perfect 3 to 4 times a week.

But ever since she started working sex has become a problem. She will make excuses that she is tired that her back is hurting or headaches. For 3 weeks no sex. She doesn't care at all and we are living like roommates and yesterday was worse.

I was in the mood for it and she bluntly refused so I had to force her. I ripped her pant but she didn't give up she scratches me on my face. I slapped her so hard out of anger. I didn't mean to and I left the house for a few hours. I apologised for forcing her and I told her I am not going to leave with her anymore if she will not give me sex. I asked her to leave so my next babe can move in she said she is leaving in 2 weeks.

Note I don't have any other babe except from her and I have never cheated on her before. I love her a lot she is my life but I just don't like her new attitude.

What do you think I should do for her to be happy with me and give me sex without a fight because I don't want what had happened yesterday to ever happen again in the future.

Kobojunkiee:
How so? Would it have been OK if he had instead attempted to rape his wife or something?

I live with my girlfriend. She has been staying with me for a year and 8 months now. Sex was perfect 3 to 4 times a week.

But ever since she started working sex has become a problem. She will make excuses that she is tired that her back is hurting or headaches. For 3 weeks no sex. She doesn't care at all and we are living like roommates and yesterday was worse.

I was in the mood for it and she bluntly
refused so I had to force her. I ripped her pant but she didn't give up she scratches me on my face. I slapped her so hard out of anger. I didn't mean to and I left the house for a few hours. I apologised for forcing her and I told her I am not going to leave with her anymore if she will not give me sex. I asked her to leave so my next babe can move in she said she is leaving in 2 weeks.

Note I don't have any other babe except from her and I have never cheated on her before. I love her a lot she is my life but I just don't like her new attitude.

What do you think I should do for her to be happy with me and give me sex without a fight because I don't want what had happened yesterday to ever happen again in the future.

Where did you see the rape part in my post. Have tried to but I didn't succeed because she scratches me it was very painful so I slapped her very hard out of anger and I left the house for a few hours. I have apologised to her she forgave me because it has not happened before it was the devil and I regret my actions. I need is advice not insult

Oppy2k2:



Lack of home training, a child that wakes his father up with a slap

Saintmary:


One truth lots of you are unwilling to face is that.

KARMA IS REAL.

Oya say amen:

May my children be treated the way I treat other people's children.


Whether you say amen or not, you will reap what you have sown, and may your karma come swiftly and harshly.

ReeLoaDead:
Chai … look at this bîtch reporting people for correctly calling out the rapist - who’s actions you not surprisingly support.
Quit acting like a crètinous fücktard, unless trolling is your game plan here

garriAndsugar:
So you did all these because your girlfriend refused giving you sex..

What will you now do when she becomes your wife??

SMH

goslowgoslow:

Your stupidity has no mate.

BRATISLAVA:


Some of the people who trivialize, excuse and are in support of rape will one day have to fight against their own proclivities when it is their daughters on the line.

That being said, generational misogyny and entitlement are the root cause of rape and violence against women. When that is dealt with there will be a reduction in these kinds of things.

Spherical77:
Get off me, You rapist sympathizer

Lucyfa10:
I cant imagine the thrashible nonsense that comes out of this guy's gutter called mouth....Mister Man all i can say is you're spitting gbrdaervnhyuijgcgfvbhilmbv...........

falcon01:
he's a man with needs! He has been holding it in for long, what he did was wrong but don't blame him

hashtagged:


Bloody rapist does she owe you sex

ba7man:
Nice one. Take care of her ooo.

Kobojunkiee:
That explains a whole lot!